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CelebritiesRe: Kemi Olunloye's Son, Eni, Insults His Mother by Xandelle: 6:17pm On Feb 22, 2020
Good boy. Now clap for yourself.
CrimeRe: Woman Attacks Her FMC Doctor Husband In Owerri, Cuts Off His Nose, Upper Teeth by Xandelle: 11:10am On Feb 20, 2020
veeshock:
You just dont understand my comment. Violence breeds anger and revenge and this is the end product.
Then you only should have just condemned the act instead of adding a little justification. Cos if the guy you quoted engages you in an argument, it will end up in a chicken and egg situation.
CrimeRe: Woman Attacks Her FMC Doctor Husband In Owerri, Cuts Off His Nose, Upper Teeth by Xandelle: 11:04am On Feb 20, 2020
veeshock:
She most likely did this with a single cut to the face with a sharp knife of cutlass while he was likely deep asleep. The reason...might just be he has been battering her all along like you wish. Stop supporting nonsense oga.
You're not different from the person you quoted. He justified the actions of men who beat their wives, while you justified the action of this lady that attemted killing her husband.
CrimeRe: Woman Attacks Her FMC Doctor Husband In Owerri, Cuts Off His Nose, Upper Teeth by Xandelle: 10:57am On Feb 20, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:
AND DIFFERENT KITCHENS TOO?
I'm already used to serving myself. So I don't think I'll ever ask her to serve me food. So if she wants to poison, she will poison the whole pot that everyone will eat from. I'm also used to cooking for myself. Infact I find it hard enjoying food cooked by someone else cos it's never delicious to me. I take great care and dedication in cooking what I eat.
CrimeRe: Woman Attacks Her FMC Doctor Husband In Owerri, Cuts Off His Nose, Upper Teeth by Xandelle: 10:09am On Feb 20, 2020
My wife and I will have separate bedrooms.
HealthRe: Help: I Have premature ejaculation. by Xandelle: 11:37am On Feb 19, 2020
Smartchoiiice:
I will try this.
You will make it worse. Take that to the bank.
FamilyRe: We Have Stronger Women And Weaker Men Now!! by Xandelle: 10:08am On Feb 17, 2020
Vyolet:
Weaker men, do you mean the type of men that are not ready to provide for their families? Do you mean the ones that are cool with their wives being the sole provider financially as well as being homekeepers? Do you mean the ones that are not ready to remain like our forefathers but still want the women to remain like the women of old?
I mean the type of men that abandon their wives with kids with the mind that the kids will come looking for them someday after the woman has taken care of them?

If you are referring to these men, YES, they are weak and not fit to live among humans.
@bolded... Be careful what you wish for. You have a misinformed image of what men of old were, and you're probably ranting out of bitterness from what happened to you or someone you know.

If what you want is to be "one of the wives", hustling for the husband's attention when all he does is bring home a tuber of yam for you and your kids everyday, and marrying new wives,

If what you want is a society where women are seen but not heard,

If what you want is an unemotional man who sees you as a commodity purchased to pop out babies, nourish and care for them,

then you're correct about the men of old being better than the men of now.

Marriage and handling of women in the times of old, which you fantasize about, was way way easier than today. Your wife misbehaves, just marry another. Infact she doesn't even need to misbehave, you just marry another when you feel like it. Providing for them is equally easier then Vs now. If you have 5 wives, just go out everyday and come back with 5 tubers of yam. They will appreciate and bend over backwards to please you. Vyolet the grass isn't greener, for you women, in that past you fantasize about.

You should be grateful for the times you're in now. And oh please, marital abandonment still existed in that past too. As for the duties, customarily, what a man owes his wife is a tuber of yam. If she happens to have many children, then she's entitled to a piece of land where she will farm with her children. Know your past and your traditions!

Finally, be careful what you wish for.
PoliticsRe: How Imo Governorship Election Verdict Generates Judicial Crisis by Xandelle: 6:11pm On Feb 15, 2020
kahal29:
Once the Supreme Court has entered judgment in a case, that decision is final and will remain so for ever. The law may in future be amended to affect future issues on the same subject, but for the case decided, that is the end of the matter.
Boldly saying what you're not sure of as if it's fact. Tufiakwa.
Tech JobsRe: E-commerce Website With Android App For Sale by Xandelle: 5:35pm On Feb 13, 2020
Emmanuelaustine:
Need an E-commerce website with Android app?

Call or Whatsapp 08143233341.
Why not drop the link to the website so potential buyers can check it out? It's not like one can steal the website through the link....
CrimeRe: Soldier Kills Rowland Tafida, MOPOL Officer Over Girlfriend by Xandelle: 10:32am On Feb 08, 2020
Sijo01:
I read it. My post was not directed to the deceased but the fate that befalls the young solder.
So where was it stated in the article that the soldier was married? Dumbo feminist with empty coconut head and hair attachment.
CrimeRe: Soldier Kills Rowland Tafida, MOPOL Officer Over Girlfriend by Xandelle: 10:27am On Feb 08, 2020
Sijo01:
That's what you get when you refused to be committed to your family (wife) who prays endlessly for your success and safety every day.
Olodo. Common to read the story no gree you. Carry feminism on top empty coconut head.
PoliticsRe: Border Closure: Nigerians Have Natural Tendency To Commit Crime, Says Customs CG by Xandelle: 11:53am On Feb 05, 2020
In other news, they blockaded the entire south east and south south during the civil war, but sambisa forest is too much for them to blockade today. Who are they fooling?
PoliticsRe: . by Xandelle: 11:45am On Feb 05, 2020
Learn first to walk before running.

In other news, they blockaded the entire south east and south south during the civil war, but sambisa forest is too much for them to blockade today. Who are they fooling?
PoliticsRe: North Central Governors Commend Npf On Community Policing by Xandelle: 2:39pm On Jan 23, 2020
The moment the north succeeded in distracting the south west from making more progress in amotekun, through granting of endless interviews and keeping the west in heat, amotekun got sick.

The moment the north successfully painted amotekun with the colors of secession and bigotry, amitekun got worse.

The moment Tinubu dropped his pen after writing down his 'views' on amotekun issue, amotekun slipped into coma.

The moment gullible southwesterners who didn't even understand the write up took over with hailing and praising the jagaban over an opinion which they didn't even understand, amotekun died.

The moment southwestern governor's queued behind Tinubu's position, amotekun got cremated.

And when amotekun suddenly became a Yoruba Vs Igbo bickering and bantering and chest beating affair, amotekun's ashes were disposed. Carried by the wind far into the sea, as one of those small disturbances that happened during Buharis regime.


RIP Amotekun. Born 8th of January, 2020. Died 22nd January, 2020.
PoliticsRe: Ife Oyedele: Don't Play Politics With Amotekun by Xandelle: 1:43pm On Jan 23, 2020
This amotekun is dead, but this article was just accusing without giving any instance of the so called betrayal. Exactly what one can call... Emotional, low quality, low budget image slandering.
PoliticsRe: Ife Oyedele: Don't Play Politics With Amotekun by Xandelle:
The moment the north succeeded in distracting the south west from making more progress in amotekun, through granting of endless interviews and keeping the west in heat, amotekun got sick.

The moment the north successfully painted amotekun with the colors of secession and bigotry, amitekun got worse.

The moment Tinubu dropped his pen after writing down his 'views' on amotekun issue, amotekun slipped into coma.

The moment gullible southwesterners who didn't even understand the write up took over with hailing and praising the jagaban over an opinion which they didn't even understand, amotekun died.

The moment southwestern governor's queued behind Tinubu's position, amotekun got cremated.

And when amotekun suddenly became a Yoruba Vs Igbo bickering and bantering and chest beating affair, amotekun's ashes were disposed. Carried by the wind far into the sea, as one of those small disturbances that happened during Buharis regime.


RIP Amotekun. Born 8th of January, 2020. Died 22nd January, 2020.
ProgrammingRe: Coding Looks Cool. by Xandelle: 1:03pm On Jan 12, 2020
Guys check this out:

[url]hackernoon.com/why-businesses-fail-at-machine-learning-fbff41c4d5db[/url]
PoliticsRe: Yoruba Youths Kick Against Restructuring. by Xandelle: 2:28pm On Jan 10, 2020
PoliticsRe: ISWAP: We Killed 11 Christians On Christmas Day To Avenge Al Baghdadi's Death by Xandelle: 4:09pm On Dec 28, 2019
Blindersoff:
Lmao you are actually talking to a Christian.

So because i see more than you do you tag me a Muslim?

Chai Nigerians na ogbaghara
You sound like someone currently getting brainwashed by Presstv
PoliticsRe: The New War Against Africa’s Christians - Wall Street Journal by Xandelle: 12:24pm On Dec 22, 2019
Jaspero94:
So nobody noticed the black guy wearing a Nazi symbol t-shirt.

Anyway all na fake news from the mouths of those that refuse to sell us weapons to fight insurgency and blocked every avenue for us to procure weapons. FAKE NEWS
If you had read the article, you would not have disgraced yourself like this.
ProgrammingRe: Any Seasoned Programmer In Onitsha by Xandelle: 7:48pm On Nov 21, 2019
Looking for the same thing here...
ProgrammingRe: What Are Gumroad Alternatives Available For Nigerian ? by Xandelle: 9:11am On Oct 17, 2019
Not quite sure... Look up shareAsale
ProgrammingRe: What Am I Doing Wrong by Xandelle: 6:49am On Oct 17, 2019
ambitiouschap:
will do that when finish with html and css. because I just want to add javascript to it, but nevertheless thank you boss
If what you want to learn is programming in the real sense if the word, don't start with web programming. Get your head tuned in using real programming languages like Java. You don't need to learn it to the bits per say. Just to get your head wrapped around programming logic.

Starting with web apps, and in essence html, Css, will get your brain boxed into a corner, and when you want to go into real programming, you will find out that you will want to give up . Download the PDF... Learning programming using Java for the dummy. The dummy series has a lot of books in programming,and they break down things in such a way that a beginner can understand . Weily publishers and O'Reilly publishers really helped my life.

Make sure that learning algorithms and data structures is in your future plans.
ProgrammingRe: Is It That There Is Nothing To Code Anymore? by Xandelle: 10:14am On Oct 13, 2019
jesmond3945:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mFwHdykbHbU
Listen to a true african. Remove self hatred from your psyche. Enough said
Where is the self hatred? He has valid points.Africans and to a large extent, blacks in general should do away with the blame game.

His first comment may have come out harshly and out of nowhere...but if by this time you don't see his reasons, then you're just being stubborn for nothing.

Thoughts like yours encourage mediocrity and laxity in Africans. If you keep looking for excuses everywhere, you will find excuses for everything, and you will ultimately be left behind.

I believe that's Paul Kagame who you called a true African because he came upstage and said what you wanted to hear... But this same man has been in power for decades... He is building a strong personality, but not strong institutions. If he's made away with, Rwanda becomes shattered pebbles. He's part of the problem.
ProgrammingRe: Is It That There Is Nothing To Code Anymore? by Xandelle: 10:07am On Oct 13, 2019
stanliwise:
Stop mincing my words, I never said Africans sold themselves into slavery, I said It's rulers also participated in the slavery. How can one sell itself into a journey of torture and torment. Didn't I specify than whitemen bought black slaves from cheifs, kings and rulers. So stop twisting this into black vs white. Africa has rested on this slavery of a thing so much. It is high time we develop our selfs, ridding off what ever advancement in modern science and knowledge we have reached now is nothing but backwardness. Mind you the white didn't bring religion to us, our fathers and mothers worship gods and the likes, Christianity and islam is not the problem of Nigeria. A man that stole billions of Naira without been arrested and money retrieved is the source of our downfall. Majority of Africa country are poor because of mismanagement and corruption. Did the white teach us this corrupt practices that they themselves don't do in their country?
Africa has alot of natural resources, but all we do is to ship them out to the whites to refine for us. Is that the way to go? Are the white responsible for this? Are the white responsible for Africans not having a company that manufacture phones here In Africa? Did they force us to buy their Apple and sony?
Bro please stop this game already, you could go till night and complain bitterly of all the past evil Africans has experienced but it is not a justification that Africa has not proven themselves in recent times.
I am a proud blackman but I need to state the truth about my own continent Africa. and the truth is this..... Posterity would not be happy with us if they find us like this.

This is what china you mentioned did, they simple developed themselves and not sit all day and point fingers, although recently some of there action are becoming overblown but that is because they are now self sufficient.
I share same... Sorry for what I wrote earlier. It's because that first point of yours just came out of nowhere and wasn't totally relative to the topic.

I believe, like you do, that Africans should stop the blame game and move on.
ProgrammingRe: Is It That There Is Nothing To Code Anymore? by Xandelle: 9:50am On Oct 13, 2019
tinkshak:
Bro, I don't really think so, just take a look at the major inventions in the world from the internet to mobile phones to the idea of cloud computing, even computing itself, 4G, 5G, Quantum Physics, TV Facebook, Instagram they were all invented by the whites, for a very particular reason, which is the fact that they are light years ahead of us(blacks)

Now let me ask you what has any black man invented in the last two centuries that you can mention?



as for Nigeria, it's very impossible to create something that works except you have the finance to fund it,

Nairaland was created in 2004 or so, and the reason Nairaland is so popular today is because of the fact that it came at a time when so many people didn't even understand what the internet is all about,

Quote me anywhere "Nairaland is the greatest internet invention Africa has".
Very obtuse, self degrading, and incurably myopic.
ProgrammingRe: Codeigniter 3 Vs Php Laravel 5.8 : Which One Will You Go For? by Xandelle: 9:30am On Oct 13, 2019
Dependence on libraries isn't such a good thing.

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