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Hi,I am a graduate of English and Literary studies,I can teach English and Literature flawlessly,i have several years of teaching English and Literature,i am available for relocation if the pay is good and accommodation available. ,I am presently in Warri ,Delta State.You can reach me on my WhatsApp (08145848829).Best regards.

Hi family ,please I am depressed, someone should help me with a job please ,I am a graduate of English,squatting with a friend in Ikorodu, but it has been really stressing due to attitude change (you know how some people change when you with them),I have been in deep thought and so down emotionally and mentally. I am praying someone here will be able to raise a drowning brother from this my post.Here is my WhatsApp number 08145848829.Someone should please save a brother.

Thanks for your advice ,i am not judging anyone ,I have to leave because his sister came and I have to give them space ,body languages says it all.
uote author=sisisioge post=121202457]Hmmmm....it is well.

Try to make a list of all the eatery/food chains around you and send them all a copy of your CV as well as deliberately follow their job portals for vacancies. Theirs mostly come with accommodation and meals. It's always a good start for fresh graduates.

Also, there are is a job alert group on telegram that posts jobs daily for fresh graduates, try to search and join it.

Furthermore, you need to be employable. Try to improve yourself while waiting....for example, you studied English but wrote like a science student. There are soft skills you could get for free on YouTub. The little things....

Lastly, be grateful your friend is housing you and stop being embittered by his lifestyle. It's his house, his life, his pocket, his girls. Just be of good countenance while searching for God's grace.

May God in His infinite mercy bless your hustle. Cheers.[/quote]

Thanks for your advice ,his sister came today so I will be leaving the house ,he told me they need space .
uote author=Mindlog post=121201801]At least you have a floor to sleep on in a room at night, homelessness can distabilize one's mental well-being. Manage where you are, until you get your footing.

You have a degree in English, look for tutorial centres around you and see the possibility of teaching those preparing for SSCE and JAMB.

You can go solo by also looking into identifying S.S.3 students around you, talk to their parents that you can coach them to do better in English language in the upcoming May/June exams. If you can get about 3 students to teach at the same time and teach them at least twice a week....if you are good with your teaching style, those parents will refer other parents.[/quote]

Hi ,nairaland family ,I am really depressed and saddened by things happening to me ,I had to bring it on here so I do not,end up harming myself and doing what I am not expected to do.I am a graduate of English, and I am ready to work but no work is forth coming and I am giving up,I was invited to come to Lagos (Ikorodu )precisely by a friend,packed all my things and came here ,but since I came he has been giving me attitude and most times ,it is one woman after the other that comes ,every night I sleep on the floor, praying that something will come up and I will leave for good but I have not been lucky with the Job ,I want to leave because most times I spend all I have on food and I am exhausted, he is always saying he does not have money but changes girls like wrapper .I want to leave and please if anyone can help me with a job ,I will be grateful ,I can't go back home because ,i am way older than going back home now ,so I have to start a life no matter how small it is .This is my predicament now ,I virtually watch plate daily and sleep on the floor .Feel so sad and depressed right now,to crown it all ,he is giving me attitude, eats out and won't bother to ask me if I have eaten.

Lord take control

I will use it to get some stuffs like rice and garri ,I am putting up with a friend so it will go along way to bring foodstuff from my own end .Thanks in anticipation

5k is a lot of money now to me ,rice is finished and me and my flat mate had to share the last one we boiled this evening, so 5k will get us basket of rice, then garri and I can use the balance to cook soup for the weekend because I am here thinking of tomorrow. I will be happy if I am considered because it will go a long way.Thanks.

Drink cold water and face your life .Better days ahead.

Easy bro.You are a man if you die ,you bring more problems home.



te author=Ablemed post=116634645]I'll like to make my story short as possible without much introduction tho. And also a lesson parents/ new couples should learn from my ordeal, Pls read to the end.

Alright So I'm the only male born of my parent among 4 girls, i also happen to be the last born at it. my problem started when growing up, cause my parent aged bfr getting a Male child which was my Dad and his parent cravings, I was pampered when growing up such that my parents would never watch me do stressful things, dictate when I go out and who I moved out with (My mum's own was even worse cause when growing up, if I want to go out, she'll always send me back inside) even during secondary school they had to get a school very close to our house. my sisters were only the ones that would go to mum's shop and make sales while mum would either stay with me at home or if I eventually go the shop sef I'll always sit and just watch. Literally, I'll say I was denied the right to be exposed to lotta things and real issues about life.

And cause I was not the sociable type cause I'll literally stay at home, watch movies, eat and my movements limited, I was exposed to pornography and masturbation at a very young age and I battled that bad habit thr my University days (Did I say my Parents also dictated the University I went to cause it was close to our House to and any small riot in school then the next hour they'll come and pick me back home till every thing dies down)

So guys over time, I've grown to be this boring guy who is shy, timid, suffering from low self esteem and can't give vibe even when gisting with my fellow guys, in which most of them just relegate me to this small boy level. Did I also say I've never had a Girlfriend all my life cause the truth is ion always know what to say or how to maintain talking vibe. At first I decide not to care and just always console myself with I was created like that and just continue my boring life, it has now gotten to the point I'm not rated in anything at all, most people just make friends with me cause of what they can gain from me, I'm not even good in anything, I can't speak clearly, I'm kinda literally mentally dumb and ion see me useful for anyone or anything, perhaps maybe God only, No business sense, no work skill or experience, no trade experiences to

I'm currently a Corp member serving and before then I rebelled against my parent cause they wanted to dictate the state I serve which is our state of residence so I go to my ppa from home but I told them No and even got to a fight to my Dad cause of this issue and we din speak for like 2weeks, he eventually called me and we settled. But the issue now is guys I've got less than two months left for my POP for service and you don't expect me to return home useless to my parent house again?? Tho sincerely thr my service year, I din touch my allowee so I've saved up to 270k so far. the issue is ask me what I want to do with the money? I've got no idea, what business sense or idea? Nothing is coming to my head, infact I don't know. The funny thing is, my roommate is exactly my opposite, very outspoken, bold, full of vibe and bring back different female friends each day, this guy is not really financially buoyant but you see girls cook and travel all the way to give him for us to eat. I just wish I was like him, i wish i had the vibe

I'm 24years now and at this age, no idea bout my future, bout life, I can't even relate with people, I'm just so sad, depressed and frustrated. At the moment the only job coming to my head is the military cause I served in a military barrack cause I choose it myself but most of the junior officers are trashing my interest by telling me not to waste my time say I no go survive am with my nature, that military needs tough people and endurance bla bla and on the other hand, my mum is saying Never she'll never allow me join the military not over her dead body and she's bout recruiting my Dad to and Sincerely I'm frustrated and my depression have taken another turn that over the past weeks I've been thinking suicide and it's getting really high, I say I should type this here bfr the worse happen cause if I can't be useful for myself what really is the point living??

Please this advice is to parent and intending parent/couples, pls and pls expose ur children to life, don't over pamper your kids, work on them to make them sociable and outspoken, I swear you'll be doing them a great favour. For me I thought my parent loved me, I thought they were trying to protect me but they've put me in a deep mess I have to face alone and just I pray I get the opportunity to make things right with me [/quote]

Who play the 2 odds ,Roger .

Who they play 2 odds ,quote me make I give you 2 odds,u Roger after wining,sporty or bet9ja

Juv and psg go win each other

Man u for the win, Manchester 247,any day ,anytime.

quote author=Badadvisor post=116344991]
5k Naira for two Manchester united fans if we win today.
Arsenal fans just dey rant we go put them where they belong today.
Up man U![/quote]

This is a goless match

Thanks alot .God bless you.

ote author=superCleanworks post=110760044]

guy dont cry. life is like that and with time only few things will surprise you. this should make you more mature and add to your experience.
your brother no try but keep that aside for now. no use malice block your focus.
many years ago i deleted anything oversea brother from my phones.
guess what, those who had my time called me or got my number from people to look for me by them selves.[/quote]

Thanks sir /ma


quote author=hbngtreyu post=110756498]
I hope say you no say na be send you the money?[/quote]

Thanks so much .Only God first and last
quote author=madampresident post=110756253]Op, I'm speechless at your story because I have been in your shoes once.

One advice I have for you is this "Never look up to man". May God provide for you in ways you never imagined.[/quote]

I will do as you adviced,he is always in my prayers.Thanks so much and I always keep you posted.

uote author=hbngtreyu post=110749615]
It's okay to still talk to your brother. Don't cut him off or burn bridges. He must have his own challenges, just give him some room.[/quote]

Sir /ma honestly ,you are a great person ,I got the money ,and I will always update you weekly and monthly how business is going.What my own blood could not do ,you did without blinking an eye lid ,and for my brother I have cut ties with him.If you are a man ,you are my brother,if you are a woman,you are my mother ,I owe you alot .

quote author=ststyreal post=110746910]
Amennnnnn and bless you too[/quote]

Oh sir ,I just saw your mail on my spam now and I have replied now

You can get through to me with my WhatsApp number or email: enasesweet74@gmail.com.

Virus20:
I have not got it sir, immediately I see it ,I will reply back .But here is my WhatsApp number
+234 812 431 4229.

I didn't get the mail sir/ma

hbngtreyu:
I sent you a mail

I have not got it sir, immediately I see it ,I will reply back .But here is my WhatsApp number
+234 812 431 4229.

Hi sir ,I don't really know how to send email out here ,but here is my my email: enasesweet74@gmail.com. and my account details is 0129922707.enase sweet Felix.GTB.I will always keep you posted.Lots of gratitude .


quote author=hbngtreyu post=110734915]
Send me mail. I will help you with your 10k debt. I hope that helps you get back on your feet. And then make sure to update me weekly or monthly.[/quote]

ststyreal:
You sef bone am abeg. Don't call him again... Try and fight for your destiny... You can go and teach in private school for few months and save up some money then, you can comfortably return to your pos business again. Abeg, don't call that your brother again and stop doing like sissy. Rise up and fight like a wounded lion. Vow to yourself that you must make it and work harder no matter how little the pay of any job you get might be, be deligent and happy doing it and God will surely come to your rescue.

God bless you.

Nemesis0147:
what useless situation?
Is that why he should be treating his kid brother like this?
What happened to explaining things to him?

The way you guys justify evil on this forum is very annoying

Honestly ,I feel very humiliated.But God will help me ,only God knows best