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Family / Re: You Are Nothing Without A Man.... Ladies!!! by vivienobidike(f): 4:15pm On Aug 27, 2015 |
The lies society keeps telling us..no wonder we have some women that the only thing they have to themselves is bearing another mans name ..remove it and they are nothing. I believe this post. is very straight forward. A woman can be anything she wants to be without the societal requirement of having a man by her or she amounts to nothing. So is she expected to halt her dreams, feel less of a human because she has no man? For those saying.. the dream of every lady is to get married.. I beg to disagree Marriage is seriously overrated. Everyone won't get married... Some will get old and die single ...not because they couldn't get a man but because they decide not to. Like I said...if marriage comes in the process. of self actualization, embrace it. Don't live your every minute feeling less of yourself because the society tells u so.. Total hogwash Live your life Affect those around you You weren't created ONLY to get married and bear another mans name There is a bigger purpose Marriage should be an addition A topping on the cake Not the entirety of your existence on earth. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: You Are Nothing Without A Man.... Ladies!!! by vivienobidike(f): 9:55am On Aug 26, 2015 |
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Fashion / Many Are Mad... Few Are Roaming by vivienobidike(f): 9:35am On Aug 26, 2015 |
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Family / Re: You Are Nothing Without A Man.... Ladies!!! by vivienobidike(f): 9:00am On Aug 26, 2015 |
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Family / You Are Nothing Without A Man.... Ladies!!! by vivienobidike(f): 8:53am On Aug 26, 2015 |
We live in a society that tells a woman " You are nothing if you aren't married" "Get all the degrees you want, climb to the highest ladder of your career, be a name to be reckoned with in the world!!! You are absolutely Nothing, if you have no Mans name attached to yours" Yesterday, I had a conversation with a male friend and it bothered on relationship and marriage. He asked me why I haven't walked down the aisle and I told him it will happen under the right settings and condition. He perused me again and blurted..'never go marry ooo, dey here they talk u hear" At this point, I told him I have lots of things to do, lots of lives to impact, plenty of mulla to make, the life of my head to enjoy and a destiny to chase. If marriage happens along the line....Halleluyah Then he said "wetin you come this world come do?.. No be to marry, born pikin, dey man house?" At this point I died inside..Words failed me, I just picked up my bag, bade him goodbye and left. It is this same society that will tell a woman..."You don't have a church oooo, infact, you are just wasting your time going to your church, a man will still marry you.off to his church" It is sad that we are reduced to nothing without a man by our side It is sad that we are made to believe that our greatest achievement will be Marriage ..but heck!! who follows societal rules by the way? I am Somebody...I will not accept the tag of being a minority I have a voice, I refuse to be seen only. I will be seen, heard and my opinions taken seriously I will not let society place a tag on my happiness. I make my own route and follow them as long as it makes me happy First. Yes! I am selfish I have said it before and will say it again. Society do not bloody care You will be remembered by the impact you made and not by marital status. So...single ladies, Live Your Dreams Walk your Dreams Breathe your Dreams And if marriage is part of your Dreams, It shall come to you. www.vivienadaeze..com 19 Likes 5 Shares
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Family / What You Permit Is What You Get by vivienobidike(f): 8:31pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
What you permit in your relationship is what
you get in the long run. 1. I was in a restaurant and I noticed a 'couple' seated at an obscure end. A glance at them would never raise your suspicion on what was going on between them, a second and third look if sensitive enough would shock you at the realization on what was transporting between them. The guys hand was working its way into the skirts of the lady and I could tell he was stroking her cause the look on her face was indescribable. To confirm my suspicions, when they rose to go, I saw a patch of seminal fluid on the guy pant. 2. A deaconess once told us a story about her visit to her fiancé family. On arrival, she decided to help his aged mom with her laundry and in the process, fiancé sister walked up to her and dumped her clothes for laundry too. Deaconess called her back and ordered her to take every of her clothes. Caused a strain in the relationship between SIL and the deaconess but she stood her ground and insisted she wouldn't take trash. Deaconess eventually got married to her man. SIL knows her boundaries and respects them well. ... The two scenarios above paints two different pictures. I have nothing against public display of affection but when it involves groping and grabbing and other forms of extremes, it speaks a lot about how the couples in question views respect.i have seen with men who publicly squeeze the breast and butts of their partners in public and all they do is laugh or grin sheepishly. If he doesn't respect your body in public, then he won't do so in private. A man who tells you he loves you but constantly disrespect your person is not in Love with you. Love and respect are Siamese twin and go head in head. Both are inseparable. Boundaries should be respected. What you allow in your 'lovey-dovey' days will transform into its reviewed version later on in the future. Does he always scold you in the presence of his family and all you do is shrink and hide? Does he threatens to beat you up whenever you falter? What are his views on women who strive to attain the peak of their career? You cannot constantly overlook some important signs in the name of love. Love seeks to know, to understand better and make choices that would make her blossom. On point two... I know some ladies will actually wash SIL clothes to paints the picture of a "wife material" and when she eventually gets into the family and SIL constantly disrespect her and treats her like trash, she would tell whoever cares to listen that SIL is Jezebel reincarnated. What you permit is exactly what you would get. Saying NO and standing your grounds sometimes would only earn you disdain but in the long run, your dignity and respect will be preserved. You do not have to say YES to every request, every prodding. You do not have to agree to everything because you want to appear 'decent' in the eyes of people. It's very okay to have a different view, it is very good to disagree with opinions that do not sit well with you. Being in a relationship shouldn't turn into an automated machine that obeys the prompt of its handler. For more write-ups visit www.vivienadaeze..com |
Business / Re: How To Build Your Profitable Online Store While Working 9 - 5 Job by vivienobidike(f): 9:11pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
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Family / Re: An Unforgettable Night by vivienobidike(f): 7:54am On Feb 09, 2015 |
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Family / Re: An Unforgettable Night by vivienobidike(f): 7:22am On Feb 09, 2015 |
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Family / Re: An Unforgettable Night by vivienobidike(f): 11:23pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Pheals, where is your sense of humour? Geez! The sarcasm of this post is so lost on you 1 Like |
Family / An Unforgettable Night by vivienobidike(f): 10:46pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
After much persuasion, I had to attend the vigil to please my mom..Who knows, the reason why I haven't made millions or married a billionaire might be revealed that night. I wouldn't want to miss it for anything. I wore the longest skirt I owned, donned a shirt and was off to the life-changing vigil of the year..or so i thought. The service started with praise, not the usual kind of songs praising God but those that seem more like warfare. I asked my neighbour if the pastor was around and was replied in the Negative.. I sighed. I thought there were different kind of praise songs depending on the segment being ushered into. I looked around and realised that my below the knee skirt was a micro mini compared to the larger than life curtains the ladies and women wore as skirts..Mmm..I will definitely be a topic of discuss today. The woman of God aka Prophetess finally got of hold of the mike and her session which was the most anticipated began in earnest.. She began preaching..u know the usual type of wearing trousers and making attachment with jewelries will take you to hell and bla bla bla. Then all of a sudden she faced me... "You, sitting over there... What are you wearing exposing your legs. You think you can come here and tempt the brothers here. I have said it before and will say it again.. o ye young girls exposing your body, your breast, your thighs....There is no place in heaven for you...REPENT" Ye pa!!!! mogbe... Na so everybody turn dey look ME... object of sin and temptation... chai!! them get luck say na vigil, I for carry my two yellow legs waka comet for der.. After much ado and lambasting in the name of preaching, the main session everyone was anticipating arrived.. "Deliverance, prayers and prophecy time" Everyone wants to hear of a certain witch holding the key to their breakthrough, when they will become millionaires and the ladies when Mr Right would come knocking. "Spread your arms wide" she commanded "Begin to turn round, ask God to free you from every yoke, every burden, TURN!!!!" I opened my arms and began to turn slowly while praying.. Meanwhile, the rest are all caught up in the frenzy, all turning wildly like fan blades. I stopped turning when I began to feel a little dizzy and out of breathe. I stood still with arms spread apart praying but 'prophetess' will have none of that. She got to where I was standing, pushed me and commanded I turn..abi I wan miss my blessing ni. I thought about the billionaire husband and making millions and I swung in action. I spread my arms wider and turned like crazy.. like my life depended on it. Then it happened... I got very dizzy The people around became a mass of blurred colours The ceiling spun around and round and round And I began to stagger I staggered to the left, to the right, to the left, right and finally crashed on the heap of chairs arranged by a corner. They picked me up again and I was told to keep turning ... Mumuish me kept turning ...and I kept staggering and falling. I knew I was dizzy like crazy but the rest felt I was arrested by the Holy spirit. When she finally decided it was my turn to pray for me, she laid her hand on my forehead and spun me around with force, I fell again. She repeated it twice and I fell like a bunch of cards on the floor.. Deep within me, I felt nothing... I was falling cause I was damn dizzy from the turnings. I didn't feel any anything, definitely not the power of God coursing through me. I felt so empty, so embarrassed and so used. Finally, after much prayers and falling and casting out of demons, the service came to an end. Pheeeew!!! Finally I carried my bible and dashed out hurriedly and swore never to set my foot there anymore. www.vivienadaeze..com 2 Likes |
Family / Dangerous Risk by vivienobidike(f): 3:46pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Two days ago, I witnessed a short scenario that got me a lil mad. She lifted her leg the first time, but it didn't work She lifted her skirt above her knees, lifted her legs again, but the space left couldn't accommodate her ample bosom. She struggled once more as the bike I was on zoomed pass her.. How I wish I knew the outcome of the 'simple' task of mounting a bike. How would a woman load 4 kids plus herself on a single bike and feel very comfortable with it. The bike man struggles with 2 kids in front, while you struggle with 2 kids at the back bringing the total passenger on a bike to 6. I'm very sure you left the house praying that the lord keep your going and your coming in.. Yet, you take such foolish risk You drop all sensibilities and walk into danger with open eyes. You openly signed a death wish and it may be granted. Don't tempt death and claim you have faith oooo.. you are simply OYO 1 Like
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Fashion / Re: How To Make Ankara And Leather Purses, Tote Bags, Box Bags And Accessories. by vivienobidike(f): 1:05pm On Feb 07, 2015 |
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Family / Do You Fit Into Their Expectation And Description? by vivienobidike(f): 12:35pm On Feb 07, 2015 |
We all grew up in a setting where certain expectations are placed on us. We are expected to act, speak, laugh.. in a particular way. We are expected to go to school, come out with good grades, work in a multinational company and earn fat salaries every month... We are already placed on a regimented route even before we see it. Some are forced to take a particular career route because they want to fit into expectations of their parents. Perhaps your dad thinks that the best for you while deep inside you value creative expression through art or poetry. You belong to a generational line where lawyers are produced and you are next in line.. you cannot afford to disappoint the name your family has struggled to build..you check the pros and cons and decided to follow suit.. Deep inside is a dancer who wants to tour the world doing professional dance and grooming talented people who seek to express themselves through dance.. Your parents attend one of those Orthodox churches but you are madly in love with a Pentecostal. You are expected to Marry a decent man from your parents church because they hold a post and you are expected to uphold the principles and doctrines of the church and most important honour your parents. You do not want to be seen as a bad egg, you do not want to break the norms and you do not want to disgrace your parents. You decide to marry that dull uninspiring, unexciting brother and paint the picture of happiness and contentment. You are not happy, you live with a beast who has reformed your face. Your parents have been married for 40yrs..You don't want to break the cycle..do you? So you stay. You cover the bruises with layers of foundation. You smile at everyone, you maintain the picture of a decent woman..A Proverb 31 woman. You are not expected to fault, fail or fumble. You appear faultless, the world sees you as a role model. You fit into their description of a wonder woman.. Do you fit into their description of you? Do you live according to their expectations? A life spent ceaselessly trying to please people who are perhaps incapable of ever being pleased, or trying too hard to always be seen as doing “what’s expected of you,” is a sure road to a regretful existence. Life is under no obligation to give us what we expect. And you are under no obligation to give others what they expect. Period. Do things because you care. Do things because you know it’s right. Don’t just do things because everyone else expects you to. Be willing to go alone sometimes. You don’t need permission to grow. Not everyone who started with you will finish with you. And that’s OK. There comes a time when your back is up against the wall and you realize all you can do is say, “Screw it, I’m doing things my way!” That’s the earth-shattering moment you stop planning for someone else’s expectations, and start making progress on what’s truly important to YOU. That’s when you begin to live life according to your own morals and values. That’s when you can finally be at your happiest. |
Fashion / Re: How To Make Ankara And Leather Purses, Tote Bags, Box Bags And Accessories. by vivienobidike(f): 8:56am On Jan 26, 2015 |
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Jobs/Vacancies / Job Opening by vivienobidike(f): 9:06pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Spadez Management and Communications is a budding PR and brand management company that is known to use the new media as its major forte. We are a full management company that aims to be the most reliable, creative and globally acceptable brand, using a fresh approach, by delivering a high standard of quality and a unique quest for distinction. In our quest to delivering the best for our client, we are recruiting brand ambassadors that would represent our client and their brand effectively If you consider yourself intelligent, Mobile Savvy and Presentable, then this is your chance to earn 20k every week by becoming a Finditt Ambassador. The job of an Ambassador is to sign upas many people as possible on our mobile platform. Commission is 10% on every signing plus N5000 weekly bonus. Criteria for becoming an ambassador is the possession of an Android Device and you must reside in Abuja Interested applicants should send CV to obidike.vivien@spadezpr.com website - www.spadezpr.com |
Religion / Re: Let Go And Let God by vivienobidike(f): 8:51am On Oct 28, 2014 |
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Religion / Re: Let Go And Let God by vivienobidike(f): 9:50pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
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Religion / Re: Let Go And Let God by vivienobidike(f): 9:50pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
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Religion / Let Go And Let God by vivienobidike(f): 8:31am On Oct 27, 2014 |
I woke by 2:30am with an excruciating pain in my stomach. I groaned and groaned, I twisted and turned, I rolled over the bed, hoping and praying the pains stop, but it didn't. For 30 minutes, I was in great pains. I felt like my world was coming to an end. When it dawned on me that the pains weren't ebbing off and i couldn't bear it anymore, i ran to my parents room to knock and call for mama. She met me in a sorry state when she finally joined me in the room ...For me to come call her, she knew it was serious because I am one person who can handle crises perfectly well. Oh! Mamas are always mamas ...No matter what time or situation, they are just always there. Take time to appreciate your Mum is she is alive cause really, no one can replace her role in your life. Mum got a bottle of anointing oil, prayed over it and gave me a shot to drink while she massaged my tommy with oil in her hand, Praying! Within 5 minutes, the pains disappeared, but Mum still stayed on my bed fanning me cause i was already drenched in heat. She stayed behind till i asked her to leave. U see, i have the WORLD BESTEST MUM. Sometimes, we think we can manage situations and crisis on our own, but God is saying " Cast all your cares on me" ...You do not have to carry the pains and burdens alone if you let me relieve you of them. You dont have to go through that problems and tough moments if only you let me...Just Let go and Let God We place so much confidence in our self, our abilities, our capabilities which is good. But there are times when we just need to surrender and say.. "Jesus, take the wheel Take it from my hand Cause I cant do this on my own Im letting go" And trust that he never disappoints. Im grateful to be alive and strong Good Morning Friends 2 Likes 1 Share |
Education / Re: University of Ibadan (unibadan)2014/2015 Post-Graduate Application by vivienobidike(f): 12:52am On Oct 22, 2014 |
Please reply ....Can I still purchase the form and how? Visited the site and it shows that late entry application started 4 days ago. What does it mean. Looking forward to studying Communication studies. |
Education / Re: University Of Ibadan Postgraduate School 2014/2015 Admissions by vivienobidike(f): 12:46am On Oct 22, 2014 |
Is the form still on sale |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Finditt Ambassador by vivienobidike(f): 8:05pm On Sep 24, 2014 |
kingofabia: can a guy apply..asap You can come tomorrow with your android phone to the office.. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Finditt Ambassador by vivienobidike(f): 6:10pm On Sep 24, 2014 |
DoveQueen: Please I use a BB device not android can I apply for this post? Thanks DoveQueen, for now the application is developed for android phone. the BB version would be out soon. You can come for the training tomorrow at 113 obafemi awolowo way ikeja, By Mobil Filing station- Balogun busstop. 10am |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Finditt Ambassador by vivienobidike(f): 4:21pm On Sep 24, 2014 |
Ambassador who perform exceptionally well within 6 months have an additional Incentive of a weekend at Dubai |
Jobs/Vacancies / Finditt Ambassador by vivienobidike(f): 2:28pm On Sep 24, 2014 |
Are you an intelligent, Mobile Savvy, Presentable Lady? Then this is your chance to earn 20k every week by becoming a Finditt Ambassador. The job of an Ambassador is to sign up as many people as possible on our mobile platform. Commission is 10% on every signing plus N5000 weekly bonus. Conditions are: You must possess an Android Device and you must reside in Lagos. Interested applicants should call 07088193331 or send CV to obidike.vivien@spadezpr.com |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Sales Ambassadors by vivienobidike(f): 8:29am On Sep 16, 2014 |
Interview holds today. 113 Obafemi Awolowo way..By balogun busstop. You can't miss our office. Its a yellow building beside the Mobil Filing Station |
Family / Re: Essence Of A Woman by vivienobidike(f): 7:00am On Sep 16, 2014 |
aaronson: FUkkkkk you mothaFUka I Don't give a FUkkkkkk,You Could Get Your MothaFUKed,you writinq slick like you talk can slick in person to me,fukkk yo still piss on the bed and still coming out on here writinq shit like a raving lunat!c,last time I checked I had my own opinion to share about whatever situation why not give yours and keep it moving instead fukin your girls lap cus she aint gave puzzy,*judgemental fargottttttttttt Ranting of a psychotic nonentity |
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