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Yes ooo,

Especially short girls with small breasts.

their stubbornness its on another level

caveAdullam on the beats again.

Thread filled with wisdom

Nifemy4:
. my brother , knack ooo . i don call precious now she don enter bolt dey come. make we knack ourself till one person bone break. suceess is not by power or might o. na who universe chose to favour.

uni days for lasu, naso they say mk we no knack o mk we read book. i knack like mad . i still finish with 4.38.. all the ones wey no knack stilll finish below me. as you dey hustle. ensure you knack well well. it will make you understand women better and in turn you will become a better husband.

Honestly man,

lack of sex has made lots of guys slave to pusssy

Exercising is one of the greatest food for the body and the mind.

ecomalchemistt:
Run away from women and focus on what brings the most money.

No do pass yourself.

No dey talk too much, observe and #LOCKUP

ONE product can make you crazy money in Nigeria.

Personal development.

Multiple streams of income.

Always waka with your atm and powerbank.

Complaining about the economy won't change anything , you either go out there and double ⏩⏩ your hustle or continue to wail.

Become very Stingy if you run a business, e get why. No dey press money anyhow.

Nobody is coming to save you.

Dem go whine you normally , but no paNic.

Words of wisdom...

Many bet tickets will cut this year.

That I should follow Pansophist and caveAdullam...

These guys are too intelligent with advise.

Wotowotoman:
Love yourself more with chronic daily soapy abi?

Nah, Instead of that shits...I hit the Gym always...courtesy of TRP.

RedPill is life!!!

If not for condom, many men would have been dead by now..."with the kind infections wey full everywhere"... Condom one of the greatest invention...

Make una use condom... una go dey say..."i like it raw"... Many of una no just value una life...sighssss

ednut1:
There is nothing like marriage brings grace. Most brings more poverty and the men end up running away. Dey play

Make them dey deceived themselves dey go

Emodeee:
Sometimes, I ask myself, what if I did not come across ubunja's miseducation?😮🙂. I'm glad I did🙂. What about you? Like this post if you are glad you did.

I would have probably be married to an olosho in disguised or a single mother.... , TRP gave me more reasons to love myself the more and always striving to make my today better than my yesterday in every ramifications. In fact it changed my taste in women....

Redpill is Life!!!

papyjaypaul:
I see some people quoting Professors, whose husband are already intelligent people and have some sense. What about
Funke Akindele
Folorunso Alakija
Tiwa Savage etc

I am just giving you the flip side of the coin.

Men like to provide and whether you like it or not, it takes a self confident man not to be intimidated by your wealth. It's just the way the game is, except you want to be a second wife or something like that where you will not be in his life too much. Women in the past used to do this but that was because the extended family system was strong and they wanted to preserve the family. I am not discouraging you, I encourage you to go for what you want but this is human nature and reality.

Women are not inspired by men who are not up to their standards. Women marry up for a reason. It is in their nature to have a man who can provide security and if the woman is already doing it, it will cause problems. Women want that confidence from men and if unfortunately, his work does not pay off, it will affect him and the house.

Today women are earning more than men and we are seeing the results. If the man is okay with being a home dad, please accept it that way and don't complain but many times, we see that once women can do what men do, they don't see your worth anymore and it is usually difficult for that woman to respect the man. What does he bring to the table? You are already the table.

Words of wisdom

santaclaws:
I am 100% sure that I am richer than your dad, no disrespect to him, just a fact!

Only poor people reason the way you do. You glorify money too much cos you lacked it while growing up. Work on your mentality.

Bro, Please have Mercy...This is too much

Shawarmagirl:
I prefer that modern slavery with good health system to that of Nigeria.

Hmmmm.. Better to be slave in another land, than be a slave in your own land....

Lordbinsmar:
Keep making excuses for your wicked self and sister. Nemesis would soon catch up with both of you.

Your own husband also with the help of his brother or sister will marry another woman outside make a family with her and your husband family go keep it from you because they have to protect their child.

At the end he will defraud you to get money to take care of this children outside and his brothers and sisters will help him with this because he his their lovely brother and they love his sons no matter what.

Then you will know how it feels to be an accomplice of evil. And you will feel the pain of betrayer.

This I have seen and nothing you can do to change it.

Wicked family ganging up to scam a SIMPle stupid man how cannot find something better out of more than 3 billion fresh pussies in the world. But a wicked and manipulative even newspaper mother of 2 separate children with 2 different father.

But some men are just plain dumb and stupid. Why did he think the 2 guys who impregnated her dumped her? It was simply because she is only good enough to be used and dumped.

Sighssss, I feel for the Simp. These single mothers game of manipulation is on another level.. I almost dated a single mother, till i came accross TRP.... Redpill is Life. "It is good to be good, but not good to be nice".

uuzba:
With all the clean diet and exercise
I still got arthritis on my left hip and left shoulder.
Doctor was just staring at me.
I was asking for explanation what did I do wrong?. Doctor no get explanation.
Can you cure it?
Doctor no get explanation.
Will it go by itself?
Doctor no get explanation.
So i just have to manage my pains like that.
Just thank God for your health, because when it goes, no force in heaven or earth will bring it back.

Damn...this is not good to know.

LIVINGICONREBOR:
That is not true. I am a living example. I still lift weights that younger dudes dread. I do my cardios. I still do my sprints well. Infact I still have my early morning erections. It depends on how you live life in your 20s and 30s. Clean diet and active lifestyle is key.

You got those words out of my mouth. I was even stunned with his statements. Registering for gym is one of the best decision i took in my 30s. "I lift weights, do sit ups, press up at home", go to yabatech and jog/sprint the track. Infact, in a sprint competition, i was placed with boys in their 20s and i came 2nd. . Exercising is one of the greatest food for men.

1. Buying my virgin girlfriend BS of waiting for her till our wedding night, last last another sharp guy popped the cherry...She still blamed me instead... .. (women and accountability ehnnn)
2. Playing Virtual bets... omo ... I see shege promax.
3. Trusting pastor... , now if you tell me say you be pastor... na extra extra eyes i go use dey look you.
4. Selling my 2 plots of land...

Na wa ooo,

People are not yelling, "2025 is my year" , instead they are preparing to embrace the hardship with thicker skin

Tpain!!!!

Wahala for people wey dey wait for promises from Government that looks for every little opportunities to throw blame and give excuses...

Days of Nostalgia,

Those Days Christmas used to be very fun...Its as if Jesus was actually with us live. While we merry with him. No one ever goes hungry on Christmas day...neighbors share delicious rice and stew with each other..." my mama go cook rice give me and my siblings to share, as we dey share na so dem neighbors go dey show us Christmas love (in money or gifts).. Now things don over Change.

Those days, Boys were conditioned to be strong... " we channel over energies into Gidigbo fights, Police and thief, Catcher, ojuju calabar etc)... Not now where na sex sex and porn contents full many young boys head

Basic123:
Chai!....the only distinct feature of Gen Z I know is "PRIDE" ....May be and "I TOO KNOW". 😆


Gen Z will never greet you first untill you greet them first and they always want to challenge status quo with the Little knowledge and experience.

Hahahahaha aside from majority of them being too disrespectful , most of these Gen Z girls.... over like sex gan!!! damn..

iamonpointa:
My initial reaction to this post is that trying to explain this phenomenon to someone who has never been in the position of the so-called "snubbing old friend" would be similar to trying to teach colors to a blind person. You just can't understand some things until you experience them.

Making money or becoming rich requires you to become a different kind of person. That friend wouldn't have become rich anyway if they had remained how they've always been.

Tip: if you feel like you're stagnating in life, it's because you keep doing the same thing. Until you change, nothing changes. The first and biggest change must be your mindset. You are not immune to being successful too. Think of ways to become more valuable so that you can attract value from others.

No one person can satisfy everybody, no matter what they do and how wealthy they become, the higher you go, the bigger your problems. The more entitled the people around you become. In fact, people around you would become so entitled that they would raise their standard of living solely based on how well you are doing financially. Lol

I'm not rich, but I'm doing so much better (financially) compared to how I used to.

Since then, a lot has happened with old "friends" and even family members, that have made me reach the conclusion that the only way to satisfy people is to never succeed. As long as you remain poor/broke/useless, people will be cool with you.


I'm naturally an introvert. I don't keep friends or go out much. Been like that since childhood
I've also been close to as low as anybody can go financially. Back when I was broke if my phone rang 20 times, I knew who was calling 19 out of them - my mother.

Fast forward to a few years later when things started to go well, "friends" began to crawl out of walls and everything around me.
Most of the time, it's usually to request some kind of assistance. Whether directly or indirectly. These are people that I haven't heard from in over 6yrs. Most are classmates from secondary school - as per how you are supposed to be "friends" with your classmates back then.

Try to see things from your friend's perspective (even though you probably won't understand as stated earlier).
You might think that your "friend" is rich, and should be able to help you with "small money." That is your perspective.

The part you don't see is that about 100+ other people are also requesting the same thing, and if they were to indulge them all, not only would they run out of money, but they would also run into debt.

So what do they do?

They would probably pick the few (say 5%) most important people on that list and help them. Trust me, you would do the same in their shoes.

If you believe what I just said, can you seriously consider the likelihood of you being one of the most important persons to a "friend" that you haven't spoken to in years?

In other words, your "friend" is doing for others that are important to him, you just aren't on that list.

If somebody calls you that a friend that you haven't spoken to in years is in trouble with the police, would you show up as per good friend?
You didn't even know whether they were dead, disabled, sick, or in prison.




My life is more stressful now, compared to back when I was broke. And that's me who didn't keep friends in his broke days, due to my personality. I wonder how somebody with a lot of friends would cope.

Even as a single guy, about half, sometimes more, of all the money that I spend is for other people. Yet, I still have friends and family who believe that I'm not doing enough for them. "Na small money e dey give person, not enough to start a business" some would say.
I'm not even rich yet! Lol

I'm constantly worrying about how to make more money. I have sleepless nights sometimes. Even people who are dependent on me are enjoying life more than I am.

So yeah, the last thing I want is another entitled "old friend" that I haven't seen or heard from in 6 years, crawling out of the shelf to make me vomit the drinks that they shared with me all those years ago.
I don't even want genuine well-wishers or any distractions. Stay away and allow me to think!




Most of this write-up probably won't make sense and will be filled with typos. I just want to rant.

So much sense in this post

Never say never....keep pushing

paddyman:
Very educative thread.

Very Very

Farming

wait if dey steal person pricck...how will the person private part now look like??...

"Dem thieve your pennis, dem thieve your pennis", yet no physical evidence.

And i noticed its poor man prick dem dey always thief.like its the only valuable assset he owns..sighsssss

luminouz:
K

This "K" was shared.... hahahaha

off me

otele:
I understand where you are coming from. But in the final analysis, it shouldnt take a lot to marry and have at least one kid. You dont need to be a millionaire to marry. There are people who I know, still living under their father's roof, but have a job that pays a little. They married someone and had one kid. Eventually they left their father's home, and slowly started rising but by the age of 40 he already had an 18 yo son who is an adult. some of his mates were still trying to 'settle' before marriage, at 40. You will never have a perfect time to marry while under 40. and if you are financially stable (whatever that mean) and ready to marry, if you are from eastern nigeria, your marriage list go reach heaven. But if you are a kid that just started life, you may have a more reasonable list.

Just start. I had a friend that had no job, he married, here in london, many years ago. His wife was earning a little money. He later stabilized and they have 3 kids . . . all grown.

If I have any regret, it is not marrying early. I'm in my late 30s now, i'm stable, but I have slept with so many girls that I have developed a distrust for the female gender and a distaste for marriage. This wouldnt have been the case if I married 15yrs ago. I am mad at myself now.

I know of a guy that married young, lost his job , struggled and struggled to feed for the family and ended up dying before he reached 40 due to some underlying health issues caused by acute stress. last last life no get manual.

Sirchiboy:
I wish I knew:

1. Don't lend anyone money, just give the little you have to the person and tell him not to return it.

2. Don't fight over a woman let her go good one will come.

3. Don't have a land dispute with anyone, accept the boundaries as claimed by defendant. Me dey follow the rules now.

Add yours

1.To be good and ruthless... instead of been nice and careless

2. Nothing like sure odds

3.When you face life the hard way it becomes easier, when you face life the easy way,it becomes harder

Martinez39s:
Yeah. I miss CAPSLOCKED.

MZBOLT, I think, was the guy who wrote in green caps or whatever, and his texts were horizontally aligned to the right. Then we have sajmark, ichidodo (a poetic folk and one of Ubunja's biggest fan), ilekokonit, etc.

Well, nothing lasts for forever. Good to see you have taken your fitness seriously. Believe me, down the line, it will dawn on you that it was one of the best decisions you made. Kudos!

"Bro, going to the gym is one of the best decision I made this year ooo!!! . After encountering CAPSLOCKED redpilled comment on this platform about keeping fit few years ago, I'd wanted to start working out, but my addiction to FIFA Video game and alcohol (Desperado and trophy beer) held me back. The thought of going to the gym would fill me with anxiety and stress.

But in May, I hit rock bottom. I looked in the mirror and barely recognized myself. My stomach was huge (like python that swallowed 2 goats). That's when I decided to take control. I started going to the gym regularly, despite my initial mind resistance.

It wasn't easy, but I persisted. And slowly, I began to notice changes. My addiction to video games and alcohol started to fade, replaced by a new passion for fitness. Today, I'm proud to say that I'm looking and feeling healthier than ever.

Redpill is life!!!!