₦airaland Forum

ttmax09:
Omoh be like the wife don show ooo

not is wife. I also told op same thing. He should allow teenagers and men wey never see food chop scatter his marriage. It is a common sense glaring from the comments

okerekingsley90:
Really are you married. All you just said is easier said than done

it's a cooked up stories. There's no smoke without fire. You can't be almost perfect and your wife hate you. Op should invite his wife let's hear her out biko

Silentgroper:
Right!!!

If reverse was the case, I bet this wouldn't have been the next thought on your head...

let's hear the other side of the story truly. Even in the court of law both parties air their views

Silentgroper:
Someone that cooks for his wife ..

How many naija man go do that one..

Yet she still doubts the goodness .. you see all of them are just looking for what to justify the wife's actions cause they'd do the same and feel no remorse abt it ..


Trust me. If was in the op shoes, one little disrespect, just one friggin one. [b]You're out to the streets [/b]and I won't fvcking look back ...

and you will still beg to marry another woman. Or will you marry your fellow man?

lendahand:
you are the one rather who I think is not married because what he wrote up there happens in 80% of Nigerian homes.

where is your fact to back up your stat please? Have you been to 90% household in Nigeria to have come up with such assumptions?

Pennilessword1:
This is what happens when SIMPS marry Nigerian women.

who did your father marry?

Chuksgeo:
It is very clear that you probably know this op, or better still you are a friend of the estranged wife if not the wife

a sensible man or sensible person don't judge based on one sided talk. We do invite the other party to hear her out. That is how it's been done even in the court of law

freshvine:
Op, imagine you're married to a lady like this. Simple conversation she'll curse your life out. If you beat her she's call you a beater. If you come online to complain her fellow women will seek for her side of the story. Give her opportunity to narrate what transpired in this conversation with you she'll wipe up emotions and sentiments.

Arguing with women is tantamount to foolhardy. They're wired to disrespect you all the time. Women hate men taking action to leave marriages, they enjoying the bragging rights of them leaving unions.

Cut her off emotionally like Yul Edochie and if she decides to leave, let her go but if she decides to let you be the head, continue.

Women are better game masrers in marriages, while men hustle, they tenaciously study the man. Beat her to her game.

listen to yourself and how you sound. You will beat your wife as per your toy or kid? How some of you guys think you can try shit with all women amazes me seriously.

If he divorce her will he also marry another woman? Why not consider marrying his fellow men instead? Why another woman?

Candreva:
A question for you is : Are you married? Your response sounds so much like that of someone is still being fed by their parents, plays ps5 all day and of cause has few mb of data to spew what you just typed up there.

lol

You shouldn't be surprised at what @Namaster typed. Obviously he's a bitter old clown. Nonetheless, op called for it so what do you expect?

Ebubu2:
Toxic woman.

This is how you talk to your father and husband at home. No wonder you’re showing your frustration and vile nature from home online

oga let op invite his wife to nairaland to hear her own side of story. We don't have anything to say until we hear from the other party. Very simple.

Amumaigwe:
Please search and follow these two ladies on Facebook. You will understand women better and how to gain advantage over them in a relationship.
Janefrances Ogbonna and Pearl Solution.

You can turn the tide in your marriage and gain upper hand in the marriage or dating game. Thank me later

some of you men dish out what you cannot take. If a woman advice her fellow woman to reach out to two men on Facebook to learn how to take advantage of their husbands. I hope you will be happy reading that from women right?

Silentgroper:
how's 10pm a late hour ...

Anything 11pm to me is late hour.. My wife can't be dictating the time I get home .. she isn't the one paying bills .. If she so wishes to have an say in issues like that, she can start taking up responsibilities of the family .. Only then would I take her serious...

you're not a wise man obviously. Any man that belives his wife cannot advise or call him to attention whenever is wrong is obviously not a wise man. If you think paying bills is eldorado then you're deceiving yourself. She's a woman. It won't take her much time to secure a job when she starts going out and she'd be supporting the house. If you come in 10pm, she can come in 11pm abi since she's contributing. Let's see what will become your family

ChybuzzDD:
I hate to hear ignorant kids like you talk like this about what they know nothing about.
You think women behave the same way in both friendships and marriage?

Why don't you wait till you're married so you can talk from experience?

I hate old cargo like you old in age but not in brain. He came to a faceless forum to paint his wife black and old man like you will obviously swallow it without hearing from the other party.

You can't be an alpha male for nothing so i understand you quite alright

hmohammed:
We will never vote for Obi, that one is for sure. Things will get better inshaallah

your forefathers had been praying e go better since 1960

You sef don join them

heniford2:
as she helps me too am I father crismax 😕 she has a hony pot and i have accommodation and food with clean and easy lifestyle for her is called friends with benefit

It's unfair. Nobody knows tomorrow o

ScotHarvath:
I don’t need your judgement, what you don’t understand is that is simple act of venting here has helped.

I’d rather vent here faceless than talk to family and friends about my issues.

you don't need my judgement but you brought your family matter to the public for bitter people to applaud you and teach you how to divorce or change towards your wife? Why then do you bring your wife matter to public forum if you don't want judgement? You sef reason am.

This is even much for 2k seriously. The country eh

ScotHarvath:
Tell me how I painted myself as Christ. Everything up there is the truth. How do you make someone your everything without express communication?

we don't judge without hearing from the other side. Even the dumbest person on planet earth don't judge without hearing from both parties. Invite your wife to this faceless forum to share her own views.

Jozilinn:
there's something you are not telling us, you sound too good said things like you're Christ,guy what are your bad flaws nobody is perfect,you think you too good for her, you feel like you are doing her a favour, do you allow communication in the marriage, your friends said you should take s dude chick imagine guy, do you feel your wife standard is beneath you like she wasn't your class,e get why ask your woman your fault nobody can hate anybody for a reason if she doesn't have a reason then you ask her to leave call your family,tell them you aren't interested but will be caring for your kids,then after an agreement... you maintain your self focus on your attitude,try to love yourself before anything another woman can come in a year because by then you probably would have figured out the issue exactly. Accept blames and learn to give room for communication, you no offend her but you hurriedly did the chores to please her so only you know wetin dey happen you understand .

don't mind him. He came to seek advice from teenagers, single guys or from bitter men that their only joy is to see men divorcing their wives on a faceless forum.

@scotHarvath I hope you get what you're looking for.

Women don suffer from an average naija man hand

Do you want us to tell you to divorce your wife or tell you to stop being a responsible man?

Or you want us wey never marry to make sure we treat our woman like slave? Or you want those responsible martied men to withdraw from being responsible?

Nawa for una o

heniford2:
so I should do what wait for tomorrow naw abi I just told u my condition to accept someone I never knew into my house

but you said you would help her na

DaddyRochie1642:

The mother manipulates the children to love her more than the father, know this and know peace.

I once heard a woman telling her friend about her daughter and she said and I quote
"That girl too love her father, I have done everything to make her to be coming close to me more than her father, the thing no dey work"

It's only a foolish clown of a man that will be expecting his children to love him more than their mother.

I don already condition my mind for such manipulations

Stop being emotional about this obvious truth, a Father's Love far supercedes a mother's love.

This is stale. I know that is what you'll come up with. It doesn't hold water. Love is a natural thing you don't manipulate or force it.

Did the holy quoran also manipulate God's word when he admonished children, telling them that their way to heaven is in the hands of their mother? Did it also manipulate God's words when he admonished the children to take care of their parents but went ahead to mention mother four good times before mentioning father only once? I guess they also manipulate God's words too

The second part makes me understand that you're either still a small boy growing or you probably don't know life. No matter how rich you're as a man, at old age you need your children. You need their support. You even need your grandchildren around also. Better don't let your bitterness towards women becloud you o. You go know how far for old age. These children treat their father how he treats their mother and how he treats them while growing. A man wey do anyhow while he was young go collect from his children's hands. That is pure fact. I fvcking love my mother like my life depends on it. Since i also know that the way you treat your wife and children while growing will determine how you will be treated at old age. I'm gonna love and care for my family (wife and kids) as my responsibility. To avoid being abandoned at old age. Nigeria is a 3rd world country unlike those developed countries that their government takes care of their older citizens. You're on your own as an aged parents. Your children are the ones to look after you and how you treat them and their mother while growing is how they will treat you at old age.

It's a known fact

Idadurun:
It's real. It affected a friend of mine

lie

Northernblood8:
Happy birthday but try and get married.

this one is stale. Say something else

heniford2:
I can allow you to stay with me you don't need to provide food or anything else but we will be having sex we i need it agreement 🤝 reach i will come and pick you up immediately

nobody knows tomorrow o. You may need op help tomorrow

Truthbites:
If u like owe....they deny visas for any reason

you be agent for those useless loan app. Nobody can get visa denial because of loan. Never!

Truthbites:
If u like owe....they deny visas for any reason

stop saying rubbish. Embassy have no business with your bvn

I hope this is coming from her personal money not the money meant for her constituency

DaddyRochie1642:
What are you saying, are you high?, A Father's Love far supercedes a mother's love, do you know and understand what sacrifice mean,

Go and watch and study your father and you will understand the deep meaning of that word called sacrifice, father's sacrifice their lives every fucking day to make sure his children and wife eat, it is the duty of the mother to support the father, it is the duty of the father to provide for his family,

I personally know a man with seven children, his wife is not working but this man provides and takes care of all seven children single handedly in this horrible economy,... If those children grow up and forget their father's sacrifice and duty to them in making them become somebody in life, I will personally fight those children on that man's behalf.


Always remember This, a Father's Love far supercedes a mother's love. You're wasting your time debating this, deep down inside you, you know I'm saying the truth.

That man working to provide for the family is little compare to the sacrifice the woman had paid bringing forth a life at the detriment of her own life. Some even lost their life in the process while some survived it. The fact that a child lived for at least minimum of 9 months in a woman's WOMB, risk her life bringing forth another life, lost blood and water, breastfeed a child for years, had sleepless night for years et al. All these are enough reason to love such a person more than anyone else on earth

ask yourself this simple question, if the father's love far supercedes that of the mother why then do children love their mother more than their father? Why? Or you want to deny that fact? Or you think the children don't know it's their father that provides for the family upkeep but still love their mother much more than their father. Have you ever imagined why?

ibechris:
Very possible.

BvN can be used to block all ur accounts and it can also be used to check ur loan liabilities as well.

is BVN part of the requirements needed

Jephyard:
Bro stop to dey cap. As if you didn't spend years in your father groin or system. You are being overly emotional.

Father is not important but once father died family scattered. You will raise your own family, you will understand better.

The input of fathers cannot be underestimated. No father need validation from its children to raise them. They don't need your appreciation to take you to the top. That is hard love bro. They don't even need anything from you.

Mothers are also important. All men life is about sacrifice so that his family could, irrespective of their health/risk. Hard love bro

nobody said father is not important. Both parents are important obviously but if you will be sincere with yourself children tend to love their mother more than their father. Some children even treat their father at old age base on how their father treat their mother while they were still young.

If we should back it up religiously, the holy quoran explitly state that the road to heaven of a child is in the hands of your mother. Same holy book also admonished the children to take care of their parents . Mother was mentioned 4 times before father was mentioned once.

Reason why i do laugh at some guys asking women what are they bringing to the table. They're bringing their life. They risk their life bringing forth another life. Some even lose their life in the process. It may be nothing to you but to me and some other men it is a whole lot.

HardMirror:
he is right. This is why our religious politicians dont repent. All you christains are like them. Imagine calling this young man a fool cos he did the right thing.

did i tell you he's wrong? I just dey greet the Mr Ronu emilokan online puppet happy salah