Jovialjune1:
Only on nairaland you'd see so called guys crying on behalf of Nigerian women everyday, how exactly do you know what we secretly like and don't like? Are celebrities the basis to determine what all Nigerian women love? The fact that some tolerate cheating doesn't mean all of us will, an example is May.


Davido and Tuface had baby mamas before their wives married them, so they accepted it

Regina married a Muslim and a polygamous man and she is cool with it

May married Yul with no agreement of choosing the polygamous lifestyle, so he secretly cheated with Judy, a married woman with 2 kids, she divorced her own husband to become a proper side chick to Yul, she became pregnant and gave birth, that was when Yul decided to secretly pay bride price without his family and father knowing about it, he only came to spill the beans when gistlover threatened to spill it all, May knew of it all same as all of us, in public, Yul never wanted May to know anything, so how does Yul qualify as a polygamous man? She never accepted that lifestyle that's why she filed for divorce

With May's example, doesn't that tell you not all Nigerian women will accept that useless polygamous lifestyle?

Jovialjune1:
Only on nairaland you'd see so called guys crying on behalf of Nigerian women everyday, how exactly do you know what we secretly like and don't like? Are celebrities the basis to determine what all Nigerian women love? The fact that some tolerate cheating doesn't mean all of us will, an example is May.


Davido and Tuface had baby mamas before their wives married them, so they accepted it

Regina married a Muslim and a polygamous man and she is cool with it

May married Yul with no agreement of choosing the polygamous lifestyle, so he secretly cheated with Judy, a married woman with 2 kids, she divorced her own husband to become a proper side chick to Yul, she became pregnant and gave birth, that was when Yul decided to secretly pay bride price without his family and father knowing about it, he only came to spill the beans when gistlover threatened to spill it all, May knew of it all same as all of us, in public, Yul never wanted May to know anything, so how does Yul qualify as a polygamous man? She never accepted that lifestyle that's why she filed for divorce

With May's example, doesn't that tell you not all Nigerian women will accept that useless polygamous lifestyle?

Orelafintun:

This is true only when money is not involved.
Women are now happy with polygamy if the man is wealthy and a spender. In fact, there is now polygamy in courtship. 😂😆😁

VinnyBaba:
They criticize Davido, Whizkid, Tuface Idibia,etc and
Call them Irresponsible Men for Having Babymamas.😕😒

They have so Descended on YUL Edochie for Having a second wife.

But suddenly, you see them Hailing and Supporting Regina Daniel, Annie Macaulay and Chioma against FIRST and 2nd Women they met.

*ARE OUR NIGERIAN LADIES AGAINST POLYGAMY OR NOT?
*WHAT'S THEIR STAND, REALLY?😏☹️



Thanks!.

Biglittlelois:
What's funny to me is that guys on here are the ones answering questions that is meant for ladies, like their comments will make their warped narrative the ultimate truth, very funny to me.

talented321:
Oga if u are doing well women wouldn't mind been your 10th wife'' all the nonsense you see online are initial gra gra.
Davido cheat with different oloshos yet chioma is still obedient'' and alots more'' nothing come out from women just get small rbs and you will control all the girl in ur street and outside'' u will see girls dying to have u everyday''
'''from experience''

VinnyBaba:


If you Check the thread properly,

The Question (Topic) was made for MEN specifically! 😏

Goodlady:

Stop ranting. Let everyone face their choice.

VinnyBaba:
They criticize Davido, Whizkid, Tuface Idibia,etc and
Call them Irresponsible Men for Having Babymamas.😕😒

They have so Descended on YUL Edochie for Having a second wife.

But suddenly, you see them Hailing and Supporting Regina Daniel, Annie Macaulay and Chioma against FIRST and 2nd Women they met.

*ARE OUR NIGERIAN LADIES AGAINST POLYGAMY OR NOT?
*WHAT'S THEIR STAND, REALLY?😏☹️



Thanks!.

Fiscus105:
Im afraid the way teenage girls and young ladies running after Married men these days, I think parents and religion houses should rise up in doing orientation.


Gone are the days as near as late 90s that young girls see married men as plagues, but now they are the one pushing them to Married men.

Indeed life is dynamic

drlateef:




Married men mostly have the means to take care of a second wife if they are looking for it. But single men are most broke and NFAs😂😂😂

VinnyBaba:


Two Species of ur Fellow Gender, up there in the Thread also Endorse it! 😏

I mean Polygamy.😕

pansophist:
Women are individuals.

Some will not support polygamy, while some will. I also noticed that those that supports polygamy tends to be Muslims.

For example I've talked with lots of Gambian ladies, and they don't mind being the second, or third, or fourth wife, as far the marriage is in accordance with sharia law.

Polygamy is legal in Gambia, and even the present president is a polygamist. Also, Gambia is an islamic country. In northern Nigeria, polygamy is a norm.

But as a man, you will never be in shortage of women that will do defacto polygamy with you even in the USA, if you're very wealthy. Polygamy is not for the poor.

Thomasankara:
[/color]is it May that rejected Yul or Yul rejected her,for all I know Yul treated her with disdain and less attention,and placed the other lady as priority over her, if Yul is interested in her and reach armistice with her to share the matrimonial bed and take responsibility of her and the children,it is constant that she will come back[color=#770077]

oluwaseyi0:
they are only against poor man polygamy ...which I understand. You can't be polygamous when the wife is paying almost 50% of the house rent


they also feel cheated/used if they are the first wife especially if the man didn't marry the second wife early
e.g marrying 2nd wife after over 20 years of marrying the first wife like case of Yul, if you want to be polygamous the only right time to marry 2nd wife is 1 or max 2 years after marrying the first, better still marry them together

all in all can someone tell me the benefit of polygamy on the children

eazzzy1:
Women criticize polygamy till they find themselves in that position. Even Judy may have in the past criticized polygamy and May may end up knowingly sleeping with a married man.

Women become philosophers when they find themselves in that position. She will say things like “my happiness is all that matters” “if he’s cheating then there’s something wrong with their marriage anyways” “if it isn’t with me it would be with someone else”. “I’m not sure what the future holds but I’m happy right now”.

Who else would have married Judy? A never been married guy? Or you think Judy wants to chase after a 25years old guy who will bang today and not call till 5 weeks time.

thatigboman:
Yes o, even the Muslim ladies. They detest polygamy like mad

InvertedHammer:

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It is a bandwagon effect.

One person hates, the rest joins the chorus.

It then turns into an echo chamber.

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talented321:
Oga if u are doing well women wouldn't mind been your 10th wife'' all the nonsense you see online are initial gra gra.
Davido cheat with different oloshos yet chioma is still obedient'' and alots more'' nothing come out from women just get small rbs and you will control all the girl in ur street and outside'' u will see girls dying to have u everyday''
'''from experience''

IconicR:
Yul wey no get money mtcheww. Someone that his wife was the main breadwinner

IconicR:
No. See as he screenshot my comment

etrange:
There's really no body or organization called Nigerian women. People have preferences and if Regina chose polygamy, it's makes sense for her fans to support or, at least, respect her choice (provided the lady before her is okay with it). They are consenting adults, who are you to tell then what to do with thier lives if they're not hurting anyone? This doesn't mean these ladies don't know what they want as individuals.

If you're paying attention, you'd see that critism arises only when it apparent the first wife doesn't approve the entrance of another woman into her home (that's why you don't see people criticizing that Oba that has many wives). That is because marrying a second wife after you have promised the first one exclusivity is a breach and should be considered fraudulent. A lady gives up a lot to build a home, you don't just bring in your lover at will. Polygamy is only good when all the parties involved explicitly give thier consent. Anything short of this is wickedness.

In my opinion, instead of not recognizing polygamy as in the Western world, African countries should introduce something in the marriage contract where both parties can indicate if they're open to polygamy or not. This will be a good starting point.

highchief1:
same experience.I can’t remember the last time a woman said NO to me.How?