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firstking01:
your previous threads and coments has been tending to support ladies not to marry or date broke guys, tho i dnt support it when a man is lazy, but when the man is willing to upgrade himself, why cnt you marry him??

"Willingness" is not certainty. He is willing doesn't mean it might work. So until he has done it and it worked. Thats what matters. Not his willingness to do it.

firstking01:
for your info i ain't poor...@least even as a student i still carter for myself independently

Good for you. But what gave you the right to label me as a gold digger ?

firstking01:
you are a selfish golddigger...and you expect a rich man to come marry you if you were the unfotrtunate one to live there ba?...you are a golddigger ma.

I'm not selfish. I'm rich. Infact, my total assets are even more than my credit threshold. I don't know why you broke Nigerian men think that any lady that is against poverty is a gold digger. I'm against it coz I'm working for my riches. My riches and my children's riches. Not for one man. So if the man cannot work as I work. Then he can rot in hell.

I know the insult I just got from my colleague at work moments ago. One man will tell me to settle down with some poor nigga when my money comes. I'll pass.

For your info, I'm married.

Dygeasy:
Bia, how much money do you have?

Can you transfer the "rich" disease to him instead?

Yes I have alot of money. My credit rating is 9.8 on a banking scale of 10. See that? I'm not broke. I work my ass everyday Monday - Saturday and I rest on Sunday. Work begins Monday again. So if I can do that. Why can't he?

Never! That's poverty. And it's a communicable disease.

whogoscam:
Thanks fr your contribution. Very educative.

You are from lithuania so you are white. Haven't you observed the remaining imbalances?

I'm actually from Ukraine not Lithuania. I only reside and work here. However I dont regard these as "imbalances". I believe nature made everyone equal. It's the people who choose to live life the way they want.

Evolution is one. The black women choose to be housewives and not evolve like the white did. It's now they are starting to. You can't blame nature. Everyone's brain is the same from.birth. so that neurologist of yours is a fake.

Same goes with the feminine stuff you mentioned. They choose to be like that. They choose to be tough. Whites choose to be weak cindarellas. You can't blame nature also. They choose to be big in size by eating big food and not working out, whites choose to be small and tiny. You cannot blame nature.

Sir, nature did a great job. Humans destroyed it.

Hmm. Let me correct some things.


- The blue eyes only occurs in extreme cold such as winter. Some are grey(Mine is grey during extreme heat). And only a few people have this naturally. Majority are fake.

- The white hair cannot go in water without extreme work to dry it, shampoo, comb and set back. Which is same thing a black woman would do. So both can go in water but most black women dont have that time so they avoid it like it cannot. Hollywood has influence your points.

- White is not so appealing. It appears to be because 60% of the world is white. Whether you divide it into Indians, Pakistan, Arab, bla bla. .white skin is white skin. So 60% of the world having that same skin make it look like it's everyone favorite.

- Voice is gene specific not color or race. Have you heard my voice? You need to.

I'm not supporting any race buh it's not what you think. I don't find any beauty in skin black or white. Beauty is in face and shape not color.

Men are not designed to cook. Men are supposed to be on the field that brings the materials for the woman to cook.

So this is BS

Rubbish

It's the guy.

Besides I really like her legs.

Yes it's ok.

You two can be friends with benefit

Errrmmm. ..op if she did nothing then why? I won't help you.

But if you just want to hurt her for the fun of It. It's bad you should go to prison. Sadist.

BoiledHead:


I lost my job then because of that. And because i lost my job I couldn't pay my rent. Because I couldn't pay my rent, I was kicked out of my house. Because I was kicked out, I started squatting with friends around before things started moving again in my life.

So yeah that 5 years is still affecting me till now. So I'll pass on forgiveness.

Vinshu was right.

That's the spirit!

Dont listen to these people especially these women. They are the type who stay in marriage even if their hubby turns them into a punching bag. They ain't got no balls

You must have your revenge. Whoever hurt you must feel the pain that you felt. Whether it's 5 or 10 years. Revenge must be accomplished. Even I am still calculating and preparing my revenge plan for a lady about 3 years ago. Waiting for the right moment.

There is no such thing as 'Feelings' or 'Love'. Love is fake. The earlier you realize the better so you won't be disappointed later.

stubbornman:
are you for real

Yeah

Apina:
Seriously!!! Which coven do you belong to?

None.

Now the say "Forgive and Forget ". That phrase is a fraudulent phrase. A fable! It doesn't exist. And it won't do any good to your relationship. The reason why many relationship end in heartbreak is because partners forgive them self. Wait I will explain why forgiveness brings issues.

Forgiveness, is designed for weak people! If your partner offend you (Male or Female), you shouldn't forgive that partner because that partner who did that wrong thing to you is capable of doing it again. For example, "cheating". Although, I don't view cheating as offensive but most people do so let me pretend it's offensive today. If your partner cheats on you... Ladies and gentlemen NEVER FORGIVE THAT PARTNER OR FORGET.

Once a cheat, always a cheat...
Once a liar, always a liar...

Whatever it is that your spouse or significant other might have done, ensure you enact your revenge so the partner would come to his or her senses that it's indeed wrong and you are ready to strike back.


- Your partner will take you for a push over. Like "Afterall, he will forgive me.. let me cry and kneel down. I can do it again". That's the idea that will run through the mind of your partner after you forgive the first time. So there shouldn't be a first time.

- Only a fool will forget. If you forget, what ever wrong thing your partner did even if it's so bad it lead to break up, your next partner will do it because you have forgotten.

- Forgiveness isn't for humans: Humans are not supposed to forgive. Why can't the court of law forgive me for disobeying the traffic light? Why fine me €15? So I won't do it again. If the court forgave me, I or other drivers who ignore traffic will do it again. Same goes in relationship, if you forgive partner repeats.. so don't.

- You must revenge! Yes Christians say Spare the rod and spoil thy child. Even the bible is telling you not to forgive the child. Same goes in your relationship, whatever nonsense your partner did that hurts you, you must hurt them back. Let them know what it feels like so they won't do it again.

- Revenge is the best medicine: Yes the only way to settle a dispute is to let everyone have a taste of their own medicine. Your partner cheated, cheat back. .then two of you can settle. At least he is gonna feel what u felt when he cheated. If your partner stole your credit card, still theirs too even spend more than they spent so you do more than They did in return

- Brute ruthless aggression and rebelion should be the strong hold of your relationship. Yes let everyone know where they stand. So your partner would not try rubbish in the first place. But when you are soft, you are gentle and loving, your partner will take advantage and do bad things that will hurt you.

Forgiveness is for weak people who ain't got the stomach to take revenge while it eats them up inside.


P.s Bashing is NOT allowed. This is my opinion and I do not mandate anyone to abide by it. Everyone is responsible for their choices. However, I'm making a friendly suggestion/opinion for those who care.

Thank you.

emitoz:
That's so cold... the Sis did nothing wrong..

When two elephant fight, the grass suffers.

Nay!

Strahovski1:
Growing up my dad said that forgiveness is for the weak.

My mother said only a fool forgets. .

My wife said: Never forgive because you can never forget.

All 3 combined: DON'T FORGIVE! AND DON'T FORGET!

Thank you.

This is the exact thing that I always tell people including my hubby. Forgiveness is fake! It for weak people who ain't got balls to take their revenge.

Never forgive!

optimistbynature:
what an advice!! have being inclined to read some of ur comments on this forum and trust me they all seem short ranged...I can't imagine what kinda specie u are, to literally give that kind of advice ...u sure have a loved one ?? #its not every time u have to be shallow with ur reasoning...

Say whatever you want. The op wanted a tip on how to get his revenge. That is what I gave him so take your hypocrisy else where.

adeniranfam:
Which bank are U using

Gtbank

adeniranfam:
Thanks I used gtb as my refree but it is still pending.
Union bank told me gtb have not approve their mail.
And people said I should get a reference from ma bank to make it faster

Ooo I understand now.

Good luck in ur search though. We are not using union bank we could have referenced you

Abortion is murder.

Why kill an innocent baby who did not force you to bring him/her into the world? Unless its a result of rape then there is no such thing as not ready. After all there is readiness to have sex and get pregnant but not ready to keep the fruit of the sex.

Abortion is bad and illegal

Eaa247:
U said exactly wat I wanted to ask. Dat vinshu of a lady dat likes gold bt ve neva seen any b4.

Didnt read the article but saw yours. Speaking of gold, i can proudly confirm that i have more gold than you do. Prove me wrong.

kossyablaze:
buh now u know.Get ready nigga

Lol I rather be an old dirty obese drunk man than be a nigga. *Spits*

Niggas... lol u sure know urselves

kossyablaze:
Make I bend say u b girl

Pls bend.

I don't care. I don't even know you exist.

unapapadeycraze:
Hmmmm.... I think you should come to ma house.


Why not just let him have sex with you instead?

Sex is a different level. If I am in the mood for it at that time, then yeah I may let him depending on how much of "friends" we are. But if I'm not in the mood, wanking is my best offer.

BoiledHead:
Your friends are enjoying. I wish I was your friend.

You are my friend already. Everyone is my friend.