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cerowo:
Ogbeni, not all ladies biko

Cool story

maxysmith:
stop generalizing it .......i'm different

Tell me another story...
How many lies have you not said recently ?

Girls are terrible people....

They have masters degree in lying...

Trust me on this bruv...

I guess we have nothing more to do than to keep exposing them for the ones who are still guilible to learn.


Believe everything they say at your own risk

You wont believe a girl lied to me with her own's mother's health last week saying things was getting critical and she cant focus with her life lookimg very sadistic making me feel sorry for her and all that..

Only to find out just last night on her email ( she logged in with my phone) that she even had twice the said amount already on her account making it tripple balance.

And after thorough and careful investigation with her transactions, there was nothing like her sending money to her apart from a transaction she sent to a female counterpath to buy something. i sent her to help me withdraw last night so i saw the balance to confirm she has this money.

Brothers and sisters... my story again... just because i couldnt take chances with her mother's health to assist as i could

robotix:
i am going to create a thread because of you and will address issues... You can always comment on it if you wish.

You won't believe this same girl is coming back saying she missed me, the sex and all that..

Actually, she called, came around at afternoon, stayed till this evening, said she wanted to spend the night (I couldn't deny her that) so she went and returned.. You wouldn't believe that I actually noticed this girl had about 30k on her account but yet acting like she's not having money..
I saw her balance on the phone I collected from her which I am using now as her email is logged in on it..

I'm just waiting for her to mention anything about needing money for something

Safiaa:
What happened? I'm curious.

Very long story dear

robotix:
i am going to create a thread because of you and will address issues... You can always comment on it if you wish.

Ok bro..let me know when you do

Nigerians are too greedy

Is that all?

rabazamba:
I swear I dey feel your pain..

Thanks bro.. it is well

shaybebaby:
Lol@bolded. But you should be grateful, she didn't waste your time for too long.
Anyways, that's her idiocy showing right there. I certainly wouldn't want to be with someone who reasons that way so yeah, it's better they excuse themselves.
Seems like you seek someone is who is open minded and flexible in their thinking. It's going to be a bit more difficult in the nigerian environment to find girls like that.
It's through no fault of theirs though, it's the pressures put on them by the society with you menfolk not excluded from culpability. I remember a guy posting on here that he likes older gals and he was laughed at. The norm in naij is older guy, younger girl. It takes a certain resilience to be able to ignore what people consider as conventional. She, quite rightly for the environment is worried about if she can withstand possible future jabs(women generally age faster than men bullshit and all that). Also worried about if you may cave in to the same pressures to conform(finding a younger counterpart).
You may say foreign girls are different but that is because the society here generally doesn't give a Bleep. No one bats an eyelid. So people are generally free to make their choices without fear of censure. Put a foreign girl in Nigeria and watch her succumb to the same pressures.

She said so but I gave her guarantee I'm not one of those

Infact I only just found out last week my dad and mum were mates before she passed on.. they didn't have any such issues or ever had any relationship outside marriage but that wasn't enough.. I guess it's just an excuse after all the guarantee I gave.. I tire mehnn

This happened to me before

shaybebaby:
Well examining what they consider as benefits should give you a good inkling as to what they consider as important, their values.
No one goes into relationships if they do not envisage some sort of benefits. We all do, you wouldn't date if you think it would be deleterious.
So I'm saying kind of like the opposite, what are the benefits you desire from your partner, find someone whose thoughts align.

Let me give you another example, after dating this last one for over 6 months, she just came to realisation that im just few months older than her and she cant end up with me.. saying its not about me but her self esteem in the future aand all that bullshit..

Not that shes just finding out that now

Since everyone decided to be childish, i did something i would never do before (collected back my iphone 7 plus) cos i felt used

shaybebaby:
I'm going to ask you to ignore that advice. No offense.

Want a partner who may go the full distance, you must always be yourself.
This isn't some fairy tale where you have a true reveal. This is real life bro.

Secondly, what do you want? I mean in life? What is the picture of the life you want, I mean not now, in 5 years, 10 years?

What are your dreams?

Identify those and find someone who shares the same dream i.e wants the same things and is willing to work with you to achieve the life you both want.p

What i understand from what he explained is, getting to know first what she wants from me firstly.. you see, at the end of the day, i shouldn't go into relationships with those whom are more interested in what they are going to benefit from me other than those who should rather want to create a future with me... there is a difference and its what i saw from his post

robotix:
I know your story as I have been following you since the last topic of engagement. I used to complain like you as well.

My assessment of you is that you are a down to earth lover boy. You have so much love, you show it and give the Nigerian girls this same gesture.

Now here is the truth... Over 80% of Nigerian girls don't want or deserve someone like you, especially those ones you really want.

You should hide that personality as much as possible. Yeah, don't let them see it. Gold has value because it's hard to find.

But do you know what I have learned from a Lady I met here?

When you meet a girl... Find out what she really wants. Find out if she wants you. This is the easiest part but often ignored and we end up crying later.

You will know if a girl really wants you or not...

Your first job is to find out if she wants you or wants what you are offering.

Thanks bro.. i will do this from now on

Luckygurl:
The alarming number of threads I come across each day aimed at bashing the female folks ehhh. No day passes by without me reading such and it leads me to wonder what exactly is wrong.

Most atimes it's as a result of a sweet relationship turned sour. Y'all suddenly forget in a twinkle of an eye how things were once rosy and how you picked up subtle signs but chose to ignore them.

Let me paint a popular scenario here.
You meet a lady oozing with class, posh, pretty and all, maybe in a club or some high class place. You succeed in exchanging contacts and hit things up from there. It's obvious she's of a high taste but you feel as a guy you can roll on her levels.
She's probably still a student living big and you wonder how she's able to maintain such a luxurious lifestyle from her monthly allowance coming from home or maybe a working class lady still trying to figure out her career path yet living big. But then she suits your exact taste and her source of income is of less importance to you.
You ask her out without doing due diligence on her background and all, that's when the true nature of things begin to unfold. Numerous calls from other admirers, her suspicious unavailability on many occasions, subtle signs but because she satisfies you sexually and is the sweet kind of girl, you ignore.

All of a sudden, truth hits you like a timed bomb right back on the face and you come crying all girls are evil.

Did you do your background checks?
All those subtle signs, did you act on them?
Were you completely fair from your own end?
Your answer is obviously no to all the questions above.

Now to my fellow ladies
You have alot of guys at your beck and call flaunting their wealth right on your face. You don't wanna pick one to stick with but you feel playing your cards right and having all of them right under your control is the best, no problem. You can go on right ahead, it's your life to live. No one's gonna judge or condemn you.
But please do well to let them know you're in it for the money. You satisfy them and in return they part with the cash, a reward for the services rendered (well not like you didn't enjoy the act itself).
Any guy that plunges in with emotions should be ready for the outcome.

Don't go and trap one innocent guy who's obviously head over heels in love with you and does everything within him to see you're happy.
This is strictly business for you, emotions are kept far away from it.
You're in it for the money, be fair enough to keep the gullible and soft hearted at bay.

But no!! Will they hear?
The guys won't hesitate to opt for the hot classy ones all to themselves when it's obvious you're way below their level, the ladies still wanna eat their cake and have it yet in their hands.

Later they come here crying fowl.
Nonsense!! Suits y'all right
It's a crazy world y'know

Best

chidichuddo:
I see the way guys complain about ladies and girls also doing the same


but we fail to realize if both genders were brought up well we won't b having issues

Elder brothers no longer discipline their sisters when they go astray same goes for girls

in the early 70's 80's n 90's you could just pick up a girl u watched for a week n marry her without fear but now series of interviews ve to be done but still we still fear


ask yourself this when last did u chastise your younger one for an unruly behaviour since parents are no longer concerned about upkeep


a guy wants a good girl while his sister is a slay queen


hmmmm

I can beat my chest this is not same with me.. I make sure I discipline my sisters when necessary till date.. especially the one graduating next week

biacan:
hit the mail

Doesnt work

biacan:
yes

what's your handle ?

biacan:
ah so someone can not find Mr Right in peace again

Are you on Instagram ?

alexialin:
Nope


If you got the whatsapp? I will be online in the evening.

Have to get back 2 work.

Duty calls.

Cheers.

Ok

rabazamba:
Just go for white gals or chinko..

Working on relocating already.. maybe that's where my destiny is bro

supersystemsnig:
But why? I've hooked up with European to American ladies, why are they easy to roll with than our sisters? There's a clear difference in how Nigerian ladies roll when compared with the counterparts..I can tell you this as a fact. I have over 40 foreign ladies to tell you i've observed this trend. In fact, a foreign naija lady called me lately and expressed this same concern. Sisters need to chill

And the sweetest part is with all , months will pass but they won't tell you about any financial issue like our Nigerian sisters

Adaumunocha:
Don't give up. When you meet her, your efforts won't b in vain.

I pray so. Thanks

alexialin:
On second thoughts, let's chat. My pm is messing up.

Can I have your email?

Hardly check mails, are you on IG?

biacan:
For a billionaire like you 10k is nothing....... who knows if I might get a diamond chain from you on our first meeting

Shebi I told you I am a billionaire ni ? But even if I was one you think it's fun feeling played all the time abi ??

biacan:

I can see you like money from your posts..10k just to see pictures

hooklover:
Everylady has 2sides she shows u one side most of the time. I was with a lady in hotel room while we were digging it out. Her phone was ringing non stop. After sex she told me to keep quiet so she can call. Low and behold it was her fiancee planning marriage with her..
She told me someone recommended her to the guy as wife material and she does not want to loose the opportunity as the guy has seen her people already.

Now to the guy she is d best lady he has chosen to settle with but to me she is s confirmed pay as u go lady...

I just told her she will be a good bed material based ion her performance.

OBARA JESUS

biacan:
If all you prostrate is true who knows you can still be my MR. RIGHT

You want to join the list of heartbreakers abi ?

gloria34:
a girl can ask her bf 4 money, that's normal. it doesn't make her cheap but from the look of things, maybe u keep going 4 girls that look expensive but have nothing to offer, not even honesty. and also, ur hairdo, its not bad but people have preference, I 4 one don't like guys with plaited hair. just relax, stop looking 4 d perfect girl, try to flow with qualities and not beauty, also check urself.

Makes some sense. Thx,, I have to stop looking

biacan:
Don't give up so easily there are still good girls in Nigeria...... you just have to open your eyes and see the queen around you......hit the right bottom just be yourself OK....... good girls still exist

Okay thx

IamKashyBaby:
I wud say it depends who u mingle with..if u keep urself being surrounded by these hoodrats who give nothing but NUNU & TROUBLE then definitely u better find ur way out & stay away from these no class bitches..

And besides NOT all white ppol are approachable as well.. Only u have to choose the right ones..

Good luck..

Class has been putting me in troubles since 1960 these days I'm getting to think I should go for lower classes if maybe those are the ones who will be real in sincerity