MrBrownJay1:


the same as the benefits of being in a r/ship but marriage adds a few more benefits like:
A) she now carries your name and so would your children "legally"
B) you guys now have entered a contract to be together til death do you part....so she cant "legally" just get up and leave with your kids
C) if something happens to you, she will be the one to make decisions for you (aka turn off the life support machine etc)
D) she will "legally" be the one in charge of your affairs if/when you are incapacitated
E) if wifey has a job then she will to contribute with you for the family wellbeing (2 salaries are better than one)
F) you can get tax refunds/deductions for being married
G) she will be your next of kin so family wouldnt have to fight over your property

Which kind gutter talk be this

What's the benefits of marriage to a man? I'd like to know because I know there are a lot of benefits for a woman

HellVictorinho6:
The worst u can do is attack me 4 making that statement

There are legit ways to make money but the truth is u can't hustle more than ur the economy. So it seems ur legit hustle is useless

v2:
Sorry bro.

That's the worse thing that can happen to anyone.
If you are not tough enough, it can wear you out, depression or high blood pressure sets in and if not properly managed, death.

I am in the same shoes as you and finally decided to leave for my mental and physical health.

That's how they are wired and it may not get better.

What happened with yours?

HBB1:
Tell her point blank she is making you uncomfortable.

No allow any weyrey woman ( sorry to use that word) stress you.

If she cannot change, she should go!

Give a woman an inch, she will take a mile.
Don't allow nonsense oga.

I just asked her now what's the issue and she said nothing is wrong. Apparently she's pretending like there's nothing going on

eazzzy1:
It is your duty to make your partner secure. If she doesn’t want you to go out, insist on her coming with you. When you receive calls from female clients put your phone on speaker and keep the call short and straight to business.

Give her access to your phone and the right to go through it whenever she wants. Let her be able to answer your calls if you aren’t willing or available to answer. She is suspecting you because you have given her a reason to and only you can give her a reason to trust you.

In my opinion, getting angry over a partner’s insecurity is usually proof of guilt. If you were innocent her insecurity will be cute to you.

She has access to all my phones, my laptop, even my mobile app. I don't hide anything from her, I'm very open. I've never been this open to someone else in my life. Sometimes it makes me feel vulnerable but I have to do it cus she's my wife. But the insecurities are still there. I've spoken to her about it before and now I've decided to just let things play out

My wife is very insecure and it's making me tired.
She's always suspicious of everything, I can't go out, I can't answer calls.
The worst part is that she will be keeping malice with me cus she's suspecting me, she won't even say anything to me.

If a someone who I don't want to talk to calls me on my phone, and I decline the call, she will take offense. There was a day my mum was calling me and I didn't answer the call on time, she became mad that it was a woman calling and I don't want to answer the call.

If I tell her I'm going to the gym in the evening she will become suspicious. I can't even talk to my clients who are females in her presence because she Will be always jealous.

As I write this, she isn't talking to me cus I went to the gym yesterday evening.

I'm tired. She has never caught me cheating before because it's something I don't do

Life isn't supposed to be hard. Why are you making it hard for yourself

DyshApp:
A married man has anonymously taken to social media to complain about his wife’s addiction to watching cartoons with their children.

According to him, his wife was always excited to watch and sing along to the cartoon with their kids and she would narrate the stories to them if they missed them.

According to the man, something must be wrong with his wife. While admitting that she has not failed in her roles as a wife and mother to his kids, he reiterated his worry that he felt she should have grown past cartoons.

He appealed for help to fix the cartoon problem.

In his words:
"I feel like something is wrong, I don't really get her sometimes. She doesn't even watch the movies I want us to watch together unless I really encourage her. She acts like me not watching those their cartoons with them, I'm missing out on something great.

“My wife, 37 years old, enjoys watching cartoon even more than our kids. When I say cartoon, I mean animated movies.
Our first boy is 14 years old down to our last who is currently 4 years old.
They’ve turned the home into a cartoon home.
They are soo addicted, they sing their songs, do their dances and discuss those things all the time.
My wife at her age will be running as if something strange was happening and she forgets herself to be an adult sometimes.
I’ve tried to explain to her that I don’t really like it, I don’t complain because they are being happy but, I don’t understand my wife’s addiction. Even when the kids aren’t around, she’ll be watching animated movies alone.

Once they get home, she’s going to narrate all she watched to them and even demonstrate with actions some funny/emotional scenes.
I feel like something is wrong, I don’t really get her sometimes. She doesn’t even watch the movies I want us to watch together unless I really encourage her. She acts like me not watching those their cartoons with them, I’m missing out on something great.
Is there something I can do to help her? It’s somehow bothering me.

Kindly note that, she’s fully employed and still does her duties as a wife and a mother. I don’t have any problem on that side, I just feel she’s addicted to animated movies when actually, she has grown pass it.”

Wisebird22:
Brother go for a Highlander.. reliable and good

That's what my friend told me

Between a camry 2013 and an highlander 2010 which is better as a first car?

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Genotype marriage or relationship is one thing a lot of nigerians are against and I think this is because of ignorance or lack of money because it's not so in the western world.

Yesterday I saw a nl topic on an AS guy who was seeking advice on how to proceed with his relationship because he has only been meeting AS women.
The guy was discouraged from having a relationship with an AS woman because if the possibility of having ss children (which is 25% by the way)

I and my wife got married last year and we are both AS, I thought about ending the marriage but I advised myself against that. I would have married an AA lady(my ex was but she nearly killed me).

So I decided to look for a solution because I belive there always a solution to every problem. I discovered that there are a lot of options for an AS couple when it come to giving birth but all these options cost money.

So if you have the money no problem but if you don't you can follow nairalanders advice and look for an AA lady to settle down with

I contacted a fertility clinic in Lagos and they told me they can do prenatal testing when the pregnancy is about 11 weeks(the test costs about 420k). The result will confirm the genotype of the child, if it's SS you can abort the baby. I know some people will say "so you want to kill a baby" I know how a lot of you have done abortions numerous time and not even for medical reasons.

Second option is IVF which cost about 4 million naira . That will help screen out the SS eggs and leave only healthy ones.

Option 3 is having bone marrow transplant IF you give birth to an SS baby (which is 25% chance). I contacted an hospital in India about the process and it costs about 25M and my wife will give birth in Canada where bone marrow transplant is heavily subsidized or free to an extent

The less expensive one is the prenatal testing. But get ready for that anytime your partner gets pregnant.

I wanted to go for the IVF but we just discovered my wife got pregnant so now we are preparing for the prenatal testing.

So for those of you in an AS relationship there's a solution to your problem but it involves money. If you don't have that amount then just jejely find an AA boy or girl and hookup with. As for me I decided to spend those amount of money because my wife is the best thing that has ever happened to me and i don't want to leave her for someone else. I'm just taking these precautions but I believe we will give birth to health and wonderful children. And I'll also make a post about the success of the whole process

Peace

I and my wife are both AS, we just recently confirmed that she's pregnant so we plan on doing prenatal testing to determine the genotype of the child. And she'll be giving birth in either US or Canada just in case.

So if you have the money to spend the go ahead but if you don't avoid it.

I'll come and tell you guys the good news after my wife puts to bed

I only got sprayed 300k at my wedding. That didn't even get up to a quarter of what I spent but the best thing is not to be in any debt after your wedding

My wife has been having pain in the lower part of her abdomen for the past week, and she has also missed her period. The pains her very severe especially when she does strong work in the house or stand for long.
She feels she might be pregnant or about to have a miscarriage.
Medical experts in the house. What's the cause of this?