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Shut your dirty mouth op and delete this useless thread.



You must be a broke man. You will not work and invest your money. You will use up your salary like those handy men on girls and get broke then come to lament on nairaland.

Nonsense

kaycodes:
Young lady it's called a relationship for a reason.

If it's wrong for the lady to take care of her man, then you have a warped sense of what love and care means.

Don't deceive yourself and other gullible teens here, a relationship is not a business opportunity, both partners have an equal duty to care for each other in whatever capacity they feel comfortable with.

What I don't encourage or never will is gold digging irrespective of which gender is doing the digging. Anyways we all know which gender prefers digging to working for it in Nigeria, pun intended.

ronald4lif:
I'd expected you to rise above pettiness and come up with a robust averment to affirm your point and not this drivel. Only unsound minds and those who lack the mental shrewdness to engage in intellectual jostling cite the bible or any sectarianism doctrine as a basis for any argument.

Natural order, job of her man bla bla bla. You have not been able to provide a logical a priori antithesis nor table these 'jobs' of a man. You've only succeeded in exposing yourself as a pseudo feminist who only champion the cause when it's convenience to them.

Here you are discouraging women taking up financial resoonsibility and offering gifts to their man but shamelessly encouraging receiving gifts whilst tacitly fueling the culture of women sponging on a man. Hypocrite.

Not that I'm surprised though, online rodents of your ilks feminism clatter has always been a farce to sound minds.

ronald4lif:
In an egalitarian climate of which you pride yourself as an advocate of that course, financial responsibility isn't balked to one gender. It's a 50/50 responsibility and to employ nature as a factor to abdicate one's individual's financial responsibility is laughable.

Same nature you pseudo feminists employ when it suites you has it that women are 'naturally' astute in culinary duties, chores and nursing of babies but feminist has rubbished that orthodox tradition and aim to enforce that men should cook, perform house chores and change diapers while also feeding babies. Equality without equal responsibility is no equality.

Btw, what study has established that it's natural for a man to take care of a woman's financial needs? Please highlight it let's scrutinise them.

Drefan2:
Being a two-faced has never helped anyone.

darkenedrebel:
This has not a modicum of sense in it. He is only a boyfriend and she is merely a girlfriend. They are not even courting or planning to get married.

Besides, who mandated that males do not deserve to be loved or aren't meritorious of entreaties in a relationship?. Is there any injunction, written or unwritten that states that relationships are a one-way traffic? (i.e) only the male is expected to give and should not expect to receive.
You don't sound intelligent at all.

ronald4lif:
Is it also wrong to give a girlfriend money?

It is wrong.

However, if your heart wants to, fine.

Don't mention me or quote this comment

oshaosha2014:
AS NO ONE CAN DO ANYTHING TO ME IF I DO.

This one go do, over do, e go even did. Na their mindset be this.

damiosy:
A wise elderly man once told me " the more gifts a lady collects the wider her legs are spread"




Let's be realistic in this economic situation very few men would give without expecting something in return



Vinshu I respect your opinion or way of life but please and please respect our culture



Honestly are you saying none of these men you collect from have asked for something in return?

Audray:
Erm...what the hell is happening right now

iPrevail:
Vinshu... Your handle sounds magical or medieval. But I think I love it. Care to share it's meaning?

100Cents:
So you are a dumping ground for expired goods ?

See how confident you are to state that you receive items from a wide variety of people.

Some people have no shame. Sorry..

pbs4real:
u need cane.

AyamBlaze:
What kinda real mother would be in support of her child practicing same sex relationship? You, Vinshu, KashyBaby and the lot of u saying you'll support the child need serious whipping

Sacluxpaint:
You are not the 1st to try this, very soon you might wanna collect a lil peck, a lil smooch and before you know it.. when you meet a charmer, you will know how far.

pulsa:
Why are you contradicting yourself?,
were you not the one that once advocated cheating for ladies.

HajimeSaito:
I'm just curious. Do you practice Romuva?

Equalizer:
One good thing about Nairaland is that it's a faceless forum because I can't see the reason why a married woman that has respect her marriage will come out in the public and be saying most things I've just read here now.. Marriage is sacred and we should learn to respect that.. Let your family affair remain within the tentacles of your home.. I've spoken my mind..

Sacluxpaint:
You are playing with fire...

jesussaves22:
Your husband name is sorry you hear? My condolences to him because he has failed woefully. Tell him that I said sorry you hear?

CarlyX8:
not bad, but nothing is free even in Freetown, people don't give things away just for nothing,, just know that a day will come when someone might want something back.... whether sincere or not your already tied to that person, and you must give something back, who knows what it might be.....