ednut1:
From your topics you are either a troll , under a spell or suffering mental illness

You are making 0 sense 🙄🤦 stop trolling

My visitor visa is only 3 months long and in this time we need to get married and get my residency permit so I can live there with him. We have been in a relationship for about two years now and I have made the choice after multiple trips to Nigeria, that it's somewhere id love to live and raise a family in Lagos.

But i read somewhere online that I need to be living with my spouse for 6 months minimum before I can be granted my residency permit. And visitor visas are only 3 months at a time, so we haven't lived together for 6 months straight. So I'm just just wondering if this rule 6 months rule applys?

My fiance (who we have a habit of calling eachother husband and wife) will be hiring a lawyer to process everything for us and it will be all done very quickly he told me. And to not read to much into what's online. But I still worry ah 😓

I am an Australian woman who is marrying to an Nigerian man. I was told that if I want to stay in Nigeria and live here, that I need to apply for a resident permit?

Is this correct?

I was told it will cost $2000AUD (1077870.00000 naira) for 2 year resident permit. Surely it cannot be this much?

I was previously heavier at 90kilograms but I didn't look very big. He told me at the time that he liked it. And that he liked my body.

But recently I have lost weight. He told me I have done okay but to not gain anymore weight. But to lose more if I can. Even though I am feeling sick from lack of food. My medication is what keeps myle chubby. So I have to eat very little just to lose weight.

I said "I thought you told me you liked my fatter body?" He told me "I was just trying to be nice. I'm not a mean person. But I didn't like your old body. But this one it bust my head!" I felt really upset by this. So I asked him if he was still attracted to me back then and he said "yes" and I asked if he would leave me if I gained more weight. And he said he would never leave me if I'm skinny or fat. I asked him again why he said he didn't like my old body, and he told me he "never said that" 🙄🙄🤦 after he got super excited about my new body for another 20mins, he told me to stop bringing it up and that he needed to get some rest.

So I let it go. But part of me still feels hurt. Feels self conscious.

My husband is igbo and lives in Owerri and I am a white westerner. So maybe I am misunderstanding or the cultures are clashing here?

Everytime I call it says phone is switched off for my friends and husband in Nigeria. Is the MTN network working or is it down?

My husband lives in suburb in Owerri and he was meant to call me hours ago, it's unlike him. His phone says it is off and does not call. He normally charges at the travel centre or hair salon as they use a generator if power goes out. but I am still confused why he is taking such a long time now. It's very unusual. I'm wondering if the MTN network is down?

My friend is with MTN and I have been trying to reach her. Her Facebook messages show that they are not being sent, and when I try to call her, it rings for upto a minute, and then it says "line busy" and call ends. What does this mean?
Is she out of service in the area? Because I have not heard from her in a few days now and I am worried and hoping she is okay. The last I spoke is she was going to charge her phone at a shop because there was no power/light. I just wanted to check in because she has been sick 🤧

Ebubu2:


At this point, I am convinced this is chatgpt extracted or you’re just a troll seeking for e-validity, attention, cruise, you’re bored or just wasting our time using cooked stories.

Understand. I have nothing to prove to anyone I just wanted advice on what to do and more about the culture because I haven't been in Nigeria very long and that maybe I'm missing something. Or maybe looking for a excuse to stay I don't know but left Australia to be with him and my house and everything. So honestly I'm not sure what to do at this point. I feel stuck. I really need advice.

MrsTwrite:
Don't be so emotional he will keep doing it, focus on your life, take care of yourself cos if anything bad happens to you now he will move on, flirt with other guys ma'am. Just ignore him.
Sometimes people don't value what they have until they loose it.

I feel uncomfortable flirting with other men though honestly.

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Car is making rattling noises whenever I use the brakes, what could this be?