G0odharddick:


Sadly your kinds mistake broke men as alpha male or what exactly?

I was expecting you to say it's better to be rich and be an alpha male than to be rich and be a simp.

it is a known fact that most so called alpha male are broke. Not all but most.

Kevineleven:

Red pillars don't hate women, they have sisters and mothers but they are wise enough to see through their manipulation.
Wealth has nothing to do with emotion mind you. If I broke na my business, I don't know you from anywhere and I am very sure that you are still struggling.

sure i am still struggling but i don't have same mentality like you guys. I can't question anyone that speed his money the way he choses to. The fact that you can't help women doesn't mean other guys shouldn't help women. The world doesn't revolve around you.

Kevineleven:


The funny thing is that you find these Simps more among the rich folks.

you can't be bitter towards women and be bless. It's never possible. Please continue hating women so that you can continue being a broke man

mytime24:
Pained redpills full this thread 😭

pained poor redpills

Badmashiii:


God bless you for this. Comments like yours still give me hope that simps are not totally in control.
But I'm still worried about the future.

Most men haven't yet realized the danger of simps in a society. Simps are never thinking of your interest as a man,they are ready to use their last resources and whatever power they possess to impress and elevate any vagina owner. Usually at the expenses of men.

The situation of the west is a case in point.

The man that made that transfer isn't thinking about that old man at all.

His primary aim is to impress the female folks and get approval from them. This may seem trivial to sensible men but simps value any female approval and are willing to die for it at any given time.

As a man,whether you are my father,brother,son,friend and you tend to exhibit SIMPISH attitude,i shall definitely cut you off or keep our interaction minimal. I will advise any sensible man to do the same.

you don't teach someone how to spend his money. Go and make money and spend it on your fellow men. It's very simple

G0odharddick:
Knowing a simp is the most dangerous thing on earth 🌎

it is better to be rich and being a simp than being A BROKE man + alpha male. That's two deadly disease

newbornmacho:


Instead of the useless simp to help the old man...tufiakwa

how poor men tells rich men how to spend their money still baffles me seriously

advanceDNA:
Na man credit am ooooo.......women no dey ever help their fellow women....na to dey shout men are scum dem sabi.....yet shigbain dem no fit buy on their own....

how many men you don help?

Namaster:
The life of a woman is SUPER soft!

No one would think twice about a guy doing this
In fact, a shitload of guys already do this. One girl did it and BAAAM! she dan blow.

I'm pretty sure the half a MILLION Naira is just the beginning. Emmanuel has opened the floodgates for simple men.



Funniest thing is that the girl I see here does hookup as a side hustle.

you have a mother and probably sisters. How you and your likes address all women same way your mother and sisters will be address.

SINisSIN:
Baba, i never see any strong reasons to divorce yet. She is pissed about something. Try that morning devotion first and see what happens next.

Marriage is hard work. Even your colleague get her own ogbanje but she never becomes wife, so the ogbanje won't show now. All the best mate!

tmi4life

Another reasonable point from sensible human. Please take good note of this. These are the people that want the best for you and your family.

advanceDNA:



I was right.....u are a lunatíc... and I couldn't help but notice u are also suffering from ptsd triggered by one of the many paternity fraud thread on nairaland.....

Sigh....which one is ur case...?? Are u one of them women who can keep their vagina in one place but blame DNA testing for ur problem.?? Or as usual, u are just one of them pple who blame others for ur frustration......

Awon werey.....they will not fix themselves.. it's another woman's son they will be frustrating in marriage.... E ma sófó dànú niii

you will die poor if i am not a woman as you accuse me. Amen

advanceDNA:


Sigh.....Who is this lúnatíc....??
If divorce is not an option for u try can Waka pass my comment naaa...... all this ur display of gutter behavior doesn't look good on u.

.... are u just desperately trying to be unfortunate or u are just naturally devoid of manners

you can't afford 3 square meal but you're always eager to tell anyone that cares to listen to divorce their wife and husband. You're a bloody single guy but you're always telling anyone that cares to listen to divorce their spouses. You don’t have DNA proof that your father is your biological father yet, you go about singing DNA test to anyone that care to listen. Same test that you can't afford.

I don't blame you anyway

4reala:
Can you just try that morning devotion thing she talked about for a week and see how things goes

tomi4life

This is another reasonable person you should consider. Unless you've made up your mind to let go your wife. If truly you want a happy and loving family then pay attention to this.

advanceDNA:


What's surprising me in all of this is that u are still calling her "ur wife". ..
Nigga ..u are married to ur self....u are just a means to an end....this woman u described, .Like all women ... over estimate their worth in a relationship, assume they are doing u a huge favour and have done their part by marrying you, open legs and birthing kids....

Oga ade....don't leave ur house for anyone ..the woman u just described wont even give a flying fvck u left....she's just a naturally unkind, insensitive, inconsiderate person.....

Damaged breeds with no emotional compass ..them full everywhere.. they have no business being married...but wanting to live bills free won't make them stay alone...

Oga Ade....serve her divorce papers.....tell her u are tired with are room mate style of marriage....if she doesnt see need to change after that...then its not worth beingnmarried to such

Baba...... U have only one life and u are living it with someone frustrating and making u terribly unhappy .....which kind of simping tolerance level is this...?? Spits!!!!!

Enemy of progress. Your ugly mouth like serve her divorce paper. When he divorce her, you will give him your mother to marry. Anyway, I don't blame folks like you. I blame op for bringing his family affair to the public for every dick and harry like you to have a say.

harqinhola:
Any woman that has feminism tendency should not be married .

how some of you reason baffles me. In your tiny brain you think feminist don't get married? In your warped brain you think feminist don't have successful marriage? If you've not seen any. I have seen many.

mrblessed:
Her attention is elsewhere, whether cheating or not. I think you are living in self-denial.

maybe her attention is in your house. Chief advisor of divorce marriage.

Cowbell521:
End the marriage. If you can't do that, get a side chick. No marriage councillor in this world can help you and no amount of talk can change things oga. Speaking from experience. Hotel na temporary solution. If you get money, rent an apartment or buy house close to your workplace. No go rent house for side chick Oo. I repeat . No rent for side chick. I was in the same situation and doing this gave me relief. Na she dey even find my attention now
Your weakness dey disgust d woman sef. Better go do DNA test 😂😂

your own destiny is different from others. The fact that you separated or divorce your wife doesn't guarantee every men should follow your path. I have seen marriages worse than this being resolved without going through your route. That is your own story. Every other person's story obviously will be different from yours.

tomi4life:
Not sure if this is the right forum, but I am unhappy, as I type this message, I think it is usually too late to cry when the head is cut off, but i will cry anyways.

I have been married for 6 years now and brethren it has not been easy, I think I married a wrong person, am not a perfect neither is she, i just think we are not compatible. There is is no love between us. Our values are different. Me and my wife dont get along, well.

We have just been tolerating each other. I only realize what i am missing because i recent caught feelings for this colleague of mine. So there is this colleague of mine, we have worked together for almost 2 years now but more related to work. I have started catching feelings for this girl o and it all started in a party we attend together. I know she too has feeling for me. I see it in her eyes. She comes to sit with me, and we talk about alot of private stuff. She tells me all that is happening in her life, i also do same. she knows I am married with kids but i am sure if i make a move she will agree. I never could imagine I will find myself in a situation, tempted to commit adultery. When i have a wife at home, this opened my eyes and push me to want resolved the relationship issue with my wife. I approached her some days ago to voice my concern that the marriage is not working, we dont communicate, there is no love, what can we do to resolve the matter. My wife said she is used to our situation. I asked what can we do differently and she says we shd go see a marriage counselor. I said fine but can we even discuss and she tells me she is tired she wants to sleep and then stops responding to me.

My wife prefers to sleep alone, despite me telling her we shd sleep together as a couple. if she is in the room and I come to the room she will immediately goes to the parlor, we rarely have body contact. The few times we have sex she never kisses even when i try, she puts her mouth away. Even in the car we can be on a drive for 1 hr, without mentioning a word to each other. Most times it is either the car radio or my kids that break the silence. What surprises me is she is very comfortable with it, you just see her on her phone. The only saving grace is I have a source of income and provide for the home that why she listens sometimes.

Reflecting back on if i had to opportunity i wont have married her, she has caused me alot of pain. she doesnt play that supportive role expected of a wife, she has this feminist tendency. She also has this ego issue and find it difficult to take feedback, whenever i raise an issue, she just get very upset and in many times it turns into a fight. There are days I fall sick, my wife no send o. Even cooking for me is like stress. She goes out without telling me, does things without getting my consent or even carrying me along. When she brings people to the house, she wont even introduce them to me as her husband. she doesnt send respect or regards me. I tell you an example of something that happened last year, we were travelling November last year to the UK on holidays with the children, because of our luggages we took two uber vehicles, I sat in one with my daughter, my wife sat in the other with my son. While on the way to the airport, do you know my wife asked the driver to take a detour to shoprite that she wants to give someone the left over stew and food items we had. Shoprite is not on the way to the airport, we had less than 2 hours to go for an intentional flight. It was me that noticed their car going a different direction, I had to call the uber driver to tell him to turn back immediately. When the uber guy came he told me he had asked my wife to mention it to me, but she said no need, I dont need to be told. We got to the airport while offloading the luggage from the car, my wife suddenly disappeared. I had 8 boxes , 2 children to move with. Thank God for those people that help with the luggage at the airport. I passed through customs and NDLEA and began to clear with the airline before she showed up. I was so mad, even a custom lady was yelling at her, how can you just disappear leaving your husband with all the loads and children. My wife didnt even apologize, she said she went to drop the food items with the person she asked to come to the airport, after i asked the uber driver to reroute to the airport. That is how disunited we are.


The good side is not cheating, and she is spiritual, she can go to church 10 times a week, currently serves in 2 units and hold leadership roles in those unit. I have told her if she give 20 percent of the time in church to our relationship and family we would be happier. The major complain she mentioned from my side is we shd go out together more often, she wants me to organize morning devotions, that we shd pray more with the children, this was something I believe her dad did when they were growing up, the experience is different for me. I have told her I will try. She also mentioned I like to complain, which is not true.

This whole thing is hitting me hard cos I dont want to cheat with my colleague and i just experienced a glimpse of what we shd be enjoying. I also have the chance of relocating to the Australia but i knw if we do, I will enter one chance.

Does anyone knw a good marriage counselor, that can be recommended, I saw one done by one of this popular pastor they are asking for $150 for a 1hour session, I also dont want to involve my family or her family.

I am tempted to just leave the house for 2 weeks and go stay in an hotel, but how will that help it will only make matters worse.

i respect your decision taking your family affairs away from your family and her own family. You're indeed a matured man.

Please pay no attention to anyone telling you to divorce your wife. Majority of them are either single or going through worse situations than yours. I am also a single guy but i can never advise a man to divorce his wife over this issue, neither will i advise a woman to divorce her husband. I'm glad you didn't outrightly condemn your wife. You did gave her some credit in terms of spiritual and fidelity which obviously is the foundation of marriage. The only condition you can divorce your wife is if she's cheating on you which you confirm she isn't. Honestly. If i have such a wife i wouldn't think twice looking for means in other aspects of her that i felt needed amendments. I'd make sure our marriage works. Please see a marriage counselor. Take your family affair away from anyone that will be pointing accusing fingers at either you or your wife. Take it away from anyone that may want you guys separated or divorce. Please always avail yourself leading your family in prayer. I guess you can change her for good in other aspects through that. You can also meet her pastor or his wife to have a discussion regarding her attitude towards you. I believe they'd talk to her.

Consider a marriage counselor, your wife pastor and his wife. I believe things will turn around for good.

Please take no heed to anyone telling you to divorce your wife. Trust me they're your enemy.

I will rate him below average
30/100

TimiRume:
Do men love and cherish broke and struggling guys? Are they loyal to them?

I see men everyday asslicking and killing themselves for men with good money, I don't see them doing same for the ones with nothing. Yet only women are chastised for despising poor men

you're right. We men actually don't like poor men. Nobody like poverty irrespective of gender.

OKOATA:
Lol, I no be gay o Mr gay cos I know where you dey go. Make you no go collect 2by2 for head oga. I just love my space and it's sweet that way.

you can't avoid women completely if truly you are not a gay. Or do you want to be a reverend father?

odi1278:
Oga I said female last born with more than three brothers.

yes. That's what i meant. Just treat their sister well and take good care of her. No problem. Only when you're irresponsible man then you go hear am

OKOATA:
Baba if you can leave that girl you will see how fast you will bounce back. [b]Me as a person my destiny hardly live with a woman. [/b]What I mean is that I prefer my space. That your wife has a negative energy, her whole family has a negative energy against you so to be honest it will be hard for good things to come your way. I will advice you to end that marriage bro.

are you a gay?

Kyng1:


I didn't intentionally got her pregnant.

I don't understand. You had sex with her and you're saying you don't intentionally impregnated her? Are you really okay?

Truvelisback:
In most cases, money inspires Respect and Loyality.

absolutely. Reason why as a man you have no business being in a relationship when you're broke.

odi1278:
Bro I am living testimony. Especially when she is the last born. Run from them before you fall victim.

My uncle is married to last born, my mum is the last born, my cousin got married to the baby of the house and their marriage is a blessing. They are all living happily. E no work for you no mean say e no go work for others.

odi1278:
Never marry from a poor background and avoid only girl in a home of three brothers upwards.

rubbish. You calm down type shit

essentialone:


not all ignorance kills.

you're obviously ignorance no doubt.

Paraman:
You will wail till 2031

while you and your family continue to live on "e go better " just like your forecast had lived.

essentialone:


the bad effects of prostitution, if any, is on the lady and not on her patron

ignorance kills

gbegemaster:
Apologies for having to skip those who came first, as they did not provide any numbers for me to work with. However, I noticed that they have since modified their post, and I will ensure that it is addressed tomorrow.

God bless you sir.

gbegemaster:
I would like to send financial gifts to families here, but I don't want my name to be revealed. Does anyone know of a way to accomplish this so we can begin the process?

please sir help me. I don't have anything to eat as i speak. Please help me in any means you can.

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