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eazzzy1:
You should have planned it before she came. You would have told her to come bond with the baby for 4 months after which your mom would come for 4 months. That way the duration of their stay isn’t subjective.

As it stands now the only way to codedly chase her is to invite your mother to move in too.

My mom is late

MrBrownJay1:
the same as the benefits of being in a r/ship but marriage adds a few more benefits like:
A) she now carries your name and so would your children "legally"
B) you guys now have entered a contract to be together til death do you part....so she cant "legally" just get up and leave with your kids
C) if something happens to you, she will be the one to make decisions for you (aka turn off the life support machine etc)
D) she will "legally" be the one in charge of your affairs if/when you are incapacitated
E) if wifey has a job then she will to contribute with you for the family wellbeing (2 salaries are better than one)
F) you can get tax refunds/deductions for being married
G) she will be your next of kin so family wouldnt have to fight over your property

HellVictorinho6:
The worst u can do is attack me 4 making that statement

v2:
Sorry bro.

That's the worse thing that can happen to anyone.
If you are not tough enough, it can wear you out, depression or high blood pressure sets in and if not properly managed, death.

I am in the same shoes as you and finally decided to leave for my mental and physical health.

That's how they are wired and it may not get better.

HBB1:
Tell her point blank she is making you uncomfortable.

No allow any weyrey woman ( sorry to use that word) stress you.

If she cannot change, she should go!

Give a woman an inch, she will take a mile.
Don't allow nonsense oga.

eazzzy1:
It is your duty to make your partner secure. If she doesn’t want you to go out, insist on her coming with you. When you receive calls from female clients put your phone on speaker and keep the call short and straight to business.

Give her access to your phone and the right to go through it whenever she wants. Let her be able to answer your calls if you aren’t willing or available to answer. She is suspecting you because you have given her a reason to and only you can give her a reason to trust you.

In my opinion, getting angry over a partner’s insecurity is usually proof of guilt. If you were innocent her insecurity will be cute to you.

DyshApp:
A married man has anonymously taken to social media to complain about his wife’s addiction to watching cartoons with their children.

According to him, his wife was always excited to watch and sing along to the cartoon with their kids and she would narrate the stories to them if they missed them.

According to the man, something must be wrong with his wife. While admitting that she has not failed in her roles as a wife and mother to his kids, he reiterated his worry that he felt she should have grown past cartoons.

He appealed for help to fix the cartoon problem.

In his words:
"I feel like something is wrong, I don't really get her sometimes. She doesn't even watch the movies I want us to watch together unless I really encourage her. She acts like me not watching those their cartoons with them, I'm missing out on something great.

“My wife, 37 years old, enjoys watching cartoon even more than our kids. When I say cartoon, I mean animated movies.
Our first boy is 14 years old down to our last who is currently 4 years old.
They’ve turned the home into a cartoon home.
They are soo addicted, they sing their songs, do their dances and discuss those things all the time.
My wife at her age will be running as if something strange was happening and she forgets herself to be an adult sometimes.
I’ve tried to explain to her that I don’t really like it, I don’t complain because they are being happy but, I don’t understand my wife’s addiction. Even when the kids aren’t around, she’ll be watching animated movies alone.

Once they get home, she’s going to narrate all she watched to them and even demonstrate with actions some funny/emotional scenes.
I feel like something is wrong, I don’t really get her sometimes. She doesn’t even watch the movies I want us to watch together unless I really encourage her. She acts like me not watching those their cartoons with them, I’m missing out on something great.
Is there something I can do to help her? It’s somehow bothering me.

Kindly note that, she’s fully employed and still does her duties as a wife and a mother. I don’t have any problem on that side, I just feel she’s addicted to animated movies when actually, she has grown pass it.”

Wisebird22:
Brother go for a Highlander.. reliable and good

iwriteall:
what do you want to deliver