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2nd term agenda

IMO01:
Come for inspection baba

Location: ajah Lagos

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Aiiit you on WhatsApp right

Looks like they scored him

IMO01:
1.5 last

What's the mileage

So it is not yet time abi

Can it go for 1.3m sir

OndoFirstBorn:
Lmaoo of course I've heard of Jimi, just like I've heard of every other aspirants and that is because I'm active in the political scene. But if you ask 100 people at Oja Oba, Akure, the state capital, I'm certain 98 of them have never heard of him before. What's his antecedents? What has he done in Ondo State?

This man must pay you very good,tell him to fix Sunday bustop to davog road or else he just waste his money on form

LostAddict:
I can't use the word ignorant for someone like you, a dimwit would fit better.

If having no sense of moral means letting people live by whatever decision they make or beliefs they hold then yes, I lack every sense of morality.

If being PRO LGBTQ and supporting their rights then once again I lack every moral standards.

Do have a nice day and I wish you good luck in changing your country.

Learn to mind your business and be mature while doing so,I specifically asked for opinions from mature people for a reason.
This is not a LGBTQ group.

LostAddict:
I can't use the word ignorant for someone like you, a dimwit would fit better.

If having no sense of moral means letting people live by whatever decision they make or beliefs they hold then yes, I lack every sense of morality.

If being PRO LGBTQ and supporting their rights then once again I lack every moral standards.

Do have a nice day and I wish you good luck in changing your country.

Learn to mind your business and be mature while doing so,I specifically asked for opinions from mature people for a reason.

hashtagged:
Gay, incest are same it concerns no one so we should leave them alone and stop trying to kill them.
Bestality is rape cause the animal didnt consent

I'm sorry but there is nothing meaningful in what you said.i think you should try and check the meaning of those words first.

OLDESTWARRIBOY:
Make dem hold am o, i no wan hear anything. Na all this Afonja dem dey shout Sai baba o. We go enjoy the Sai baba 4+4 Together, nobody dey go anywhere.

But nothing bad if im go Ogun state make im brothers teach how to skull mine..the only thing wey dem sabi..Ewu

People like you repulse me,your father and mother should be ashamed for raising someone like you.

Abascoh:
Can we now stop all the comparison? Rema is clearly bigger and better than all the new boys in the industry

He isn't no where near Joe boy or fireboy, you think it's by shouting spiderman up and down

She should be jailed at least,she could have killed every one on board

gregyboy:
Wtf are you saying, wtf wtf..........your children oneday will be influenced by your sis we will read the story here

How is that your problem exactly

TheRareGem1:
OP. I hope you don't follow the trash some people call advice. 99% of them will not want such for any of their relative.

Here's the thing, it best to inform your parent. They will know how to handle the situation maturely. They are her parent so they will know the best way to handle it.

She might have made up her mind, yes but still, she might change. Orientation can be changed

Here in Nigeria, na jail o

Thanks She's going back to her country so that won't be a problem.

gregyboy:
O. P dont listen to those mumu advice this nlders Lesbian are given you to support her, they are Lesbian as soon as they saa the thread they flocked in....

Reset your little sis brain


Homosexuality is demonic

Thanks for your advice but I don't see it that way ,it's their body and it's their choice.

EarthFireH2o:
Hey you really need to calm down there... you're even going ahead to make plans for them already, lols, it's cute though,
But thing is you've still got to sit her down and talk to her, I'm not talking bout telling her off bout being gay, you just have to let her understand things, let her know the journey might not be smooth and savvy as she might be having in her thoughts, and I think you should try to get to know the other lady who she's dating try setting up on how to get to know her and her plans, don't doesnt seem like your sister is living in her own infatuation, try to understand the other person and get to know if they have same goals of wanting to be together forever even through the thick and thin that life would push to them, I'm sure you should be able to detect if she's not being straight forward with you, so have the talk with your sis, get her to understand that your family might not approve of her sexual orientation, but then you'll sure find a way to get them to understand and accept her, pledge your support to her and get to know yer thoughts also, try to understand her quite well,
I wish you all the very best bro
But I must warn you
It wont be easy to achieve all of these

I understand you bro ,they're adults and a relationship of 7 years that involves the parents of the girl is pretty serious enough, moreover they are engaged.

Silentgroper:
First off. I'll advise you allow her relocate out of this country cause she cant be gay in this country.

then other can follow

She's already an ukranian, she's going as soon as flight resumes

Foolish company ,because of one riffraff they spoiled their business

Ningen:
She's an adult and her own person first.

You are wrong to believe outing her will make everything to scatter. You'll only be giving her a choice; to deny her sexuality and to resent you.

Try putting yourself in her shoes.

You can encourage her to come out though.
Don't spill out her secret without permission.

I don't think you read and understand what I wrote up there.maybe you should go through the thread once again.

EarthFireH2o:
Well I dont see being gay as a curse or anything
I just feel that's the way she feels is right to go through, and I'm sure at her age she should be able to tell her right from her wrongs, you've done your part as her elder brother,
And since it seems like she's not backing out of it, and you had let her know the Nigerian mentality bout such things which I'm quite sure she knows quite well too..

I do feel your support is what she truly needs
Cause she came out true to you and never denied her being gay...

So do try to find ways to settle things
Cause telling the parents and them rebuking everything might lead her to take extreme measures you might at the end of the day regret taking,
And theres always a way out of situations
Like you said theres artificial insemination...
So think it through, support her and do keep checking up on her...

I guess that's the best you can ever get to do as an elder and she'll be forever grateful

My thoughts though

Thank you very much for this, this is exactly what I'm thinking, I think we're just going to let them find out in future, knowing how much they love her they won't have a choice and the only person they'll blame for everything is me for not telling them.and I'm fine taking the blame if it means we get to keep her in the family. Heck I have started reading about artificial insemination sef

chigoizie7:
Nawa ooh. Op this matter tire me.

One woman here advised us that if we have children, at 14years that we should ask them who their boyfriends or girlfriends are. If they are gay, we should send them to naija as minors and then use African hands and methods to correct it before they turn 18 because by then we can’t do anything as the government of this place legalized it. That auntie that told us this is regretting because her only son is gay, one of her daughters is gay as well.

I believe that some of them can be changed. I changed one as a corper that year, I don’t know if she is still straight at the moment, but she told me that she hasn’t been with a lady ever since( 4years ago).one sweet beautiful girl.

Bro she is already and she has been dating this girl for almost 7years sef even the girl's parents call her time to time ,if this was just an exploration for her I would have done something about it ,but she's an independent adult,she'll do whatever she wants to do with or without anybody,it's just because she respects me a lot that is why she sought for my approval.

Ningen:
It's NEVER in your place to out someone.
You can encourage her to come out though.

But that should be HER decision alone.

She's not someone, she is my blood that I've looked after all my life,If I see something that is going to lead her astray I have the right to do anything that will keep it from happening. However this situation is not a grave one that is why I decided to support her.

Denovan:
I suggest she opens up to your parents, to avoid future heartbreaks

Future heartbreaks how?

shogsmania:
OP my advice is for you to support your baby sister, she's already like ukranian so let her live her life with whoever she loves,your parents will come to terms with her eventually

Thanks bro

Buhari's sons and family members, patiently waiting for the next strike in the north.

Prechgold1180:
Unah family problem many , even u self nah problem to d family. At 30 u don't know d difference between gay n lesbian well dey said a fool at 40 is a fool forever and now u are 30 day means u have 10 years to escape

You're a very stupid individual, get out of my thread,I don't need stupid people here.

I created this account lately to search for something here so I figured I'd just throw this out and maintain my anonymity.
I am 30years old and I'm the first born of my family I've got 2 siblings, one male and female.
My sister just finished her education in Ukraine and she is working in am hospital in lagos she's a medical doctor and she's just 25.
My sister is a very attractive girl and she has always had tons of male admirers ,some guys even go to the extent of befriending me just to get in touch with my sister,but the problem is she just doesn't like to mingle or even hangout with guys except they are just her friends.
Growing up I thought it was because of the brotherly advice I gave her about men so I wasn't worried, at 16 she went to Ukraine and came back 7 years later.
When she came back I notice there is always this Ukrainian girl that calls her like everytime daily and they talk for hours, I thought they were just bffs until I used her laptop when data ran out of mine one day and just happen to see her chats and what I saw was suprising, their chat dated for years and i saw pictures of them together on dates, vacations, bed,kissing, cuddling ,heck I even found some explicit picture the girl sent her ,but for the sake of privacy I didn't check it out.
The problem now Is that our parents are disciplinarian and I don't ever want them to find out because it will lead to a big trouble between them.
Some days ago I showed at my sister's apartment and I sat her down and asked her if she's gay or not,she replied without even hesitating that she is truly gay and she wouldn't live her life otherwise, hearing this I just left without saying anything and went to my house,she even called me a couple times to explain but I didn't pick up.
After pondering about this issue I decided to speak to her because I love her so much as she is our last born,i called her to come and meet me at home,she came and i spoke to her at length about the situation on ground and I made her understand that Nigeria doesn't support those kind of things,my sister replied me that she's engaged to that ukranian and she is going to marry her irrespective of what it'll cost her.
Knowing my little sister she's an extremely determined human being, anything she says she'll do, she'll do it even if she'll suffer though it.i don't want to lose her so I've given her my support and told her I'll find a way to solve this issue.
The problem now is that a friend of mine advised me to tell our parents so that everything will scatter and she won't have a choice,to tell the truth that was what I planned on doing before, or she goes back to Ukraine this year and marry that girl then they'll do artificial insemination to bear a child that way we'll have something to show to our parents that'll signify she's married and later on we'll let the cat out of the bag.
Please mature people should help me chip in and give me some advice abeg.

jabberjawz:
2 different men, one a hero even in death, the other the most despised fellow alive & will live the rest of his life in misery even to his dying day........morale of the story.........."Never allow power or position of power intoxicate you".......this is a lesson to all those out there beating thier chest & flexing thier muscles........those Swift to hurl insults to one for simply airing his or her opinion & being simple.

The killer is a hero to millions of racist Americans

schurley:
Inside, finished there around 2018, still frequent the school tho...... The light routine_10/11am-2pm, and 7pm-9pm

So many lecturer leave this school premises once the power is off to the chagrin of scheduled afternoon nd evening lectures...if you've been in Akungba b4 you will understand, the weather and humidity is relative to that of the North, particularly the dry season scorching Akungba sun

The light has improved now,its more like 8am-2pm now ,7PM to 11pm I was there for last year

Karleb:
It does.

It has stairs as well, who would build such building without elevator?

You'd be surprised, I don visit 5 story school buildings without elevator before. This building is well built and it's spacious,I was in the school last year and it is very serene and neat ,they have a lot of big buildings as well mostly new sef