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Wealthier:
Oh, if we're going down memory lane. This same current bf made me attend his cousin's introduction

Also, he started making me talk to his dad anytime he comes to visit him. Maybe because his dad always asked of me. He dad is around again now, guess what, he suddenly would love to speak with my mum. He didn't think this way all this while.

I feel a little skeptical about sharing the chat screenshot here in case he comes on nairaland.

So I want to understand, if he was giving me family relationship vibes. Why not complete it

Reminderz:
well I would have debunked this story if not that the account wasn't newly created... anyways regardless of whether what you wrote is true or not, I still feel you're leaving some information out about you that doesn't make men approach you...

or you were among those who does shakara unnecessarily when men approach them or trying to talk to them, now it has dawned on you that time is no longer on your side... and please don't say God doesn't answer prayers... even Abraham who's regarded as God's friend bore a child in his old age after many years of prayers and fasting.. if you're true to yourself, or you're a woman of dignity and you didn't engage in acts of immorality when you were at your youthful phase, God will come through for you...

now read what you wrote, you're letting something inconsequential cause a rift in your relationship.. someone you're not married to, you're already fighting with him over not wishing your mom happy birthday? what is wrong with ladies and self-deception sef?? shey before you met him your mother doesn't celebrate birthday abi? abi which kind wahala be this? does he wishing your mom happy birthday or not changes the way he acts around her? you should only be concerned about if her respects her or not, not because of issues like this... seems you have this kind of bossy attitude that put men off, and these attitudes is mostly prevalent among career women because they believe they've arrived... I'm sorry for you...

no matter how feminists make it seem, marriage will always be the topmost priority for women... a woman will only say she doesn't need a man when she can't find one...it is not out of willingness to stay away from men... at this stage, your desperation to get married increases and your friends being married and enjoying marriage will also add to the desperation... at this stage, any man that lies to you about marriage, you'll quickly offer yourself to him... this makes you super vulnerable... the more a woman ages, the more vulnerable she becomes when it comes to relationship... when you become clingy and desperate and you also don't have a good attitude, men will avoid you like a plague, they will just use you as a cum bag...

reality dawn on women late, while on men, early.. this is because of the hard life most men are subjected to at early stage... they've experienced the harsh realities of life and this make them decision conscious.. but for women, due to self-deception, they regret their actions later in life... OP, at this stage, only God and you refining your personality can save you..

Oh, if we're going down memory lane. This same current bf made me attend his cousin's introduction

Also, he started making me talk to his dad anytime he comes to visit him. Maybe because his dad always asked of me. He dad is around again now, guess what, he suddenly would love to speak with my mum. He didn't think this way all this while.

I feel a little skeptical about sharing the chat screenshot here in case he comes on nairaland.

Jflex07:
lets meet,i stay in port Harcourt. Where do you stay?

I reside in Lagos

Maychang:
You are 30 and not a loser. There are women who are 40, single and doing great things. Why not focus on developing yourself and attend good social functions occasionally and you will see what will happen.

God indeed shows mercy but we may not be able to tell him when and how to show mercy.

Take this as a test of faith and keep being you!

Wishing you the best

I guess that's what it is then. Let me take my mind off totally. I'm tired.

Hi Nairalanders,

Permit me go straight to the point. So I've been praying to God earnestly, with tears since I was 25. Up till now that I'm clocking 30 years this month. It seems God doesn't want to answer my prayers to bless me with my husband.

I have fasted, prayed, cried, sowed seeds, join others to celebrate, sow seed in theirs and yet I'm still not taken seriously.

Honestly, I've begin to lose faith many times and already planning to be a baby mama as soon as I earn more money.

Before the age of 24, I wasn't thinking about marriage. I majorly wanted to be done with school and get a job because I do not want to be a liability to my husband. The whole thing though, there were no serious suitors , but I wasn't worried. I had a boyfriend then of 3 years but I knew we wouldn't end up together because he was too focused on being an Activist, his communication became poor. No matter how I complained about it.

I started to become afraid when I clocked 25 and saw that most of my friends were engaged. It dawned on me that no serious man is seeing me. I believe I am pretty , doesn't dress extravagantly and not materialistic. Infact the other guy I was hoping we would be serious together told me he doesn't have money for marriage, I told him money will come but he insisted he couldn't start a relationship with me. This was when I was 25. At 26 , 27 up till 28, the same reasons I heard.

What exactly is wrong with me?

Finally at 28, I met my current bf. He seemed very serious and into me until I started to dream about marriage and started to talk to him about it. Today we had serious quarrels, he broke up with me just because I wasn't happy with him that he didn't try to greet my mum on her birthday. I thought he was taking things serious after telling me at the beginning of this year that we would have our court wedding this year. He told me he's not ready for any marriage anytime soon, that he can link me with his friend if i still want to marry this year. We have resolved the issue , but I'm not sure I love him anymore. I'm just rolling with it.


I'm clocking 30 years this month and feeling so much like an evening newspaper.

I'm just here feeling bad and dejected. Why does it take so long for God to show me mercy?

I'm somehow regretting not joining my female friends in double dating and then go with who's more serious.

Not one, not two or 3 of my friends did this same thing and they are now all married.

Honestly, I feel so much like a loser. I guess I may eventually just try to get kids of my own once I earn more money.

I feel depressed whenever I see couples together. I've had to rub away from my sanitation group in church because of a particular young couple in my department that I'm beginning to get jealous of. Like , will this ever be me?

I've been attending couples seminar since 2021 and northing yet. Is this how another 5 more years will add to my life and everyone will officially be calling me evening newspaper.

I've told my family to not judge me when I find a way to have my own children cos I'm tired of crying to them and they shouldn't ask me where is my man.

If there's any prophet amongst you. I'd really appreciate a word of prayer. Seems God doesn't care of my feelings.

Please ignore my typo error. I typed from too much pain

pqute:
not yet o

Sigh. It's well

pqute:
alright,I'll do that

Have you gotten any response

Has anyone gotten any thing else after submitting response to the question if one is eligible to work in same country and if one has finished NYSC

Datibella:
They may still consider you to take the test since the application deadline hasn't reached but I think you need a very valid reason like telling them you travelled to a village that had no single network to check your mail or just find something very tangible, you may just be lucky

Okay na , thank you

win23:
your case is different 😁

What does it mean

Please what happens to someone that didn't respond to the test on time

Please what kind of questions is asked in the prerecorded video interview and how's the aptitude test like? Gmat?

Please guys , what's the difference between the adhoc , NPC and DQM roles.

Really nice and inspirational experience. I also have a keen interest in Real Estate. I have already started out with some properties for rent. I would love to partner also with your company. Any way we can communicate better? @cigarorealtyltd.. there is no email address or phone number on your profile

eddynaira125:
Anybody that advice this OP to mind his business is a big fool



All those advising people to mind their business are having an affair with married people.

Hahahhaha see them. Can you keep the same energy if it were the man cheating? Threads ago, you people were the same hypocrites bashing the op to mind his business. Nigerian men and hypocrisy . #spits

An invention to quickly administer or revive a failing brain, kidney and heart when one is down with stroke.

My dear FairMoney

I had my first android phone, NEC device around 13 or 14. My second NOKIA android at 16. Neither at both times did I use my phone for stupid shii. I never password my phone sef . Was as transparent as anything. All you will see is beyonce. Her pictures and videos. Teens of nowadays sef

One only time did I experience abuse by a so called neighbor pastor. He would send me to buy him bread and whenever I tried to give it to him, he would hold me and put me on his lap.

He was able to almost get to me cos people always respected him as pastor and that almost helped him get away with his evil act. Thank God he didn't enter me. I tried to tell my sis, she didn't believe cos she thought the asshole was a genuine pastor.

The day I eventually told my mum, I'm glad I did now. She was afraid to confront the man cos everyone called him a pastor, instead she beat the shit out of my life. I actually bled. That very day sense entered my head, I never went on errands for anyone again except my family. That was how I was able to escape severe abuse and possibly rape.

Money and exercise are truly important.
A man celebrated this same age in my church just 2 days ago and he is already bent..he could barely jump . See this one upright and giving dance steppings..

Op still hasn't told us how car was found.

Always Ibom is fine, no doubt. But why compare to Lagos?? I was expecting more than just a stadium and beach. What else is there to beat Lagos for??

Lol

All na clout

Very irritating shii. I almost poked.

Tufia

AmericanDad:
We had sex countless times days and weeks after that day

Bros please you haven't responded to me na. I'm stranded, I'm looking for work please.

What type of organization do you work and what role . Help a life.

AmericanDad:
How is earning more than 500k lies? poverty has eaten neck deep into the society. If I mention what iv been paid only the year alone as allowance..it would bring so much attention cos it's in 8 figures

Bros please what type of company do you work and what role? Please help me I'm looking for work.

God bless you

Still no response after another 2 years. Nawa o