The story is symbolic.

The serpent went to Eve because she is fragile and the weak point of Adam... Nyc calculation.

The serpert is at work again throught you. But this time Adam fit beat you to stupor o. So you beter forget about Adam and marry Ada. You get?

babe1/2:
I'm glad you brought this up. Devil tempted eve and eve gave adam apple to eat when he should have known better. He was meant to be wiser cos he got there first. Everyone can interprete it as they want but as far as I'm concerned, the sepent went to eve first cos na eve get mind pass.

Anyways let's not delve into religion, cos its obvious everything went according to plan in that whole scenario.

LIAR

adabeke12:

My man should be able to do my laundry, buy my feminine products(when i can't), and cook or help in the kitchen. It's no big deal; it does not make him less of a man neither would i disrespect him for that. I don't mind taking his car to the mechanic, or fixing it myself if i know how, cutting grass, packing snow etc. I do it now in my fathers house, so it is definitely not problematic.

@safarigirl- My sister, your last two comment is even more chikdish than the previous ones. I hope I haven't made you felt bad too much o. I'm sorry, so gbor? What can I do to make it up. What about Ice cream and a large sized chicken and chips from McDonnalds or KFC? Come give big brother a hug. You're not a biatch but you need to be informed to have the right self confidence. You're my sister. We cool?

Super sonic witchcraft ... We never see the ones wen land for benin. This one na small one

lertee: Since it happened in Ibadan,it is most likely the work of 'awon iya ajibola edun' (terrestrial mothers),they now come like drones instead of birds..

Eya pele. Could this be Love? I wonder in pidgin English

Nothing really apart from keping them in mind and try to improve on my life so that the next time we meet they would wish me back. Isn't that the best/worst revenge so far?

softsparky: I tried drinking kerosene in his presence thinking that he will stop me, he no even send me .he just arrange bed and told me after drinking the kerosene that I should sleep well well choii. No be person tell me to use my brain......

Is there by any chance you could translate your question for me in English?

TDN:

this is a serious question but i need to ask. can you sincerly say that guys have done a good job so far. im talking generally, not just relationship wise.

If he is financially comfortable why didn't he stop the woman from working at this early stage of marriage to make babies and take care of them to a certain stage since we don't find a pay/hr shift jobs in Nigeria that should have encouraged her to work and train kids? So its because the man has compromised his roles that makes the wife love him? Eeennhen? See matter! And you even say that he comes to your place to eat? That nigga is nothing but a punk. Shame on you for putting this here.

busolayemi: U kno dis argument made me rememba a friend of mine...she's a nurse in one of the state hospitals around...and oh, she's got a husband...who's very very very comfortable financially buh yet does everytin in his power to make life easy for his wife...there are days wen d lady is on night shift at work....d husband takes care of their 7mnths old baby because accordin to him, he doesn't want to stress his wife...so d wife will end up droppin d baby gal with him....and most fridays wen d wife is on night, he comes to eat at our place on saturday mornin....cos, his wife is too weak to cook early in d mornin....there's no tym I chat wit dis lady dat she's not happy...she tells me 'if not for my lovin husband...' She doesn't take it for grante...she respects her husband so much....infact, it is so evident. See, it isn't just about money...cos dis guy is very okay...he jst got his wife a second car, he has his own house and all that...his business is goin very well....not as if he needs d wife's money....buh he supports his wife....he loves her so much, he doesn't want her stressed and d wife in return literarily worships him....he could afford a nanny, buh I overhead him tellin my husband he can neva bring a stranger into his house....yes, he might not be an ideal african man to a lot of guys ere...buh bottomline is...he's a wise man...he knows aw to make his woman happy and trust me, even he is happy. For d singles ere blabbin...I maintain, wait nd get into d system...u'll soon stat singin a difft song

I have maintained that if my sister, daught or female relative talks, reasons and acts like a bytch then she's a bytch. Any man/woman that calls them a bytch is only telling them who they really are. Are you not my sister? Abi waitin you dey talk wey dey sweet for your mouth so? Mchew

Listen, only morally compromised males out of the remaining 2million as you claim would agree to your feminist terms. Unless you're just ranting unneccesary on a faceless forum but a good person in the real world I still think you're a bytch, bytch... I've said what I said, you can take it anyhow you want.

Lastly, I still maintain that there are more women than men. That doesn't count for anything reasonable but mockery sha. Lol

safarigirl: another waste of sp3rm that thinks he's relevant in anything.

Like I said, over 2 billion men in this world and I won't be missing anything if chauvinistic barbarians like you and warrior pass over me.

For all you know, some guy is calling your sister a bytch, some guy will call your daughter a bytch, by then, I hope you'll still maintain this belief that it's just 'stating facts'



PS the 'bytch' statement wasn't directed at me, it was directed at koyes

And for the sake of truth. I'm exposing it to everybody that freedom is a scam. There is no real freedom. Those that preach it are greedy and power seekers... A word is enough for the wise...

TDN:

"Most freedom fighters are greedy people looking for power. They would cause trouble and later offer a solution and this gives them power and followers"



interesting the word freedom isnt it. from your statement i can make the deduction that you believe we have been imprisoned.

This is a letter to TDN and all Feminist

The WE in your post below should applies to both man and woman. The real oppressor is out there and you feminist are their agents... We MEN are fight the batle on two fronts... This is politics and you know it... Scram has said it all. Why don't you women join force with us to fight again the real oppressor? How much have you been paid by the oppressor that is worth more than your families? You bore the children you are dividing or have you forgotten? The door is still wide open, bring all the money you've been paid by the oppressor so that together we can use it to buy more weapons to fight the oppressor and I promise you we will win the battle. Have trust in me. I am the the man you loved and cherrished, your king and your protector. I sent you into the camp of the enemies to be a double agent because I believe you were intellegent and confident enough to play the part but you have betrayed me mi lady. You have been hypnotized by the money and wealth of the enemy, our common enemy who has been the oppressor. I write this letter to you in good faith and expectation that it will make you come back to your senses. Your children are suffering, fighting against theirselves, killing each other. It is time you come back home to do your duty as queen.

I hope you understand my letter.

TDN:

"Most freedom fighters are greedy people looking for power. They would cause trouble and later offer a solution and this gives them power and followers"



interesting the word freedom isnt it. from your statement i can make the deduction that you believe we have been imprisoned.

The secret of who is real man is is what makes him thick. You are really trying hard to know him so that you can peg him? A real man is a man that knows that he is the head and that he is not equal to a woman and would fights other men and feminists who is a threat to his pride(family)... He is wise, gentle, expirienced, loving, understanding etc even though he might look fierce... You dig?

TDN: i have to ask, whats the difference between a MAN and a REAL MAN?

I actually googled him/her and got her pin, added him/her so we could chat then meet. He/she just dey ask who are you? Who are you? Then deleted me lol... If he/she is reading this I'm very curious so I would love to meet you... Honestly LOL

Anybody who knows this mutant should tell us more abour this person

Only God knows waitin happen to this wo-Man... Lol

Bruv if you know these mutants plans fear go catch you. They are not prepared for a marraige, they are very smart enough to decieve men into marrying them and then after getting pregnant they zoom off claiming the baby and then expanding their businesses with other men's money (sleeping with other men)... They only breast feed their baby for a month or two and then result to fomulas so that their breast remains good looking. They threaten the father with all vices until he gives up on his baby. These women value their body more than life itself. Some of then will never deliver a baby through their vagina but prefer an operation that cuts their abdomen open (there is a medical name for it) so that their vagina can remain firm... If you know these woman, you would fear them. Run when you see one brothers...

njokusboy:

My dear safari, I never called u or anyone a B1tch, u can quote it..
I would look forward to a happy marriage when I choose to get married, you know why? Because not all women are as aggressive as you are... Aggressive women and matrimonial trouble shooter lyk you are quite easy to spot, so staying away from ur ilks wouldn't be a problem...
My parents have been happily married for over 30 years, I have never seen them fight, You know why?? It is because my Mum never openly opposes or confront my Dad, she recognises the fact that he is the head and doesn't relish the idea of competing with him.. Inspite of the fact that she was a working lady, she still prepares his meal, and you know the interesting part? She actually insists on doing it herself even though the maid or her daughters are equally capable... She tells her daughters, "when you get married, give ur husband good food".. My Dad does not have High blood pressure and I do not intend to have one..
I'd look for a woman like my mum and when I do find her, I'd marry her .. She'd be humble and respect me lyk my Mum does my Dad, I'd take care of her and love her lyk my Dad does... Women lyk my Mum are not extinct and I'd surely find one...

On the other hand, it is you who should not look forward to a happy marriage, feminists are matrimonial time bombs, any man who marries an aggressive woman is in for an impending calamity... I won't make that mistake and I'd ensure my children don't either... Gudluck

DPD still wins...

Show me one revolutionarist who didn't go to jail? Mandela was a terrorist and he went to jail for his strugle but later became the worlds most celebrated african, jesus our lord the greatest activist was murdered in cold blood, paul, peter, pythagoras many more... 2pac's words on the other hand is been used on daily basis by presenters and politicians... Need I say more? And by the way how did you know a lot about tupac? It takes one to know one... I have read more books in this life than you will ever read both good and bad and I've made comparison. I have many past and present artists to quote from. So don't tell me what is right. You and your crew are clowns. We know you now.

You accuse tupac as being a thug? What about being a pervert? You people are pervert or should I say mutants... Shame on you

safarigirl: 2pac is your mentor? No wonder your thinking faculty is so skewed.

Lord, you should've said that from the get-go I wouldn't have wasted MB. Until you begin to listen to sensible men like Martin Luther King and Chinua Achebe, instead of some thug that got himself killed and went about insulting people because of their choice of partners, your thinking will forever represent that of the under-achieving, jailbirds whom you look up to.

This will be my last comment to you, can't be wasting intelligent arguments with people who do as Tu pac does

Appealing is a No NO. Educating the young men is the way out bruv... Let the feminist and gay men bring it.

Amazons/feminists(female warriors) conquer weak men and use them as their own slaves (sex and otherwise) but they never dare come close the land of MEN... They always bribe us with more of their slaves(the scape goat) as a sacrify and simbol of loyalty to us in disguise so that peace can reign. This is not fiction people, its real and all around you... We need to start differentiating the men from the MEN in this country so that everybody would know their place, where they stand and their rewards. Lol

bettermike: @WARRIOR. Regarding your initiative. Do you realy think appealing is the way to go? How about sensitization? How about real time training for young men? My fear is that gay lunatics wont hijack this one.

A feminish hooking up with a straight guy? Hmmm I've never really thought about it now that you just mentioned it I've given it a thought and I think it'd be a drama... A constant strugle for headship... A war... One person might die during the cause of the fight.

Is this what they are bringing to the table? Men are facing the batle on two fronts. Fighting the oppressors of the world and now they are taking our women from us and turning them against us.

There is a man behind these women redistributing the rights wrongly. And the more women they gain, the more powerful they become. Everybody is not equal. Some people irrespective of gender are stronger then the others. You can not give a weak man a bigger man's job to do so why give them the same reward? Its a scam and people who preach equal rights are scammers... There is nothing new under the sun. There are still royalties and dignitories and ther are still peasants and middle class and everybody has its own unique duty and reward. The same goes for a man and woman. Most freedom fighters are greedy people looking for power. They would cause trouble and later offer a solution and this gives them power and followers.

A word is enough for the wise...

bettermike: Like many of her likes, they are poor greedy gold-diggers searching for whom to devour. No doubt, some men wont see them coming. Just imagine, a feminist trying to hook up with a straight man. Lol.

She's hiting on someone? That person should seriously guide his brain and pocket. Hahahahaha.... Its only a joke o Lol

bettermike: Leave women alone huh? Obviously you have no idea what you want. Wasnt it just now you were trying to hit on pocketeconomist? Your confusion will bring you bad fortunes i promise you. Unless you change your ways. Why are you so scared of submission btw? Have you been gangraaped before? Men are not your enemies. Find a good man, let him lead and enjoy your marriage.

Wonder why they call you bytch? By 2pac- Go and listen to that track from youtube.

I got a mother, sisters and many girlfriends @primary, secondary and uni and they are wonderful people. But I've seen the bad ones too so I know who is a bytch and who is my sister.

Repent safarigirl repent

safarigirl: The fact that someone who calls himself a man would use the term 'bytch' to describe a lady simply because she has said things he doesn't agree with speaks highly of the kind of training he has.

There is nothing I hate more than that term and the men who use it, if you call a woman a 'bytch' you call all women same. It is this attitude we want a change of, when men refer to ladies as 'bytch' it's sickening. Nigerian men accuse the females of learning bad things from the Western media, my Nigerian men, did your father ever refer to your mother or any woman at all as a 'bytch'? Where did you get that term from? And where did you learn to use it so loosely?

Before you accuse others, evaluate yourself, ask valid questions, am I the kind of man I would wish my sister or cousin to be with? Do I respect the views of all and sundry irrespective of class and gender?

If you can answer these questions and do so with honesty, you can then come back here and blow your trumpets.

Until then warrior, bettermike, njokusboy and all the other dictators-in-waiting shouldn't look forward to happy marriages because I tell you, even the most submissive woman has her breaking point and you will NEVER see it coming

We know a pure undiluted comment when we see one. Stop trying to give a dog a bad name in other to hang it. There was no time in history where women never earned their own money. Don't pretend to know what I want in life, don't try to size me cuz you don't know what I'm planning. Don't think your eyes are more open than me own. Who's stopping women from being successful? You think I grow up in the village? Just don't cause divition everywhere by sending our future wives to the gym and pumping them with male homone, that's eveil. This is what we're against. If I didn't love the sisters I wouldn't have spent much time on this thread teaching them the right part. A word is enought for the wise...

Sending a hug to all the real sisters veiwing... WE LOVE YOU

y-fo:
I left when the party rejuvenated yet again!

Anyways, my simple analysis of the whole matter is that the "broses like warrior et all" want to go back to the age where men earn the money and women take care of the home... and it was a great age with stable marriages.

However, times have changed and the hustle of the present day has made the women start contributing to the family income and so the former division of labour cannot hold hence the need for a new system that has workable practicability.

So for warrior and his likes, its a pretty easy solution...get married to a house-wife and you can be your defination of MAN.




As for the rest of us, please read through the thread and see ways of being the modern man in our present climes...pocket economist and co did a good job.

Last Bullet:
A man that cannot flow with the times would eventually become a dinosaur(extinct).

Who e help

Kingtim: 1)“Fine” – This is the word women use to end an argument when she knows she is right and you need to shut up.


2) “Nothing” – means “Something” and you need to be worried.


3) “Go Ahead” – this is a dare, not permission, don’t do it.


4) “Whatever" – A women’s way of saying screw you.


5) “That’s Ok” – She is thinking long and hard on how and when you will pay for your mistake.

Bonus Word:
“Wow!” – This is not a compliment; she’s amazed that one person could be so stupid.

Edit*
Braaaaaaaaa my thread finally made front page.. Oh my God! #Pulls boxerS, runs unclad on the street Screaming yes! What nice a way of ending 2013. God bless the mod who put this on front page.

Speak for yourself you disgusting mutant... Nothing african about my reasoning. Its how things are also done in Europe and Asia. Go find out. Bitch

koyes: I think its high time i left this thread to other interesting ones. I've already said all i need to say. To delutioned retards like worrior and co who are still stuck in the past,wake up and realise that your ideal african woman no longer exists. So if truly you've lost hope in african women,there are other options: you can become a transgender, you can become gay or better still, sleep with as many animals as you want. Did i hear you say you already do the last two? Well,even if you don't, you already know that God is still going to punish you for the disgusting things you are doing now. Leave women alone because we would rather remain single till old age than to end up with earth worms like you! I'm out of here!!!

Don't think every woman is like you. Aye e ti ta. Don't decieve the younger generations. Weather feminist or not you will still die. Don't tell me men are the cause of economic problem... You're just a glorified prostitute seeking power. Jezebel

koyes: Eya,no wonder you lack home training. Okponku!and where is your father so you can ask him too. Don't tell me you are a bastard? How did your mum die? Did you male folks in the house make her life a living hell that she couldn't enjoy all she toiled for. Ask yourself cause i bet you i already know the answer.

So from your comment below since men are not worth it you want a change of government? How does that link to equal rights and justice?

We men are been bullied and belittled daily and its time ti fight for our rights. You guys would know its me when I start the campaign

TDN:

guy you never still answer question wey i ask you. anyhow im standing up to what you represent., not you. as for my new found strengths to which you refer, i have seen what male dominion has done to women in the society. to the society itself and then it occured to me that because i was told a man was suprerior to me, i believed he was. i saw that some men were failing in their responsibilites as the head of their homes. i guess i ceased to recognise this authority that no longer benefits me.

the question i asked myself is this. so the man is the head of the home. does he deserve that title. is he worthy of it? absolutely not but of course there will always be exceptions. if the crown is so important to you, earn it. enough of this tyranny. what women doesnt want a man to love, cherish and take care of her? a lot of men abused the right as head of the family. now its a priviledge. earn it.

if Goodluck Jonathan gave give our country uniterrupted power, forget 3rd time, he would be king. there would be no fighting for women's right if we didnt need it. why would you deny someone who wants to improve the quality of their lives. for once, put yourself in our shoes.we go to same schools as you. we wanna feel good about ourselves and most important, we want to contribute to our society. why try and put us in a box and then not take care of us the way you should. it makes no sense.

Lol... All these secret cult women keep decieving innocent people. My mother never reasoned like you till the day she passed on. Okpo like you

koyes: Was that the question someone asked your mum before she mistakenly had you?

Yes! You are setting your standards high in other to attract the attention of the bigger masters... Right? In your mind the answer is yes. LOL

koyes: Most of us know what we want as intelligent African Women. No settling for less!

Why would I be wanting my wife to call me a master per say? I'm asking you cuz I don't understand what you're saying therem

Actually there's nothing to quibble about here misus we don be ok let us call you to the table now. What is it that you want? What are your strenght that you have discovered that's making you stand up to me and wanting to divde my(talking like the head) home?

TDN:


you wanna know what your biggest weapon is? im sure you know. the others are being neutralized every day that passes. foreign back up ke. you havent answered my question.

why is being called and treated like MASTER, so important to you?

its not that men are any less men. its that women are realising their strengths and it terrifies you doesnt it. i really want to know why.

You forgot to add 419.. Our weapons are not effective anymore? So you agree its a weapon? So its a war and your own weapons are more effective or superior You have no idea what I'm capable of doing. I'll shock you guys as far as 9ja is concerned then go ahead to seek foriegn backup if you think that's where your power comes from. Wait and see...

TDN: im excited about the how to be a man symposium you guys want to organise. dont forget before you meet to ask women to fill out a questionnaire about WHAT WOMEN WANT.

seriously, you could learn something if you asked us what we wanted. i know its hard to let go of it always being about you but its for the greater good. happy wife, happy home and all. different women, different needs. im hurt you're offended that some dude has chosen to give it to me. trying to come between me and my pursuit of happiness tinz. not cool.

im glad you have taken up this challenge. keep in mind, your weapons are no longer effective.

which one is prostitutes and homosexuals. its okay sha. change is hard but we will get there. for the record, i respect our culture but there are some that dont make sense in today's world and we have to let go. i have to ask though, what is it about women gaining more independence that makes you so ticked off. why is it so important for you to be called and treated like MASTER. im opening up a dialogue here. i wanna know. im genuinely interested.

Bro education is not the problem but they are exposed to wrong ideas... So don't settle for less. You seem to be affected by these things labeled as feminists. Put yourself together, there are still better girls out there, educated but know how to take care of a man. Not these female warriors abi na amazons

I have met some educated mothers and grannies that still obeys their husband I don't want to name them because some people would know who's behind my handle. But these ill-exposed twits think these women should go and build their own houses and live there while the husband lives in his own. Now, is that not fueling division in our homes?

bettermike: Isnt it better to get a matured dualpurpose lady house help that'l do the chores and my biddings at the same time? These educated ones have lost it completely. They are finished!

LOL@Heroes... Goodluck to your heroes...
This is just like turning prostitution into an occupation and making 419 a legit bisiness... Everything that's bad is now celebrated like homosexuals and shemales... Endtime tinz

However in the last part of your comment you're saying my point indirectly but attacking me personally becayse I'm a man telling you that I'm a man and have my role as much as you have yours...

There's no need for a war? I thought YOU were standing up to ME just now?


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So na who go wash the dishes before?

I need to set up an NGO asap... Something has to be done to stop this mess. I would get people trained and make more research look for sponsors and get the ball rolling. I'll bublish books, make films, littre all forums with our revolutionary gospel. And I would do it right. Thanks for giving me a challenge. I have finally found a course I must serve with my life. My name will be immortalized...
Lol watch out...

TDN:

cooking, yes, some people enjoy doing it, but dude, seriously, who enjoys doing dishes? also the term HUSBAND'S HOUSE is redundant. i know what the general definition is but coming from you it sounds like a dungeon, with you as gate keeper.