They criticize Davido, Whizkid, Tuface Idibia,etc and
Call them Irresponsible Men for Having Babymamas.😕😒

They have so Descended on YUL Edochie for Having a second wife.

But suddenly, you see them Hailing and Supporting Regina Daniel, Annie Macaulay and Chioma against FIRST and 2nd Women they met.

*ARE OUR NIGERIAN LADIES AGAINST POLYGAMY OR NOT?
*WHAT'S THEIR STAND, REALLY?😏☹️



Thanks!.

No. See as he screenshot my comment

Oga if u are doing well women wouldn't mind been your 10th wife'' all the nonsense you see online are initial gra gra.
Davido cheat with different oloshos yet chioma is still obedient'' and alots more'' nothing come out from women just get small rbs and you will control all the girl in ur street and outside'' u will see girls dying to have u everyday''
'''from experience''

IconicR:
No. See as he screenshot my comment

So You support POLYGAMY

and yet Yell like a Banshee on Every Yul Edochie thread

Such a Confused Lady! 😒🤦

VinnyBaba:


So You support POLYGAMY

and yet Yell like a Banshee on Every Yul Edochie thread

Such a Confused Lady! 😒🤦

Yul wey no get money mtcheww. Someone that his wife was the main breadwinner

IconicR:
Yul wey no get money mtcheww. Someone that his wife was the main breadwinner

Lolss, see ur LAME defence!

So, that's why you have Attacking YUL like a Crazed person, Everytime?

So, he can cheat ONLY when he is a Multi-millionaire?😏

So Billionaires having Plenty Wives is Allowed,
But for Average income Men, It is a CRIME, Abi?

Who even told you his Wife is the Breadwinner? 😕

See how SILLY you are sounding. 😒

Women are individuals.

Some will not support polygamy, while some will. I also noticed that those that supports polygamy tends to be Muslims.

For example I've talked with lots of Gambian ladies, and they don't mind being the second, or third, or fourth wife, as far the marriage is in accordance with sharia law.

Polygamy is legal in Gambia, and even the present president is a polygamist. Also, Gambia is an islamic country. In northern Nigeria, polygamy is a norm.

But as a man, you will never be in shortage of women that will do defacto polygamy with you even in the USA, if you're very wealthy. Polygamy is not for the poor.

Nigerian women worship money. As long as you have lots and lots of it, they won't mind being your 20th wife.

Most of them attacking 2face, would happily spread their legs for him if the opportunity presents itself not minding that he's a married man, but would attack and blame him for sleeping with other women.

I saw a post on a popular Facebook group I belong to where someone asked "would you prefer a wealthy womanizer or a faithful broke husband". I was shocked when more than 90% of the replies from the females said they would go for the wealthy womanizer. That what do they want with a broke faithful husband. Who faithfulness help.

Our girls are just hypocrites that's all. They crucify married men for womanizing, but would openly agree to marry a womanizer provided he's financially loaded. Thus encouraging him to continue womanizing.

To your question Nigerian women are not against polygamy, they're infact the major facilitators of polygamy.

Women say one thing and mean another.

Know this and stop worrying yourself unnecessarily over what they say.

Watch her action, that is what reveals her true nature.

pansophist:
Women are individuals.

Some will not support polygamy, while some will. I also noticed that those that supports polygamy tends to be Muslims.

For example I've talked with lots of Gambian ladies, and they don't mind being the second, or third, or fourth wife, as far the marriage is in accordance with sharia law.

Polygamy is legal in Gambia, and even the present president is a polygamist. Also, Gambia is an islamic country. In northern Nigeria, polygamy is a norm.

But as a man, you will never be in shortage of women that will do defacto polygamy with you even in the USA, if you're very wealthy. Polygamy is not for the poor.

The 2 Nairaland Okpekes up there that supports Polygamy, NONE is a Muslim.

Regina Daniel and Annie Macaulay aren't Muslims, too. 😒

There are many women that are up for polygamy especially Muslim women.

Nigerian men need to be honest about their intentions from the beginning. The same way you want women to be honest about their past.

1Sharon:

Nigerian men need to be honest about their intentions from the beginning.

This is the bottom line.

If you know polygamy is your way, then be real from the jump so the woman isn’t being tricked into falsehood.

And money or not, sleeping around like a dog isn’t the same as having multiple wedded wives*.

Let’s BFFR.

Nazgul:
Nigerian women worship money. As long as you have lots and lots of it, they won't mind being your 20th wife.

Most of them attacking 2face, would happily spread their legs for him if the opportunity presents itself not minding that he's a married man, but would attack and blame him for sleeping with other women.

I saw a post on a popular Facebook group I belong to where someone asked "would you prefer a wealthy womanizer or a faithful broke husband". I was shocked when more than 90% of the replies from the females said they would go for the wealthy womanizer. That what do they want with a broke faithful husband. Who faithfulness help.

Our girls are just hypocrites that's all. They crucify married men for womanizing, but would openly agree to marry a womanizer provided he's financially loaded. Thus encouraging him to continue womanizing.

To your question Nigerian women are not against polygamy, they're infact the major facilitators of polygamy.

At the bolded.... Poverty is tiring bro and many are ready to pay the price to get out of it

Amarisco:


This is the bottom line.

If you know polygamy is your way, then be real from the jump so the woman isn’t being tricked into falsehood.

And money or not, sleeping around like a dog isn’t the same as having multiple wedded children wives.

Let’s BFFR.

So Which is BETTER or WORSE? 🤔😒

VinnyBaba:


So Which is BETTER or WORSE? 🤔😒

You’re really asking what is better between formal marriage rites and sexual indiscipline… 🙄

Amarisco:


You’re really asking what is better between formal marriage rites and sexual indiscipline… 🙄

Hehehe.

So you don't know Having Multiple Wives is also Risky?😏

Unhealthy Rivalry/War between them can Destroy/Bring down a SUCCESSFUL man!

Women criticize polygamy till they find themselves in that position. Even Judy may have in the past criticized polygamy and May may end up knowingly sleeping with a married man.

Women become philosophers when they find themselves in that position. She will say things like “my happiness is all that matters” “if he’s cheating then there’s something wrong with their marriage anyways” “if it isn’t with me it would be with someone else”. “I’m not sure what the future holds but I’m happy right now”.

Who else would have married Judy? A never been married guy? Or you think Judy wants to chase after a 25years old guy who will bang today and not call till 5 weeks time.

We all know that some laws are only applicable to the poor.......While the narrative changes when it's a wealthy man that's involved........

Watching inter-gender dynamics podcast like Fresh&Fit, whatever & access Vegas which interview women from different countries,

shows clearly that majority of women are wired to accept polygamy either by formal marriage in countries it is allowed or having multiple mistresses as long as the man is capable to pay their bills.

Heck, even the Mormons in USA practice polygamy

Damnnn niggar

They are not against it

When they are good in bringing friends for threesomee

No they are not... so long as you have $$$$$ they are not bothered

No, they are not. They are only against it when it involves a poor man. Ned and Ooni are testaments to the fact.

Im afraid the way teenage girls and young ladies running after Married men these days, I think parents and religion houses should rise up in doing orientation.


Gone were the days as near as late 90s that young girls see married men as plagues, but now, they are the one pushing them to Married men.

Indeed life is dynamic

Your question is incomplete

Find a space and attached money to your question

Polygamy with a loaded man or with a broke ass man ?

they are only against poor man polygamy ...which I understand. You can't be polygamous when the wife is paying almost 50% of the house rent


they also feel cheated/used if they are the first wife especially if the man didn't marry the second wife early
e.g marrying 2nd wife after over 20 years of marrying the first wife like case of Yul, if you want to be polygamous the only right time to marry 2nd wife is 1 or max 2 years after marrying the first, better still marry them together

all in all can someone tell me the benefit of polygamy on the children

Only on nairaland you'd see so called guys crying on behalf of Nigerian women everyday, how exactly do you know what we secretly like and don't like? Are celebrities the basis to determine what all Nigerian women love? The fact that some tolerate cheating doesn't mean all of us will, an example is May.


Davido and Tuface had baby mamas before their wives married them, so they accepted it

Regina married a Muslim and a polygamous man and she is cool with it

May married Yul with no agreement of choosing the polygamous lifestyle, so he secretly cheated with Judy, a married woman with 2 kids, she divorced her own husband to become a proper side chick to Yul, she became pregnant and gave birth, that was when Yul decided to secretly pay bride price without his family and father knowing about it, he only came to spill the beans when gistlover threatened to spill it all, May knew of it all same as all of us, in public, Yul never wanted May to know anything, so how does Yul qualify as a polygamous man? She never accepted that lifestyle that's why she filed for divorce

With May's example, doesn't that tell you not all Nigerian women will accept that useless polygamous lifestyle?

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hmm

Hunger dey everywhere like this

so I no blame them if them decided to marry whomever they want.

e no pass like that

Just have enough money ..