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Family / Re: You Are Nothing Without A Man.... Ladies!!! by vivienobidike(f): 4:15pm On Aug 27, 2015
The lies society keeps telling us..no wonder we have some women that the only thing they have to themselves is bearing another mans name
..remove it and they are nothing.

I believe this post. is very straight forward. A woman can be anything she wants to be without the societal requirement of having a man by her or she amounts to nothing.

So is she expected to halt her dreams, feel less of a human because she has no man?

For those saying.. the dream of every lady is to get married.. I beg to disagree

Marriage is seriously overrated.
Everyone won't get married...
Some will get old and die single ...not because they couldn't get a man but because they decide not to.

Like I said...if marriage comes in the process. of self actualization, embrace it. Don't live your every minute feeling less of yourself because the society tells u so..

Total hogwash

Live your life
Affect those around you
You weren't created ONLY to get married and bear another mans name
There is a bigger purpose
Marriage should be an addition
A topping on the cake
Not the entirety of your existence on earth.

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Family / Re: You Are Nothing Without A Man.... Ladies!!! by vivienobidike(f): 9:55am On Aug 26, 2015
KashyBaby:

i dunno…I'm happy now, i dnt worry much about tomorrow grin
I'm so loving.you... Answers.on spot!!!

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Fashion / Many Are Mad... Few Are Roaming by vivienobidike(f): 9:35am On Aug 26, 2015

Family / Re: You Are Nothing Without A Man.... Ladies!!! by vivienobidike(f): 9:00am On Aug 26, 2015
KashyBaby:
if any single ladies is a successful with her career , she rules her own world, she spend her own cash, she is independent…then marriage will juz her bonus... grin grin grin
Am proud to be Single cheesy cheesy cheesy

You gat the gist Kashybaby

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Family / You Are Nothing Without A Man.... Ladies!!! by vivienobidike(f): 8:53am On Aug 26, 2015
We live in a society that tells a woman

" You are nothing if you aren't married"
"Get all the degrees you want, climb to the highest ladder of your career, be a name to be reckoned with in the world!!! You are absolutely Nothing, if you have no Mans name
attached to yours"

Yesterday, I had a conversation with a male friend and it bothered on relationship and marriage. He asked me why I haven't walked down the aisle and I told him it will happen under the right settings and condition.
He perused me again and blurted..'never go marry ooo, dey here they talk u hear"
At this point, I told him I have lots of things to do, lots of lives to impact, plenty of mulla to make, the life of my head to enjoy and a destiny to chase. If marriage happens along the line....Halleluyah

Then he said "wetin you come this world come do?.. No be to marry, born pikin, dey man house?"
At this point I died inside..Words failed me, I just picked up my bag, bade him goodbye and left.
It is this same society that will tell a woman..."You don't have a church oooo, infact, you are just wasting your time going to your church, a man will still marry you.off to his church"
It is sad that we are reduced to nothing without a man by our side
It is sad that we are made to believe that our greatest achievement will be Marriage
..but heck!! who follows societal rules by the way?


I am Somebody...I will not accept the tag of being a minority
I have a voice, I refuse to be seen only. I will be seen, heard and my opinions taken seriously
I will not let society place a tag on my happiness.
I make my own route and follow them as long as it makes me happy First. Yes! I am selfish
I have said it before and will say it again.
Society do not bloody care
You will be remembered by the impact you made and not by marital status.

So...single ladies, Live Your Dreams
Walk your Dreams
Breathe your Dreams
And if marriage is part of your Dreams, It shall come to you.

www.vivienadaeze..com

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Family / What You Permit Is What You Get by vivienobidike(f): 8:31pm On Aug 20, 2015
What you permit in your relationship is what you get in the long run.
1. I was in a restaurant and I noticed a 'couple' seated at an obscure end. A glance at them would never raise your suspicion on what was going on between them, a second and third look if sensitive enough would shock you at the realization on what was transporting between them. The guys hand was working its way into the skirts of the lady and I could tell he was stroking her cause the look on her face was indescribable. To confirm my suspicions, when they rose to go, I saw a patch of seminal fluid on the guy pant.
2. A deaconess once told us a story about her visit to her fiancé family. On arrival, she decided to help his aged mom with her laundry and in the process, fiancé sister walked up to her and dumped her clothes for laundry too. Deaconess called her back and ordered her to take every of her clothes. Caused a strain in the relationship between SIL and the deaconess but she stood her ground and insisted she wouldn't take trash. Deaconess eventually got married to her man. SIL knows her boundaries and respects them well. ... The two scenarios above paints two different pictures.
I have nothing against public display of affection but when it involves groping and grabbing and other forms of extremes, it speaks a lot about how the couples in question views respect.i have seen with men who publicly squeeze the breast and butts of their partners in public and all they do is laugh or grin sheepishly. If he doesn't respect your body in public, then he won't do so in private. A man who tells you he loves you but constantly disrespect your person is not in Love with you. Love and respect are Siamese twin and go head in head. Both are inseparable. Boundaries should be respected. What you allow in your 'lovey-dovey' days will transform into its reviewed version later on in the future.
Does he always scold you in the presence of his family and all you do is shrink and hide?
Does he threatens to beat you up whenever you falter?
What are his views on women who strive to attain the peak of their career?
You cannot constantly overlook some important signs in the name of love. Love seeks to know, to understand better and make choices that would make her blossom.
On point two... I know some ladies will actually wash SIL clothes to paints the picture of a "wife material" and when she eventually gets into the family and SIL constantly disrespect her and treats her like trash, she would tell whoever cares to listen that SIL is Jezebel reincarnated. What you permit is exactly what you would get. Saying NO and standing your grounds sometimes would only earn you disdain but in the long run, your dignity and respect will be preserved.
You do not have to say YES to every request, every prodding. You do not have to agree to everything because you want to appear 'decent' in the eyes of people. It's very okay to have a different view, it is very good to disagree with opinions that do not sit well with you. Being in a relationship shouldn't turn into an automated machine that obeys the prompt of its handler.
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Business / Re: How To Build Your Profitable Online Store While Working 9 - 5 Job by vivienobidike(f): 9:11pm On Jun 10, 2015
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Family / Re: An Unforgettable Night by vivienobidike(f): 7:54am On Feb 09, 2015
FameG:
hahahaha. To be sincere d devil that has been holding your billionaire husband from seeing you has been cast away.
hahahaha.. I teh you oooo
Family / Re: An Unforgettable Night by vivienobidike(f): 7:22am On Feb 09, 2015
Pheals:
u dey angry dnt be! Na billionaire husband u nid? Dangote son is still single
ITI!!
Family / Re: An Unforgettable Night by vivienobidike(f): 11:23pm On Feb 08, 2015
Pheals, where is your sense of humour? Geez! The sarcasm of this post is so lost on you

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Family / An Unforgettable Night by vivienobidike(f): 10:46pm On Feb 08, 2015
After much persuasion, I had to attend the vigil to
please my mom..Who knows, the reason why I
haven't made millions or married a billionaire
might be revealed that night. I wouldn't want to
miss it for anything.
I wore the longest skirt I owned, donned a shirt
and was off to the life-changing vigil of the
year..or so i thought.

The service started with praise, not the usual kind
of songs praising God but those that seem more
like warfare. I asked my neighbour if the pastor
was around and was replied in the Negative.. I
sighed. I thought there were different kind of
praise songs depending on the segment being
ushered into. I looked around and realised that
my below the knee skirt was a micro mini
compared to the larger than life curtains
the ladies and women wore as skirts..Mmm..I will
definitely be a topic of discuss today.

The woman of God aka Prophetess finally got of
hold of the mike and her session which was the
most anticipated began in earnest.. She began
preaching..u know the usual type of wearing
trousers and making attachment with jewelries
will take you to hell and bla bla bla. Then all of a
sudden she faced me...

"You, sitting over there... What are you wearing
exposing your legs. You think you can come here
and tempt the brothers here. I have said it before
and will say it again.. o ye young girls exposing
your body, your breast, your thighs....There is no
place in heaven for you...REPENT"

Ye pa!!!! mogbe... Na so everybody turn dey look
ME... object of sin and temptation... chai!! them
get luck say na vigil, I for carry my two yellow
legs waka comet for der..

After much ado and lambasting in the name of
preaching, the main session everyone was
anticipating arrived.. "Deliverance, prayers and
prophecy time"

Everyone wants to hear of a certain witch holding
the key to their breakthrough, when they will
become millionaires and the ladies when Mr Right
would come knocking.

"Spread your arms wide" she commanded
"Begin to turn round, ask God to free you from
every yoke, every burden, TURN!!!!"

I opened my arms and began to turn slowly while
praying.. Meanwhile, the rest are all caught up in
the frenzy, all turning wildly like fan blades.

I stopped turning when I began to feel a little
dizzy and out of breathe. I stood still with arms
spread apart praying but 'prophetess' will have
none of that. She got to where I was standing,
pushed me and commanded I turn..abi I wan
miss my blessing ni.

I thought about the billionaire husband and
making millions and I swung in action. I spread
my arms wider and turned like crazy.. like my life
depended on it.

Then it happened...

I got very dizzy

The people around became a mass of blurred
colours

The ceiling spun around and round and round
And I began to stagger
I staggered to the left, to the right, to the left,
right and finally crashed on the heap of chairs
arranged by a corner.

They picked me up again and I was told to keep
turning ... Mumuish me kept turning ...and I kept
staggering and falling. I knew I was dizzy like
crazy but the rest felt I was arrested by the Holy
spirit.

When she finally decided it was my turn to pray
for me, she laid her hand on my forehead and
spun me around with force, I fell again.
She repeated it twice and I fell like a bunch of
cards on the floor..

Deep within me, I felt nothing... I was falling
cause I was damn dizzy from the turnings. I
didn't feel any anything, definitely not the power
of God coursing through me. I felt so empty, so
embarrassed and so used.

Finally, after much prayers and falling and casting
out of demons, the service came to an end.
Pheeeew!!! Finally

I carried my bible and dashed out hurriedly and
swore never to set my foot there anymore.

www.vivienadaeze..com

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Family / Dangerous Risk by vivienobidike(f): 3:46pm On Feb 08, 2015
Two days ago, I witnessed a short scenario that got
me a lil mad.

She lifted her leg the first time, but it didn't work

She lifted her skirt above her knees, lifted her legs
again, but the space left couldn't accommodate her
ample bosom.

She struggled once more as the bike I was on
zoomed pass her.. How I wish I knew the outcome
of the 'simple' task of mounting a bike.

How would a woman load 4 kids plus herself on a
single bike and feel very comfortable with it.
The bike man struggles with 2 kids in front, while
you struggle with 2 kids at the back bringing the
total passenger on a bike to 6.

I'm very sure you left the house praying that the
lord keep your going and your coming in..

Yet, you take such foolish risk

You drop all sensibilities and walk into danger with
open eyes.

You openly signed a death wish and it may be
granted.

Don't tempt death and claim you have faith oooo..
you are simply OYO

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Fashion / Re: How To Make Ankara And Leather Purses, Tote Bags, Box Bags And Accessories. by vivienobidike(f): 1:05pm On Feb 07, 2015
Revive! Revive!! Revive!!!
Family / Do You Fit Into Their Expectation And Description? by vivienobidike(f): 12:35pm On Feb 07, 2015
We all grew up in a setting where certain
expectations are placed on us. We are expected to
act, speak, laugh.. in a particular way. We are
expected to go to school, come out with good
grades, work in a multinational company and earn
fat salaries every month...

We are already placed on a regimented route even
before we see it. Some are forced to take a
particular career route because they want to fit into
expectations of their parents. Perhaps your dad
thinks that the best for you while deep inside you
value creative expression through art or poetry.

You belong to a generational line where lawyers are
produced and you are next in line.. you cannot
afford to disappoint the name your family has
struggled to build..you check the pros and cons and
decided to follow suit.. Deep inside is a dancer who
wants to tour the world doing professional dance
and grooming talented people who seek to express
themselves through dance..

Your parents attend one of those Orthodox churches
but you are madly in love with a Pentecostal. You
are expected to Marry a decent man from your
parents church because they hold a post and you
are expected to uphold the principles and doctrines
of the church and most important honour your
parents. You do not want to be seen as a bad egg,
you do not want to break the norms and you do not
want to disgrace your parents. You decide to marry
that dull uninspiring, unexciting brother and paint
the picture of happiness and contentment.

You are not happy, you live with a beast who has
reformed your face.
Your parents have been married for 40yrs..You
don't want to break the cycle..do you? So you stay.
You cover the bruises with layers of foundation. You
smile at everyone, you maintain the picture of a
decent woman..A Proverb 31 woman. You are not
expected to fault, fail or fumble. You appear
faultless, the world sees you as a role model. You fit
into their description of a wonder woman..

Do you fit into their description of you?

Do you live according to their expectations?

A life spent ceaselessly trying to please people who
are perhaps incapable of ever being pleased, or
trying too hard to always be seen as doing “what’s
expected of you,” is a sure road to a regretful
existence.

Life is under no obligation to give us what we
expect. And you are under no obligation to give
others what they expect. Period. Do things because
you care. Do things because you know it’s right.
Don’t just do things because everyone else expects
you to.

Be willing to go alone sometimes. You don’t need
permission to grow. Not everyone who started with
you will finish with you. And
that’s OK.

There comes a time when your back is up against
the wall and you realize all you can do is say,
“Screw it, I’m doing things my way!” That’s the
earth-shattering moment you stop planning for
someone else’s expectations, and start making
progress on what’s truly important to YOU. That’s
when you begin to live life according to your own
morals and values. That’s when you can finally be
at your happiest.
Fashion / Re: How To Make Ankara And Leather Purses, Tote Bags, Box Bags And Accessories. by vivienobidike(f): 8:56am On Jan 26, 2015
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Religion / Re: Let Go And Let God by vivienobidike(f): 8:51am On Oct 28, 2014
enm:
Op hope you won't mind me sharing your post on Facebook and other site
Go Ahead
Religion / Re: Let Go And Let God by vivienobidike(f): 9:50pm On Oct 27, 2014
williams20:
Yes , when he takes the wheels
You're sure of a safe landing
Definitely

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Religion / Re: Let Go And Let God by vivienobidike(f): 9:50pm On Oct 27, 2014
amjou:
Thanks for the message.
Guess the Lord was speaking to me through you.
Glad it blessed you
Religion / Let Go And Let God by vivienobidike(f): 8:31am On Oct 27, 2014
I woke by 2:30am with an excruciating
pain in my stomach. I groaned and
groaned, I twisted and turned, I rolled
over the bed, hoping and praying the
pains stop, but it didn't. For 30 minutes, I
was in great pains. I felt like my world was
coming to an end.

When it dawned on me that the pains
weren't ebbing off and i couldn't bear it
anymore, i ran to my parents room to
knock and call for mama. She met me in a
sorry state when she finally joined me in
the room ...For me to come call her, she
knew it was serious because I am one
person who can handle crises perfectly
well.

Oh! Mamas are always mamas ...No
matter what time or situation, they are
just always there. Take time to appreciate
your Mum is she is alive cause really, no
one can replace her role in your life.

Mum got a bottle of anointing oil, prayed
over it and gave me a shot to drink while
she massaged my tommy with oil in her
hand, Praying!

Within 5 minutes, the pains disappeared,
but Mum still stayed on my bed fanning
me cause i was already drenched in heat.
She stayed behind till i asked her to leave.
U see, i have the WORLD BESTEST MUM.

Sometimes, we think we can manage
situations and crisis on our own, but God is
saying " Cast all your cares on me" ...You
do not have to carry the pains and
burdens alone if you let me relieve you of
them. You dont have to go through that
problems and tough moments if only you
let me...Just Let go and Let God

We place so much confidence in our self,
our abilities, our capabilities which is good.
But there are times when we just need to
surrender and say..

"Jesus, take the wheel
Take it from my hand
Cause I cant do this on my own
Im letting go"

And trust that he never disappoints.

Im grateful to be alive and strong

Good Morning Friends

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Education / Re: University of Ibadan (unibadan)2014/2015 Post-Graduate Application by vivienobidike(f): 12:52am On Oct 22, 2014
Please reply ....Can I still purchase the form and how? Visited the site and it shows that late entry application started 4 days ago. What does it mean. Looking forward to studying Communication studies.
Education / Re: University Of Ibadan Postgraduate School 2014/2015 Admissions by vivienobidike(f): 12:46am On Oct 22, 2014
Is the form still on sale
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Finditt Ambassador by vivienobidike(f): 8:05pm On Sep 24, 2014
kingofabia: can a guy apply..asap

You can come tomorrow with your android phone to the office..
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Finditt Ambassador by vivienobidike(f): 6:10pm On Sep 24, 2014
DoveQueen: Please I use a BB device not android can I apply for this post? Thanks

DoveQueen, for now the application is developed for android phone. the BB version would be out soon. You can come for the training tomorrow at 113 obafemi awolowo way ikeja, By Mobil Filing station- Balogun busstop. 10am
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Finditt Ambassador by vivienobidike(f): 4:21pm On Sep 24, 2014
Ambassador who perform exceptionally well within 6 months have an additional Incentive of a weekend at Dubai
Jobs/Vacancies / Finditt Ambassador by vivienobidike(f): 2:28pm On Sep 24, 2014
Are you an intelligent, Mobile Savvy,
Presentable Lady? Then this is your
chance to earn 20k every week by
becoming a Finditt Ambassador.
The job of an Ambassador is to sign up
as many people as possible on our
mobile platform. Commission is 10%
on every signing plus N5000 weekly
bonus.

Conditions are: You must
possess an Android Device and you
must reside in Lagos.

Interested applicants should call
07088193331 or send CV to obidike.vivien@spadezpr.com
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Sales Ambassadors by vivienobidike(f): 8:29am On Sep 16, 2014
Interview holds today. 113 Obafemi Awolowo way..By balogun busstop. You can't miss our office. Its a yellow building beside the Mobil Filing Station
Family / Re: Essence Of A Woman by vivienobidike(f): 7:00am On Sep 16, 2014
aaronson: FUkkkkk you mothaFUka I Don't give a FUkkkkkk,You Could Get Your MothaFUKed,you writinq slick like you talk can slick in person to me,fukkk yo still piss on the bed and still coming out on here writinq shit like a raving lunat!c,last time I checked I had my own opinion to share about whatever situation why not give yours and keep it moving instead fukin your girls lap cus she aint gave puzzy,*judgemental fargottttttttttt

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