₦airaland Forum

DeepSight:
I dont mean to be mean, but may I ask how many kids you have, how old they are, and what your financial prospects were when you had them?

you don't need to ask this question. Instead ask him if he was able to feed his family well during Buhari and Jonathan government then you will know the problem

VOsimhen144:
na true.
I agree with my president on this.
Other countries dey go through hell right now.
Pitobi supporters go still come here with their frustrations.

Tinubu nothing do u.
I will vote for u over and over again.

suffering and smiling nigga

Nice2023:
Permit me to say ur wife is an APC member.

A thief in disguise.

In fact,u married a destroyer because a good wife builds her home and not to defraud her home.

have you heard from the other party? Why using such words defraud please?

SatoshiX:
Whatever....

Nobody should be greater than the team. Finidi was a bad choice regardless.

but your emilokan is greater than Nigeria?

eTroll:
jobless nitwit.
You're on all threads.
No wonder you're rimming Cococandy's dirty ass just to please the audio resident usa feminists.
Idiots you all are

yahoo boy

hisexcellency34:
I pray pride doesn't kill him. Finidi goofed but he doesn't deserve disrespect from this amugbo boy

there's no smoke without fire

Medici777:
this your comment lacks sense

women is the price truly

Silentgroper:
Tah, try me ...


Sleep for jail for wetin when I no kill pesin pikin..

Jokes apart.. I can't never tolerate half of what that Lady is dishing to op .. I no too get patient like that.. Although I happen to be a gentle guy oo

if you don't have patience don't consider marriage bro. This is not about being woke. This generation of women aren't like our mothers likewise this generation of men aren't like our fathers. That's why they always say marriage is not a child's play. It's for matured folks. There are things both parties must tolerate, though not violence or infidelity.

You can sleep in jail if you lay your hand on your wife. No be only when you kill person you fit go jail.

Silentgroper:
you're way too soft on her .. you've enabled her too much ... Some females would dare not try this on her husband even asswipes on nairaland chatting shiit all over . . Seriously, if you two have this resolved, you need to change that, it's a must...


Omoh, one woman go come unplug TV when I dey watch am .. Dem never even born am well to change channel while I on the TV . She go waka go her father's house at the next min ..

empty barrel. You go sleep for jail with watery beans

RavagedHeart:
Try and be realistic with your takes.
Where do people lock up their neighbours because they stood up for themselves by use of force? Just mention one place you witnessed it happen.

How many times have you descended on your in-laws because they had a physical disagreement with your sister? Or you will claim it never happened to any of your female family member?

If you're neighbours can get as much involved in your domestic affairs as locking you up, then you must be the softest, most harmless, and least respectable person on earth.

This is about real life happenings and practical solutions, not about quoting prehistoric dates to sound modern.

You're ignorance bro

Indirectly you mean it's not possible to be married in Nigeria without having to fight physically with your spouse? make me understand biko.

Yes, my community has used army to beat up a man messlessly for beating his wife. They're still together till today living in peace. Brothers had beat up their sister's/fiends husband who trespassed. If you never see doesn't mean it doesn't exist bro. E dey happen wella. Imagine i get a younger sister that got married. And she has like 3-4 brothers. Automatically the husband no go misbehave because he know say he go too over collect

Domestic violence is no longer tolerated in our society o.

SpecialAdviser:
Tinubu: I will continue where Buhari stopped
Buhari: Support Tinubu he will do well.
Presidency : Tinubu inherited bad economy from Buhari.
BATerians: Peter Obi is to blame
Me: All of una dey mad

na rich person dey chop better food for naija now o

Reno no just get sense

austine4real:

Papa why are you lying

benjanny:
I have refused to judge one with one voice.

Let's hear from the wife too before we judge

But best of luck both of you

God bless you sir. @ScotHarvath we the nairaland in-laws and chief justice hereby summon you to invite your dear wife that is if she exist o. Let's hear her own side of story.

eTroll:
time will tell when you come back here praying and begging I lift the curse placed on you.
Make your family get male pikins make I see na.
Useless fool

God will bless my family and entire generation with great women that can buy your entire cursed lineage.
Great women like

Ngozi Okonji Iweala
Kemi Adeosun
Late Dora Akuyili
Margeret Ekpo
Tobi Amusan
Chioma Ajunwa
Chimamanda Adichie
Falilat Ogunkoya
Funke Akindele
Remi Folawiyo
Winifred Akpani

God will never curse my family with a bitter poor yahoo boy like you. Amen 🙏

opera1:
How are you sure he return home exactly 10pm? For him to say 10pm, just kno it's few minutes to 11pm.......
Moreover how do you expect someone taken care of kids with other house chores to wake up by 11pm to prepare a meal for someone who ought to be with his family latest 8pm.

Let the op check himself

God bless you sir.

@ScotHarvath oya come defend yourself again.

eTroll:
if you're a man and you truly simp like this may the God that created man and gave him dominion over every creatures including women but you due to thirst for pussy simp and sold your status and prestige all because all because of a smell pussy.
For disgracing men may you never have any male descendant and may all your generations be filled with females and they'l later be married off to strangers which will bring an extinct to your name and your family.
Useless silly slowpoke the curse will work from henceforth.
Thunder strike you dead

You're already cursed for wrong accusation thinking I'm a woman. Cursed boy from a cursed lineage

ruffhandu:
Hello people,
Please I need some advice.
We live in PH, and have 4 kids. The oldest is 10 while the youngest is 6. I give my wife 700k every month, and this includes general upkeep and maintenace and fuelling of our car (Lexus 330). I don't drive the car (I dey leg, while she uses it to run around, which includes school runs and her business).

I no dey chuk eye for her business. Bu I am getting frustrated as she still makes me believe that the money is not enough. I pay electricity bill (band A) and house rent (3m pa) yet every now and then she puts bills on my head. It is driving me crazy.

When I tell her to list out her expenses so I plan with her, she picks offence. I am really tired of the whole thing and don't know how else to approach the issue without causing too much problem. I know some men whose salaries are 250k-300k in PH, yet they are surviving.

delete this post and go and discuss it with your family biko. Or you want jobless people and people earning minimum wage to teach you how to scatter your family?

ShogunNoName:
Shouldn't this be discussed amongst family members or close friends?

Why bring this here ?

I don't understand bro.

eTroll:
may thunder strike those germs infested fingers you used to quote me.
Ogun kee your papa ni.
Useless low inferior woman pretending with a fake gender

if i be man but you accusing me that I'm a woman, may your entire family perish in a day and they will all die in PENURY. Amen 🙏

RedfolkActivist:
so in a nutshell what do u need?
besides why would apply for something when u know u don't have much huh? u are a graduate u could just apply for a work visa.
what help do u want from me now?

I have seen someone that wants to help me with the statement of account. That's the business the person is doing and he's also a senior staff in a bank. He requested for #200,000 to help me process it. It was someone he has helped that linked me up with him. Please can you help me with any amount to support me? God bless you 🙏

Silentgroper:
I don't do that .. They beg me.. they need me more than I need them ..

why are you now crying here if they need you more? Why telling us about your imaginary family? What's stopping you from doing the needful biko? Carry your tale by the moonlight story go. It doesn't hold any water

Silentgroper:
when she starts supporting the house, we theb can cone to an agreement on the stipulated time to always be at home in which she would possibly be an hour or two earlier.. But as long as I'm the one sorting every damn thing in that house, I only make the rules and it must be duly followed .. you break them, you go back to your father's house.. I don't tolerate indiscipline...

if she breaks to her father's house you go still go marry another woman again . Should we now agree that women are the PRICE? Abi you no fit go marry your fellow man? At least marry your fellow man so that you will stop bringing up stories that doesn't exist with your imaginary wife.

Sapasenator:
Coco is not ugly, a very beautiful and smart lady. Those lips are fire, omg!

don't mind him. Social media is a leveller na. Everybody na mate and on the same level for social media.

eTroll:
you're a very stupid and useless woman.
I really blame all those idiots giving you the undeserved attention.
Useless old age slowpoke with a bad character and nasty attitude.
You're even a lesbian sef and a dirty one at that.
Learn to keep your dirty mouth shut that is more stinking than your shit stained ass.
Useless ugly fool

fine clean woman living in a 1st world country. Even a blind man knows that she's a very beautiful and clean woman. You're just being pained and bitter because she air her view.

abba190:
why all of you ladies hate jobless and broke guys? always accusing us of everything. the majority of redpillers and women haters on nairaland are not broke and jobless. pls let us breath. a true jobless and broke ass guy dont have time for hating women. we r always thinking about the way out.

who told you that? I know some of them sir. Jobless while some are broke in their 40s. I am not mocking them in anyway but claiming majority aren't broke isa big fat lie. Without even knowing anyone in person sef you shall know them by their comments on here. Successful guys don't have the luxury of time bashing women. It's never possible. When you get money and doing fine for yourself you can't be bitter. They are two parallel lines of course. Na broke or joblessness dey make person bitter which every sane person understand that women aren't the cause of their brokenness or joblessness.

BobbieZion:
Accept your fault and move on....
You have your negative side too, so work on that.

The worst thing a Man can be is to be nice......
Never ever do that.
Don't ever go out of your way to please a coochie..... don't be naive.
I have been there before, I learnt my bitter lesson.

NB: Don't take advice from those b**ches.
The only woman you should love is your Mom.

go and marry your mother then small boy or marry your fellow man. Na by force to marry woman? Marry your fellow man nigga

ScotHarvath:
I don’t need your judgement, what you don’t understand is that is simple act of venting here has helped.

I’d rather vent here faceless than talk to family and friends about my issues.

only a fool will believe your super story. Invite your imaginary wife to come say her own.

Denko2721987:
Just carefully listen to the comments of the females on here giving every excuse for the woman's behaviour (even if we havent heard from the woman) which they wouldnt give if it was a woman who wrote same and then u will understand the utter hypocrisy and double standard of that gender which is strongly tied their hate for accountability. And if u check these females very well, you will find out its the bitter old and single ones who just hate men because them never see man wey carry them go alter mostly becos of their repulsive behaviour. But u cant get what u hate unfortunately.

truly we can say anything now until we hear from the other party. Anybody can come up with just anything to suit his/her self.

Medici777:
Take it from me, you’ll regret it in future if you don’t get rid of her. She prolly still needs you for now that’s why she’s still with you.

when he gets rid of her will he still run after another woman or marry his fellow man instead?

RavagedHeart:
If atavistic is all your summary from all I said. Then we all need to be more atavistic.

you go just meet yourself for jail. This is 21st century not 1850 o. Na your neighbour go even first lock you up before her family and friends bounce on you