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This is bad.
All this is at the detriment of the patient.

Awon werey deede

The story no aligned at all.

This is serious. When you think some people "have it all".

The thing con be like class teacher and student......

Rubbish..........

Congratulations bro

Palliative indeed.

No, it is not



It is well with Nigeria

No, it is not

Why are you contradicting yourself?
"........as it stands today Atiku is in charge of the north (NE/NW specifically)"

"...........Aa for that Atiku, he has been a customer to INEC since 1992"


Ahmed Bola Tinubu should consider stepping down for Peter Obi to ensure that power comes to the south come 2023..[/b]

Hes should not act as a spoiler to the major southern
candidate because as it stands today Atiku is in charge of the north ( NE/NW specifically)based on what is on ground while Obi is in charge of the south..

The battle ground is middle belt

The massive defection from the ruling APC party to PDP in the north should be enough reason while Bola should put his presidential ambition into consideration .. If 50 people from APC defect to PDP today, only 3 people from PDP will defect to APC same day....

Can't Tinubu read the handwriting on the wall ?


Majority of Southerners are supporting Obi while majority of Northerners (NE/NW are supporting Atiku)..
Tinubu should not serve as a spoiler in this election and above all, hes too controversial to head a diverse country like Nigeria. He should remain a political godfather for his own good.
He has no chance in this election that's why we Nigerian youths are pleading that he should step down and retain his integrity... BAT step down to retain your integrity now !!!

Aa for that Atiku, he has been a customer to INEC since 1992... We have nothing much to tell him for now

GOD BLESS THE FEDERAL REPUBLIC[/quote]

Rest on mama



Na my mama oo
Salama for you
You singlehandedly made me what I am today
Sadly I lost her last week

E go pain me teh sha
Rest on[/quote]

This is pure betrayal of trust and every other things that uphold marriages. But sincerely, you have acted and reacted well to the situation. And I think you need time to heal as you have rightfully said. Think about it very well, make your decision on it. You have learnt a lesson and so do I.
I pray you find the healing quick enough to move on. And I pray God gives you the strength to still move on with the marriage and still hold on to the lesson learnt.

In 2016 she told me her salary was #50.000 And then two years later, when she got promoted, I asked about her salary and she said, “Oh these people, don’t mind them. They added only #5000 to my old salary. Because of her meager salary, I’ve taken up so many responsibilities in the house without complaint. I pay for utilities and pay for food. I pay the fees of our two kids, clothe them, and take care of their medical bills. When my wife sends me a grocery list, she adds sanitary pads. She buys dresses and clothes, comes to show them to me, and asks me to pay for them. She started talking about a car when our second child came in. Things weren’t good on my side so I asked her to give me some time. She said, “I’ve saved something. I can add it to what you have so you pay me when your money comes.”

I agreed and took that money from her, topped it up to get her a car. For three months my ears never rest. She would wake up at dawn and ask me to pay what I owed her. I got tired and paid the money when I didn’t have much in my account.

One evening, I turned my laptop on and saw a lot of emails. I checked and it was my wife’s email that had been opened. I asked her, “Did you use my laptop?” She answered, “Yeah I was checking something.” I told her, “Then you didn’t log out.” She answered, “I forgot. Please log out for me.” I was about to log out when something caught my attention. I saw a mail with the subject, “January Payslip.” I opened and started going through. When I saw her gross salary, I was shocked. #400,734? And this girl has been crying poverty?

I went through the details. That night I couldn’t sleep. I was angry. I felt let down. I felt cheated. I felt played. We’ve been married for six good years and my wife earned that much without my knowledge? How much she earned didn’t bother me a lot than what she was using that money for. I decided not to talk immediately but rather do a little bit of investigation.

All my life I’ve held the view that it wasn’t right for anyone to go through their partner’s phone. It’s an invasion of privacy and it breeds mistrust in the relationship but that night, going through her phone was the only way to find out what I was looking for. I started with her best friend. Nothing much was found. Her family had a Whatsapp group. I read the messages there. I got few hints. I went through the chat with her father and that was when I realized my wife had bought a piece of land and had started building. Her father was in charge of the project. He had sent photos of the various stages of the building. At some point, her father said, “Thank you for helping out your brother. He would have been home had it not been you.”

She has only one brother—her senior brother. I went to look for the chat between them. Her senior brother lost his job and was home doing nothing so my wife bought her Hyundai i10 to use for Uber. Every week, her brother rendered an account and they split the money. From all indications, my wife was doing well for herself while she plays poor so she could rely on my salary. Why would she do that? I thought I was being a supportive husband so my wife could be proud of the man she married. When we bought land, it was her name and my name that appeared on the land title. That car I bought for her with a loan from her bears her name. I didn’t mind. I believed what’s hers was also mine. 

The next morning she realized I wasn’t looking well. I was boiling on the inside but looking for a good opportunity to start the conversation. When I calmed down a little, I asked her, “So why would you do that to me?” She asked, “What have I done?” I answered, “You bought land, you never told me. You started building on it, you never told me. When are you going to tell me?” She was shocked. She asked, “Who told you all that?” I said, “Your father did.” She stood quiet for a while. She asked, “Why would my father tell you all that? What were you people talking about” I said, “I don’t know. You can ask him.” 

We left it there. Some minutes later she came to me with her phone: “My father wants to talk to you.” The phone was already on a loudspeaker. His father was clearly angry. He asked, almost shouting, “You said I told you my daughter has a building? Where did I say that and when?” I asked, “Is it not true that my wife has a building project going on that you’re supervising?”  He asked me, “I told you that?” I asked, “Is it true or not?” After the back and forth I told them, “I read your messages last night. I saw the pictures. I read the various budget you had sent to my wife. I read the confirmation of the money receipts that you sent her. You’re a man. Would you be happy if your wife does this to you?” He started fumbling. He started apologizing saying he thought I was aware.”


My wife stood there motionless, didn’t know what to say. When her father hung up, I told her everything I knew, from her salary to the car she bought for her brother. I said, “Yet, even your sanitary pad, I buy them. You think I’m a fool? You’ll use your money to acquire your own properties and live on mine because you’re my wife? I hear. We’ll see.”

Trust was lost. Love was broken. We had to find a new way of living our lives going forward. Her father called me every morning and evening apologizing for everything and sometimes taking up the blame so I didn’t have to blame his daughter. I told him, “The emotional state I’m in right now, it would be hard to think straight or think forgiveness. Just give me space.” Three days later, they were in our house. The father, the mother, and the senior brother. They came to apologize. “Don’t let this break up the beautiful marriage you both have. If nothing at all, consider the kids and be lenient in your judgment.”

I listened to them. My position was still the same. “I need time to clear my mind. Just leave me alone to think.” From last month to this moment that I’m writing this, my wife had changed totally. She doesn’t ask for money but the house is being run smoothly. She has started paying for things she never paid for but that doesn’t move me. She has taught me a very great lesson and I’m taking it seriously. That in everything, I have to look out for myself and my family first. Last she told me, “If you want us to change the names on those properties, we can do so.” Guess whose name is on the property…her father’s name.”

I told her, “You don’t need to change anything. They are yours. You suffered for them so you can decide what you want to do with them.” The land I bought has our names. I’m selling it and take my money back. The car she’s driving has her name. I put a for-sale sticker on it some weeks ago. She agreed she’ll pay for the car. I’ve given her two months to pay up or I sell it and take my money. She’s getting the message and I’m glad. Each one for himself, God for us all. She keeps asking if I’m going to leave her. I keep telling her I won’t but if she wants a divorce, I will gladly give her. I’m not going to leave the marriage. I would give us some time to heal and see what may happen but when it comes to money, I’ve taken the lesson she taught me through her actions. 

*What's your take?*[/quote]

But why sell something harmful to people even when you know it is Even went ahead to beg community leader to give her time to do so. Some people are not just human in any form whatsoever
God help us all

Get a police report, go to court as well to get the necessary. Then take it to your school to request for another one.

I am telling you..........if you work there, there is hardly an organization you wouldn't be able to face its challenges. Quit an experience though.[color=#990000][/color]


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Call Center Contractors for MTN.

Your destiny will hate you for allowing it pass through that journey.[/quote]

Are you for real?......With all what the guy said/explained? I think it is better to affirm ones curiosity at times. Do you really think the lady will open up to the guy by telling him all the shit she has done? Nop, she wouldn't. Just don't want to believe there is no faithful lady/guy out there anymore.

MhizzAJ:
Why did you go thru her messages....Bad habit

It's natural to be curious about what your girlfriend is up to but privacy in a relationship is very important but if you suspect something is up,its fine to ask your girlfriend about it instead of going thru her messages or better still take permission from her before reading her messages

I don't see myself being in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me or someone that feels i have something to do with other guys all the time

You strike me like a very weak guy plus you are so untrustworthy...Deal with the outcome of your actions...I care less

YOU'VE SAID IT ALL........

rentAcock:
Meaningless garbage. When I was younger, I used to be thrilled by the accomplishments of Guiness Books of Record (GBR) holders because they were immortals, to me at least. It was made up of the person who first climbed mount Everest, to the youngest doctor at the age of 9 and stuff like that. But now GBR is filled with garbage, I mean they have stupid awards like the largest flash mob, largest dog wedding, most number of candles extinguished by fart, like seriously?? I didn't make any of this up, u can just Google them for yourself.

Anyone can make it To the GBR if you just come up with a silly category and get a bunch of people to join you. Nairalanders can decide that they will gather at National Theater and clap their hands for 10 minutes and I bet you they will earn a record for the laegest gathering of people to clap for 10 minutes. Its that stupid

GBR has realized most people just want fame and glory, so yes they will let you do stupid things and give you the award because you have to pay to be featured anyway, it's their way of generating revenue and remaining relevant.

Sule!!! Sule!!! haba! na only you?

wow!!! This is amazing.

Amarabae:
An outspoken man. I admire his speech at the silverbird award.

they are all thieves. Making such speech while others were like "see this idiot trying to play the innocent ". They are all the same.

So pathetic, RIP

So pathetic.... may her soul rest in peace.

Lazy bone, at 51 fighting on sister's will that he might not contributed a pin to. But how could someone be that heartless, killing your own mother. He must be an animal. Animals hardly do that. May her souls rest in peace and may his soul rotten in jail.

This country ehn!!!!!!!!!!! I tire o