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I don't blame her, she must have too many hateful words on her new marriage .

So to pepper her haters body ,it will enrage them further to see how happy she feels with her husband and how the husband dotes on her .

Some might even commit suicide tonight watching the video .

Lol


People and hate with busybody ,may God help this country .

Shows us more Lizzy

Melodriod:
I think so many persons here think the money is the issue here... I can decide to get her a phone today if i decide to and it won't cost me nothing... Since i finished my degree I've just been work oriented i really feel the need to find a partner at this point in my life...

And also....This is not a made up story.

Appreciate your contribution.

Guy if you want to be happy emotionally ,please buy her a smart phone of probably 30k.
She makes u happy with calls and chats already and moreover this is bond time .

Listen to frustrated and bitter guys on nairaland? Then sorry is your name .
They have nothing but woeful tales and experiences to share with u all night long .

Immediately I saw your headline , I just laughed .

This is the worst place to seek for sincere answers on your relationship or love life . They are extremely frustrated here with their lonely lives .

Take to their advice and remain lonely till old age.

A word is enough for the wise .

fati2001:
see as u fine.
sorry tho, you look like Chinese.... the nose and eyes. you for yellow more.

Well such is life sometimes .

Nothing I can do about it though and the Chinese look has come to stay.

If I yellow more people will be scared of me .

They are already whispering I'm a mermaid . And honestly I don't care anymore .

Let the yellow stay as it is .

TheCork:
Now slow down baby. 600naira usually get me any chick I want, it's the tort that counts. Do u realise am a londoner? I come to London anyhow. Can your boyfriends enter London? Listen baby, I all ways get my women & I like u
I will buy u wig, bag and plenty mini sketch. U very beautiful. Please can I kiss u twice? I drive BMW and I roll like big boys (true story)
I want u to be my babe

God forbid .


For your info, he travels round the world for vacations .

And next year we are taking trips together . so keep your London in your pocket.

Least I forget I have 50 shoes of different designs and colours, 35 exotic bags and purses , different lovely dresses and tops , sneakers , and jeans .

Gold necklaces and bracelets for special occasions .

I drive a SUV Complement from Boo boo.


Mr Londoner, you can't cope. I'm not a 600naira babe.

Go look for your type elsewhere


My office rent alone is 9 digits . Go and rest .

TheCork:
Story. Darling gommme ya number please. I have moiney

Its not story , I'm taken..

My man has more money u can ever imagine.

Can u gift your gf some couple of millions of naira as birthday gift ?



You can't dear . So let it rest !

No space for any other guy .

Newbreed2018:
I know ur type. Lol
U r the type that already bought a ring for herself. Every moment u put on the ring on ur left fourth finger and adore urself how u look in the mirror
In ur mental state u picture broke men greeting u Good morning Mrs Victorian
U so much love the carriage of being called Mrs

At night same thing, u wear ur sexiest see through night gown, in ur mental state u picture ur man crawling on ur thighs about to ravish u with a hot sex but it's all in ur head.

Which sensible Nigerian man will marry a 39 year old uneducated seamstress?

Same old cargo that call Nigerian men broke is at the other corner waiting for marriage from a broke Nigerian guy since 2013.

I see how much u hate spinster hood but call legit men broke.

Marry this one at ur own Risk.

*yawns*


Broke pitiable guy , seriously is that all?


Do you have more wailing and rants to share with us?

Pls keep wailing Biko.

You are very amusing I forgot to Laugh the time, energy and anger u are using to rant about me online, if u had uses same energy and time to make money wouldn't your life be less bitter than this?

Jobless youth

I no get your time, you are delusional. But keep it up. I have better things to do with my time.

Guys for nairaland sef. So frustrated and bitter about life. Continue to be bitter.

It's your life not mine.

Newbreed2018:
Do u still see ur period?

And how is it any concern of yours?

This one go get high bp ontop my matter.

Lol.

So stupidly naive.

Newbreed2018:
Old cargo like u bragging u r in a relationship with a man in the corporate world. Something girls of 15, 16, 17 years have in excess is what is puffing ur head at 39.

U must have been a good candidate of Shiloh 2013, 2014, 2015, 2016, 2017, 2018, 2019 and a potential 2020 candidate. Customer Dada ni

After all ur bragging last year about ur traditional marriage to a Delta guy e still pass u by?

Now u r in a relationship with a guy in the corporate world

At ur age?

Relationship ni?

I hail u MA. U Don pass aunty!

I need to brag cos all we have in this country in excess are broke hustling guys.
And yes relationship! If your relationship with your woman be it wife or husband is not top notch? Then sorry is your case.

And if in my 30s, I can still have a gorgeous wealthy man in a relationship, then I'm ready to brag all night long and throughout the rest of my life.

The 15,16,17 years old u mention are simply sex slaves to any man that finds them attractive to bed.

My kind of relationship is different from theirs. If I want 1000 men I can have them at my beck and call. It's not big issue. But sticking to one and being pampered with care, money and affection by one young man is a delicious deal, I can't help but brag about.

And I won't confirm to you if I'm Married or not.

Like I said earlier it's non of your business or any body's business.

I love my life, I love my Mr Capable . Go hug transformer if u can't deal with it.

I don't fuvcking care, if u like wail whine and cry with severe pains from now till eternity. I'm less concerned.


And news flash! I'm still in a relationship with a delta guy

No-one not even u! Can split us apart.

LukasPodolski:
Aunty Victorian o ni audio marriage.

Sighs, Lemme feed your thirsty brain.

I'm happy in my relationship and in a safe place .
I'm in a stable relationship with a young business tycoon in the corporate world.
He's a very private introvert kind of guy He's the best, he's my world, and he's God's gift to me. I can't ask for more .

Haters cool down on my matter.

We all go dey alright las las. I understand una plight.

Priam:
This is the real Mad ooo

Ma'am, you really had the patience of waiting this long to expose the fake life people live on SM to impress or oppress people they don't know. In RudeBoi's voice all "Na Audio"

@Zmpp, keep on exposing the lies and double lifestyle of these girls on NL, especially that highly insufferable Poco, so that they don't lead impressionable young girls astray.

No matter what u say? I'm not moved and I won't say a word or clarify issues on what happened to my past..

Like I said earlier before its nobody's business.

If the energy u use to snoop around and snoop on other people's life, u are using it to succeed in your career, wouldnt life be a better place for you.


Anyways be my guest!

Keep guessing!

The floor is yours. At least use all day and the rest of this year and next year to figure out what happened to Victorian's past relationships and life

Was she married?
Is she still married?
Is she divorced or widowed?
Is she single?

Has she ever been married? Was she lying, or saying the truth or playing a script? What's really going on with Victorian's love life?

My dear keep snopping on Victorian's Memoir. It's a free world

Smhhhhhh!

jornwhite:
Even if women hustle & buy themselves container load of cars .. their will alway be an outing or ocassion that requires one car .... so madam tew much money relax.
if been together in a car is a problem, what if they co-exist under one roof ... will you advice women building ur house n be resuming to ur husbands house 8 to 5 daily.
Did wife should av left it to the MIL discretion to move to the back, telling her is rude n uncalled for, besides outing that involves MIL we alway be a blue moon tin, tolerate BS for some hrs won't kill

Anyways it's not about too much money, even though I thank God at the level I've reached in life.

For me, if his mother wants to tag along to occasions and functions, she can seat next to her son, I don't have issues with it. I can easily drive in mine, no biggie. I hate stress and rancour. Infact I hate unnecessary drama and struggles

My peace of mind is number one and very paramount.
Then thank God, my prospective mother in-law does not meddle in her sons life. She gives herself utmost respect and I respect her alot. She knows her son, while I know my man. Simple.

So for me, I don't have issues. Let them keep throwing blows on who will seat next to the son at the front seat. They have time sha. Ĺ

Sighs Na wa


It's well o.


Local woman is tired.

tchidi066:
Assuming they were at home and about stepping out, then the wife has every right to sit at the front, but he already picked up the mom, the wife should have jejely sat at the bk, but wassup with people and this front seat sef, me that i like sitting at the back, it makes it look as if the person is my driver , most of the time I'm being dragged to the front seat, i like back seat like Kilode

Don't mind them, they are clueless and naive

They don't know back seat is for the owner.

My mum, God bless her soul doesn't joke with back seat.

Lemme them destroy their home because of who will seat infront
.lol

When it comes to we women and MIL, I have nothing to say except the mother has lived her own with the son's father why struggle front seat with her daughter in law? It's pure foolishness struggling and fighting over front seat.

I honestly I give up on such issues.

Women make your money and gift yourself a car Biko.

Mothers please stay back at home and pray for yourself to live long , pray for your children who are married. Just be closer to God. No need struggling for front seat at your old age. Who front seat help?
Look at the bigger picture, so people will not say your son is divorced because of you

Abeg shame small over such trivial things of seating in front.

Assuming the mother was a rich woman, she would have been content to seat at the owners seat, thats at the back. That's where my mom always seats anyways.

At owner's seat, at the back. God bless my mom jare. She doesn't have time for such trivialities.

She's pretty.

Love is sweet. Especially when u are with the one u love and he loves back.

eni4real:
Victorian is engaged!!

I rest my case.

Liposure:
wonderful piece of advice

Thanks dear

Anytime

Omoluabi9:
Victorian, what would you say is the best way to woo a lady you like such that she falls for you?

There is no best way.

All. Women are not the same when it comes to making her stay with u for keeps.

We are different. Very different. Especially on what makes us fall for a guy

Mine is: be successful man ,be very kind, be soft and give me attention without rushing me for sex on the first date and goodlooking as well.
If those 5 things are displayed on the first date? Then it's finished. Lol

Impression on first date goes a long way for me. But to other ladies it could be somethingelse.

I'm revealing mine cos I'm taken already. My heart mind and soul has been captured by the kindest and most handsome man I've ever met. lol.

Some women would want rough sex and rough handling on first date and they will become your slave afterwards lol

So it differs, there is no hard or fast rule when human beings is concerned.

Pray to meet your kind, so u don't end up wasting your time or buying trouble.

lefulefu:
many guys are still folowing that same way o
imagine the lame arguement that some guys put on that a woman that gives u issues when woeing her will make the best partner.some guys will brag how they woe a lady for seven yrs and begged and begged until she finally agreed to marry them .dem no know say such ladies tend to agree cos the main guys they really loved dumped them hence they use the other nigga as backup plan .

You are right.

So right

God may I not marry a man I don't love just to be married.
May such man not come my way o.

May this my relationship with my angel Boo be the last and remain joyful for both of us forever in Jesus name Amen.

I can't imagine living with a man I don't love. It's suicidal and depressing. Chai!

Na wa

lefulefu:
my dad was just telling us about the way a man should behave in marriage and using that gentleman i told u who taught me in js2 as an example how a man ought not to behave then my mom told us that while she and that lady where in school at that time they were quite close the lady then was single.She had someone she really loved but that someone left her until this man she married came along.at first she didnt give in to the man but the man had to beg her and beg her and buy her gifts then she gave in to the man.Before she married the man my mom said she told her that wasnt attracted to the man and neither did she love him and besides the man is too old for her.That the reason she is just getting married to him is because he has a stable job and a little out of pity since he has been begging her.That is the only reason she is getting married to him but as for love she does not love him.We were surprised when we heard this..so no wonder she has been disrespecting the man then cheating on him and the man has been swallowing everything .As i said b4 the man is late now sha.high blood is the reason for his passing.many ppl these days especially the folks tend to suffer lot from high bp.

The man caused his problems all by himself.

I always tell my male friends, don't beg a woman profusely to marry you. Woo her, treat her right and if she still says no? Please run as far as your legs can carry you.
I know of men in my recent past who wanted to marry me by all. Means but I don't love any. The love just no click. I refused all their gifts and monies. Cause the end result will be very bad if I had succumbed due to peer pressure or love of money.

I love money but not to the extent of marrying a man I don't love.

He used his own money to buy death and casket for himself.

What a. Pity.

What a loss.

Hmmmm it's well o.

lefulefu:
remember the story i told u about one young lady i dey frequently buy cooking gas from when i dey benin ?.i dont remember if i told u but i always dey yarn the tory here.she died of high blood pressure at the age of 38 yrs.when i come her stall to buy gas one day and i see the obituary picture na so i open mouth dey shocked..very nice lady and very quiet.They said her husband always cheats on her and nags and insults her at home.dem say anytime the man dey insult her she just keeps silent.though if u look at her physically she doesnt look haggard oo but then she had high blood pressure.when she die just after a week na so the man come take over the gas shop plus one lady who i suspected was the side chick or so was helping him the business.tongues wagged but the man didnt give a fuk .There is this another man too who taught me and classmates maths in jss2.the man is also a lecturer and was teaching us part time.This man is gentle and very religious as well.both im and im wife dem be calabar.while this man is gentle and faithful the wife is troublesome and noisy.na dis man dey go market for im wife and dey enter kitchen dey cook while the wife and her two grown up dauthers go dey sitting room dey watch zee world.anytime d man go market na so market women go dey shout say oga! wey ur wife? d man go just smile say im wife dey house or office .if u see the guy stress don show for im body.heavy wrinkles everywhere.there was a time back in the past the man travelled to US to do his phd and the wife started flirting.na so im go carry men come house for nacking things.when the man heard the story and finally returned he wanted to chase her away but their catholic priest prevailed on him to forgive and forget since catholic church no dey accept divorce.na one saturday morning dem say the man dey wash im car then as im wan bend down to wash im car tire na so im just collapse and die on the spot.they said the wive and dauther were inside watching tv.the wife started featuring in some few nollywood flicks after the man died though after some time she stopped acting.if u saw the wife when she was younger na so she carry ur complexion and very attractive.even me and some of my other colleagues even though we were children we were taken aback by her beauty .there was one thing my mom told us about the lady when they were both bunk mates in higher instituition.if u dey interested wetin my mom tell us abt d lady i go yarn u .

Jesus!

That's serious!

Na WA o.

Some human beings are very wicked!


Please continue, what did your mom say?

lefulefu:
is marriage really sweet in nigeria?
i am talking of today"s marriage
i see some dudes who looked fresher when they were bachelors looking more emerciated and haggard looking when married.i wonder if such are enjoying their marital vows.u are supposed to look even more handsome and fresh when married but the opposite is for many guys

Not only guys look Hagard. Women also look Hargard especially the ones married to struggling guys.
The Hargard look no be here o.

God forgive me lol.

Mehn lefulefu I don't envy most married people one bit.

My married neighbor almost choked his wife to death when he realised she is pregnant with the third child. He wanted to end his life, his wife and two kids. Wife wey he himself go village bring come Lagos marry o.

It took timely intervention of people in the compound to stop him from killing her. She then packed out of his house the next day to the village with her two. Kids.

She came back after much begging from in-laws.
She just gave birth last week. Her husband took his bike, got drunk and also tried to kill himself. The day she gave birth. I thought he will be happy when she was brought back from the hospital but he looked so sorrowful and depressed with bloodshot eyes, before he drove off with his bike.
Thank God only his shoulder and waist was broken, he didn't die.

His family came again to take him back to the village for herbal bone treatment. This man is so frustrated.
The village wife has strong mind in hustling more than him.
Seeing his children has crippled this guy into a sorry sight.

Sighs suffer head marriage.

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Kriss216:
See this alika
Seems your head is paining you

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Fuccvk off!

mysticwarrior:
my dear you won't understand.

Lol.

Kriss216:
Meet her for what
She dey share money

We all can see why Nigerians can never be free from corrupt politicians.

Nigerians like you selling their conscience and freedom for a pot of porridge.

Smhhhhhh.

Go drag. Money commot from her hand! Because she dey owe u!

Dyonne:
You really dodged a bullet.

As in ehn? God saved me.

That's why I don't worry or disturb my self about marriage.

If I marry thank God.. If I don't see my like mind and I stay single till old age? I will still give thanks to God.

Most men these days are going for the jugulars in women, they claim to be in love with But it's all scripted lies. No love, even some women too are like that .
And lots of women fall into such traps daily. At most two years they are divorced! Back to square one. But this time bitter and emotionally frustrated, worse than before she got married.
Although the guy I'm dating he's a pure angel and totally different from what I was used to in relationships.

Even if I die today, I will say to myself, I've tasted what true love and genuine care feel like. And God will keep blessing him all the days of his life amen.

It's well

mrchineke:
Make sure you find someone who share your values 100%, and not just for today but till eternity.

I wish you luck oooo

Thanks.

That's why I'm not married.

I know what will make me happy and I'm taking it easy.


But thanks on the best wishes.

mrchineke:
Marriage is an unnecessary legal or traditional entanglement of 2 individuals who seek exclusive sexual intimate relationship. That’s all it is.

People marry in the BELIEVE that they will support and look after each other, establish common goals and have a life together. In recent times this belief has proved to be shaky, complicated, unreliable with hidden motives. In Africa poor family have turned it into a breadline.

Ok questions answered.

Ok. That's your idea about marriage.
And if we are to ask millions of people what marriage is all about, they will have different views about it.

Anyways in Nigeria, I've come to understand 80% of people both male and females view marriage as poverty allevaitaion scheme and an avenue to have constant sex anytime Anyday without feeling guilty but seeing it as God's mandate on humans.


Anyways why I wish to get married is this : I was born in a family where there is father, mother, brothers and sisters. Although it was a polygamous family but I grew up in the setting of knowing the love & responsibility of a dad, love & motherly responsibility of a mom and love of my brothers. But Years later, I lost my family to death, through natural causes. I can't complain. That's how God want it.

I'm not used to live the rest of my life alone even though I'm financially balanced and I've been trained from day one, having a family through marriage is good and the best. I'm a family and traditional oriented woman.
I frown at having kids through insemination or through adoption or through bf and gf. Those kind of lifestyle is strange to me and I don't want it.

I wish to marry for Companionship wit one man not with numerous men or women and also have my own nuclear family that will us bind by love, Responsibilities ,God, and the law.
Mind you I'm not lonely but I don't fancy being with different men,day in day out all in the name of I can have any man I want. That's not my kind of person.

So that's why.

mrchineke:
What do you need marriage for?

Before I answer your question.

What's marriage?

In a sane country, outside the cunning mentality of people in Africa and Nigeria, why do people marry?

Answer these two questions first, before I proceed on yours.

RTSC:
Victoria, this your argument is watery.

Ok o

RTSC:
This foolishness is not restricted to village women.

Someone that can come to America and become a Nurse in a short time is not a village woman.

I have extended my explanation about men and their selfish wicked longer throat.

Most marry village women Anyways.


While the ones who married graduates and entrepreneurs like us, want us to hand over all the proceeds of our hard work and buisness to them, because they are doing us a huge favour to marry abi?
When I was suffering and trying to make headway, where are they? Smhhhh

If I be God of thunder? Only God knows what I would have done to greedy wicked men!


Chai! Only God knows!