₦airaland Forum

Davash222:
You don't force respect and value, you earn them, rather.

Obviously, she's out of love for you. You shouldn't be disgruntled, that's one of the demerits of dating a Nigerian girl.



My advice;

Try as much as possible to give your heart a sense of belonging by avoiding Nigerian girls. The next girl you'll meet, will be worse than your current girlfriend. They are programmed that way.

I hope you are also avoiding nigeria girls, because God will punish you if you are currently with one.

MLTR:
With the rate modern gurls are rushing into prostitution codely & openly ... the best option is babymama. for these lagos gurls wey no dey into runs no reach 20% of the maiden population.
Its time men start living long tew

A lot of girls are into prostitution today because men still flood around prostitue, if men stop carrying prostitute i bet you those ladies will change.

Abortion should never ever be legalised in this part of the world ,here are my reasons. 1) If abortion is legalised in nigeria that means the rate of forunication and corruption would go high, some people don't forunicate for fear of pregnancy. 2) The death rate of young girls would sky rocket, because we have many quack doctors and abortion kills. 3) It is a very big sin before God, and no religion should encourage abortion, the girl, the boy, and the doctor are all murders in the sight of both man and God. I hope with these few point of mine, have being able to convise you and not confuse you that abortion should never be legalise in nigeria.

All those non-virgin men that are looking for virgin women, may God never grant you your request, a non-virgin man deserves a non-virgin lady and vice versa.

Zzor:
Exactly and these same men bash baby mamas endlessly

That because they don't know themselves.

Ikillbrokehoes:
Same as dozens of irresponsible women

If there are no irresponsible men, there will not be irresponsible women.

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Zzor you are very correct, these days we have a lot of irresponsible men in our society that are not ready to take up their responsibilities as fathers.

ahahnow:
Please guys and sisters who have successfully lured men, please share advice on how I can toast a guy. What do i say? I'm scared. If he didn't approach me first does that mean he doesn't want me? How do I impress him? I'm average looking so I dont look like other pretty girls on IG. Heeeeellllpppp

Hope this guy is not on nairaland, because if he is, that means i really pity you with all the stupid comments am seeing here.

CosmicPhoenix:

if your GF is 18 and above,forget it,she's not a virgin.

Nonsense talk as usual.

OMOJOHN001:
Okay dear, I know what I did is a sin, But its not against human or you. its against my own body and my God.
which I have asked for forgiveness and I have faith that I have been forgiven my sin.

Thanks for your advice though.

You are welcome.

OMOJOHN001:
Yes she is A virgin and I don take her virginity.
what else can a gentleman like me do

Stop being proud of forunication, what you did is a sin. and i notice any guy who takes a lady virgnity always have a strong bond with the lady, like a blood convenant, maybe that why she is behaving that way.

ALL THESE HEARTLESS MEN WE HAVE ON NAIRALAND, LOOK AT THEM LIEING ON SOCIAL MEDIA, ONE WAS EVEN SAYING HE CAN BEAT A WOMAN EVEN WHEN SHE'S PREGNANT ALL IN THE NAME OF SELF DEFENCE, WHAT A SHAME.

I have always knew this op is very senseless, but when i say it, people will join him to start insulting me.

Why will you ask her when she lost her virgnity? is it your business? the only person that has the right to ask a lady such question is her husband, asfar as you are just a boyfriend you don't have such right.

Op have you had sex with her, and was she a virgin when you met her?

Jidenna: guys that bears this name are usually unfaithful, they are alway jumping from one women to the other. Princes: guys who bear this name alway look innocent but they are very dangerous,and they lie alot. John: guys answering this name are usually broke.

Finnese001:
We are nice oo, but sometimes we refuse the urge to simp because that's what majority of our ladies sees as being romantic and caring.

And BTW, marriage is a union, it's involved two persons. So I don't see how it benefit men more than women. It should be 50/50 thing

I agree with you that marriage is a 50/50 thing, but most of you men here usually says marriage is more benefitting to women.

Finnese001:
Lol, is better you start being nice to us now or start preparing your own note 10 years to come

I can never be nice to nairaland men, because you guys are not nice to women, and before that 10yrs time you are talking about, i am already a mother.

Finnese001:
I thought most ladies here use to say that marriage is more profitable to men than ladies, so why are you depressed


Zzor fati2001 virginprincess

You guys should come and explain to this sister that marriage is benefit men more

Yes na, it more benefitting to men, but God has already formed the union called marriage, so we ladies don't have a choice, we just have to manage it the way we see it.

Op have you finished so i name my own(guys).

It doesn't mean anything, what of those people that wears church wrist band on their leg. what does it mean?

HAPPY NEW MONTH NAIRALANDERS.

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Hmmm, but what are you always doing in a club or beer palour.

Anoth:
All that you girls want is Money,,,,,
Some of you will refuse to date a man whose name is broke ,,,,,,

You know what? educating you is a big waste of time i am tired, Goodnight.

Anoth:
Anóth This is not a one man's account, lol

Then is how many people account.

Vexedkid:
lol. Nigerians are so spiritual, but what ya don't know is that I feel more connected to the supreme being when I smoke. Anyway, do you have reason from this vehemence in position?

Yes, i see smokers as irresponsible people, decent and well trained people don't smoke.

Anoth:
Well, it doesn't change the fact that you are among the majority,


You and I know the majority is dull and unreasonable

I am not among the majority, and also you and i know majority of nigeria men are irresponsible.

CAPSLOCKED:
VIRGINITY IS SO PRECIOUS.
I SEE ALL THE HOSPITALS AND SOCIAL AMENITIES THAT VIRGINITY HAS BUILT IN WEST AFRICA.

Virginty is not a human being, if it was, it would have done are this things, you are here spilling trash whereas is people like you that won't get married if you don't see a virgin.

Anoth:
I didn't said that, but I am strongly against guys that always generalize stuffs.
I know some Nigerian girls that are very smart and intelligent, and can hold a strong and meaningful conversation...
Don't listen to guys that say all those things.
Some Nigerian girls are smart, while others think that all they could offer In relationship is séx...
It's hard to find the smart ones though, and they are always single ...
I hope you are a smart girl , so this post is definitely not for you

Huh huh, now you are talking, is like your head use to shake sometimes, a minute you say something reasonable, the next minute you are saying something senseless