Kobojunkiee:
If only we would also give this same advice to all men who think having a side chicken makes sense.

Take it or leave it men and women are never the same...

Once another prick starts devour the married woman towtow, that marriage is likely over.

tete7000:


Adulthood and everything pertaining to it is all about responsibilities. Sometimes I look back and relish my childhood days. Those days when we run the street rolling tyres up and down while leaving our parents to worry about injuries sustained in the process.

Only those who remain infants in adulthood are those who don't know it is synonymous with responsibilities, with or without marriage. Marriage is just another responsibility associated with growing up, children don't marry, adults do.

Let's be fair to some extent, you can't compare those days to these days.

It's extremely choking now...

FromTopToBottom:
...when I see men who want to get married, I always tell them "your home is blessed".

Foolishly, you will see people telling the men "congratulations" .... congratulations for what ? For selling your peace of mind ? or for dividing your life into two ?

If all marriages should dissolve today, I don't think up to 20% of the men will marry again

Word!!!

TheMaterialist:





The reason is that when you are responsible for
the welfare of other human beings, you have to acquire the basic neccessities such as food, clothing, shelter and medicine.

You also need to Send kids to school, pay house
rent, electricity bills, lawma bill, even entertainment bill(Dstv, Gotv, Netflix).

All these are simply the costs of living a secure
and comfortable life.


So yes, living well is very expensive.


Which is why a woman has to find a partner that
would take the burden of these responsibilities
and show serious commitment.


It is very important for the safety and comfort of
her and her children.


So i apologize, if the Marriage maintenance is a bit
expensive, but the Family unit has to thrive in
order for society to thrive, and you are playing
your role as a Husband Well.

Take pride in it, for your sacrifices are,
Imperative.

In a society were standard of living is very poor, how do one expects family units to thrive.

Adexgentle005:
😏What is actually sweet about marriage? What ridiculous decisions are you talking about? Ridiculous decision is that I got married or what? I bet you are not even in a relationship talk more of thinking of getting married. You don’t know shit bro.

Bro I can imagine your plight. 4 years ago I was just rushing and so eager of entering into marriage because I was almost approaching 30.

I am glad I never made that mistake yet... I would have been spending on bills bills bills instead of acquiring more skills...

In my compound whenever I wake and look at my hardworking married neighbor...I feel pity for him... "Bloodshot eyes, atyms he falls into deep thoughts", and he now's looks older then me. Even though I senior him in terms of age.

Fact one can't compare our fathers times in terms of marriage to this current clime.

Everything don cast ..

seanwilliam:
God bless you . This shows that you’re a responsible man
Not all men are lucky to have women that ‘support’ financially, even if she does, you should not rely on that 100% .
Hmm. . But ehn 100k in two months as a married man is very fair o.


It’s far more easier to save as a single man.

How? When you’re single, you only spend what you want , you can ignore billings you’re not comfortable with , no one can compel u except you’re generous or a simp. infact you can decide to be extremely thrifty , and it’s more easier to adjust and adapt to any situation. You can decide to suspend morning and afternoon food, you can decide not to sub to cable, you can decide to even sleep if you have little change in your account. It’s easier to take risk and you’re open to different opportunities.

But when you’re married, it’s impossible to do all that. No matter how wicked you are , you can’t watch your own wife and kids go hungry , 90% of time , you’ll have to consider your family before taking any decisions.
Except you’re financial buoyant , you can’t just buy any cloths, shoes, for yourself. You can’t go to expensive restaurant without thinking about what to give your family the next day .


If you have money in your acct, you’ll still be scared , 70% of time you’ll be experiencing heart palpitations, you’ll not want them to lack.

Technically as a man, when you marry, you’ve given up your freedom and comfort for others.









That’s why , a man needs to be smart and ‘prayerful’ while choosing life partner , not all women worth these sacrifices.

Word of wisdom...not all women are worth that kinda sacrifices.
Especially this tiktok/oloshoism, manipulative, liars,low quality era of women all around now..

CaveAdullam:
1. A university is a place of higher education where individuals gain knowledge and skills that can be used to gain a better advantage in any chosen profession. It's a cynosure for ideas from different perspectives, fused into one place so that everything taught and learned will be robust for profits, sustainability, and development.

Take for example a traditional herbalist who can get medication from a different potpourri of plants that can heal. This is based on experience.
However, he lacks knowledge of the biochemical process that resulted in that healing. He doesn't even know the constituents of the plants. All he knows is that plant A + plant B can cure Mr. C's illness.

If he decides to understand this whole process, he takes a pharmaceutical or biochemical course at the university. His horizon widens, and his repertoire of knowledge gets fat. This additional knowledge will fetch him more money as it is an upgrade. Even his clients will be happy to pay more if they are well-enlightened.

Originally, the higher institution wasn't meant for the poor and low IQ. It was for the elites and monarchs to train their kids in preparation to take their position after they retire or die. The peasants were meant to take local professions. Those with high IQs could fit well into the system and benefit largely because, by their IQ, they are curious and hungry for more knowledge.

Fast track to our contemporary day, the university has been filled with low IQs. People are not hungry for knowledge, but see it as a means to an end - money.

The monetization of the university by the government has even made things worst. Centers for learning and education are scattered all over the place, not for educational purposes per se but for profits. You know this by the series of departments and courses they create annually; this is to accommodate more students - the higher the number of students, the higher the profits.

A university education is not a waste. It seems like a waste in many nations today because there is no enabling environment to practice your profession and put every knowledge and skill into action.

Education can make you richer than the layman practicing the same profession as you. It's a matter of having the right tool and environment to implement that which you have learned.

2. Only a foolish son will squander the riches of his parents. Born into a rich home is a rollercoaster to wealth. It saves time and any unnecessary hustles. It gives you an edge over your peers. It gives you connections to other rich people.

Being born into a poor family is a setback. A huge disadvantage that can impede your movement and render you unable to do something meaningful with your life.
It takes a subset of individuals from poor backgrounds to experience success. The majority never meet up.

You can't compare an almajirai child running in the streets of Borno state under a scorching sun, begging for alms with a Saudi young prince. Both are not only continents apart, but in their destiny also. The prince is already in his monarchy while the almajirai is still somnabulating and looking for food to eat.

Being born with a silver spoon matters.

3. Positive thinking helps. Determination is good. Hard work is necessary. Consistency is a prerequisite.

But people do underestimate LUCK.

Your positive mindset, determination et al., are good as nothing if you don't have luck, a chance to make the big blow, and win.

You can't compare a prisoner to a free man. A healthy man to a psychiatric patient. Those that make a breakthrough from rugged conditions are the exceptions, not the rule. Luck met and blessed them.

If your environment is bad, you'll hardly see success. If government policies aren't favorable, you'll struggle hard. If you're not born with the right genetics, you'll triple work your way up.

Be prepared enough. Nothing is set in stone. We live by faith and hope, expecting to reach our destination someday. We must keep moving.

May we be favored by luck and chance.

Thanks.

Words of wisdom;

You too smart!!!!

GRIMMJOE:
This life is a competition, you think you can compete with a man that's dedicated to his work day and night, while you go about chasing women, he will beat you black and blue everytime.

Women are distraction, and distraction eliminate the weak.

Serious distraction

For now nothing,

My motto is "My family is Life".

When I am down and life seems to be meaningless... Family seems to be the bedrock that makes it colourful.

Nothing beats coming from a good family.

My wish is to see all my family members grow and succeed in all ramifications...their happiness is my happiness.

Good one, those sport bets has spoilt the beauty of foot ball via match fixing... .
The peaky blinders series made me understand match fixing of odds to a certain extent....

But Via sport bets I get to know these teams with weird names. Team like JuJu(jeju) United of South Korea, Cork City of Ireland, Dundee United of Scotland , Grasshopper club Switzerland, miscellaneous of Botswana, Chicken Inn of Zimbabwe,Ebusua dwarfs Ghana etc etc.

Faber:


I prefer the red pill reality of never expect anything good from women; always expect everything bad from women to the blue pill scam of
women are weak and sweet creatures; when you treat them nice you will enjoy their company and loyalty like angels
The disappointment and heartbreak that comes from the later can make a simp run mad or commit suicide.
I don see women finish for this life. Nothing about them excites me anymore[b][/b] 😎

Even their virginity?

but nothing special about this yam

Men age like wine.... a 60 years old man still have huge chance in the marriage market compared to a 60 years old woman

murphybo:
Make dem give us our black and white back oo this one dey do eye somehow

Honestly e dey bore eyes... na force i dey force my eyes to look am self

Bride Price or Buy price.

Come to think of it.
There is more to life than marriage...

If you don't have millions to throw out for bride price, the lady can support.If she really wants you.

No go enter serious gbese' because of buy pride ..

Truth is better...

The world don cast

INEC just came to catch Cruise.

This one no be election.... Na play ,dem just dey play.

it seems obvious na

Thugs in Lagos aint joking this time, it is like a war here. Apc plan to conquer Alimosho local government this time.
Some youths that votes in the presidential election dont what to vote this time because they feel their votes wont count, some are scared of the thugs factor.

But lets see how it goes.

Election in Nigeria has turned survival of the fittest... Free and Fair is more like a mirage

They mean DemoCRAZY, CrazyDemo.

Demonstration of Craze Award.

No doubt Tinubu is a very powerful politician...How e plays his game always baffles me.

This ones Governors are humble this days...

Gombe governor dey apologize.
Lagos state dey beg
Anambra governor don suddenly become nice

Even the proud MC Oluomo of Lagos don mellow down dey beg come turn comedian suddenly ....

oh!!!!!! okay , I decipher March 11th dey around the corner.

Like e go hard to rig easily this time

"DEM NO DEY WIN ELECTION FOR TWITTER."

"NO MATTER HOW EYES RED REACH, E NO FIT LIGHT CIGAR"

"AFTER MAN DON CUM, HIM SENSES GO CUM BACK"

Me that don't like anything borrowing...Buhari hardship introduced me to this Fairmoney app....now I still dey pay gbese'

Hmmm.....

Like if you think that the election results was fake and rigged, share if you think otherwise.

Like If you feel Peter Obi will defeat Tinubu in this election..
share if you think Otherwise.


On the contrary...the way PDP is moving..dem fit shock everybody.

Musa Yar'adua best president Nigeria has ever produced...His memories still lingers

I never knew the so called structures was just rigging, bribery, ballot snatching, underaged voting and thuggery.

Moreover I thought Inec Chairman said the results will be speedy... we supposed don start gets updates especially from the KKK states

Like if you think Peter Obi will win this election, Share if you think Other wise.

Meanwhile...I can't wait to see the results from the Kim Kardashians States (Kano, Kaduna, Kastina)

JESHAL:
A man who trades his days of building for complacency would have no choice but to "embrace his feminine side" and weep in agony for he has failed to forge his masculinity. He will therefore go forth to seek restitution in a woman who has lost her inherent femininity for he needs an escape from his mediocrity.

We all seek what we do not have.

This pill too bitter to swallow...arhhhh

Deep words!

JESHAL:
If you don't become something as a man, the only person that will love you for who you are is your mother.

Only men love women for what/who they are because what they are is why we want them, what they are is inherently birthed with them;the femininity.

DEEP .....

Hatrick01:
Mention the nairalander u cant afford to loose or deactivate....

Caveadullam,Ubunja, Martinez,Pasonpanist,CAPSLOCKS,Johnnydon2,Jesal,Hardmirror...

This men are bestowed with realistic knowledge...
Respects