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Rapist deserve to face the full wrath of the law...But if this is actually false as some people on X are claiming... Then it will very sad.

Host78:
A whole lot of rűbbïsh you wrote there.

First off, successful women are single because they are successful.

They are single because like every woman out there, they want to "date up".

Let's imagine this, when a man is successful, he doesn't look for a girl that is "on his level" or "higher" than him to start a relationship with her.

He can go to a filling station and see a girl there and start dating her.

Ronaldo was very successful and would have gotten to date any high value actress or model from anywhere in the world.

But he at the same time is flexible enough to go to a clothing store and pick one of the sales girl there and date her.

Women lack this flexibility. No matter how successful a woman is, she still wants to date a man who is "more successful" than her.

She'll never go to the gutter to pick any kind of man, even the one that will worship the ground she walks on.

Now this severely limits her options. For a woman who has N10million in her account, she's looking for a man with almost N50-100million in liquid cash.

She's looking up and there are only such a few of such men in the dating pool. It's like saying I as a guy will only date a girl who is earning N5m per month.

There are only such few girls in this country. If I put that as my mindset, anyone wise person will know that I'm ready to be single for a long time or for life.

Now, to the second part of this equation, and this is the usual problem with these women which they don't admit to themselves: the very "more successful" men that they want don't usually want them. .

There are many successful actresses in Nigeria, but do you think someone as successful as Davido wants to date them for their success?

If I'm a man and I'm earning N10m a month on this country, why should I care what my woman is earning when I want to pick a wife?

I can comfortably take care of any woman I want. Emphasise here is on "the woman I want".

No man in history has ever listed "success" or a specific naira figure when they are looking for a wife.

To most men, all you hear is "she must be beautiful, respectful, love me, submissive, does not cheat and speak softly"

And if any man ever mentions that his wife must be hardworking, it is usually in the area of keeping his house clean.

The reason why success is never a criteria for men looking for wives is very simple: a successful woman always wants a more successful man who will still pay for everything

Take for instance, regardless of how successful these actresses are, Davido understands that "spending" in the relationship will still fall on him because he's higher than them.

So, here's a dilemma, these women are hugely successful, they have bigger appetites, they want him to impress them. What exactly does he gain in return from dating such "successful" women?

Absolutely nothing.

The success of a woman does not benefit the more successful man she wants in any meaningful way.

So why should he date her when he could find someone prettier, someone who will be more grateful for his love?

The only way a successful woman can ascertain if men are intimidated by her is her going into the village and pickin a lowlife man or an Okada man or a cab man or a salesman and changing his life.

Let her pick such a man up, brush him up and give him the world and treat him like a king just as Ronaldo or Davido is treating their "poor" spouses like they are queens.

But then this almost will never happen.

Look at someone like DJ cuppy, everyday there are men in her comment section who will marry her and treat her like a queen.

Look at tiwa savage there are men who will willingly be her 'house' husband.

But regardless of success and the money these women have, they still want a bigger fish.

Cuppy always following Anthony Joshua up and down.

Now is Anthony Joshua intimidated by DJ cuppy? Of course not.

He's just not interested because she has nothing to offer him. Not virginity, not youth, nothing.

So, single successful women are not single because men are intimidated by them. They are single because of 4 simple things:

1. They lack flexibility in that they don't want to date downward

2. The men that are higher than them, don't desire them

3. They don't really know what men want because they chase success and once they get success, they think they have higher marketplace values.

4. And so they raise their standards, meanwhile men who meet such standards, don't want them back.

And so, they are at the top, with high standards and no one to chase after them instead of them doing the chasing.

When they are supposed to chase after Okada men, pick such Okada men and turn them to "house" husbands that they can provide for, just as Ronaldo picked a salesgirl and turn her into a wife.

These successful women are still looking to be chased by men who are richer. It's a joke.

Words of Wisdom

intelligent thread

QuinQ:
I like what you said here:
Women find it hard to leave any relationship or marriage they’re deeply invested into. As a man, your status matters to your wife. When you act as a needy in a relationship, with only you making the relationship work, you’ll get played by your partner who will possess the belief that she has all the cards, with the guy having the mindset of nowhere to go simply because he wants to make the relationship work after he has invested time and resources into the relationship while on the other hand, the lady has only dropped just 10k.

But this part is easier said than done:
As a man, before you spend 2k on your woman or in a relationship, make sure you’ve collected 20k from her or she’s spend 20k in the relationship. Think or sink!

This is practical fact...but men with ego issues will see it as being less

SpencerForbes:
It is clear that many men still haven't grasped the fundamentals of selective honesty. You provide the truth when it is convenient, but in the realms of finance and romance, a strategic lie is often a lifesaver. This is exactly why experienced men have learned to keep their actual monthly income a top secret. Disclosure is the quickest way to lose your respect and your money.

Words of wisdom

Men are polygamous in nature...Reality modern women finds so hard to accept ... just as men have accepted the hypergamy in women.

Men are really nice.... suppressing their innate nature and getting fully committed to one woman forever.

Pukkalolo:
The funny thing is, most guys think this kind of incident only happens in Nollywood movies.

It's pathetic, and I genuinely feel sorry for the previous guy in this story who spent millions doing a visa for her. If only he had understood the true nature of women.

That bolded part caught my attention: you said you pity the new man and that he better watch his back.

Well, the only reason he needs to watch his back is if he’s also spending millions on her like her ex did. But if he’s spending little or nothing to keep her around, then he has nothing to worry about.

Most men think women are evil or bad people. That’s not true. Women are simply following their feminine nature. The real problem is that many men are not living according to their true masculine nature.

Look, God designed male-female sexual dynamics a certain way. His plan is for men and women is... to desire each other, mate, and multiply.

As a man, you will meet two types of women:

1. The woman who has genuine, raw desire for you.
2. The woman who does not.

There's nothing in-between.

Here’s the hard truth: your desire for her doesn’t matter nearly as much as her desire for you.

It’s funny, and sad… how most men foolishly believe that if they really want a woman, they can use money and financial provision to make her desire them. That’s completely wrong. That’s trying to cheat God’s design for sexual attraction. And when you try to cheat the system, you pay the price… usually in the form of her cheating, exploiting you, or dumping you.

If a woman has no genuine raw desire for you, but you still commit to her thinking your money will keep her, here are the three possible outcomes:

1. She uses you until she gets what she wants (money, business setup, visa, property, etc.), then dumps you immediately. Example: the lady who got her UK visa, broke up with the guy before even landing in London.

2. She stays until you hit a financial low point and can’t provide like before… then she leaves.

3. She stays for the money and comfort, but cheats on you with a man she actually desires sexually.

Here’s the truth: when a woman has no real desire for a man, having sex with him feels disgusting to her deep down. It feels like eating bitterleaf or drinking strong agbo when you’re sick. She squeezes her face inside, even if she’s smiling outside.

But women are masters at pretending. She’ll fake enjoyment in bed just to keep accessing your money. Then, to satisfy her real sexual needs, she’ll cheat with men she genuinely desires.

Look at some recent Nigerian celebrity breakups:
- Ciara Chapman divorcing Sabinus
- AY Makun splitting with his wife Mabel
- Regina Daniels and Ned Nwoko separation.

These women are all very beautiful and attractive. But one thing you probably didn’t notice: they never had genuine raw desire for those men from the start. Those men thought money could lock the women down.

Now these women are walking away after securing the bag: Sabinus paying child support to his UK wife. And trust me Regina Daniels and Mabel Makun are walking away with assets, wealth, connections. Women are not foolish.

That marriage or relationship was just a business and wealth accumulation strategy.

When they leave, they play the victim card: “he cheated,” “domestic violence,” or whatever accusations they can put on the Man just to look innocent while portraying the man as the villain. But the truth is… They’ve milked what they wanted and are now free to enjoy the men they actually desire.

Lesson for every man reading this:
If you notice a woman doesn’t have genuine raw desire for you, walk away early. Don’t invest time, money, or commitment thinking your provision or “good personality” will change how she feels. It won’t.

Your money can buy her presence and cooperation. But only genuine desire gets her real passion, loyalty, and respect.

Choose wisely, kings.

So apt...this hoes aint loyal

And Billions of Sporty bet Tickets cuts

Men that are not addicted to Alcohol, Gambling, Pussy, drugs... Don't really know what God has done for them.

The referee ogogoro posture off me gan!!!

If i follow dey inside that car, i for land that phone thief some knocks and extra slaps join.

To those of us that refused to commit fraud...no matter the pressure.

May our legit hustle keep paying us.

Stay blessed

mascot87:
I am a full time forex trader and I will tell for a fact that you will lose a lot of money for the next 3 to 4 years or more depending on how you master yourself and until you figure out how to master the market.
Yes,you can make it in the market but not immediately. If you no get mind,no put body o. A lot will happen in your life that will make you hate it during the period you are trying to figure things out in the market.
I have been in it full time in the last 3 ½ years and I can tell you it's hell but it's getting better.
I can tell you for free, you will lose ALL. Just make sure you have backup funds or you have something you are doing that gives you steady income that will support the loses you will incure in forex.
If you want me to guide you,you can message me. I'm not collecting anything from you.

Make I add: It is also very addictive and once you start,you might not be able to stay out of it. So in the long run, it is either you get serious and make it from there or it ruin you life. (This is a FACT)

You are a good man

That his fall could be another Distraction...to enter 2027.

His chances is High... The oppositions don't seems to be very strong yet...make we dey watch sha

People making big Money in tech now..are those organisation tech bootcamps

Religion chai

Sonofgod1990:
Dat woman is not productive. Na only dis boy she born all dis while. If I be banky w I for don comot her from my house.

Guy you don dey cap this days.... comon be happy for them

Wow now now, Their child don reach 5 years? oh boy time dey fly ooo.

Adesua good wife,,,

congratulations to them

May their union last Long

Advantages of having a strong Father Figure... Every childs needs a strong father figure in their Life

Hmmm Husbands be cautious of wife wey dey always call pastor papa papa upanadan...

Those ones are easy for pastor to service his holy engine on

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
🤣🤣🤣 Nothing to say! Embrace education and build the capacity to engage in constructive discuss. Money isn't everything!

It honestly amazes me when people deliberately talk down on education. No wonder there are so many financially money miss road people in this part of the world. Money is important, yes , but without knowledge, it’s often mismanaged.

I like as you schooled that moniker

The rigging has already started, the real question is how Nigerians intend to stop it.

If Tinubu could win the 2023 election amid weak institutions and compromised oversight, then 2027 will indeed be easier for him if Nigerians resign themselves early. Incumbency is powerful, and the so called opposition frameworks are clearly weak, fragmented, and in many cases compromised.

But elections are not rigged only by those in power; they are also lost when citizens disengage, fail to defend polling units, ignore voter register manipulation, and abandon the process to political actors alone.

Anything short of active citizen involvement, before, during, and after election day, makes pre-election rigging not just possible, but inevitable.

"A group of Zombies"

"A gang of Keyboard warriors"

Another social media distraction..as the youths are heavily distracted online... Politicians are codedly looting and planning for next election

True talk, Hypergamy na your mate?

Hedonisco:
Wokeism is causing so much ridiculousness in Nigeria/Africa.

Men don't 'cheat'. They simply exercise their traditional rights. The concept of cheating or 'adultery' is exclusively for women only.

The fact that a man can acquire as many wives and concubines as he can take care of, even in the Bible (Solomon, David, etc), while women simply cannot, should answer the question.

A man, married or single, having multiple women is like someone washing his hands in multiple bowls. Whereas a woman having multiple men fucking her is like multiple people washing their hands in the same dirty bowl with contaminated water. Disgusting. End of.

Words of wisdom

Yes Gambling addiction...

The fight of recovery no be here .

uche87:
Osahon Osayimwen writes from England.

Very informative and insightful post.

Some people living in denial, will be looking for how to blame the men... instead of to focused on the induced poverty

It shall be well

No matter the motivation..Life wey go hard..Go Hard.

Bad leadership made life harder for Nigerians sha.... Now we have so many educated mad people roaming around

it is one thing to learn a skill, its another thing to have connection

Happy new year to you all