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alexialin:
Eeyah, she's regretting..

So what's your final decision?

Will u take her back?

Well, I am not planning on doing so,
In as much as she’s a lot more manageable than the rest, as in, less demanding and more of a career person,

I still can’t trust her real motives yet. I have decided I am not getting married anymore or anytime soon so I better not restart a relationship with her since she’s mentioning she’s ready to settle down and will not disappoint.


Not again jor

alexialin:
It's well.

Your own will come your way.

She's not meant for u.
That's how I see it.

See how God is working, same girl is doing everything possible to win me back claiming the guy was a constant embarrassment and regrets..

Lol

fumiswtpusytwo:
Liar liar.you are in ibadan forming nonsense
About been cheap,thats what we girls say untill we are caught.
It's true Girls are xtremely cheap these days expecially if you are rich.

friends with girls like this is always interesting.. we have dealt with too many hypocrites already

Adaumunocha:
@Websurfer you just walked out unprovoked? Abi she decided to share the kat with ur friend

People... Come and look at this one..

Kdon2:
Any better word to qualify them rather than cheap! They offer themselves as cheap commodities to be used n throw away! why do you pity them when they don't have pity for themselves

Help me ask them o

alexialin:
What makes her materialistic?

Maybe if not anymore since I decided to stop spending a dime on ladies... but I can tell how demanding she was when I dated her..

Infact, I broke up with her when I found out she was double dating which she’s still denying till today when I have proof as the same dude was an ex coursemate back at the Uni..

I eventually also saw them together before and after the breakup with a friend confirming their relationship.

One thing I know girls for, lying and pretending

Adaumunocha:
Cry us buckets of tears... That ur fiancée jilted doesn't mean you should turn into an asßhole..

Being an asshole is fun these days, and for the records, no fiancé jilted me. I walked out

lilmarley:
i guess....u're still a kid ...

for thinking in that direction......nobody is cheap dude

Did you just say nobody is cheap ?

robotix:
This is not cool bro. You are better than this...

Lol I know bro, Just trying to get on peoples nerves...

alexialin:
Am not attacking you but I find it offensive when you make statements like this :

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It's offensive, if you don't know. Which one is most of you girls?

You can rephrase it like why do I always meet cheap girls? Instead of most of you girls.

Cause that sentence means you are adding me to the number of cheap girls u mingle with.

I simply had to make it clear, am not in that league of the cheap girls u hangout with.

And to meet a lady who's not cheap like you want to classify it?

They are everywhere, there is no specific place they hang out.

Most times, they don't club, they don't smoke, they don't drink and they are always serious with either studies or career.

U can meet such girls at the bank, at recreational centres, church, on your street sef. Or shopping mall.

Like an adage says : not all that glitters is gold.
Don't go all out having a serious relationship with students, choose working class.

Just shine your eyes and look all out for a grounded level headed career or business lady with marketable skills. that's all.

The girl who came visiting me today on her own (an ex) is a medical lab scientist , aside that, also a career woman, church going and does not club, infact, does not do TVs, always reading or making designs... but does this mean she’s not materialistic ? Answer is no

daveson2020:
Well the ones in my vicinity are as cheap as your sisters, aunties, mom and grandmother. #ihopeitsnotahatespeech?

see guilty conscience speaking... hahahaha

alexialin:
Well that's with the kind of girls you roll with .

I know am not in that category of been classified as cheap. Cos my dear I ain't cheap at all. Money, high class, low class does not move me one bit. Cause I mingle alot ,I make designs for these class of people. My bf also have friends in the entertainment industry and he trust me die
I trust him too

So bro, Not all ladies are carried away by celebs and all.
The earlier you change the kind of girls u play around with. The better for your piece of mind

Just my two cents.

I am actually not saying all girls are.. i’m Just here saying most. Why is that very difficult to understand ?

Btw, since you keep saying this maybe you should lecture me on where or how to find the good ones like you to roll it as you always attack me.

Or you don’t want it to stop ?

ElDaIllest:
Check again,i didn't mention her again.Not everyone you meet online does not have a life offline,I only quote females to ease my boredom due to some emotional challenge I experienced not long ago.I don't owe you and explaination,now swerve Oga.

What did you say

alexialin:
Your observations is the same thing, the same headline, the same content about women but in a different format

If I were a guy, I will start hating women because of you.

Take am easy. And lament inward, if you can't change your circle of females friends

It's that simple.

Trust me life is that easy

Fact#

You want to know the main reason i say most of you girls are cheap?

Not for long i realised it can take some average guy to realise that girl he thinks is a very good girl like the guys up here on this comment to know most of these girls they think is good might be worse than how i am trying to reveal..

These days , when a guy talks too much about his trust for his girlfriend... i just laugh, just small test i test these girls, maybe with my celebrity friends (on social media) they fall

Also, the lenght at which girls are unfaithful is almost as same as the guys (trust me) i understand now and better that girls are very good pretenders.

ElDaIllest:
I believe you but not just that.It's safe to say you're a good girl too cos I expected you to throw tantrums on me but you replied politely unlike most female folks here.Disieike!

All these una lines to enter the toasting lane for threads sha. Lol

Ginaz:
Believe it or not, there are good girls. Now bye!

You mean to say you are a good girl ? I know how to fall girls hand after ranting too much o

Ginaz:
Websurfer the girl you engaged you found out she was cheap... as cheap as a cube of sugar? What nigga? Finding the truth too hard and bitter to swallow?

Sit down and take the heartbreak in peace instead of running your mouth like 5days menstrual flow.

I'm pissed! Rubbish! I just lost the little respect I have of you.

Cos you had a bad experience with a cheap ex doesn't mean you should rub it off on the good ones.

Kilode?

What happen ?

So you mean to tell me you are pissed?







Well, mission accomplished

alexialin:
It's not difficult to understand.

U understand jare.

U know the kind of girls to be with and not have regrets but u always choose to be with slay queens and come online to always cry foul at the end of each escapades.

Na you sabi jare.



They no dey tell deaf and dumb say war dey come.

The choice is yours to choose..



Anyways do us a huge favour : Stop whining and take the bulls by the horn.

The whining don taya us.

Everyday woman this, woman that!

You no dey taya?

Lol. But i didnt go into another na... cant i just say my observations in peace again?

AryEmber:
The highest price is #5000, are you interested?

Lol

DeadRat:
Is Anything Wrong With A Girl Going After A Guy she Wants

This is not what I tagged as cheap.. trust me

rebirthforgoody:
Africa

I know this is an exaggeration but Niggas with 30 billion don't exist. It's all packaging..


Even if they exist, they don't sit with just anyone

DeadRat:
Like Seriously? Show Some Respect To Ladies... What Is Your Problem? So Because You See Girls Going After Guys they Like, You tag them Cheap... You Are No Different Mister...

I still have some I respect man.. I really don't mean to say all are bad... trust me on that

lefulefu:
if u talking about the ones who put a price tag on themselves i might understand.but if its a girl that makes the first move on u cos she's attracted to u i dont believe that makes her cheap.

Forget it bro. They all have a price tag. It only depends on the price or who in person

PamelB:
Looks like a fast one has been played on u and u now want to generalise. Change your environment and your thinking, it'll help.

"From someone that cares."

lol. No one played me cos I don't allow myself being played anymore.. I'm just seeing what a lot of girls do all in pretense with innocent guys falling prey without any idea

alexialin:
Na real WA.

Now u realize their mentality is wacked!

I don't bother myself on guys who complain day in, day out about ladies. They know exactly what they are doing.

It's difficult to understand.. not like I understand myself too.. but not everything we can explain

lefulefu:
If a babe is honest and signifies interest in u una go call am cheap...if she form una go also insult her...na wao.

You won't understand bro.. I'm not just talking about the ones showing interest

kennygee:
This mentality is very wrong. No matter how decadent our society has sunk, we should still show some decorum. "Cheap"? That's just wrong.

Just cause women shamefully give themselves to men who also show little or no control doesn't mean they should be equated with commodities.

It's too much these days, ladies everywhere don't have shame anymore..
if not to an average guy, maybe a celebrity or one extremely rich guy

rebirthforgoody:
Girls in my area before you can even talk to them you must have 30billion for your account

Smh, which area is that... I am sure you are not talking about Africa

Boys, men.. i am here again to lament as usual

The rising numbers of girls/ladies chasing us is something i am not understanding yet..

I need to get enlightened why girls are pursuing us from left to right, back and front lately...

Very sure it has got nothing to do with christmas because most of these girls we spend nothing on them at all comparing to before.

How is it on your area?

sukkot:
lol brah, i am not going to let you lure these disillusioned nigerian youths to go get killed in algeria. why are you posting this on a nigeria website ? what is your agenda ? are you looking for slaves in algeria ? lmao

https://www.middleeastmonitor.com/20170622-algerians-slammed-for-racist-abuse-of-sub-saharan-migrants/

Please come out from this negativity man

Algerian1:
nemesis4u itadakimasu

I need to visit Algeria seriously