used to be in your shoes, am 28, and she's 36, 8yrs older than me.

I had plans to marry her, even seen some of her folks and pastor. That was when her real character came out.
Started behaving the way she would to her younger brother, would go out and come back when she likes, got fed up with the whole rubbish, had to leave.
Now she's back to being calm again, goes to church more than a pastor.

my point is that her real character will come out as soon as you're wedded, she's playing cool now cuz she doesn't want to blow this chance of getting married

I just recently got a spot in a polythenic, where I stay, and I intend to open a cool hangout spot since I can't seem to get a job after 4 years of graduation.

I'll be selling
Cold Drinks
Cold water
Snacks and small chops
cakes and cupcakes
chicken and chips
sharwama and the rest. (I know how to Make them well)

And luckily there's no competition there, as no one is doing such there.
My main problem now is how to get the capital to start as I'll need to pay for space, get plastic chairs and tables, and some other stuff.
please any idea on how I can get loan, or any nairalander willing to give me such loan.
suggestions and ideas are welcomed (even insults and banters)

please MOD move to FP my helper might be there. abeg help my ministry move to the permanent site

Favouramani:
Jesus you are so wonderful
Father I beg Sabi you da see this type of lie Because am not sure if Jesus experience such lie on earth.

I don't really have to prove anything to you. it's you and your beliefs.

tintingz:
Lol, whose hand writing is that? Angel Jibril?

Allah Akbar!

Nah Angel Shekau or Angel Buhari

AnodaIT:
80% of those tickets have Chelsea on them

you might be wrong though, 80% are virtual bet slips

Appetizer:

Who dey mention my name over there!

lolzzzzzzz no vex bros, the name sweet that's why.

Tolabell:
for breakfast?

don't be surprised, his kind are the ones that refers to 7 wraps of Akpu as appetizer

Bonapart:
Make una carry una yeye comot for here... Your people are being killed by fulani herdsmen devils on daily basis, you are here preparing crap fast.... Nonsense

in my opinion, he shouldn't be doing what the blind and sentimental government Is supposed to do... Tho he can still pass a message across via his music.

Aircondition:

Sure you are still alive?

very much alive

I won't even put any woman in a position to fight because or for me.

ChildOfDoom:
as an ex-masturbator (new repentant), conji is gathering in my third leg. Almost every girl that passes me is viewed as a prey. girls are not helping matters as they wear skimpy clothes.


In the school where i work, there are fine small but matured girls in ss1 - ss3. They play around me a lot. And i feel the current. I might be forced to lure one

Bros no matter the intensity of the conji, pls don't try going after your students. if not for anything, for your self respect.
I have taught in 2 different females only school,(Queen idia college Benin city, and FGGC kawaji) and I was able to wade of advances from them. Those young girls shouldn't be an alternative to your conji.
Not having sex won't kill you, l have not had sex in 1 year 3 months and am still alive.

cruzita:
I NO GO REST 4 BBN AGAIN

As in ehnnnnnnn, everywhere you turn BBN TV, facebook, Nairaland, office, even church haba

DedeNkem:


Not only Benue. The fulani terrorists do it all over Nigeria.

Those people are cancerous, They don't deserve to leave with sane humans.
To think that the government is doing nothing about their menace is the most troubling aspect.

They're now calling for peace, when y'all were killing humans in Benue, una forget say peace dey Abi.

Benin people dey always say first to do no dey pain.

Nltaliban:
Big brother naija is here again.
Nigerians won't give room for critical thinking anymore.
Instead of us to face and tackle the present challenges facing our country we'll start voting for people who will just use and dump us. Now y'all have given the government 3 months break they didn't ask for, who will question them for the wrong steps they take during that period?

Una wey vote for Efe last year, Wetin he give Una?, no be unfollow he unfollow Una?

Let's start thinking abeg, bbnaija is a total waste of money, the money channeled into this nonsense if injected into the economy or educational sector will make a difference.

Let's put on our thinking cap please.
Nltaliban

Atleast someone spoke sense here

Drama already on day one, and this thing will last 3 months...

we are just too angry in this country, lawlessness everywhere

. NOW CONFIRMED, OBATASU IS DEAD.
The younger brother of Late Don Wanny who was amongst the 32 Cultists declared wanted by the State Security Council was killed at Sabo Iyakpe, Etsako West in Edo State on Sunday, January 28, 2018, following accurate DSS intelligence.
The Late Oluchi Igwedibia alias Obatosu played a prominent role in the New Year killings by the Don Wanny gang in Omoku.

Remember while y'all living fake lives on internet, and claiming things you're not, there are actually some of us that know you in real life.

Ken4Christ:


First fruits offering is scriptural but it is not necessarily the whole of your first month salary. It is the best you can give. God never demanded the whole even in the old testament. It is the best. Below are few references to buttress my point.

Exo 23:19 The first (best) of the firstfruits of thy land thou shalt bring into the house of the LORD thy God. Thou shalt not seethe a kid in his mother's milk.

Exo 34:26 The first (best) of the firstfruits of thy land thou shalt bring unto the house of the LORD thy God. Thou shalt not seethe a kid in his mother's milk.

Lev 23:10 Speak unto the children of Israel, and say unto them, When ye be come into the land which I give unto you, and shall reap the harvest thereof, then ye shall bring a sheaf (a bundle) of the firstfruits of your harvest unto the priest.

Eze 44:30 And the first (best) of all the firstfruits of all things, and every oblation of all, of every sort of your oblations, shall be the priest's: ye shall also give unto the priest the first of your dough, that he may cause the blessing to rest in thine house.

If your faith is strong enough to release all, then go ahead. The more you give, the bigger the blessing.

thank you sir

PSTEMMA1960:
ur first fruit is ur first income of the year, i.e first salary or profit of ur first contract..

why most christians don't follow it is because of lack of plan, if u really want to pay ur first fruit, then u have to save what u are going to be eating after u have paid it.

jst like farmers, they don't eat all thier crops, they always keep some for planting..

first fruit is nt an easy task, even some of us that preaches about first fruit do nt even pay ours.

bt u have to know that God can never ask u to do what u will find easy, Abraham comes to mind..

if u really believe in God and want to pay ur first fruit don't bother asking anyone because God himself doesn't ask anyone b4 giving to us..

Thank you sir

Please fellow landers, I'd like to know what "first fruit offering" really is.
my girlfriend wants to drop her January salary as first fruit offering, so she asked my opinion about it.
I don't discourage people from doing things when it comes to religion, so I told her in my own perspective I think first fruit offering should be your first salary of a new job.
Please views and opinions are needed.

N.B does it even have any Biblical importance/ significance?

ignis:

Shame on you. You think like a doll.

I think a doll will think better than this.

bughead:
you need help!

You sir, needs the help more.

bughead:
this is what we call woman, unlike our black baboons here

follow naija woman at your own risk

Your Mother dead or alive is the queen mother of baboons, your sisters are priestess of the baboon colony, your daughters will become maidens of the baboon colony.

Don't use your family inheritance and resemblance to generalize. Demented fellow, mentally deranged Ekuke

in Ekosodin, you willingly give them the phone, no need for snatching and running

until the spirit of chucky enters the sex doll, and it cuts your gbola

pardon my question Are you kidding or you're serious.
WTF like seriously, who does that to his wife.

Don't search and reach EKOSODIN ooooooo, I repeat, don't search and reach EKOSODIN ooooooooooo.
Na only me, my life,body and eye see for that place, take my advice o.
yours sincerely
Ekosodin Survivor

Modupeolatemi01:
My dear I am a registered nurse and midwife n no health care provider will tell u to take any drugs or medications again after all u v taken. It is criminal. Go for evacuation I mean dillation n curretage simple.

Don't try to take any drugs or concoction again it will damage ur Uterus, cause infertility, or even lead to retained product of conception which in d end u will still v to go for evacuation.

U v done enough damage already with ds drugs u took besides u didn't take d misoprostol in d correct dosage. Lastly ask God to forgive u if u don't loose ur life in d process n go n sin no more.

Shallom




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The results of those drugs might be
1. the baby is dead inside you, and that would pose health risks to you.
2. the child is still alive but will come out deformed if eventually you give birth.

it happened to someone I know, exactly the same way you explained it, but she eventually got some drugs that flushed out everything, (I'll ask her the drugs she used)

well sadly, these are things that happens on daily basis, practitioners abusing the ethics of their profession. They'll still end up giving her drugs instead of those process you mentioned. those people are out for their own personal gains. and not hers

victorakpabome:


This one go don kill many children sha

bros abeg which part of "I know someone it happened to" you don't understand. we all have friends that have had one or two experience on different situations we can always make reference to

MisoCytotec:
Doctors on this forum...please say something.
Lalasticlala, do this please

The results of those drugs might be
1. the baby is dead inside you, and that would pose health risks to you.
2. the child is still alive but will come out deformed if eventually you give birth.

it happened to someone I know, exactly the same way you explained it, but she eventually got some drugs that flushed out everything, (I'll ask her the drugs she used)