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I have been to Dubai several times. I don’t see any big deal going to Dubai. As Nigerians who have self-pride, we should ban ourselves from going to Dubai. Is it the hotels or sea that is not anywhere else in the world? I don’t think we should be at the mercy of any country.”

A lot of people holding key positions in this country have little or no decorum and are highly ignorant and know little about handling diplomatic conflicts. No big deal and your CBN governor, Speaker of the house and yourself are here spending time and energy to address the issue. Why not just ignore it completely then? We know you do not actually care, cos it will hardly affect you. But, it will affect a lot of Nigerians who do business there, the ones living and working there too.

Pastor!
Dem complain give you!? Dey your lane.

Na only una want dey touch ba? We know the antics of pastors like Suleman, Fatoyinbo and the rest.

There is no "mentality" here. Indeed, there are those who have demonstrated time and again that they own Nigeria. They do not pretend about it and it has nothing to do with whether someone re-echoes it or not. The challenge is are we ready to rescue Nigeria from their stranglehold? We may lament for donkey years to come, but unless we take up the gauntlet through affirmative action and the instrumentality of the ballot, we merely waste our time complaining. @delemomoduovation knows exactly what he is talking about. If you followed his campaign during his quest to get the PDP Presidential ticket, you would understand what he means by the owners of Nigeria. On many instances, some powerful stakeholders in the Nigerian enterprise praised him and called him a wonderful Presidential material save that THE OWNERS OF NIGERIA won't let him become and truly they didn't. Did you for once ever imagined that Tambuwa stepped down because he sincerely believed Atiku is a better candidate to him? The owners of Nigeria got him to. There was no way they would fold their hands and watch Wike coast to victory. The very absurd and melodramatic 11th hour stepping down for by APC aspirants was a clear manifestation of the big masquerade called THE OWNERS OF NIGERIA. They are not estranged by religion or ethnicity. The common booty is the soul of the nigerian state and neither religion nor tribe can separate them when they fight to retain ownership of it. These things are way deeper than you think. The only solution is for us to genuinely show our love for Nigeria by joining forces with the new wave of hope. Without a doubt, their grip on Nigeria's soul is weaker than ever before so instead of lamenting and blaming a fellow casualty of the Nigerian political accident, pick up ur political armour and join the #Obidient2023 movement. There is hope yet!

Dele Momodu is very much aware of this as well, but these people who demonstrates they own Nigeria are his paymasters. Whenever they decide to display their show of shame from their ill-gotten wealth, Dele Momodu is always on ground with his parasitic Ovation magazine to sing their praises and lick their ...

He comes online from time-to-time to feel the pulse of the Nigerian online community, which are mostly youths, to discuss ongoing issues and receive feedback to pass on to his paymasters. His actions (Body language) speaks total contrast to what he says online. You see him prostrating and attaching himself to the people who have destroyed and are still destroying Nigeria. Parasitic journalist.

DJ Cuppy,

Just thank your stars that your dad is a billionaire and you have been exposed to and can afford the good life. Else, you are actually below average in my books. (I know beauty is in the eye the beholder ) Just imagine yourself stuck in Mushin or Shomolu (no disrepect my peeps for area without access to all the perks). Go Naija go see naturally beautiful babes that have been born in the wrong setting with the harsh weather. Even against all the odds, them no gree. Them still dey live up. Imagive them having money, access and exposure.

Youths for Tinubu? Is this a joke/sarcasm? Wow: I commented too early before seeing the pics. You mean there are Youths really supporting Tinubu?

These ones are apparently getting ready to head to the proposed concentration camps where they will be eating "Agbado & Garri" morning and afternoon, as mentioned by Tinubu in one of his presentations.


Suffering and smiling

Yahoo junkie oba... That queen fit also be junkie shaa..... As she slim like that, come be wife of junkie yahoo oba grin grin grin

Bro, you too sabi. That guy na "419". Dude hustled for Canada and Yankee, did all sort of shady things, no way. Then he changed it, cos he knows that a lot of NIgerians are suckers for "Abrodians". And in Nigeria, anything goes. For Nigeria to even start anything that ressembles anything like development or progress, people need to start asking the right questions, notwithstanding who is involved. Whether he / she is from your tribe or religious group or not. We need more critical thinkers and not people doing follow-follow for crumbs.

propose emr to her, if she agrees, you should be employed as head of the i.t. department

From no prior working experience to head of it? hmmm. Meaning that he will have to design, manage the i.t. landscape, manage it personnel. Liaise with other departmental stake holders and suggest it solutions?

In an ideal society this Omisore will not be considered for any political position, but this is Nigeria where APC is the Legislature, Executive and the Judiciary at the moment. There is something secret about this murder case.

I actually could care less about the APC / PDP politics. These are the people occupying sensitive positions in NIgeria. No decorum and lack of standard. Everything na to use violence.

...she wan run you street


just dm me lemme check the pregnancy test for you since am in Lagos

Baba,

Abeg no help the guy check anything. Irresponsible man that is going to have unprotected sex outside. Na so him go take go carry STD give poor wife for house.

Ignorance Is an Acute Ailment which can only be Cured by "Real Education & Enlightenment". For where the Whites Juju dey, Africans Juju dey learn lol. So you think they really developed those technologies they are using themselves? I don't have time to go Into details. Just go read about " Nazis Occultism" first. Besides I'm absolutely sure you must be In your 20's. When you get Into your 30's, You will understand LIFE better and your View about the world will change.....

Let me indulge you slightly, did you read where I posed the question, why aren't Africans using their "jujus" for positive things?

So you think they really developed those technologies they are using themselves?

And you typed the 2nd quote right? I hope for you that you understand what you've written with the 2nd quote. You gerrit? and if you don't...

na your type they do juju pass come here dey rant say juju no dey work e go shock u

He is right. It is all nonsense and a figment of some people extremely dark imagination. If it were to works, why can't it be used for good things? Ordinary electricity, Lagos is surrounded by water yet water is scarce, crude oil we get plenty for Nigeria, still fuel scarcity. The real rich people ruling the world: Bill Gates, Warren Buffet, Zuckerberg etc. Dem not sabi weytin juju be, and they are loaded to the brim and rule the world including all the backward juju people for Africa. It is all this nonsense and misinformation that leads young people to carry our unnecessary killing in the name of money ritual. You think Babalawo sef no want blow!? Make him self do money ritual make we see na.

I’ve thought of taking them both for an ADHD test, but my wife is against that. The only time my son pays attention is when he’s doing something he likes, and that is when he’s playing the PS5 I got them or watching videos on YouTube Kids.

Halfway through your post, this came to my mind. I do understand personal reasons for not wanting to do some things, but, if you know his conditions and confirmed by experts. That way, together with the same experts, solutions can be proffered. Further, focus can be placed on his strong sides. I work with a big financial institution. I can tell you that most of our traders are the ADHD and mild autism type. They thrive in professions where use of numbers is dominant and that do not require much emotional inclination / empathy. But for this to be ascertained he might have to be tested

She is ACTIVE.

Na weytin some boys dey find be this o.

You get mind hit mumsy wey give you life shey?

You are doing well o..

It the almighty or whoever you want to call it, that gives live through our parents.

To the OP, it is a rather very unfortnate situation you are in. I am happy for you that you are remorseful of what happened. It shows you are human and have the capabilities of evaluating your actions and reaching morally and emotionally reasonable conclusions.

From the way you have described your mum, mehnnn. I have serious reservations commenting or saying things about people I do not know personally. Some people can be very impossible. They may be friends, partners, teachers, employers etc etc. It is just the way they are, and I think they are created for a purpose. If we find ourselves compelled to deal / interact with such people, we need to learn to manage them, as such that we through our reactions to them will not turn out to be de devil.

Apologise to your mum, dad and siblings, and make sure you do not ever allow yourself to be cornered into such situation that will warrant such extreme reactions toward her again and never! I wish you all the wisdom and patience you need to deal with the situation.

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@Woundedlamb

What matters now is what you'd do with this knowledge. Don't keep malice, it's not good for your mental health. So forgive but don't forget. Know him for who he is and always act accordingly. On the other hand, don't use his personality to judge white people cause that would only make you another him. Stay open minded. It will really make life easier for you out here.

Maybe we'll now begin to understand how ugly tribalism is.

Thank you for this. This is wisdom!

To the OP, his girlfriend has not done you any wrong. And saying a hi or responding to her saying "hello" is a big display of maturity. Not all white people are bad. 2 wrongs does not make a right, you doing almost the same thing the guy did to you with his diluded ideas about Africans and being poor, by taking this position. You need to develop on your flexibility if you want to survice this your new country of abode and remain sane. Cos, there will def be more to come. I remember when I first came abroad, a friend said this to me; "you need to re-define you patience" initially I did not understand what he meant, as time went by I got it. It basically means something like, if you are the one to fight or grudge people cos they gave you a bad look, you might need to develop more patience and actually wait until they physically lay thier hands on you before reacting. Further, do not grudge your fellow housemates for not fighting back on your behalf. I am sure you must have noticed that by now, oyinbos are oftentimes fond of keepting to themselves and minding their business. Take this as one of those initial challenges you will face in the abroad . Please read through the responses here and try and learn one or two things on how to deal with such situation and improve on your "soft skills", cos you are def going to get challenged again one way or another. The art is not to see yourself as a victim or see a whole group or race as some devil beings after you single African. lol. Good luck.

Good day everyone,

Does anyone know where to access colonial Cadastral survey records or Land allocation Gazette records of Lagos? A handsome reward awaits you if we succeed in locating the required records. Thanks.