₦airaland Forum

edlion57:
sweetheart must u take all joke serious

Sorry for quoting you

edlion57:
Chioma u too much....dat doctor Sabi work

Can I ask? Why do you guys think it’s the work of a native doctor? Are you guys saying he is too good for her or she lacks on the facial department? I want to know

taylor89:
Hey ur husbands nam is not Taylor


Call me Emeka

I have replied you enough.

taylor89:
U keep sounding unfriendly and so much volume of hostility


Ur too beautiful for ur choice of words Honey

Taylor I am not ignoring you. I am being polite. I don’t want to take this outside here.

taylor89:
Sorry for the late reply

I've been sick typhoid wan kill me

Y say no dear

Do you hate me that much

I don’t know you to hate you

taylor89:
Baby there's nothing OK here



I want you can't you see that




Please give me a chance meeting with won't be an issue to me I'll figure out how to do that on my own

Please

Sorry, no

taylor89:
Hahahahahahahaha



This girl don kill me


Do you know that 90% of stories posted on Nairaland is not from Nairalanders


Do you know that some Nairalanders help friends to post here

I was supposed to post this topic on my real account but i created a new account to post it before it might be mistaken for mine

Lol u made me laugh out loud

So if truly am the one infected I'll upload my pix up there?

Hahahahahahahaha

Ok

taylor89:
Baby i was just there for tourism visa of 3 months at Erie Pennsylvania that was 2014 but i want to fully Base there now

Please let's take this out of here first

Lol i Don tire this girl no go kill me

Sweetie you a difficult type ain't u?

I am not. You created a visa thread saying you have never travelled out before.
Wait, even if we take this outside here, what is it going to be? It can’t be more than friendship and nairaland is big enough for a chat and common you talked about catching an infection. Seriously you should watch what ou type online. I am not afraid of anyone going through any of my posts because I am not scared of it.

taylor89:
Yeah i know

Wish you were in the states

Will be moving back to the states by November

Please let's take this outside here please

Nah and you sis you would be moving back. Why did you leave first

taylor89:
OK my name is Charles am from Rivers state resides in lag am 28 single no kids a graduate of computer science university of calabar served 2 years ago in Ekiti am a freelancer here in lag from fam of 3 me and 2 elder sisters...what else lol



Fun and lovely

Ok that’s great. I really don’t want to take this outside. By the way I am not in the country

taylor89:
Damn

Baby u wouldn't expect me to say much or sound romantic here

Just give it a trial baby

Lol

Or u think of any available means or media we can make our chats private please

Then u would know everything about me

I get to know people here first

taylor89:
Lol

We should make this more private

give me ur Facebook username

I'll like the comment then u delete it i won't quote u

1st I don’t know you enough. I don’t use Facebook and your guts isn’t attractive

taylor89:
Ewwwww


Ur far...


U married

Seriously ewww

taylor89:
Where you at dear

England

taylor89:
U not in Nigeria right

No

taylor89:
Europe


I can't remember he was asked to name his biggest fear in any country



Why u dey tell us u dey Europe,


Should we rope ourself for you

This was funny

Franzinni:
LIYA IS GREATER THAN ALL HEAD SLAMMING TERRORIST COMBINED INCLUDING Buhari!!!


She shall Go down in History of the world as the little girl that steered a thousand loins in the eye and refused to bow.... She is my PERSONAL HERO. A modern day DANIEL..

She has attained a reputation that has not been heard off in a LONG time in this country... Bravery is rear in Nigeria... We should all take this little girls bravery as a sign to stand up and act!! And stop reacting....

GOD BLESS YOU LIYA!!!!!

We only heard of stories like this in the days of the earlier persecution of Christians like Paul. She really is a hero.

kinzation:
can you compare her own 'I had a dream' with that of this American man (forgotten his name self )

chai this cee- c don bewitch me

someone remind me.of the man's name na

Martin Luther King

brutal1:
just seeing that ..you can't* quantify my love for party rice ...lol.

Yeah, who doesn’t like party rice

brutal1:
That's good to know and you can quantify my crush for party rice so you should invite me lol.

I didn’t get the quantify your crush part? You will be invited

brutal1:
Thanks for your response. Yes I agree with you that every girl should be with a guy because she loves him, this should be d reality but is it obtainable ? The truth is that Love don't pay bills. It all sums down to financial security. "He may never be more than that " that's why I mentioned in my previous post about marrying someone with good prospect. The thing is it is sweet when you are part of the history...look at Annie..she stood with him.. When it was time for him to make his decision, he stayed glued with her. She was part of the history and that's why she's qualified to be part of the story. Staying by your man may be the strength he needs at that moment. If you are not part of the history, you may not be part of the story.

You mentioned standard and I wonder what your standard is .. Most times, nature don't give us what we want, it only gives options that are close. Its nice talking to you. You are smart and I like that.

Awwn, thank you very much. The thing is that I won’t get married until I am able to spoil myself. I love luxury but that doesn’t mean I won’t marry a guy with a prospect but that prospect has to be convincing.

brutal1:
why do you think he won't make it in the first place ? Well at d moment , I think guys are getting tired of lazy, poor and fake girls who have nothing to offer but looking for a made guy to feed them, clothe them and give them a good life. If you check the news lately you will probably read more of hardworking women making it big and men don't really cherish the hawks that wants to prey on what they work for ... Its as simple as that. The new phrase is that...you better be bringing something to the table other than your body ...If a man tells you he will spoil you don't be too happy about the good spoil (fun, shoppings and all that) ..in that same statement is d bad spoil. So I think as a woman, its better you get your hands busy and earn something for a living too. And about believing in him, Don't, just watch as a lucky girl do that, stand by him and stand by his side when he's fully made and watch as you sit and watch d made man you failed to believe in glow tomorrow.

I don’t have a problem with any girl’s choice. I have my standard and I won’t compromise it for any reason. What I am saying here is the way you keep saying, believe him and enjoy the reward tomorrow. The truth is that he may never be more than that and also he could be super rich today. Every girl should be with a guy because she loves him and not some take about being with him in his sufferings then enjoy later.

brutal1:
they are not hard to get but the demand for them is high which makes most of them players..they are honey.sweet on the lips of everyone and guys in this bracket, some are married (unless you want to snatch one, everybody wants them. So instead of making these your criteria and waste away your time and life looking for a general husband while you make yourself victims of players voluntarily, you could as well look at an average guy with good prospects and believe in him and be part of his success story in no time. Men are not even dating poor girls again. They want their match too so you could as well get a job and make your money.

Let’s just say he doesn’t make it or he takes him 40 years, what would you suggest? By the way, why do you guys like saying believe in him. Every man for himself

fk001:
What i want people to understand is this herdsmen are not Pro Buhari but criminals armed by opposition.


If they are pro Buhari they won't be attacking unnecessary toward this forthcoming election because they will be shooting themselves on the leg.



Let's come out in mass and vote for PMB come 2019. let's give him second chance

Are you serious or you are just trying to be funny

brutal1:
our dear sister bianca, kindly tell this honourable blog male members what you want in your man, Note** Remove all those qualities that are hard to get like he must be very rich, have a car, propose with an expensive ring and all that. Our women of nowadays end up marrying a general husband. If he has an SUV, Very rich, cute, tall, and all that, you think you are the only one that wants good thing Abi, no be you alone need tyat kind man, these days, we need ladies that are ready to marry civil servants, who knows where the snakes & monkeys will start their next operation. Marry a guy with a good heart and with a good job. If you need to marry a guy because of money then you should get a job.

Why are those qualities hard to get?

WORLDPEACE:
Don't be angry. I am too passionate about the subject. Only the first line was for you. And I did not mean to offend. I was just talking about other people in the rest of the post.

Please, no vex, ma.

. It’s fine. Have a good night. It was nice having this “banter” with you.

WORLDPEACE:
So neither Agbani Darego nor Oluchi count in this?
It is the nameless girls in those adverts you remember.

And funny, most girls I have met prefer dark guys.

Please, don't get me wrong o. I am not a light skin hater. But women generally don't even know what good skin is because they are so fixated on light skins.
Me I see skin types, not colour. I know normal, oily and dry skin. I love people that have normal skin and I think people should work towards making their's normal. If you eat good food with a lot of fruits and vegetables and spend most of your day in an air conditioned place, in a year, the difference will show.
Have you paid attention to how those banker guys generally have heallthy looking skins even when they are dark?

Every thing is just cream, cream, cream. Crowd mentality, laziness and ignorance are the problem.

WHy are you sounding rude?
I seriously don’t understand this tone. I don’t know if you are trying to correct me or something. I am a dark lady myself, just for the record. I am tired already of repeating this. Pls read my quotes to ndubueze92. He gets me. It’s fine, everyone to their opinions. Okay.

ndubueze92:
Unhappy with your natural skin color? It's okay, it's alright.

No I meant the people bleaching

ndubueze92:
100% truth. Really, I don't get it! This is Africa, a tropic. I don't understand why people should indulge in bleaching knowing fully well that it isn't going to be conducive for them with regards to the weather and the environment.

Again whatever rocks their boat. Everyone should do whatever they want. Life is too short to be unhappy

WORLDPEACE:
I think my tone was passionate, not rude. It's not my style. You can look at my posts before now.

I don't know about "most Nigerian men" sha. I have a clique of maybe eight friends and I have never heard a single one of them say "I would prefer a fair girl over a dark one". But I know their preferences in the eternal breast vs booty war. I know the ones who prefer bobby to backyard and the ones who are neutral.Some of them are married while some are single. All the five married ones are married to dark girls.

Women are always sure of what men like. They listen to their fellow women. They should listen to men. That belief in the society that light skin is better is promoted mostly by women.

It’s going to take a while for that belief to be ancient. When I was a teenager, I used to be attracted to guys with lighter skin colour(because honestly I thought they were better looking and Black was ugly) and I am dark, but as I grew older, I realized it was just me being shallow. From watching adverts like Lux soap, delta soap, of course that was enough to make Nigerian women bleach. Until the society starts being fair in what they portray, Nigeria won’t be far from having an all white women nation. I believe you understand my point now.

Asowari:
the bride so ugly she is looking like Karen of big brother very ugly looking thing

She does look like Karen but she is very far from ugly

WORLDPEACE:
I don't agree that it is men that make women bleach. Many women on their own like light skin. They need to take responsibility for their choice.
You know why I say this? Women are bleaching their babies now. Are they doing that for men also? The new one they reported some days ago is that women now take pills to bleach their unborn children.
They should take responsibility for their actions. There is nothing wrong in admitting that you like fair skin.

I personally don't see colour, but I see booty anywhere it is hiding, no matter the colour. And I will choose it over color anyday, if looks were all that matterd. There are so many things that can attract men to you that women would never do. For one, agree to date guys who are broker and see if you won't be spoilt for choice. But women struggle to do so. Men would love it. But ladies don't. Why? Because you love your fair skin but you don't like brokeness.
It is your right to reject and embrace anything. Don't put it on anybody's head.

Hey, I am not trying to say that men are responsible for women bleaching. I was just trying to pass a point. The truth is that most Nigerian guys find dark girls gorgeous but they would prefer a lighter skin, and there is nothing wrong with that either. The thing is that most of these girls that bleach have low self esteem or they feel that they are ugly with that skin colour.
So where do they get that feeling from? The society. Pls I communicated my point without being rude, I’ll suggest you do the same also. Thanks