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Na wa ooo,

People are not yelling, "2025 is my year" , instead they are preparing to embrace the hardship with thicker skin

Tpain!!!!

Wahala for people wey dey wait for promises from Government that looks for every little opportunities to throw blame and give excuses...

Days of Nostalgia,

Those Days Christmas used to be very fun...Its as if Jesus was actually with us live. While we merry with him. No one ever goes hungry on Christmas day...neighbors share delicious rice and stew with each other..." my mama go cook rice give me and my siblings to share, as we dey share na so dem neighbors go dey show us Christmas love (in money or gifts).. Now things don over Change.

Those days, Boys were conditioned to be strong... " we channel over energies into Gidigbo fights, Police and thief, Catcher, ojuju calabar etc)... Not now where na sex sex and porn contents full many young boys head

Basic123:
Chai!....the only distinct feature of Gen Z I know is "PRIDE" ....May be and "I TOO KNOW". 😆


Gen Z will never greet you first untill you greet them first and they always want to challenge status quo with the Little knowledge and experience.

Hahahahaha aside from majority of them being too disrespectful , most of these Gen Z girls.... over like sex gan!!! damn..

iamonpointa:
My initial reaction to this post is that trying to explain this phenomenon to someone who has never been in the position of the so-called "snubbing old friend" would be similar to trying to teach colors to a blind person. You just can't understand some things until you experience them.

Making money or becoming rich requires you to become a different kind of person. That friend wouldn't have become rich anyway if they had remained how they've always been.

Tip: if you feel like you're stagnating in life, it's because you keep doing the same thing. Until you change, nothing changes. The first and biggest change must be your mindset. You are not immune to being successful too. Think of ways to become more valuable so that you can attract value from others.

No one person can satisfy everybody, no matter what they do and how wealthy they become, the higher you go, the bigger your problems. The more entitled the people around you become. In fact, people around you would become so entitled that they would raise their standard of living solely based on how well you are doing financially. Lol

I'm not rich, but I'm doing so much better (financially) compared to how I used to.

Since then, a lot has happened with old "friends" and even family members, that have made me reach the conclusion that the only way to satisfy people is to never succeed. As long as you remain poor/broke/useless, people will be cool with you.


I'm naturally an introvert. I don't keep friends or go out much. Been like that since childhood
I've also been close to as low as anybody can go financially. Back when I was broke if my phone rang 20 times, I knew who was calling 19 out of them - my mother.

Fast forward to a few years later when things started to go well, "friends" began to crawl out of walls and everything around me.
Most of the time, it's usually to request some kind of assistance. Whether directly or indirectly. These are people that I haven't heard from in over 6yrs. Most are classmates from secondary school - as per how you are supposed to be "friends" with your classmates back then.

Try to see things from your friend's perspective (even though you probably won't understand as stated earlier).
You might think that your "friend" is rich, and should be able to help you with "small money." That is your perspective.

The part you don't see is that about 100+ other people are also requesting the same thing, and if they were to indulge them all, not only would they run out of money, but they would also run into debt.

So what do they do?

They would probably pick the few (say 5%) most important people on that list and help them. Trust me, you would do the same in their shoes.

If you believe what I just said, can you seriously consider the likelihood of you being one of the most important persons to a "friend" that you haven't spoken to in years?

In other words, your "friend" is doing for others that are important to him, you just aren't on that list.

If somebody calls you that a friend that you haven't spoken to in years is in trouble with the police, would you show up as per good friend?
You didn't even know whether they were dead, disabled, sick, or in prison.




My life is more stressful now, compared to back when I was broke. And that's me who didn't keep friends in his broke days, due to my personality. I wonder how somebody with a lot of friends would cope.

Even as a single guy, about half, sometimes more, of all the money that I spend is for other people. Yet, I still have friends and family who believe that I'm not doing enough for them. "Na small money e dey give person, not enough to start a business" some would say.
I'm not even rich yet! Lol

I'm constantly worrying about how to make more money. I have sleepless nights sometimes. Even people who are dependent on me are enjoying life more than I am.

So yeah, the last thing I want is another entitled "old friend" that I haven't seen or heard from in 6 years, crawling out of the shelf to make me vomit the drinks that they shared with me all those years ago.
I don't even want genuine well-wishers or any distractions. Stay away and allow me to think!




Most of this write-up probably won't make sense and will be filled with typos. I just want to rant.

So much sense in this post

Never say never....keep pushing

paddyman:
Very educative thread.

Very Very

Farming

wait if dey steal person pricck...how will the person private part now look like??...

"Dem thieve your pennis, dem thieve your pennis", yet no physical evidence.

And i noticed its poor man prick dem dey always thief.like its the only valuable assset he owns..sighsssss

luminouz:
K

This "K" was shared.... hahahaha

off me

otele:
I understand where you are coming from. But in the final analysis, it shouldnt take a lot to marry and have at least one kid. You dont need to be a millionaire to marry. There are people who I know, still living under their father's roof, but have a job that pays a little. They married someone and had one kid. Eventually they left their father's home, and slowly started rising but by the age of 40 he already had an 18 yo son who is an adult. some of his mates were still trying to 'settle' before marriage, at 40. You will never have a perfect time to marry while under 40. and if you are financially stable (whatever that mean) and ready to marry, if you are from eastern nigeria, your marriage list go reach heaven. But if you are a kid that just started life, you may have a more reasonable list.

Just start. I had a friend that had no job, he married, here in london, many years ago. His wife was earning a little money. He later stabilized and they have 3 kids . . . all grown.

If I have any regret, it is not marrying early. I'm in my late 30s now, i'm stable, but I have slept with so many girls that I have developed a distrust for the female gender and a distaste for marriage. This wouldnt have been the case if I married 15yrs ago. I am mad at myself now.

I know of a guy that married young, lost his job , struggled and struggled to feed for the family and ended up dying before he reached 40 due to some underlying health issues caused by acute stress. last last life no get manual.

Sirchiboy:
I wish I knew:

1. Don't lend anyone money, just give the little you have to the person and tell him not to return it.

2. Don't fight over a woman let her go good one will come.

3. Don't have a land dispute with anyone, accept the boundaries as claimed by defendant. Me dey follow the rules now.

Add yours

1.To be good and ruthless... instead of been nice and careless

2. Nothing like sure odds

3.When you face life the hard way it becomes easier, when you face life the easy way,it becomes harder

Martinez39s:
Yeah. I miss CAPSLOCKED.

MZBOLT, I think, was the guy who wrote in green caps or whatever, and his texts were horizontally aligned to the right. Then we have sajmark, ichidodo (a poetic folk and one of Ubunja's biggest fan), ilekokonit, etc.

Well, nothing lasts for forever. Good to see you have taken your fitness seriously. Believe me, down the line, it will dawn on you that it was one of the best decisions you made. Kudos!

"Bro, going to the gym is one of the best decision I made this year ooo!!! . After encountering CAPSLOCKED redpilled comment on this platform about keeping fit few years ago, I'd wanted to start working out, but my addiction to FIFA Video game and alcohol (Desperado and trophy beer) held me back. The thought of going to the gym would fill me with anxiety and stress.

But in May, I hit rock bottom. I looked in the mirror and barely recognized myself. My stomach was huge (like python that swallowed 2 goats). That's when I decided to take control. I started going to the gym regularly, despite my initial mind resistance.

It wasn't easy, but I persisted. And slowly, I began to notice changes. My addiction to video games and alcohol started to fade, replaced by a new passion for fitness. Today, I'm proud to say that I'm looking and feeling healthier than ever.

Redpill is life!!!!

Martinez39s:
Wow! Long time, bro. Where have you been? Indeed, the earlier days of this thread will always be missed by those who were there. Those days preceding the invasion and subversive attempts by pathetic and childish nuisances.

As for Ubunja, he has gone like many others. As I have said before, everyone won't be here forever. Even CaveAdullam rarely drops posts again. BLOODYSPERM, nerostealth01, hedgefunds, saviolamemphix, SOZINN etc. are really missed.

And CAPSLOCKED, the red font man. I missed him too on this platform.A very stoic redpiller... He was the reason i took gyming and excercise very serious.Now i am a gym rat and i am proud of my current physique.

Seunomobo:
So why are you getting emotional about this?
Life is transactional.
The earlier you understood this , the better for you.
Don't take this to heart.
Just keep doing your best to support your son .
Everything will fall in place..
Btw, I supported my elder sister to leave her lazy, struggling, I don't care attitude hubby,cos no be understanding, pity and miracle she go chop..
She's gladly a side chick to a married man and she's very happy with him than being with the useless man she used to be with ..
Before you come for me, just know say, I get am before no be property....
If you like call me and my sister ashawo, that one no be insult eh, find better insult give me then I'll reply you

High body counts and too many pricksss don scatter this one brain...

To bond with man go hard her ..

Bizmind95:
Nigerian girls don't love unconditionally like we men do...they are all fvcking OPPORTUNISTIC lovers...Know this and know peace!...if you must fvck as a man...then just find a girl in your league...fvck...pay and go your way...Never get emotionally attached to a Nigerian girl...that shit is akin to suicide!!! As for marriage...if you must marry as a man...then just find one small girl that is scared of you...someone you can easily control and wife her(that's why our wise ancestors married girls as young as 16 for controlling and respecting sake)....But if the marriage no come work out for you...Then just quit and go your way for your sanity sake!...forget what people will say...you aren't the first and won't be the last divorcee on Earth!!!...And never breed like Rabbits...so you will be free of unnecessary commitments that bogs you down when it's time to quit....cus women sabi use plenty kids tie a man down inside a useless troubled marriage...Finally, never marry for fake true love...that shit died way back in our parents' era!!!

Words of wisdom

Everybody wan to trend with nude this days...

Chai what a comtose declining society we are in this days

5 naira and 10 naira has gone to extinction here in Lagos ,N20 is on a verge to extinction.

N50 is like the N5 of yesteryears.

It's unfortunate how our currency has lost its value tremendously.

All those Ghanaians, Chadians ,Benin Republic migrants doing those aboki kind of jab has Japa back to their country since our currency don't have level anymore.

Quite unfortunate

Martinez39s:
Indeed, you are in the group. That guy is gradually responding to sound advice. Ooomoo. We are all fortunate to be red-pill aware. We do the best we can to help others see the light. One simp saved a week, or a month, is something.

Yea I loved the fact he was open and actually accepting the fact he was slaving for the single mother fucking other guys

Indeed the redpill is Life!

Rillycool:
How do I get into the group again

I am not actually an admin...but send me a pm I will talk toan admin there

JESHAL007:
Drop link for that WhatsApp group

I think the link was revoked when some women disguising as men was trying to infiltrate the platform.

@Martinez39s Please can you add senior man Jeshal to the platform

Martinez39s:
There are lot of things I would have loved to respond to, even from way back, for the purpose of edification, but time won't let me. I had taken a break long break from here and I only engage from time to time on one red pill WhatsApp group.

I will say one thing, there is nothing about game or redpilled in ignoring a woman's sexual past and giving her commitment as long as she is behaving nice to you and acting as you want. This is degenerate behaviour. Don't do it guys! There is only tears down the road. Don't compare that to your relationship with you mothers and sister, they are not your romantic partners, you aren't obligated to provide for them, you are not their head, and you don't fùck them. They can fucçk who they like, they are not your spouse.

Perish this nonsense! Past matters.

I am fortunate to share same redpill group with you. You are a real red pill OG...That group alone has liberated lots of simps..in which the of recent, is that dude crazily in love with a single mother that fu..cks around...

I dont really understand why senior man ubunja left the group...

It is well.

TRP is Life!!!!!!!

Alpha Fu..cks ,Beta Bucks.

iLegendd:
Men, invest o! Any little cash, invest. Don't go drinking Guinness of 10k. 2 = 20k. That is about $12 which you can use to learn crypto trading. Use YouTube — all the info are there for free.

Some women have oil-wells in-between their legs and there are millions of SIMPs around the world who are eagerly waiting to pay for it. Even with all the money she has made from her oil-well, if you marry her, you'll still foot the bills. Not all women use their oil-wells for money, some have dignity, but most don't.

You're on your own. Even after you've made it, for 5-10 more years, act as if you haven't made it yet. E get why.

This is too Reddddd!!!!! What a hard pill to swallow

iLegendd:
I saw this on Tiktok and I laughed. So true. The moment women are the ones calling you a real man, you're a gonna—a big SIMP.

Dem say na real boyfriend dey train him girl friend for school.

Na real man dey put him girl friend on monthly salary...

Thank God for Redpill

uncleck:
Do you know that there are skills you can learn and perfect in six months? Do you know that there are skills that you can learn free of charge? Do you know that there are skills that, if you acquire them you can get your tools with less than 5k? Do you know that there are skills that, if you acquire them, your tutor will be hiring you until you start getting your own contracts? Do you know that there are skills that will allow you to set up your workshop inside your bedroom with minimal capital and be getting your clients online? How much does it cost to become property agent?

Do you know that you can make money if you start posting other people's wares online? When you get a buyer you take them to the seller and get your commission. How much does it cost print on nylon bags and Tshirts? How much does it cost to learn and start making perfumes? How much does it take to learn how to Barb? Etc

So many sense in this post

Karlifate:
Dear [gentle] men,

Unless your life is in order, getting girls shouldn't be a priority.

There will always be hot girls around.


Never put dating over self-development. 🔥💯

Strong quote... But lots of this Genz boys will not listen.
As pussy has hits the large core of their brain cells.

Sighssss.

Roarke:
That magical thinking bullshit is why my networth is in 8 figures a little shy of 9 figures. We're not on the same frequency so it won't make sense to you and that's fine. It like someone who spent his whole life simping to get women when he's introduced to a better way of getting women without simping he can't relate because he's been trained all his life to believe simping is the only way to get women.

Do give away na!...make boys dem tap from your anointing

mablie:
The Number 2 is nothing but "Magical Thinking" bullshit.

Apologises for my dismissiveness but the Number 2 is what it is,"Magical Thinking" bullshit.

ohI was thinking the number 2 is Delusion of Grandeur