NewSheriff:
And what point are you trying to make @emboldened?

Marriage is not compulsory. No one would die because he/she is single so stop making single people feel worthless! Thats my point. If you read well, you'd see it right below the emboldened

yall:
for sure i know nairaland is a forum thats typical nigerian; different from other worldwide forums cause virtually everything here is about nigeria. It doesnt amaze me how these white girls come here, it amazes me how quickly they adapt to nigerian 'social network culture'. I cant keep quite, i spot u guys. Haha!

I don't understand. What does my credit card bill have to do with white or black?

foxgiovani:
You are not talking like somebody who is enjoying your marriage, my apologies please if my comment sounds deregatory. My point is marriage is suppose to be blissful & everyone (man & woman) would like to be in it. For somebody to sound like you are doing sends a negative signal about your marriage.

That's your opinion. You are entitled to it.

Marriage is optional. Premarital sex is fun and bliss that doesn't mean everyone must indulge in it. Clubbing is fun and bliss that doesn't mean everyone must visit clubs same way marriage is fun and bliss but that doesn't mean everyone must be married. Again #ThinkBetter

Besides my marriage is really cool. You don't get to talk about it. It's non of your business

Hmmm

RoyalBlak007:
Only

that?

Yup. It is the most annoying bill

They allow you spend as much money as you want. Buy as much as you want and when you least expect it.. they come for their money. Wicked banks

Credit Card Bill

Obinovictor:


Then same thing you have done, is doing and will do for your mother. If only your mum thought about it this way, you won't be on Nairaland today

You know I didn't ask my mother to give birth to me so be mature and leave my mother out of this.

AfricanApple:
okay o, madam oyinbo. I won't even answer because every woman knows the answer to that. I wish you good luck on your spinsterhood

I'm married. You see you guys should think outside the box. It helps alot.

Someone supporting wearing of hijab is not necessarily a Muslim same way a person saying marriage is optional is not necessarily single. #ThinkBetter

KingCheezyPuff:
Vinshu track my convestation with him for my pre responses to you.
An please don't quote me again on this issue.
.....thank you

I'd quote you because you are supporting someone that insulted Asians because you are African. Later they will say we are the racists. He called him daft and no word from you instead you quote the Asian first who is defending himself.

Bullsh!t

KingCheezyPuff:
°•Why do you do this
....Later you'll clam you didn't.

Ask the person who called him daft that question first.

AfricanApple:
its not a death sentence, yeah! but no woman would wany to be a spinster for life especially one without a child

Really? No Nigerian woman I guess. Because I don't see anything special about a child. What is a child going to do for you? That is special?

RoyalBlak007:
Sorry for intruding...am not also a religion freak..but what's ur take on life?

what do you believe in...evolution? A God sumwher.? Magic?...or yu might wanna tell me..Thanks

I believe in science. Something I can see with my two eyes and can be proven scientifically. I don't believe there is a God. Neither do I believe in magic as every magic trick has a scientific explanation.

Life,Family,Friends,Money,Food,Sex.

Sorry I don't do religion.

No.

It's absurd. The age should be the same or slightly above not below. It's weird and what's with this

'.... Or remain single' phrase that you guys always spew?

like spinsterhood is some kind of death sentence or disease. Marriage is optional

nicerod:
i don kom bak iyalaya e

Mynd44. Rule 2

nathz45:
SMH for you

Ok

Yes.

domwas2:


Why can't she tell me while we having conversation on phone, we talking on phone the next thing I heard is
"pls go to ur WhatsApp I'd send u a message"
What I don't understand is there something behind such attitude?

Please shut up. There isn't anything wrong in a text message. Stop the chauvinistic attitude. She prefer to send a text, if you are not willing to respond to her then you don't! Not making an issue out of nothing. You ain't the only guy around

You are JUST a boyfriend. Hope you understand?

obiorathesubtle:
ermm.. I don't know how to explain this thing to you...


If you were born into a yoruba Nigerian family(80s or 90s).. You'd understand..

Are you speaking for yourself or the op? And how do you know where the op is coming from?

Forgiveness is a sign of weakness. It's pathetic.

She should not forgive neither should she forget as only a fool forgets.

obiorathesubtle:
you're probably not Nigerian..


His point is.. Texting him for her needs is informal and disrespectful.. If you're black(preferably yoruba Nigerian), you'd understand..

So it's all about respect? What an ego.

Respect over the phone as well? I thought they were dating. He is not her dad. He is a potential boyfriend so what's with the respect? Gosh

Is there anything wrong in a text message? Are you getting paid when she calls you on the phone to make request? What difference does it make? Smh

She is probably shy to ask over the phone via voice call. It's normal. That's why she sends a text instead.

Not all african men like it big. Some like the opposite. And I think the reason why it appears african men love women with big qualities, is because 80% of african women are curvy, fat, big boobz, big everything so it's like the African men have no other option. And as such, it has become part of them and now they think they love it and even think they have reasons meanwhile the only reason is because that's how majority of their women are.

In Europe, most ladies with big 'stuff' don't get a cute guy. They get the guy with the pot belly, and slubby cheeks because most 'cute' ladies in Europe are slim with smaller 'stuff' compared to the African women. So the European men have taken it as it is same way the African men have taken it as it is.

vizkiz:


bad market for nairalanders who are on high hopes

OK, so back to the question. Would you have married him if he was a serial killer?

No.

vizkiz:


oh, you are married?

Yes.

vizkiz:


Same thing I typed previously but even if he/she is a pretender or not you still have to check that out...
YOU are telling me you can hangout with a serial killer hoping he is just pretending to be and might probably become a good boy when you guys get hooked?

I'm already 'hooked'

Strahovski1:


I'm starting to like your style. Make no mistake your attitude and feminism isn't a good thing but hell, I just like your style.

Cool

vizkiz:



Any other thing like character is not needed? seriously

It isn't. Anyone can pretend and after the marriage ceremony they become something else.

The only thing you need to know is :

- Net Worth

- Source of income

- Redundancy

- Level of education

Anyother thing is not needed when the above are checked and balanced

firstking01:
Some questions are rather absurd and better analyzed before answering

It's a simple question. Unless you don't have the answer

olac21:


You need to stop this sh1t you're into..calling the mods everytime as if that's where your life revolves..its a pity though..the height of joblessness!

If I'm jobless then i think we are both on the same boat.

You are on nairaland stalking me, quoting all my posts even those not directed at you. I guess you are even more jobless