BlackZeus17:
Stop shaking hands and start hugging


modern problems requires modern solutions

I tried doing this. But some people keep bringing their hand to shake. I've been shaking with half fingers. I see the reaction on their face like why can't I shake with full palm but I no do again. Cos they're the ones that will start complaining and call my palm
sandpaper . And the funny thing is this is only an issue because of fellow humans that want to shake hands. Other than that, I don't notice my palms are gritty.

And nothing ever works. I use vaseline lotion and black soap. I've checked the ingredients, they don't have properties that makes one palm hard. I've tried different hand creams but nothing. I'm considering maybe surgery In the future if there will be no side effects cos of the insecurity that comes shaking important people like business partners or managers.

I realized I got it from my mum. Her palm is also gritty. Hopefully surgery without side effects can solve the problem

TOPCRUISE:
Selfish woman. The energy she is emitting to discourage Nigerians from going to Canada by her complaints will not work.
The only way I can take her serious is when she returns back to Nigeria immediately after her lamentations.
If not then she is an enemy of progress.

Yeye people. Don't mind bloody black minded Nigerians. Why isn't she back to Nigeria yet?

I know of my sister's friend they truly relocated back to Nigeria from Canada but went back because he saw that Nigeria is a frugally more expensive and that was about 2 years plus ago. He said at least there's free education in Canada . What are we enjoying here

blueghost:
I am heading a department and the best way to handle this GenZ is to first and foremost respect your self and never in anyway flirt/compliment their dressing/looks. Think before you take/make any instructions and actions cos when you do and you chicken out your respect is gone. Treat and give them that fatherly figure and avoid poke nose in their shit/gist

This is exactly the way to treat them. I also head a department with a gen z. Boy is her problem not too much. I made a terrible mistake being friendly in the first place because I thought i should be friendly to make my team members feel at ease with their lead. But I was wrong. So wrong. Now I've deleted all that nicest and friendliness I wish I never permitted in the first place.i don't have any iota of respect anymore

Hi Richmondefosa

I anticipate the stanbic ibtc diesp program 2024 and kind of nervous. Please any idea when it commences for this year?

Please can you help with your email address

samegold:


I did last year

Please how was it? Mind I can get your contact please

Please who also anticipates the Stanbic ibtc Disep program this year

Chai. 17 years no response

Wow. 12 good years no response

Guy why 8 to 5pm na. What of we office people that close from 5pm.

Bukkiminat:


What did you apply for? Internship or graduate trainee?

Internship

EbonyTolu:


Have you heard from them since then?

Finally heard from them. Got rejected.

I tried to visit my account again on 2go o. Was asked to pay N90 for a new password. I was eventually charged another N51 for paystack charges. Still no password

phorget:
2go was in it own class and cant be compared to watsapp. You will need to have someone's number before chatting on watsapp but 2go is where you can easily go into any room and make friends with a total stranger.

Really easier to meet new people. I and a guy became friends through 2go. Since 100 level o, till end of final year. He was a student in U.I while I studied in OAU. We never met in person, but the friendship was great!

We chatted about each other' relationship and break ups. Was really nice.

Waxexy:



Hi Phyaa, please how was the internship

Please has anyone gotten response till now

SUTEMCOLTD:
Has anyone here had a formal interview with them or does anybody know somebody

Nothing yet o

Hohenheim:
OP there is no God and you should stop wasting your time praying to him or her.

The time you wasted during and after uni going to crusades and all those other church things could have been used to socialise and meet new people.

And when you were dating you were prolly super faithful and didn't leave your options open, a decision you're regretting now.

Cheating is bad and all but that's just the way the game goes, you gotta play it.

Anyways I wish you find love get married and have kids of your own, so go out and meet new people.

PS. No be only church Dem dey meet people.

Thanks.
But where else do i go? I already attend seminars, also singles seminars. I honestly don't know

Persephone1:
I'm laughing out loud at those "Thank God I'm a guy crew" lol as if Men are not just as desperate for marriage as women. Lol don't worry by the time you are 30-34 without prospective partners you will understand better.

Dear Op, please take off your mind from marriage for now and focus on other things. Go out, network, be of value. Most times when you try too hard, you miss it. Reflect on your previous relationships, learn from them , keep growing to become a better person. Please just be happy and live life. If you can change environment, please do too
Be happy.

With time, the right one will come.

Amen, thank you

pressplay411:


Do you know that God loves you so much, and that's why He has prevented/protected you from marrying yet?
Be of good cheer!, what you consider shame is God working out a glorious package for you.
I was particularly excited when you said youre a worker (sanitation/sanctuary cleaner) at that.
Rejoice, yours will be a special testimony.

Some discussions are beyond NL.
Perhaps we can arrange a phone call some time.

Hmm. Thanks I appreciate. I've can talk

Reminderz:
well I would have debunked this story if not that the account wasn't newly created... anyways regardless of whether what you wrote is true or not, I still feel you're leaving some information out about you that doesn't make men approach you...

or you were among those who does shakara unnecessarily when men approach them or trying to talk to them, now it has dawned on you that time is no longer on your side... and please don't say God doesn't answer prayers... even Abraham who's regarded as God's friend bore a child in his old age after many years of prayers and fasting.. if you're true to yourself, or you're a woman of dignity and you didn't engage in acts of immorality when you were at your youthful phase, God will come through for you...

now read what you wrote, you're letting something inconsequential cause a rift in your relationship.. someone you're not married to, you're already fighting with him over not wishing your mom happy birthday? what is wrong with ladies and self-deception sef?? shey before you met him your mother doesn't celebrate birthday abi? abi which kind wahala be this? does he wishing your mom happy birthday or not changes the way he acts around her? you should only be concerned about if her respects her or not, not because of issues like this... seems you have this kind of bossy attitude that put men off, and these attitudes is mostly prevalent among career women because they believe they've arrived... I'm sorry for you...

no matter how feminists make it seem, marriage will always be the topmost priority for women... a woman will only say she doesn't need a man when she can't find one...it is not out of willingness to stay away from men... at this stage, your desperation to get married increases and your friends being married and enjoying marriage will also add to the desperation... at this stage, any man that lies to you about marriage, you'll quickly offer yourself to him... this makes you super vulnerable... the more a woman ages, the more vulnerable she becomes when it comes to relationship... when you become clingy and desperate and you also don't have a good attitude, men will avoid you like a plague, they will just use you as a cum bag...

reality dawn on women late, while on men, early.. this is because of the hard life most men are subjected to at early stage... they've experienced the harsh realities of life and this make them decision conscious.. but for women, due to self-deception, they regret their actions later in life... OP, at this stage, only God and you refining your personality can save you..

I have accepted my fate okay. I hate that someone would love to have a family and you tag me as desperate. Everyone is thinking I'm desperate. But when I go ahead to have kids on my own because noone would take me seriously, I know the new names I will be called. And if I decide to be by myself, I will still be called names.

Wealthier:


Oh, if we're going down memory lane. This same current bf made me attend his cousin's introduction

Also, he started making me talk to his dad anytime he comes to visit him. Maybe because his dad always asked of me. He dad is around again now, guess what, he suddenly would love to speak with my mum. He didn't think this way all this while.

I feel a little skeptical about sharing the chat screenshot here in case he comes on nairaland.

So I want to understand, if he was giving me family relationship vibes. Why not complete it

Reminderz:
well I would have debunked this story if not that the account wasn't newly created... anyways regardless of whether what you wrote is true or not, I still feel you're leaving some information out about you that doesn't make men approach you...

or you were among those who does shakara unnecessarily when men approach them or trying to talk to them, now it has dawned on you that time is no longer on your side... and please don't say God doesn't answer prayers... even Abraham who's regarded as God's friend bore a child in his old age after many years of prayers and fasting.. if you're true to yourself, or you're a woman of dignity and you didn't engage in acts of immorality when you were at your youthful phase, God will come through for you...

now read what you wrote, you're letting something inconsequential cause a rift in your relationship.. someone you're not married to, you're already fighting with him over not wishing your mom happy birthday? what is wrong with ladies and self-deception sef?? shey before you met him your mother doesn't celebrate birthday abi? abi which kind wahala be this? does he wishing your mom happy birthday or not changes the way he acts around her? you should only be concerned about if her respects her or not, not because of issues like this... seems you have this kind of bossy attitude that put men off, and these attitudes is mostly prevalent among career women because they believe they've arrived... I'm sorry for you...

no matter how feminists make it seem, marriage will always be the topmost priority for women... a woman will only say she doesn't need a man when she can't find one...it is not out of willingness to stay away from men... at this stage, your desperation to get married increases and your friends being married and enjoying marriage will also add to the desperation... at this stage, any man that lies to you about marriage, you'll quickly offer yourself to him... this makes you super vulnerable... the more a woman ages, the more vulnerable she becomes when it comes to relationship... when you become clingy and desperate and you also don't have a good attitude, men will avoid you like a plague, they will just use you as a cum bag...

reality dawn on women late, while on men, early.. this is because of the hard life most men are subjected to at early stage... they've experienced the harsh realities of life and this make them decision conscious.. but for women, due to self-deception, they regret their actions later in life... OP, at this stage, only God and you refining your personality can save you..

Oh, if we're going down memory lane. This same current bf made me attend his cousin's introduction

Also, he started making me talk to his dad anytime he comes to visit him. Maybe because his dad always asked of me. He dad is around again now, guess what, he suddenly would love to speak with my mum. He didn't think this way all this while.

I feel a little skeptical about sharing the chat screenshot here in case he comes on nairaland.

Jflex07:
lets meet,i stay in port Harcourt. Where do you stay?

I reside in Lagos

Maychang:
You are 30 and not a loser. There are women who are 40, single and doing great things. Why not focus on developing yourself and attend good social functions occasionally and you will see what will happen.

God indeed shows mercy but we may not be able to tell him when and how to show mercy.

Take this as a test of faith and keep being you!

Wishing you the best

I guess that's what it is then. Let me take my mind off totally. I'm tired.

Hi Nairalanders,

Permit me go straight to the point. So I've been praying to God earnestly, with tears since I was 25. Up till now that I'm clocking 30 years this month. It seems God doesn't want to answer my prayers to bless me with my husband.

I have fasted, prayed, cried, sowed seeds, join others to celebrate, sow seed in theirs and yet I'm still not taken seriously.

Honestly, I've begin to lose faith many times and already planning to be a baby mama as soon as I earn more money.

Before the age of 24, I wasn't thinking about marriage. I majorly wanted to be done with school and get a job because I do not want to be a liability to my husband. The whole thing though, there were no serious suitors , but I wasn't worried. I had a boyfriend then of 3 years but I knew we wouldn't end up together because he was too focused on being an Activist, his communication became poor. No matter how I complained about it.

I started to become afraid when I clocked 25 and saw that most of my friends were engaged. It dawned on me that no serious man is seeing me. I believe I am pretty , doesn't dress extravagantly and not materialistic. Infact the other guy I was hoping we would be serious together told me he doesn't have money for marriage, I told him money will come but he insisted he couldn't start a relationship with me. This was when I was 25. At 26 , 27 up till 28, the same reasons I heard.

What exactly is wrong with me?

Finally at 28, I met my current bf. He seemed very serious and into me until I started to dream about marriage and started to talk to him about it. Today we had serious quarrels, he broke up with me just because I wasn't happy with him that he didn't try to greet my mum on her birthday. I thought he was taking things serious after telling me at the beginning of this year that we would have our court wedding this year. He told me he's not ready for any marriage anytime soon, that he can link me with his friend if i still want to marry this year. We have resolved the issue , but I'm not sure I love him anymore. I'm just rolling with it.


I'm clocking 30 years this month and feeling so much like an evening newspaper.

I'm just here feeling bad and dejected. Why does it take so long for God to show me mercy?

I'm somehow regretting not joining my female friends in double dating and then go with who's more serious.

Not one, not two or 3 of my friends did this same thing and they are now all married.

Honestly, I feel so much like a loser. I guess I may eventually just try to get kids of my own once I earn more money.

I feel depressed whenever I see couples together. I've had to rub away from my sanitation group in church because of a particular young couple in my department that I'm beginning to get jealous of. Like , will this ever be me?

I've been attending couples seminar since 2021 and northing yet. Is this how another 5 more years will add to my life and everyone will officially be calling me evening newspaper.

I've told my family to not judge me when I find a way to have my own children cos I'm tired of crying to them and they shouldn't ask me where is my man.

If there's any prophet amongst you. I'd really appreciate a word of prayer. Seems God doesn't care of my feelings.

Please ignore my typo error. I typed from too much pain

pqute:
not yet o

Sigh. It's well

pqute:
alright,I'll do that

Have you gotten any response

Has anyone gotten any thing else after submitting response to the question if one is eligible to work in same country and if one has finished NYSC

Datibella:


They may still consider you to take the test since the application deadline hasn't reached but I think you need a very valid reason like telling them you travelled to a village that had no single network to check your mail or just find something very tangible, you may just be lucky

Okay na , thank you

win23:
your case is different 😁

What does it mean

Please what happens to someone that didn't respond to the test on time

Please what kind of questions is asked in the prerecorded video interview and how's the aptitude test like? Gmat?

Please guys , what's the difference between the adhoc , NPC and DQM roles.