₦airaland Forum

Kam2021:
Elrufai most educated politician in Northern Nigeria?That's an insult to the north.

Pastoshizzy:
Rubbish.
Right from the gitgo it's my relationship.. my terms.
If we're not compatible.. we move on (twasn't meant to be)

I'm the head of my home. Her support is inexhaustible, that means we go down together (to the last dime). She doesn't compete with me. I love her like Christ loves the church. Once again..our values are grounded in the Christian faith (the Bible as our moral compass)

Never let social media upset your preset values (marital values).

Years of exposure to oyinbo craze no fit change me and my boo. And I dare not share our differences (yes we have those) with ANYONE (especially not on social media), we work (or pray) our way around it.

Lanretoye:
Na why most of una Dey end up for una papa house after marriage,make una continue.the assistance most of you can not do for your husbands makes you end up shouldering more responsibilities alone when then pursue una commot.
You want everything on the table and add nothing to it,last last we go scatter the table ni cos no average Nigerian man can cope with an unlimited liability.
People like this one now na one man Dey collect all her finances,bleep her like a dog join.

Sarcasmonly:
Don't u think u are the one not considering reality ... I mean...the ratio of odogwu to d average man or poor man in every location of the world is probably 1: 10,000,000....... So how u arrived at the flawed conclusion that an odogwu will marry her is weird..

. ...But then again, we can all be delusional that we will all marry a billionaire....

Alliswell248:
No Biafra terrorists or cownu miscreants would rule Yoruba land...
Go n develop your sad east.

Thundafireseun:
Im Igbo too from Asaba …. I didn’t want to mention Igbo in my statement because Igbos will attack me….

My small research has proven that Igbo women are the most promiscuous women in Nigeria because of their useless love for money

CONOR17:
Main reason I'll never marry Nigerian girls, currently dating a Filipino, y'all leave Nigerian girls go outside experience true love in other countries

Ouchbabe:
How I hate to read that women keep their money. The reality is that most women of nowadays are even the bread winners. Most of them have been laden with the responsibility of providing food, and even paying school fees.
Gone are those days when women were Oriaku, they are now Okpataku

achimendy:
That's exactly why dey hardly get husband to marry them this days.

MYGODISNOTWEAK:
GOD did not create women to be burden on men. GOD created a woman as a help mate for a man. So according to GOD the Ultimate, women should be assisting men.
This means that a woman who does not assist her husband is a financial burden to the husband.

AlphaHakimi:
Dear men, it is NOT your duty to provide for any woman who is not 100% loyal and submissive to you.

Infact, you should aim to make yourself happy, after you have provided for yourself, then you can leave a little bit extra for her.

Your wife is an adult. She can work for herself. The only woman/women you owe your provision is/are your daughters and mother ( and your female siblings).

Dear men, if something happens to you, your family will survive. I've never heard that all the members of a family died because the husband/father died. Do not let any woman make you overwork yourself. If it's only garri and sugar that you can provide, please do so. If your wife wants chicken, she should go out and work.

Shalom

tobby20:
I've read everybody opinion
Guy organise a family and friends end of year party . Buy same aso ebi with some chains and rings (exactly the same ). Gift your wife one b4 , and gift 2 girls in her presence also (like your sisters, female friends etc ) then watch her reaction .
Start from there

Fearyourcreator:
Na you dey know useless people

Fearyourcreator:
So far he is doing his duty as a father wetin concern you with his sexual life ... You know maybe mama no dey give am enough sex ? You fit dey double like that sef but pointing fingers

Fearyourcreator:
Like i said before , you got my message and thats communication. I dont know you but from your reply i know you are not really doing well . Your type plenty for here ... Sha dey play with your life ... Nobody is begging not to slave for the white ... Oga japa if you have not ... But hear this bikeman dey build house for Nigeria. People wey no go school dey do well... I fit show one person. He helped with My POP . You say whatever here thats your problem. But inside of you ,you sabi problem you are having. Just tell yourself the truth and live a better life. Wont reply you again i dont have that much luxury of time now . Good day

Fearyourcreator:
This country just to harbor oloriburuku youth sha .. see this werey now. Oga do whatever ooo

Fearyourcreator:
Your papa and mama are idiots

Fearyourcreator:
Obi na pikin where jagaban dey

Fearyourcreator:
See werey wey carry expo for waec dey form educated

DenreleDave:
This is the most foolish response I have ever seen..

DenreleDave:


Majority of women are senseless being.... So I am not surprised.... I feel sorry for the man that is wasting his life on a finished woman

UnfairLife7:
I have a cousin sister in her late 20s, she's going out with a guy in his mid 30s. This guy works in the oil and gas sector while this cousin of mine works in the telecommunication. They both based in Portharcourt. She met this guy immediately after her service year and they've been together for over 2 years now.

This guy hasn't asked my cousin out to be his girlfriend neither has he proposed to her to be his wife. He spent so much on my cousin. My cousin has met his parents and some of his siblings. He flew her from pH to Lagos to and fro before Christmas just to attend his friend's dad burial. This guy can spend close to million on a seat for her. He gave her ANYTHING, I mean just anything she wants. It got to a point my cousin started feeling somehow the way he spend.

The issue she's having with him is that, he can go for days at times weeks without communicating with her. Then the moment he reached out to her, he'd spend heavily on her. He's not a married man. He's single. Although he has jokingly told my cousin that all what he's doing for her is absolutely nothing . My cousin earn up to 100+ in salary while this guy earn million He jokingly told my cousin not to catch feelings for him as all what he's doing is nothing but unfortunately it mean a whole lot to my cousin. This guy isn't freak about sex. She can count the numbers of times they've had sex together. My cousin is confused why is he spending this much on her if he doesn't see her as his girlfriend or wife to be.

If not that my cousin has been to his office once and always goes to his house. She'd have think the guy is either a yahoo boy or into drugs due to how he spent on her. When he flew her to Lagos to his friends event, they spent a week in Lagos. The girl was in her parents house while the guy was in his parents house in Lagos. The guy didn't asked to meet her parents but he took my cousin younger siblings out for shopping, gave them money and also get stuff for my cousins mother.

My cousin understand the guy might have other girls as a successful young guy. She's just worried the way the guy is doing. She's really confused and doesn't know what to do.


Please what's your advice to my cousin

CHoccolaTE:
Men always have some sort of advice for women as if we asked them their opinions in the first place.

Its like me sef I will go and start a topic advising bachelors to marry the first ugly overweight woman that shows interest in them. After all the fine girl they marry today will still grow old and wrinkled in future.

Fearyourcreator:
I know how nairaland be then , una genz don spoil here ... Main account was registered 2009 ... I don't usually comment sef cus i will always see people that will counter an argument here exactly like i want it ... And at the end no vulgar words... But since like 8years now una don spoil here..

Fearyourcreator:
Na shit and you wan dey cry ... Carry all your family comot na

Fearyourcreator:
You level of hypocrisy too high... You overlooked his reply then came for me ..

Fearyourcreator:
You wey no get peace of mind, lolz

ednut1:
what is all this

ednut1:
Married man. Don’t deceive yourself

Fearyourcreator:
Your family are all idiots

Fearyourcreator:
Una sabi talk wetin una no get proof of... Show me where i was paid.