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Princedapace:
1: After the years of dating... if u engage in s*x , stop the s*x with the pretence that u av repented for about 4 months but still be nice

one day, call her in and act so sober, cry if u can, hold her hands and weep, show her ur HIV test result that u tested positive few weeks ago.. Hey, u arent HIV positive , u could get fake result around...

she will be scared.. convince her to go for hers... so long she is a good person and not cheating and other bla bla bla... she will test negative... she will willingly quit u. Tell her u love her

so much that is why u had to tell her... she will thank u and pray for u and even give testimony becus of it..

2: If u are tired, keep delaying the marriage and act irresponsible, no woman wana end up with an irresponsible man... keep delaying the marriage and at a point, another man will snatch her away and she will go... with this, u didnt break up , she did.

dearpiriye:
they only take bsc from physiology, anatomy, biochemistry, microbiology and zoology.

dearpiriye:
yes they do

ediama:
Today I have increase in knowledge. To be more fearful of people around me in moments of joy. I think people of the world who openly wish us well do actually love to see us suffer or below them.

Sometimes I feel God is protecting us by limiting our success at a particular time or place. If u prosper in a wrong environment ur life may be in danger.

Now I understsnd why God ask Abraham to move away from his people. Fear umu-uwa.

Rest in peace to the dead.

masterpat:
I knw ur type will have so many pass time lovers

KINGinVAHALA:
Following bumper to bumper! Rosalieene, won't you come and sit near me?

But its imperative I ask, who dating don EPP?

waternogetemeny:
Trashy! A lot of water have gone under the bridge but one money miss road has to fall mugu.
The way young women sleep around in the name of boyfriend and girlfriend is shameful.

austinosita:
Hey......gba go du break there, biko!!
If I tell you my own bitter experience(s) with girls, you will retrieve this your statement!

As girls get heart breaks from guys, guys get it too from girls! It happens in both ways! I'll tell you my recent sad experience!

I met her in the north when I went for service.....we became very close friends. We dated and we were so much in love....inseparable! I even made her go to school, cos I told her I can't marry an illiterate.

Now, it happened that we stopped communicating cos I was in lag, she was still in the north and I had no job! Things were so difficult for me!
When I finally got a job, I rented an apartment and tushed it! She had already graduated. We started communicating again and ignited our love! I told her everything about my failed love affairs and she lied to me about hers!

I invited her to lag! Lo and behold I discovered her breasts had fallen and gone flat like a Breast feeding mother! Sex was not the same again cos her va.gi.na had depreciated!
I accepted her still and went ahead to propose! We started making arrangement on how to go see her parents, it was then she now told me she had a baby boy and she would like me to accept him in my house(as in, he would live with us)!
I declined and said he won't come now, and that she would have to give me some time!

She got pregnant for me....and I told her to go home cos I need to inform my people so we can come for the introduction and every other thing that has to do with marriage rites!

Along the line, I lost my job and I told her to give me some time to get a job, cos I can't raise a family being jobless! Tho I assured her that the trad marriage would take place before the stomach bulges!

Could you believe she called last week to inform me that she had aborted the baby and she cannot marry a jobless man.....and so she was no more interested!

Meanwhile, I and my mum, use to send money to her for her upkeep, and I call her often!

How cruel can this be? How do I tell my people? Cos we've fixed a date already!

Abeg madam, just go sidown if u no know wetin to talk!

MrGentleTouch:
As dis tin com be now, I don't think I can let dis gal go. I'm deeply in love with her.. Mek una no vex oo!

MrGentleTouch:
But why do you girls lie a lot? You need to come to Abuja here and see what female corpers(both single, engaged and married) are doing with men on daily basis. Only then you'll get to understand that some girls are really wicked. Ask the reason for this, their favourite line is :" NYSC is once in a life time experience, we've got to enjoy it while it lasts."

Believe it or not, ladies are mean.

MrGentleTouch:
Thank you my brother. You totally understand what I meant. If you see the sweet words and promises this girl was dishing out yesterday to this man eeeh(whereas she's in the comfort of another guy's arm), you'll shed tears for the guy. May God 4gv me though.

Hiroto:
U re very foolish. Bit.ch

Toks2008:
If only the glamour of a one day event can translate to marital happiness...nice cake tho

Hiroto:
when i see rich people waste money like garbage nd see homeless children on the street i feel like blaming God. **sad

Mcowubaba:
Sometimes when I jokingly tell a girl I'm looking for a wife, that she should help me find one, the next thing I hear from the girl is that = I'm available

I have tried this many times on different occasions nd yet the same reply .

Now the point I'm trying to make is that our lovely Nigerian ladies should not be so eager to marry nd be deceived by the words 'I want to marry you/I'm looking for a wife'. Many have been used nd dumped this way.

Ps.. I'm not even handsome or very rich...
So I think the are just taken off with the words *I want to marry/looking for a wife*

Amazingcidpro:
we have been dating for a year nw, before she went bck to skul, i called her nd i sat her down nd i told her, that i love her so much nd i want to spend d rest of my life with her nd that lets be sincere with our selves nd of she knws she doesnt love me that muj or she doesnt want to be with me she should tell me or if she gona cheat on me , its better i knw nw nd maybe stop it nw before getting into some ting serious, bt she saod she loves me, she wont cheat nd she will love to be with me , we agreed nd she left for skul, after like dew months, i saw on her dp she nd a guy pic mixed togeda, nd there was wring saying will always love u my sweetheart, i was shocked , i sent her a message askin her who is that guy nd whats d meaning of her dp, she said it was a mistake nd it was someone that uploaded it , sje said she was charging it at d hostel, i asked my self , hw can someone access ur fone, nt only that, access ur whatsapp nd upload such pic without u knwing , wen nd hw did d picerson get nd pic mixed both pic, she said its one guy like dah is always disurbing her , after that few days letter, her room mate added me on whatsapp nd told me that she is cheatin on me, i asked hw she got my no, she said she took it from her fone, that she has told her to tell me bt she wont nd it hurts her to see a friends decieving me , she even gave me my gf nd the guys pic wen they were kissing nd other pic, nd if i ask my gf abt anyting cheating she will say no, she will even say she loves me so much, now should i play along nd Bleep d hell out of her or just break up nd i really love her

MRSANITY:
Ii have a problem with women who reason this way. When a woman is ready to tolerate you being with other women, it means either she doesn't love you, or she is desperate. A woman who truly loves her man feels some jealousy and would react when she knows he is cheating.

yaqq:
Seriously we the real niccur knows she s saying the damn truth.........

Only if ladies think like this we won't have much problem to deal with.........waiter give this lady a bottle pami

sekem:
Obviously.

And I can say she must have also lost it so cheaply.

Which explains why she's now trying very hard to downplay the importance of the whole virginity thing albeit with a sorrowful undertone full of regretz.

But we know the truth.

And we refused to be brainwashed.

Virginity is the pride of a woman to her husband, take it or leave it.

In fact, it is the most significant sign that the girl is well trained with good family background.

I know the OP is wishing this was not the case.

But then, it is what it is.

So to all you true virgin girls out there, please keep your heads up with pride. You deserve to be honored.

And to all you loose girls out there, may your already loose pᶸssyz get even looser. You deserve it too.

Boyooosa:
What of you being a woman... Did (do) you wait till that day?

Boyooosa:
Yes (NO), It cant! It can never survive. That is why you need to negotiate the mode of sexual life you want to have with your self, understand it and accept each other... depending on your terms and understanding. But let me re-assure that any marital relationship can never survive without sex. But ordinary or premarital relationship can endure it with very rare chance.....

BiafraBushBoy:
Really??... I see your siggy tho...
Have fun.

Toks2008:
My only nairaland sweetheart i dey o.

Toks2008:
LOL! No girl do me strong thing o..i just dey ask

Toks2008:
Ok we know that a man represents the stronger gender but he is also human with emotions and vulnerability.

When a guy breaks a lady's heart people tend to curse and say stuffs like he is wicked,all men are the same,if he knows he won't..why waste her time and so on..

But in the case of the guy getting heart broken they say stuffs like "Be a man, there are many ladies out there to choose from,don't tell me you are crying because a woman breaks your heart..."

Why is this so? Don't they know that it is harder for a guy when he gets heart broken by a lady he really wants considering his ego?

Please when next you see a guy sulking or even crying over a heart break just let him vry his heart out because we are humans too and it takes so much pain for a man to see the woman he truly wants in the hands of another man.

BiafraBushBoy:
What is heart Break.??

Boyooosa:
Among the Saints, u r 1 million correct... practically, u r getting it wrong. Get this straight, Relationship is not all about sex and child bearing.... its all about 'love', tolerance, negotiation and acceptance. Its beyond, I sex you, you no gree, madam.

jmichlins:
Giving such amount of money to already made men while meny will sleep today without food and safe drinking water. talk about misplaced priorities

Boyooosa:
That sounds inviting anyway
But what i mean is that I never for once stated (through our conversation) that a girl should sleep with two more men for any reason but simply stated that: S*x is not just about a single gender, two people (opposite gender, the most accepted form of s*x) enjoy s*x together, it seals covenant of love if properly handled. So what is prostitution-al about that statement