₦airaland Forum

isaacsegun:
Please fellow nairalanders, Ineed your urgent advice.
We started dating as far back as year 2007, then she was 17 while i was in my early 20s. I'm her first love, in fact, I was the person that deflowered her. I got her pregnant during the course of our relationship in which we aborted, the abortion almost took her life.

Since after the abortion issues that create serious problem between her parents and mine, her parents has kicked against our relationship including mine but she's insisting we must marry even up till today.

Please guys, should i just tell her that we cannot marry because i can see that she's very desperate to marry now as age is not on her side, but I'm afraid to tell her that the relationship cannot work because she can do anything (like attempting to even take her own life)

Foodex:
Just because you want to maintain 'big boyism'. Men are evil.

Meanwhile, we deliver foodstuff from Naija to UK, Europe and US. Check my signature for more info.

maberry:
Stop making a fool of yourself
because even a fool when quiet is counted among the wise

first001:
RCCG gave us MMM
RCCG gave us PMB
May God deliver us from what next RCCG will bring IJN

me69:
you talk rubbish. Are you an economist?

ceometromedia:
Oh wow, congrats Basket. It's well deserved!! All hail Sir Bright Okpocha!

http://www.metronaija.com/2017/01/photo-basketmouth-gets-knighted-by.html

Riwo11:
It sucks to get cheated on. Sometimes it’s inevitable, like if your girlfriend is a sociopath and you just didn’t know. But other times, there are warning signs you should look out for, like if there’s a random guy in your bed, or your girlfriend has a career that breeds cheaters, like investment banking. (just check out the results below.)
Here’s a comprehensive list of the top ten professions for cheaters:

1. Financial (Bankers, brokers, analysts)


2. Aviation (Pilots, flight attendants, flight pursers)


3. Healthcare (Doctors, nurses, nursing assistants)


4. Business (CEOs, managers, secretaries)


5. Sports (Athletes, instructors, representatives)


6. Arts (Musicians, models, actors, photographers)



7. Nightlife Industry (DJs, dancers, waiters)



8. Communication (Journalists, public relations, communicators)



9. Legal (Lawyers, secretaries, prosecutors, judges)



10. Other sectors (Don’t know what that entails, but ok)

http://www.maxim.com/news/jobs-cheaters-have-2016-10

kennyblaze007:
This Nigerian mentality is something else...Someone discovers her talent early enough and u guys are there judging her for it....Abeg make una learn to appreciate something good

soberdrunk:
I will continue to say it, this "child" has no business being a "dj", 80% of Nigerian songs contain explicit lyrics that isnt meant for a "12 years old". A child has no business in "a bar" or "a club", apparently 'child protective services' is either non-existent in Nigeria or "non-functional". Her parents should be ashamed of themselves...........

hakunamatata1:
We shld stop encouraging quackery. Pls get an architect. He would answer ur questions and allay ur fears more appropriately. U appear as wanting to cut corners by using public opinions and suGgestions. You wld end up getting more confused. If you don't know where to find an architect, inbox me. I can help u then.

basilo101:
which kind dumb comment be this na??

ikiller:
u well so?

Klinee:
the airport is it in Anambra? why didn't he build airport like this one in Anambra. u guys should learn how to stop praising all this politians

NextGovernor:
Federal government, Ministry of Sport, NFF and Senate committee on Sport should all go and die.

God bless you Dr. Katsuya Takasu for acknowledging and doing what a who Federal government couldn't do.

HungerBAD:
Laughing.

How can the painter call a Tortoise a Mouse? which kind School be this sef?

See the Professors below trying to correct me lol.

Una no get work.

dearpreye:
To start with, if you haven't started pondering what will become of your life and career after the NYSC, you're already in a very big trouble.

Ours is a society where parents and guardians believe that training their kids or assisting adolescents end the moment after their graduation from the higher institutions. I believe that's terribly wrong BUT that's the relentless reality. Once you're out of the higher institutions, you're ON YOUR OWN.

Whether you like to believe it or not, there's no free lunch waiting for everyone after their NYSC. Except your parents are top politicians, the average one of us will have to fight for their survival after the NYSC.

Our lives are rated in time. So to waste time is to waste our lives. I wish I could drop all I discussed recently with a neighbour when she told me she will be going for her NYSC very soon.
Nice one

To many this one year is a year of enjoyment and frivolities. If you're in that category, perish the idea. This one year is one of the most important period in your life. This one year should be spent planning your future, pondering what exactly you want to do, where you'll love to work, where you'll like to live, what you'll do if there's no job in the first one or two years. The fact is, many shall be worn out jobs in their first few years after the NYSC. You may say GOD FORBID, but again that's the bitter truth.

As a corper or prospective one, I advise you save at least 10% of your allowance EVERYONE MONTH. You've got no choice. The first year after service is usually the most challenging for most graduates, because that's the very first time they're experiencing the reality of life. The euphoria of school and NYSC are over and the brutal reality stare them in the face. Save your money. Have an idea what you may do. Plan your years ahead.

Learn a skill. The present economic times are challenging. Folks are losing jobs everyday. The prevailing economic downturn may be around till next year. You need to be prepared. This news should discourage you, instead let it make you become very proactive and forward thinking. If there's any skill you love to learn, this is the best and most appropriate time.

It takes a lot more than being a graduate to succeed. It takes planning, plan B, focus, discipline and determination to succeed. Being without a job is the worst position one can find themselves.

With a little discipline and vision, impending joblessness and the accompanying depression can be avoided. Be smart.

Like the Boys Scout Motto: Be Prepared.

Lalasticlala, please kindly do the needful.

Oooops:
Currently a woman has been seriously wounded and finally fainted and has been rushed to the hospital where doctors are battling to save her after a fight with another woman in the same neighborhood. This is currently happening at Amedokhian, Esan North East Local government in Uromi area of Edo state.

The fight resulted from a minor misunderstanding of kitchen use. This woman normally called mrs Ose, was complaining the other woman doesn't sweep the Kitchen properly and it didn't go down well with the other. Thy started exchanging words which resulted in struggling and the later pushing the victims who fell down with blocks falling on her.

Below are pics after the cut.
Enjoy

Eye witness new

MrLouisVanGaal1:
There's too much craze over getting a job and sitting behind a desk and collecting a salary at the end of the month in Nigeria. It appears most of the youths are not willing to do anything for themselves, resorting to blaming the govt and looking for an easy way out through jobs that are setting stricter requirements everyday because of the crowd out there.

KingJB:
You have said it all man

God bless the hustle of every hustler out there

Gbogbo e lo ma da
E go better by God grace!

johnpaulbuddy:
nice post op,am into D̶̲̥̅̊ number 4 but I hav only1,getting more is D̶̲̥̅̊ problem...any advice or tip for me

Rapmoney:
Please, folks your comments and reactions are welcomed!

derespect:
You need to understand that Bsc degree with job experience is better than Masters degree without work experience. To get work experience, you need to be employed.

The choice is yours.

ahabue111:
Pls go for ur Msc, 60k job isn't worth it. With ur Msc ur have a far better chance of getting a good job. It not easy not working I know but ur Msc is a small sacrifice to pay in order to get a better life. 60k job cannot take u anywhere really. U will have better jobs hv faith in that.

cooltony09:
Scrap it? Yet you dey pose with the uniform ...I'm sure una go keep dat uniform forever