Datboredberry:
I've noticed how black men love to pull black women down...

Last night, I was reading ilamina's topics cause I was bored and I think most were funny.

I came across the comments of two men, on a particular thread, who were dissing Nigerian women. They went on about the few white women they've had sex with... How perfect white women therefore are... And how Nigerian girls are so unhygienic... And so forth...

To me, it all reeks of self-hate... And ignorance.

Most black men are deliberately blind to racism...they prefer to ignore the fact that on the social ladder, they come last...

They have zero knowledge of the past... Before the Europeans came to Africa, during the trans-atlantic slave trade and colonialism... And even now... Black women have stood supportive of black men while they were beaten, lynched, stripped off every iota of self-pride... At your very worse, no matter where you are, every black man knows he has a home in a community of black women...

So why the hate towards the only people who've fought by you since the very beginning and who would probably never stop because of their love, loyalty and respect... Even to those undeserving of them...

I've always hated to see black men come out to saw the most awful things about black women...

Black men do everything wrong... The most despicable which is when they insult the good-looks of black women.

Men with broad noses, high foreheads, full lips, type 4 hair... Look at a mirror image of themselves and call it ugly... It's cringe...

There's nothing wrong with dating someone of a different race... But if you do it because you think black women don't compare, then you have a chronic case of mental slavery...

If you think the women who you birthed you, you grew up and played with, you had your first kiss with... Are somehow inferior to women of a different race... Then you have no respect for yourself...

Personally, I've dated men of different races... But I could never think of stooping so low to even write a single bad think of black men...

Yet black men date one white woman and they are all over judging and criticizing black women.

The worse comes from black men who haven't even said a word to a white person in their entire lives!!!

They watch a lot of blacked porn, listen to loads of biased opinions from their mates then instantly take up the role of head-slave... Berating black women and their blackness...

If you date white women, it's great... I date white men... And many other black women do...

But while dating white women, there's no need for you to grovel... To shame your race, culture or ethnicity just to please your white partner... It's absolutely unnecessary for you to make your interracial relationship somehow still revolve around black women... You're not hurting anyone, just making a fool of yourself...

Most black men...

I relate to much of this you’ve said and regardless of all of my many bad experiences, still at the end of the day I still will never generalize Black men in a negative manner. I will marry a Black man one day. That’s just it.

Bigredmachine:
Black men don't hate black women...

A black man who hates black woman is doing so because he himself as already seen himself as a useless man...

Why would I insult a black woman who shares the same skin colour with me all because of a white women who will also never see me as equal to her because of her white skin...

OP you made some point though, but any man who does such is still suffering from mental slavery...

You’ve said it all!

khiaa:


Where did I say it's in black men's nature to be attracted to white girls?

My apologies meant to reply to @jagunlabiodua

Jagunlabiodua:


Let me tell you the truth once and for all from experience of dating White women, Asian women, South African women, Nigeria women, Zimbabwe women and mixed raced women.

The White skin and looks of white women drive black men crazy but this is not only for black men it also applies to Asian, Arab men and even White men. It's not the fault of the Black men but he won't be able to help it but want to be with the white women because she's on top of the food chain.

Forget about colonization, racism let's talk about Nature White women will forever attract Black men. Let me give you local example, in Nigeria girls are bleaching because the Fairer girls get more black men racing after them.

A White woman is coming from generations of wealth and likely to be more financially stable and secured.

Getting a White woman as a Black man is not easy so the blackman will be giving her privileges because it's nature to value what's scarce.

White women are not cleaner or more hyginic than Black women it depends on individuals

White men are also attracted insanely to Asian women like black men ( Yellow fever) it's nature.

At the end with all these experiences I will go for Nigerian girl in Marriage because it goes beyong physical appearances and looks.

There are ugly white women out there who are preying and hunting for black men because it's there last option as Whitemen won't near them or even talk to them.

You black women in America are in trouble if you don't step up your game, most Black American men will be lost to white women because in America there is a rush for white women. Even Michelle Obama wouldn't have married Obama, if Obama white girlfriend accepted his marriage proposal.

You saying that it’s in black mens nature to be attracted to white women is false. That’s a colonial and indoctrinated perspective.

[quote author=khiaa post=107622946][/quote]
You saying that it’s in black mens nature to be attracted to white women is false. That’s a colonial and indoctrinated perspective.

I want to answer this question but first let me just say that I refuse to make this a gender issue like the question already has done here. Most we, Black people, hate ourselves in general. So that leads to hating our fellow blacks and therefore seeing our fellow blacks as enemies. I could list so many factual examples of how we hate ourselves but this is a topic most Black people aren’t even ready to have.

Ftheophilous:

Yeah, no problem. The post wasn't actually meant for you alone in the first place but also for those impressionable ones you are trying to confuse that financial freedom doesn't bring happiness. Enjoy.

Keep worshipping money. Well done. lol

Ftheophilous:

Looks like you are trying to convince yourself much less me or anyone else on here for that matter.

Of course, anyone can be happy, whether rich or poor, as well as sad. Except the sadness of these poor people wasn't caused by poverty, money will definitely make a poor man happy.

Remember maslow's hierarchy of needs. Before on can even satisfy the most basic of these needs in our modern society, money is paramount not to talk of those needs higher in the hierarchy.

Whether a person has money or not, being sad at one point in time is inevitable because this feeling is triggered by external factors that disrupt the internal balance of the hormones responsible for it, but give a poor man money, I assure you he is definitely going to be happy.

Ps: I don't recall saying the bolded.

Not reading that. Enjoy

Ftheophilous:

Lol...citing AG baby as example won't cut it out for you here. It's like comparing a house cat to a bobcat, there are levels to their seeming similarity. If Jeff Bezos can give such a quote, then I'll be ready to rescind my assertion. Anyway, glad to know that you agree that money can buy happiness too.

It cut it for me maybe not for you. And I said temporary not permanent meaning technically it doesn’t and you cannot compare a not only privileged but european man to any African.
Try again, never.
You wasn’t lying when you said you need a body and soul cleansing but you need a spiritual and mental cleansing to add lol smh

[quote author=BABYharder post=107497781][/quote]

Why was your hand their in the first place……oops LOL

InvestorO:


Rest

You rest

BABYharder:

Not trying to mock you, besides i have my fetish. It won't cause harm if you debunk my assumption. I made the assertion based on my encounter with a femdom.

Honestly, I’m not here to debunk anyone. That’s not my intentions. As I mentioned before and I will keep saying over and over think whatever you want to think and believe whatever you want to believe.
I don’t have energy for things and people that I gain nothing of spiritual, emotional, mental growth for or meant to waste my energy or time.

BABYharder:
Op you get sense and too stiff, me likey the former. But in a country like this the later will jeopardize our relationship.
How do you even engage and enjoy romance cus from the undertone you seem to be a femdom

I’d answer your question but when people resort to false assumptions and shadiness just shows me that the person is not serious at all and rather try to mock or belittle someone that is different from you so think whatever you want. I guess it’s easier for the typical person to jump to conclusions and judge than understand because it requires you to use your brain. You can see me as whatever you want. It doesn’t bother me. I give you permission.

illicit:


Lol guy u no well o

Lmao

Iyaebe:
I don't blame her,it's unfortunate to date a Nigerian man especially boys within the age range of 18-35.

Why would you generalize all Nigerian men badly like that? You must like women or hate your own race, it’s one or the other hmm

Drella:
So I just wanted to make foreign friends and I messaged this polish woman.

At First, she acted like she doesn't know Nigeria.So our tarnished image might be out of it.

Also,after seeing my last message, she didn't block me until about 5 minutes after reading it.

I must confess I'm not good at chatting. Maybe the way I texted her was off. But then, I have an Ukrainian girl I've been chatting with on IG and whatsapp since 2019 with no qualms. Infact, I haven't opened the IG message she sent today.

What then could be the problem?

The lengths some Africans go for validation and acceptance SMH

joxa:


Having gone through your write-up, I must commend your desire and requirements.

Personally, everyone has every right to pursue and strive for what he/she strongly believes in, yourself included.

So thumbs up to you.

Though, without being boastful, I must say I meet all your demands but missing out or, should I say, not having two of all you mentioned.

So at this juncture, those two missing attributes have already counted against me, which means I don't (unfortunately) meet your expectations.

On a final note, I wish you the best in your quest.

Hi, good evening. I’m sure your day went very well. If like you know which of the two things that just happens to be because I don’t think it would completely rule you out just like that and I admire your boldness and I find how you paid attention to detail attractive as well and honestly those are actually some of the things I cherish and seek.
You could email me or reach me on telegram if you wish to.

Gee64:
She's a Cucumber fan...Methinks. But I think I can rock her off your boat.
She is ecstatic, and in her fantasy she seeks sexual pleasure that's not stormy.
Good girl. Get hit in the centre real slowly and sing like a cockatoo!
I suggest she slams in the Love Machine slowly till she approaches a level of declevity and erupts like a volcano. She needs a guy that can cuddle her real good and electrify her pleasure-arousing-essentials!

But that's the idle man's occupation.
Me, I do crypto mining for free now. If you hit my signature below, the pleasure you'll derive will be financially rewarding. Do this before getting the Love Machine baby, I can assure you, you will erupt financially before the next one year..trust my libido!

Okay goodnight.

Ayo081:


The one about waiting for someone to add to your happiness.

Oh ok ok thanks dr

Glycolite:
All I read is "I want this ","I want that ". "I need this and that in an interest", but you didn't list one single stuff you're gonna offer an interest.

Smiles

Ayo081:


Your recent topic is interesting BTW. Good luck. ✌️

Which recent topic in specific? I made a few recently…

Ftheophilous:

Who told you money can't buy peace and happiness. It definitely can. If majority of the households in Africa can get access to such money you were referring to, then peace and happiness are just mere commodities.

So by that concept you’re basically saying money will solve our problems as Africans smh. The problems we face as Africans is bigger than paper money. But most of us aren’t ready to sit down and have this conversation.
Now don’t get me wrong, money may buy temporary happiness but definitely not permanent happiness.
AG is one of the people that said it best, “ Money no dey bring happiness
Na when I get money I realize oo”
Only people that worship material things will say money bring happiness. Money is somewhat necessary to some extent in the time we are living but it shouldn’t be making people forget about the simplicity of life. Until you see money then you cannot conclude on money buying happiness.

Ayo081:


Getat? Before...

Noting nvm.

Ayo081:


lol you should know what he trynna say...like everything earth.

I should know how!? I don’t read minds. Getat

InvestorO:


Sure I will,eating plants like an herbivore is out of it definitely......haha

Na you sabi e no concern me

InvestorO:



make I come dey chop grass and plant like ruminant animal,shey o wa ok bayii...

Oya rest

Do anything you wish as you will anyways. Haha

Rydermaverick:

Rydermaverick:

Don't worry about getting me aiit..

Lmaoo

InvestorO:


Not funny....

I see you really need MEAT literally, figuratively or otherwise....

It’s hilarious, hysterical even and I don’t and neither do you . LOL

Rydermaverick:

Take a break..

Break from what? I don’t get you??

Rydermaverick:

For sure..my finger hurts so enjoy..

lol I’m and sure