Two things that really touched me .
1.I sent someone to help me get some stuff gave him 200k cash ,he misplaced d money somewhere 3weeks later!!! a stranger found d money and returned it all! It was so strange to me but yes he returned it.
2. Along Benin (aduwawa)-Auchi road many years back I was rescued by a stranger from ritualist. It's a story am willing to share someday on naira land .. Can't forget that day in a hurry .Nigeria and Brazil had a friendly match at Abuja stadium (Ronaldinho and the likes) it ended 3-0 in favor of Brazil. Indomie children 'cannot can'.

RosyIsBlessed:


At least your own babe is not deceitful. She told you straight up she clubs.

What is really the colour of guys problem She is honest to you, telling you who she is, turn off. Would you rather have her pretend to be born again like your friend's fiancée?

On a normal day she's my spec ,but for d hatred am having for my guy's babe now i dont want anything coming from that way! i'v gotten to that stage in life where i can actually get any lady i want for myself.

0taPiaPia:
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@ bolded, you have contradicted yourself.. the one that said she clubs and drinks too shebi you raised a red flag

bro i was shocked bc i felt i was talking to a born again but i liked her been real,that's my spec actually..

Modified----She called severally i finally picked she refuse to tell me anytin on phone(i actually wanna record d convo and send to my guy) . she cried on phone said i should not ruin her life by telling my friend said we shud meet at a place so she will explain. i told her open place o!!!! ..she's still in town can u imagine!


Am not going any further on this issues here as am already receiving idiot inbox on my mail guess this babe has lot of fans here...

For some that said it's all fake. Am a very busy person,am neither a writer nor an attention seeker bc am at crossroads thats why i brought it here.

Tonymegabush1:
Don't tell your friend straight up use your body language and avail clues for him to know all is not well these days people seems not satisfied any longer they give you egusi you will demand they mix ogbono to it no be greed

NB....Ladies this days their matter tire me that was how mine was showing me screenshot of a guy asking her out on fb I warned her neva to show me such again. I started having female Frnds right 4rm my primary school so their is no script you will play that I can't interpret....

i think i like the idea ' use body language' u making serious sense here

duduade:
Please just face your front by not having anything to do with her friend.


Gawd forbid


All these girls can be desperate


God will provide your own missing rib or baby mama at His appointed time

Her friend is a write off as it stands . Na to block her lines sure pass. Not looking for a born again tho but i hate deceit! My guy is hansome n doing very very well financially... I dont know what lady's crave for really..

Edyice:
Mr whiteball or WHITEBALLS ( your Monika funny sha..)


LEAVE the gal ( watch well ..all them ladies have said it .. they don't collect from one dude ... Or should I say having 2 basket is better )

Mind your bizz , boyz many for streets .. all of us want climb tree TOO

We that don't have relationship ( collect from those who has ) that's LIFE

if they were just dating it would have been easy for me to say 'baba free that babe she's not ur type' but they are about getting married one need to trend to trend caution before assasin begin find me. Am confused aswear.

Crownstar01:
When I said Nigerian girls are morally bankrupt, folks thought I was crazy.

Similar thing happened to me.

Your friend should thank his God.

He's not aware yet and he's not on NL. Am thinking of talking to d lady to stop that nonsense if she truly wanna marry my friend. I dont know what my friend will do if he gets to know

jagorinho:
Tell him or stop that friendship with that guy, no middle point, if they eventually got married without telling him the whole situation becomes messier, the woman will only have peace until you are dead, cases of infidelities turns deadly most times especially when it involves secret, but my main concern is your friend, even if he chased his fiancee away, he is likely to fall into similar trap in the future since he believes that dressing like a S.U is the only recipe for being a good wife.

The greatest mistake a person can make is to trust an average Nigerian hook,line and sinker, this country is the headquarter of hypocrisy in the world, a decade ago I have decided to extremely scrutinize my dealings with every Nigerian I come in contact with and believe me it has been one of the best decision I have taken so far.

Am a bit scared truth be told bc that lady will not believe i'll keep it a secret but i'll try to convince her and advise her to stop such act.

Kabongo1:
Tell him or not, you are in a fix. If you don't tell and they get married, she will make sure you are no longer friends with her husband....

So ,what do you suggest? This shit is making me have another thought towards marriage . When u tend to envy some relationship and u are commited to go in, then boom you discover it's 'hell in a cell'. Society shouldn't look down on people that choose not to marry .. For me have child or children give them the best.

Ajosh431:
God no go let us get friend wey go see or know something wey go hurt us and not tell us.

Loyalty in friendship is priceless.

Tell your friend.

Love/marital affair is a dicey situation. if i tell him and dey finally get married d woman will forever hate my generation for trying to kill her joy,if dey dont get married same tin goes. Am thinking i should tell him to pray more.. While i stay my lane

Deborah98:
Tell your friend simple,did you say the wedding is two months away? Chai this is wickedness ooooh, what again is she looking for,why are women into this act of double dating,to me it doesn't make sense cos one day you will be caught in your own web, your friend don't deserve to be married to such a gal reason his belief and faith will be questioned when things take a rough ride. So you mean she dropped from the bus simply because she has another guy to smash,hmmmmmm things are happening..

That is the wicked aspect of it. she allowed my guy pay for transport (i wont mention d price) and already had d plan of dropping off!!!am very sure d transport company wont refund her.I tot av seen it all

proclinician:


What exactly will you do if you see that your friend with another woman. Will you come to NL and seek advice?

I dont expect you to strongly be taking sides with what is evil it shows alot about your personality...2months to wedding u should know that cards are out and extended families are involve.If my friend does same i wil scold him and report to his family to caution him. dont marry if u don't love.. This lady i dont know her family i would have reported her to her family...What is bad is bad bro.. peace out

GraGra247:
Whiteball if someone was f*cking your future wife 2 months to the wedding would you like to know or would you prefer your friends keep it from you??

I didnt see them f*ck . I wudnt wanna b at the centre of a collapse relationship and while writing i tried to b very discrete. i just wished i never saw her. My guy will b broken if i tell him .....one part of me say i should look away

proclinician:
Are you a very jobless man? Why can't you mind your business? If you see that your friend in another woman's house or in a restaurant with another woman will you come to NL and write a long nonsense or seek a stupid advice. All these boys and their double standards is tiring.

Am not holy and also not jobless,as it stands am still minding my business but i strongly think a lady/man should be open to his/partner most especially when they are about tieing d knot

athaboi:
You no go face your front

To face front really dey my mind but my heart no gree me. My guy have said plenty holy things about this babe ..and am thinking is not God that brought me to my guyB's house to unravel some shit?

It's a bit lenghty so bear with me.I'm in my late 30's very very eligible for marriage but still single.Alot of friends in my circle are married but up close and personal stories coming out of their camp and experience av had in d past isn't encouraging ,so i just wanna have a baby mama(These lady's arnt loyal).

Pressure from Family n friends to settle but am not giving in. so this particular friend of mine(now a true definition of born again- i wont mention name) changed my mindset and promised to help me get a 'good wife material' through his fiancee.

I yielded and i reluctantly gave him d permission . I'v never met his fiancee one on one bc she stays in a different city and each time she comes visiting her guy am always busy but we speak on phone.She gave my number to her friend (my hookup) we got talking but i told her point blank that am a christian but not a born again like ur friend fiance -i club i drink socially but i dont smoke,to my surprise she told me same here! (hmmm red flag bc i was expecting otherwise since her friend was a born again). I told her no problem.

This week my guy's babe visited town ,i was very busy still but was able to meet them at d park when she was travelling back. she was already inside d bus when i drove in.
she came down from d bus to greet me since passengers were still boarding ,she's beautiful i must confess with nice curves but was wearing all those long born again gown and holding a bible .I told my guy despite leaving 'd world' for us he still got good eyes,we laughed and joked she told me her friend(my hookup) is prettier i said wow cant wait to meet her.

Something strange happened,i noticed an old time friend in d bus which this babe was boarding we shared pleasantries and exchanged number he asked if my babe was travelling with them i told him she's my guy's fiancee not my babe he complimented her beauty also.

A minute later she said she doesn't wanna travel with this bus which they have already paid for again, she will rather wait for d next bus that her spirit isn't in line with d bus ..
I was confused and asked her to explain she said she doesn't want to go wit this one bc she's having a strange feeling concerning d bus but i should allow my friend inside d bus already to travel with them its fine -It didn't make sense to me,if u think this bus will have an accident i should at least alert my friend to come down too she said i shouldn't worry.

My guy waited for her fiancee to catch d next bus while i left for work.

The next day was weekend and i decided to go visit another friend(lets call him guy B) of mine so we could hangout . It's a big compound with plenty room n parlour self contain.when we were about leaving the compound together i saw an eye catching figure come out from another apartment wearing bump short,transparent shirt that was revealing all her breast going to dry clothes on d ropes...Behold it was my friend's fiancee!!!.

I was shocked bc yesterday nite i called my friend to confirm if his fiancee finally got a bus and had arrived her destination he told me yes and thanked me for showing up and for my concern. Someone that was suppose to b in another part of Nigeria was in another part of d city ? . Immediately she turned and saw me,she was shocked n her clothes fell off her hands. I didn't say a word i just walked straight with my guy B to my car .

She ran towards me and drew me privately and said i should keep it privately she will explain on phone .my guyB confirmed to me that she came in last nite and that's her boyfriend apartment i refused to tell him anything tho.

The reason why she left that initial bus begin to make sense to me now.

I need advise please ,ordinarily i will look the other way but the guy in question is my very good guy and a born again christian engaged to her,weeding is two months away. The lady also according to him is supposedly a born again but this dressing stated otherwise... tho i didn't catch dem 'doing' oh.

dollytino4real:
d snake is too small to call huge dat is wat am saying

it's very obvious you didn't do literature in school.. the real story was about the baby left in d shop at the mercy of a snake...
the ' huge' part was to get ur attention...

Rextizz:
Why will I find it? When I don't live in a bushy area like you.

ok

Rextizz:
What I see is an electric wire, your mates they kill boa see Wetin you dey kill smh

when u find urself with that on ur bed you'll know the difference between an electric wire and a snake

viyon02:
Is that the meaning of "huge" in your lexicon? Anyway lala over to you

A snake that almost hurt a baby was killed all u interested is the 'huge'part...chai!

dollytino4real:
see Hugh like Hugh abeg go sleep with ur Hugh

what is this one saying?

when I was growing up I heard snakes don't hurt little babies,what happened today made me to wanna believe that myth.
A woman left her baby in her shop and went into their main building to get something (shop is attached to the building and a fence) only for her to come back and meet her son pointing towards a direction inside the shop, Lo and behold it was this huge snake staring at her son...
she grabbed her son, ran out to call us, (it's a new site with bushes and new building all around).
Myself and some boys working for
me helped in killing the snake... it happened this afternoon in Lagos