jeromestarks:

🤣 But you wuked oooo.
If he's a teenager, must you tell him?

Let him enjoy his moment as a stupid and emotionally imbalanced teenager biko.

Ok sir.

pansophist:
Your life is so stress-free man, I am jealous.

So in essence, you are bothered that some random people gather, just as church members gather, to talk about you, the same way members talk about Jesus, and you are not happy?

As in, the little time they have on this planet, it is your matter they want to waste it on discussing? Please give them more reason to talk about you, so they won't die of depression.

It is a sin against yourself to live timidly, like a victim, or you need permission or approval to blossom. You need to accept that some people will not like you, and its okay. You also do not like everybody.

When real-life problems are handling you, such as life-threatening health issues, or heavy debt that after you even sell your kidney, you can't pay, gossip would be nothing you will disturb yourself with.

Empty can make the loudest noise, the same way a human cruising life in soft mode notices every little inconvenience. So start adopting responsibilities that will build your character, and sophisticate your mind, which makes you well-grounded, without needing any approval because you trust and know yourself, and won't untroubled with low-class problems

You should start adding ''honorable'' in front of your name, after all, only those worthy of honor are talked about.

Thank you boss

immortalcrown:
How old are you?

23 years old sir

Good morning, I will first start by introducing personalty, I'm a very soft, naive guy and shy guy..I stayed indoors most of the times and I'm also an introvert, i enjoy been alone. Knowing my weakness, I always avoid not be take advantage of because I'm working like crazily to developed and structured myself. But this my area girls are always talking about me.. ""he doesn't talk with anyone"", he is rude, he is proud, lot of things I'm hearing from them... My neighbour always even tell me that I should be carrying girls. That am I gay??, there is even one day one girl even asked me why I
don't like relating people, I just said It is just my decision...
Currently, I'm really tired of their complain how can I handle all this criticism.. Should I start relating with them.. because I always dey careful with type of person I wanna relate with.. because I Sabi my weaknesses die!!!

25 years of anger
25 years of rejection
25 years of empty
25 years of bully
25 years of sorrow
25 years of loneliness
25 years of never
25 years of darkness
25 years of failure
25 years of tears
25 years of agony

Depression is killing me at young age!!! I need a therapist!!! Where can I get one?? 😭😭😭😭😭. Help me nairaland!!! I need it pls🙏🙏🙏.. Im never ready to give up on myself

I don't know whether it is the environment I'm living people just hate me for being nice and humble, have checked myself whether I have something I'm doing wrong, because I don't know why people just dislike me!!!! Why are we gentle and nice people hated?? Messi and kante are humble and nice but they are not hated like the way people.hate me, is it my environment!!!

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dawnomike:
You've said it above that God helps you in all you do!!! Believe that wholeheartedly and you'll be fine!!!


You can call me before going in for your interview for some morale support

0.7.0.6 .88.0.1427

Thank you very much!!

I will be having my first interview next month, this is not a work interview, this is just a interview to start a project. I'm not that intelligent , I'm not smart, I'm not enough 😩😩😩. But God keep helping me succeed in every things I do!!! I need help guys!! Have rehearse everything they will ask in the interview, have prepared. But I have a very big problem which is my heart!!! It will be beating like it want to kill me to the extent that I will be sweating!!! Have asked some friend the said I should be smoking and using drugs that it will cure!!! I need help guys. You can also see my previous post on how naive I am!! ..... I'm working every fucking day to develop myself... but this heart is like my greatest problem!!!

Jackanda1:
Were you able to go to work the next day?

I manage to go but with my face wearing disgrace as make up!!!

damosade:
When they give you responsibility for church u go dey run. See urself

... I no dey go church that much!!

BigSmoke4u:
Its not your fault its just the way you were brought up
Now that you know,never raise your child the same way
Some parents go dey knack pikin put inside like say na pet,shuuu na parent u be abi vet?

To toast a girl is not my problem naa, to be able to face crowd is the probs!!!

ojun50:
Dey play
You don learn to by force

Omo the thing really disgrace me, those girl wey fall for me before for my company just dey use me laugh!!!! The thing was a huge disappointment

PaganTerrorist:


No need to market yourself when you're not some sales dude


Your work will speak for itself when you start coding

Watch this video you will understand me very well


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dXxPnwvM1nk?si=RZJwvMFJoMNWPOH9

Westerhoffe:



Sorry…
Just let it slide and be a better version of yourself.

Thanks

Chasito:
You just reminded me of my final year school project defense

We're you able to defend it well . The funniest thing is that my final year project I did it very well because I was only talking to one person which is my lecturer

So emotional I was crying 😭😭😭😭

PaganTerrorist:


LMAO

Learn to code bro

How will you market yourself??

PaganTerrorist:
Never pick job that'll have you speak or interact with people

You'll thank me later for this

This is not possible bro, I have to fight my fears 😭😭😭. Unless, sapa go finish me

Uche559:
If you r not use to talking in public, never try off hand speech. Summarize your point and when you feel you dnt remember d next thing quickly move to d next point by looking at your summary on paper.
People who r good in cramming mostly face this sort of challenge when new in public speaking. But with time and practice they become good intellectual speakers

I was trying to do it off my head, I crammed everything!!! I want to show off that I'm also intelligent

Shapeaso:
See you!.. Guy na shyness. Dey apply weed small and you go dey bounce with swag.

Thanks

Shapeaso:
Op, sorry oooo...

Na me dem go use do meme for company!!! I was just skipping, I cant control my heart again!! It get to a point I cant talk again, my heart has taking over me, if I continue talking longer I fit catch stroke, I just pause...

LikeAking:
Na norms..

U don break the ice..

Na small, small..

Shyness and timidity no Dey pay..

I wish our parents, religious and educational system will acknowledge this fact..

U will over come..

U problem you are too in tune with ya mind..

Na ya mind they make you shy..


Bleep it!


Separate ya mind from ya biz..

I think drugs can cure this thing, it seem my heart is powerful than me, my heart will just be beating for no reason

advanceDNA:



Pele....
u for wear dark sunshade...
And drink small kinkini red label...not enough to get u high but just enough to make u feel u are taller than everyone in the room....

Omo the thing pain me!!! Na mad disgrace!!

I have a very big phobia talking to crowd!! Today while I was presenting a project in front of the audience , I first started with a good introduction everybody dey feel my flows, suddenly I just stopped , all the thing in my head I forget it. Na only my heart Kon dey work, my soul left my body.

I was trembling in fear, my heart was beating more than normal, I end up fucking up the interview . they assisted me on the presentation, the thing really pain me, have always be running from talking to crowd, it finally catch up to me at old age!!!

Used me as a lesson, the problem you failed to address now will catch up with you later, No matter how run away from it.

My mood just spoil today.... it really pain me a lot!!! The funniest thing is that if I'm alone I will present it very well with British accent feeling like I'm on the top of the world😭😭😭😭

Life has been a great battle for me!!! . Many suicide thought, lose of hope!!! It is not easy!!. If can see what will happen hereafter, I would have kill myself long ago. Life is hard!!!.... whenever I think about mohbad death, I feel depressed more!! That's the type of battle me too have been through. Check my previous post!!! I pray I conquer this battle!!!

meetme01:
Generation before you treated your generation with utmost respect and dignity. Majority of you had your studies abroad on scholarship. You were made to believe Nigeria is full of honey and milk hence, your generation's refusal to stay back because you knew job was secured.

You knew, you had a bright future back home. It was rosy.. Majority of you could afford a good life. Health and Education was free for those who couldn't find their way abroad. Social amenities was provided for them to have a good life like those of went abroad

Today, the next generation cannot afford three square meal, a good job and a good life. The land full of honey and milk has been sucked to lowest level. It is now flowing with hunger and insecurity. Education has become a luxury. Good life has been eroded.

Social amenities is now a marriage. Communal living where families show genuine love to one another has gone to the gutters. Youths now pay to get government jobs which was free for your generation. What a shame on your generation.

The generation that left provided the stage for you to continue building a Nigeria they envisiaged. A Nigeria that will compete in the committee of nations. It's a pity your generation has failed in extending the good life you enjoyed to the next generation.

You unilaterally take decisions that are against our wish. You neglect, disrespect and humilate us just because you seized our voice. None of you have for once raised and follow up an idea that would bring succor and hope for the next generation.

Your generation turned us to beggers, political touts, prostitutes, criminals and vagabonds. You failed to give us sound education, good health care and social amenities like the one you received. You failed to nuture our generation leaders like you were nutured.

We (youths and children) of the next generation would not forgive your generation, even in your grave, if you bequeath a Nigeria your father's never envisaged

Let me remind your generation, you will leave the stage oneday and someday. We would remember all your "good" deeds and definitely remind ourselves why we need to bequeath a Nigeria your father's envisaged to our own next generation. We don't want to be CURSED

To us (youths and children), your generation is a DISASTER. Your generation is a CALAMITY. You failed US. In your generation, Nigeria has been tagged a FAILED STATE severally

Lots of questions are begging for answers..
Is it a curse to be a Nigerian in this generation ? Can't we have the likes of Tai Solarin, Nnamdi Azikwe, Tafawa Balewa and other men of honour amongst your generation who can stand up for the next generation.?

Be rest assured that our generation would stand up for a better Nigeria when the time comes. To my generation, let's arise and prepare for the battle ahead. Let's arise to speak with one voice devoid of ethnicity, religion, state, background and disability

Let's jointly lift our voice high and say, Nigeria, my country, will be GREAT again in my generation ..!

Bro please check ur mail

donsheva:
SH Owned.

Boss pls
Check your mail

Since have been in this life nobody have ever told me or acknowledge that I'm smart. All my life have always believe I'm not smart which is true. But with me not been smart. God always help me a lot.
I just don't know why. Where I'm currently nw I don't worth the place. Because I lack ability to speak very well, my iq is low, I'm shy. Anything to qualify a man I don't have, I'm not bold, I'm gentle and introvert. But I always work hard and pray a lot. I wish to find someone like me. because the world is full with smart people.
Have had couple of friends, out of my friend I will always be the most foolish one among. I just wanna give thanks to God for what he has done for me. Despite me lacking a lot he still r helped me a lot.

pansophist:
You probably haven't been reading my post for long. My email is filled with messages from both men and women that keep thanking me for opening their eyes on how the world works, and strengthening their courage to face it competently. Just like you, I've always have a kind heart, a perfect mr nice guy.

Everything changed when I start living alone from age 19 in uni, met all kinds of devil's in human skin, used like a tampon and disposed, until I got ball of steel and said to myself, NEVER AGAIN. Of course I'm still kind deep inside, but like a coconut, you must face my defense before tapping the meat and water inside. And with my deep understanding of human nature, psychology, experience and philosophy, I'll say, goodluck to that modafuka.

I need your advice on how to become a very hard guy.

Guys, The only cure for being a person people disrespect , Ride and
Use anyhow is to die. No this and no peace. If you are gentle like me just go and kill yourself there is no solution. To die is the only Cure. I'm tired. This is too much. No one have ever respect me in my life they ride and use me anyhow. All my prayer since last month is God should kill me nw because I don't want to commit suicide. . If you are gentle you are useless to the society to your family, to yourself , to the whole world.

Lanshile:
Samfelly leave competition
Na personal journey no be competition and competition doesn't translate to success in this thing.
Everyone who is really serious about the long term success in this thing should go and be practicing with the ftmo trial consistently and when you are ready u will know base on ur performance

At least it will help some people get funded it's a way of helping traders here. If you are not interested you don't need to talk against it.