₦airaland Forum

AfonjaConehead:
Flokii what do you have to say,is this man Igbo?!

Yes, his Great grandfather is Igbo.😒

Just like Obasanjo's father is an Igbo Man. 😄😄.

Most of Tinubu/APC Supporters Mumu Sha.

etrange:
There's really no body or organization called Nigerian women. People have preferences and if Regina chose polygamy, it's makes sense for her fans to support or, at least, respect her choice (provided the lady before her is okay with it). They are consenting adults, who are you to tell then what to do with thier lives if they're not hurting anyone? This doesn't mean these ladies don't know what they want as individuals.

If you're paying attention, you'd see that critism arises only when it apparent the first wife doesn't approve the entrance of another woman into her home (that's why you don't see people criticizing that Oba that has many wives). That is because marrying a second wife after you have promised the first one exclusivity is a breach and should be considered fraudulent. A lady gives up a lot to build a home, you don't just bring in your lover at will. Polygamy is only good when all the parties involved explicitly give thier consent. Anything short of this is wickedness.

In my opinion, instead of not recognizing polygamy as in the Western world, African countries should introduce something in the marriage contract where both parties can indicate if they're open to polygamy or not. This will be a good starting point.

Very NICE suggestion.🙂👍

But @the Agreement/Discussion stage, Wahala go Dey o!😒

pendragonbladgo:
It must be in all ways. War is war. No nation that goes into war without the impact on her citizens.

That is why Regional power have sent peaceful memo for the Niger Forces to restore Freedom.

Instead they insulted Nigeria and our President. Nigeria Army will actually not take it likely with them if war is declare eventually.

They insulted Druggie Tinubu, plz.😏😕

They would NEVER do so against Obasanjo, Yaradua, Goodluck Jonathan or even a Peter Obi.

grandstar:
An invasion may be unwise. It will spread the military too thin. They are already quite stretched in the Northeast and in other parts of the country.

I feel Tunubu wants to send a message that coups in any form whatsoever are taboo. Coups in West Africa now seem be contagious just like presidents-for-life once were.

Again, once coup prone Nigeria might be next. All coupist have to say upon assuming office to gain legitimacy is to declare that petrol prices be reduced to 195/litre and there'll be jubilations everywhere.

Lol.. Even @N250, we go Happy ehn.😄😄

But I wonder how our Agbadorian goons go react.🤔

InvertedHammer:
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It is a bandwagon effect.

One person hates, the rest joins the chorus.

It then turns into an echo chamber.

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Hmmm, nice answer. ,👍👍

So once one Lady Likes a Particular Wife or Babymama,

the Rest join to make that person their Favourite. 🤔🙂

Badnews na Person name?

Goodlady:
Stop ranting. Let everyone face their choice.

But ur Gender does NOT allow Yul Edochie rest! 😒😕

They Criticized/Bash him always but Hail Regina Daniels and Annie Macaulay who are 3rd, 4th wives.

Even Sapphire says God will Punish Davido for having another Girlfriend after Chioma,
when Chioma is NOT even the First or 2nd BabyMama.

Biglittlelois:
What's funny to me is that guys on here are the ones answering questions that is meant for ladies, like their comments will make their warped narrative the ultimate truth, very funny to me.

If you Check the thread properly,

The Question (Topic) was made for MEN specifically! 😏

Orelafintun:
This is true only when money is not involved.
Women are now happy with polygamy if the man is wealthy and a spender. In fact, there is now polygamy in courtship. 😂😆😁

Kai! U too Sabi. 👍🙌🙌🙌

I have seen one Yahoo Guy dating/Fcvkking 4,5 Girls @the same time.

They know Eachother and DON'T complain @all.

Relationship and Marriage issues in Naija is something else!

Jovialjune1:
Only on nairaland you'd see so called guys crying on behalf of Nigerian women everyday, how exactly do you know what we secretly like and don't like? Are celebrities the basis to determine what all Nigerian women love? The fact that some tolerate cheating doesn't mean all of us will, an example is May.


Davido and Tuface had baby mamas before their wives married them, so they accepted it

Regina married a Muslim and a polygamous man and she is cool with it

May married Yul with no agreement of choosing the polygamous lifestyle, so he secretly cheated with Judy, a married woman with 2 kids, she divorced her own husband to become a proper side chick to Yul, she became pregnant and gave birth, that was when Yul decided to secretly pay bride price without his family and father knowing about it, he only came to spill the beans when gistlover threatened to spill it all, May knew of it all same as all of us, in public, Yul never wanted May to know anything, so how does Yul qualify as a polygamous man? She never accepted that lifestyle that's why she filed for divorce

With May's example, doesn't that tell you not all Nigerian women will accept that useless polygamous lifestyle?

Two Species of ur Fellow Gender, up there in the Thread also Endorse it! 😏

I mean Polygamy.😕

joelsky:
Obviously, Maryam Muhammad Kabir (may her soul rest in peace - she died December last year).

I can still remember how the incident happened. I was very shy (I bet nobody can ever be as shy as I was then) and could never approach any lady. I think I was the only one among my peers that wasn't with a girlfriend.

On that day, 16th October 2007, I was in company of my friends when she came along. I whispered to one of them (my friends), 'this girl is beautiful' and that was all. They carried this matter for head and went to bring her to meet me where I was (The shyness was so great I ran 200 metres away from them to avoid the inevitable embarrassment).

When I saw her I was lost and confused. I couldn't utter a word, she literally toasted me . I still don't understand why she decided to be friends with me. There was a gulf in class (she is from a wealthy family though a northern lady).

Even though I loved her, I knew nothing serious could happen due to the gulf in class and religious differences. But I seriously needed that eye-opening relationship. Didn't regret knowing her.

Maryam, may your soul rest in peace.

Wow, Quite Touching. 😌😔

OP,

Ur story is NOT well constructed.😒

Starting Tapping wine @Age 5 or 6 and selling it to make money.

Hope no be LIES you dey blow for here? 😏😕

Amarisco:
You’re really asking what is better between formal marriage rites and sexual indiscipline… 🙄

Hehehe.

So you don't know Having Multiple Wives is also Risky?😏

Unhealthy Rivalry/War between them can Destroy/Bring down a SUCCESSFUL man!

Osibanjo is an IPOB man.

Him Great Grand father na from Anambra. 😒

A Fight against Boko Haram is a Fight against the north- Muhammad Buhari.

Our Nigerian Army should Fight Only IPOB/ESN.😕😒

Amarisco:
This is the bottom line.

If you know polygamy is your way, then be real from the jump so the woman isn’t being tricked into falsehood.

And money or not, sleeping around like a dog isn’t the same as having multiple wedded children wives.

Let’s BFFR.

So Which is BETTER or WORSE? 🤔😒

Sweet Towtow no be by Fine Face. Know this and know peace. 😒🙂

EmiDon11:
almajiri, no include ijaws in ur mess.

U dey mind the Mumu? 😏😒

Dragging Ijaw into his Senseless Defence.🙁

Tinubu/APC supporters are responsible for the Tribalistic Mess that Nairaland is right now.

Their IgboPhobia knows no bounds!

Kudos to you, OP.👍👍

Wish all Young Niggas in this Naija can see this.

meobizy:
ROFLMAO.

This Suspected Gay man.

The story must Excite you definitely. 😏😒

Rebuke:
Are yhu schizophrenic? I mean, what's funny about this?

He is a MAD man!

I once had a friend like that. Laughing Foolishly in sensitive issues.😒

One day, he did same Rubbish. I gave him some REAL Blows on his Face. He gave me some too.

But his FOOLISH Habit stopped that day!

englishmart:
Waste of rape. Gaybriel

So it's okay to Rape the p*ssy, Abi? 😏😒

pansophist:
Women are individuals.

Some will not support polygamy, while some will. I also noticed that those that supports polygamy tends to be Muslims.

For example I've talked with lots of Gambian ladies, and they don't mind being the second, or third, or fourth wife, as far the marriage is in accordance with sharia law.

Polygamy is legal in Gambia, and even the present president is a polygamist. Also, Gambia is an islamic country. In northern Nigeria, polygamy is a norm.

But as a man, you will never be in shortage of women that will do defacto polygamy with you even in the USA, if you're very wealthy. Polygamy is not for the poor.

The 2 Nairaland Okpekes up there that supports Polygamy, NONE is a Muslim.

Regina Daniel and Annie Macaulay aren't Muslims, too. 😒

Yeah, of course.

In Primary 4.😕

Anytime she did NOT do her Homework, She will Take mine to Submit.

Then once the Teacher comes, I will Receive the Flogging, she supposed to Have! 🤦

IconicR:
Yul wey no get money mtcheww. Someone that his wife was the main breadwinner

Lolss, see ur LAME defence!

So, that's why you have Attacking YUL like a Crazed person, Everytime?

So, he can cheat ONLY when he is a Multi-millionaire?😏

So Billionaires having Plenty Wives is Allowed,
But for Average income Men, It is a CRIME, Abi?

Who even told you his Wife is the Breadwinner? 😕

See how SILLY you are sounding. 😒

IconicR:
No. See as he screenshot my comment

So You support POLYGAMY

and yet Yell like a Banshee on Every Yul Edochie thread

Such a Confused Lady! 😒🤦

OP
Are you NOT that Girl that always post stories about her Boss?,🤔

Maybe you have Given your Boss your Kpomor and he has DISCOVERED.

They criticize Davido, Whizkid, Tuface Idibia,etc and
Call them Irresponsible Men for Having Babymamas.😕😒

They have so Descended on YUL Edochie for Having a second wife.

But suddenly, you see them Hailing and Supporting Regina Daniel, Annie Macaulay and Chioma against FIRST and 2nd Women they met.

*ARE OUR NIGERIAN LADIES AGAINST POLYGAMY OR NOT?
*WHAT'S THEIR STAND, REALLY?😏☹️



Thanks!.

SpatialKing:
You won't see any of them m@stubate on thread..

They will avoid it like a virus

Bros, the Topic is not about Peter Obi or LP nah.

OP
My Landlord's daughter never liked washing
her Pants and Bras.

So one day, she invited me to their Bathroom to help her do her laundry,

Thereafter, She now help do 'Laundry' to my now VERY erect Gbola! 😊

IconicR:
Concubine was addressed as ant infested shior. The Umuoji bag of beans is busy acting devilish drama with his stupid sidecock while his supposed father-in-law is addressing her as ant infested firewood shior. I'm glad He addressed May as a very good woman, the ndi you don't know what Yul is passing through can now rest, isn't it obvious that Yul just took advantage of his wife's good heart and calmness for granted but some co-adulteres still want to push a narrative.

Iyaebe, go Find Husband o!😏😕

Carrying Others matter for head.

Very soon, Yul 17yr Daughter go First you Marry and Yul will be a Grandfather,

While you continue to Bash him Here on Nairaland. 😒