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Lalami3232:

Different scenarios don make me know say living in Nigeria when your family no get connection is difficult oooooooo. Make I gist una some stories. So I dey this group of tech guys for Facebook, na dem post say wetin be our yearly salary. Everybody just dey post different amount of money wey dem dey receive yearly in dollars. When I calculated my own money and I converted it to dollars, shame no fit make me post. The least developer in that group was earning $50K yearly. That was the first time wey I realize say Nigeria is not for me.
The other time na when I see the price of DNA test, I just weak. Government go scam people, religion go scam people, even non-virgins aka boreholes go still scam people and the government no wan subsidize DNA test. I prefer to buy fuel for 5000 without subsidy but make DNA test dey subsidized. Dear men who can't afford DNA test, make una just dey pray for me, I dey develop an app wey go help una. Laslas, we all go dey alright. The good news be say, the app go come with a feature wey go get "LAST SEEN ONLINE" of a kpekus.
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

Lalami3232:

Oga go and learn cyber security or data science and thank me later

Benniemannz:
Advanced programming bro. The mind has been fed with so much wrong information from birth, the home, school, religion, work etc is all meant to restrict and control our true innate potentials

LoneSoldier:
Dear Esteemed men, please share your experience of how you became a bachelor, and also share the benefits and challenges that comes with it...
I will start with mine, years ago when I was little I thought marriage was a thing of blessing and doesn't require a man to suffer, but little did I know that marriage is a bondage, so fast forward to when I was a teenager (Am a grown ass man now, that was then!) I started seeing things more clearly, let's take Nigeria for instance.... 90% of married men across Nigeria as a whole are suffering and smiling, why because marriage wasn't what they thought it was, some where even forced to marry by family members, some just wanted to try marriage out thinking is a thing of joy ride not knowing it is an everlasting torture.....

A country where everything is left for the man to do, and to worsen it more, economy is not smiling and men are dropping dead everyday due to high BP of so many budgets in a man's mind, a wife you think is a blessing is just a load of suffering, a liability that leaves the man to cater for everything, even though she also brings little by little it doesn't change the fact that she is a burden of suffering on the man's shoulders....


Well let me conclude here, there are more to write but let me conclude with the benefits and challenges I faced as a bachelor.....

BENEFITS AS A BACHELOR:

I always have time for myself, I do whatever I want whenever I want to do it.... No liability as a wife to dictate how my life should go, I eat whatever I want to eat, no kidding am a good cook... So I don't need a woman for that, when am Hørny.... I masturbate myself to stupor, I have a decent job (Remotely) so I have time for myself indoors, the only time I go out, is when I want to get food items......

CHALLENGES AS A BACHELOR:
Not so much tho, but it came to some point I got pressured by my stupid family (father and mother excluded) to get a wife, I boldly told them NO!

Planning on disowning them very soon, but that is a topic for another day...!

So esteemed men, this is my experience.... Share yours!

Godwin4444:
oga only simps get threatened with cheating

Before marriage my wife knows many girls trip for me even after marriage they bring food n goodies for me in shop, I have to b the one to tell them to stop it so it won't affect my marriage

I b fine boy n I get small change, once u see 2face u don see me n I come even get body build, I hope u understand now

So my wife no dey try rubbish cos she knows many wants me outside n even till now her friends keep asking her if she's sure am truly faithful cos they know me well

So if she threatened me with cheating I will send her away without hesitation, she's knows I am d trophy n I try to respect her too but no woman in d world can threaten me with that

For u to even think of threatening me with that I go change am for u badly

How can my wife say she wan go give her money to pastor, if I decide to b stupid like her n give my money to d pastor too how will d family survive?

U people should let your wife know that u people are in marriage together n must always b alive to responsibilities

No vex me abeg

We need to sort things at home n my wife will tell me she wants to give her money to pastor?
Wahala go happen

Me wey I no even like those scammers called pastor before

boxypane:
Worst addiction is betting

Namaster:
Oh boy!

1. Married for 10 years.
2. Has 3 kids.
3. RECENTLY got a job with BETTER pay.
4. NEVER initiates sex.
5. RATIONS sex and it's down to just 4 times in 30 days.
6. CONSTANTLY complains of stress.
7. BLATANTLY tells you to get your sex elsewhere.

Dude, this woman NO LONGER finds you attractive if she ever did.

She has achieved her goal in marriage. She has 3 kids and has gotten a job with MORE money so she does not need yours anymore.

By the way, realise this:

NO man ever thinks his wife is even CAPABLE of cheating on him.

They'd SLAM their chest with confidence and proclaim it to the world. Meanwhile, the said wife is giving professional porrnstars a run for their money with ANOTHER man.

So NEVER discount the possibility that she's cheating on you.

BUT even if she's not, the fact remains that she is NOT attracted to you anymore.

Sex is an INCREDIBLE way to relieve stress.
A stressed woman who finds you attractive would be EAGER to jump your bones. Not refuse you.

Also, a wife who STILL loves her husband and finds him attractive would NEVER advise him to go out and fuccck OTHER women. Instead, she'd do better.

The fact that she was even the one who brought it up should be a HUGE warning siren inside your skull.

She could be INSTIGATING you to cheat because she ALREADY cheated and is attempting to assuage her guilt.

Someone suggested you do MORE chores with the hope of getting MORE sex.

That's RIDICULOUS!

It has NEVER worked. And it'll NOT work for you, either. In fact, it could AGGRAVATE the issue.

Women HATE it when men do "nice things" for them with the hope of getting sex.

They find it REPULSIVE. And close their legs, padlock their pussies and melt down the keys for good measure.

Doing more chores will NEVER get you more sex 'cause she'd counter with the argument that it's something you should have been doing anyway.

So, it'll NEVER work!

The fact is something FUNDAMENTAL has changed for your wife and she has REPLACED you.
Either with ANOTHER man or her new job.

You have 2 SIMPLE choices:

1. STAY in a sexless marriage.
2. DON'T stay in a sexless marriage.

It's up to you.

But before you make your decision, consider this:

Your wife no longer cares whom you stick your dick in, as long as it's NOT her.

Namaster:
Oh boy!

1. Married for 10 years.
2. Has 3 kids.
3. RECENTLY got a job with BETTER pay.
4. NEVER initiates sex.
5. RATIONS sex and it's down to just 4 times in 30 days.
6. CONSTANTLY complains of stress.
7. BLATANTLY tells you to get your sex elsewhere.

Dude, this woman NO LONGER finds you attractive if she ever did.

She has achieved her goal in marriage. She has 3 kids and has gotten a job with MORE money so she does not need yours anymore.

By the way, realise this:

NO man ever thinks his wife is even CAPABLE of cheating on him.

They'd SLAM their chest with confidence and proclaim it to the world. Meanwhile, the said wife is giving professional porrnstars a run for their money with ANOTHER man.

So NEVER discount the possibility that she's cheating on you.

BUT even if she's not, the fact remains that she is NOT attracted to you anymore.

Sex is an INCREDIBLE way to relieve stress.
A stressed woman who finds you attractive would be EAGER to jump your bones. Not refuse you.

Also, a wife who STILL loves her husband and finds him attractive would NEVER advise him to go out and fuccck OTHER women. Instead, she'd do better.

The fact that she was even the one who brought it up should be a HUGE warning siren inside your skull.

She could be INSTIGATING you to cheat because she ALREADY cheated and is attempting to assuage her guilt.

Someone suggested you do MORE chores with the hope of getting MORE sex.

That's RIDICULOUS!

It has NEVER worked. And it'll NOT work for you, either. In fact, it could AGGRAVATE the issue.

Women HATE it when men do "nice things" for them with the hope of getting sex.

They find it REPULSIVE. And close their legs, padlock their pussies and melt down the keys for good measure.

Doing more chores will NEVER get you more sex 'cause she'd counter with the argument that it's something you should have been doing anyway.

So, it'll NEVER work!

The fact is something FUNDAMENTAL has changed for your wife and she has REPLACED you.
Either with ANOTHER man or her new job.

You have 2 SIMPLE choices:

1. STAY in a sexless marriage.
2. DON'T stay in a sexless marriage.

It's up to you.

But before you make your decision, consider this:

Your wife no longer cares whom you stick your dick in, as long as it's NOT her.

Words of Wisdom

Adullam001:
Although my own was not drugs, I was addicted to gambling, masturbation, watching pornography, stealing, visiting brothels. It was a terrible addiction my brother. It nearly wrecked my life.

All these advice they are giving you cannot stop it, this is the hard truth. There is nothing like stopping it gradually.

When I stopped gambling for instance, I stopped it permanently, I didn't stop it gradually. You need to have an encounter with a higher power to break this addiction.

If you want to know more, you can WhatsApp me on 2.3.4.8.0.8.3.3.7.5.0.0.1

Nifemy4:
. my brother , knack ooo . i don call precious now she don enter bolt dey come. make we knack ourself till one person bone break. suceess is not by power or might o. na who universe chose to favour.

uni days for lasu, naso they say mk we no knack o mk we read book. i knack like mad . i still finish with 4.38.. all the ones wey no knack stilll finish below me. as you dey hustle. ensure you knack well well. it will make you understand women better and in turn you will become a better husband.

ecomalchemistt:
Run away from women and focus on what brings the most money.

No do pass yourself.

No dey talk too much, observe and #LOCKUP

ONE product can make you crazy money in Nigeria.

Personal development.

Multiple streams of income.

Always waka with your atm and powerbank.

Complaining about the economy won't change anything , you either go out there and double ⏩⏩ your hustle or continue to wail.

Become very Stingy if you run a business, e get why. No dey press money anyhow.

Nobody is coming to save you.

Dem go whine you normally , but no paNic.

Wotowotoman:
Love yourself more with chronic daily soapy abi?

ednut1:
There is nothing like marriage brings grace. Most brings more poverty and the men end up running away. Dey play

Emodeee:
Sometimes, I ask myself, what if I did not come across ubunja's miseducation?😮🙂. I'm glad I did🙂. What about you? Like this post if you are glad you did.

papyjaypaul:
I see some people quoting Professors, whose husband are already intelligent people and have some sense. What about
Funke Akindele
Folorunso Alakija
Tiwa Savage etc

I am just giving you the flip side of the coin.

Men like to provide and whether you like it or not, it takes a self confident man not to be intimidated by your wealth. It's just the way the game is, except you want to be a second wife or something like that where you will not be in his life too much. Women in the past used to do this but that was because the extended family system was strong and they wanted to preserve the family. I am not discouraging you, I encourage you to go for what you want but this is human nature and reality.

Women are not inspired by men who are not up to their standards. Women marry up for a reason. It is in their nature to have a man who can provide security and if the woman is already doing it, it will cause problems. Women want that confidence from men and if unfortunately, his work does not pay off, it will affect him and the house.

Today women are earning more than men and we are seeing the results. If the man is okay with being a home dad, please accept it that way and don't complain but many times, we see that once women can do what men do, they don't see your worth anymore and it is usually difficult for that woman to respect the man. What does he bring to the table? You are already the table.

santaclaws:
I am 100% sure that I am richer than your dad, no disrespect to him, just a fact!

Only poor people reason the way you do. You glorify money too much cos you lacked it while growing up. Work on your mentality.

Shawarmagirl:
I prefer that modern slavery with good health system to that of Nigeria.

Lordbinsmar:
Keep making excuses for your wicked self and sister. Nemesis would soon catch up with both of you.

Your own husband also with the help of his brother or sister will marry another woman outside make a family with her and your husband family go keep it from you because they have to protect their child.

At the end he will defraud you to get money to take care of this children outside and his brothers and sisters will help him with this because he his their lovely brother and they love his sons no matter what.

Then you will know how it feels to be an accomplice of evil. And you will feel the pain of betrayer.

This I have seen and nothing you can do to change it.

Wicked family ganging up to scam a SIMPle stupid man how cannot find something better out of more than 3 billion fresh pussies in the world. But a wicked and manipulative even newspaper mother of 2 separate children with 2 different father.

But some men are just plain dumb and stupid. Why did he think the 2 guys who impregnated her dumped her? It was simply because she is only good enough to be used and dumped.

uuzba:
With all the clean diet and exercise
I still got arthritis on my left hip and left shoulder.
Doctor was just staring at me.
I was asking for explanation what did I do wrong?. Doctor no get explanation.
Can you cure it?
Doctor no get explanation.
Will it go by itself?
Doctor no get explanation.
So i just have to manage my pains like that.
Just thank God for your health, because when it goes, no force in heaven or earth will bring it back.

LIVINGICONREBOR:
That is not true. I am a living example. I still lift weights that younger dudes dread. I do my cardios. I still do my sprints well. Infact I still have my early morning erections. It depends on how you live life in your 20s and 30s. Clean diet and active lifestyle is key.