₦airaland Forum

Killertune20:
Having dated for about 3 years, early this year, we had an altercation, I believe the distance between us caused it cause I moved to a different state.

Late last year she told me about a young pastor who's asking for her hand in marriage, I asked about her stance and she said she didn't see it happening, but 2 weeks after the altercation, she told me she is considering the pastor.

Ever since then, I have tried to move on but I can't, this babe ticks all the boxes for me, for more than 3 years cause we started dating in school while I was in 300L and she 200L, It's been like no other girl existed in the world for me.

Now the usual gimmick "the lord said you are my wife" has cost me something I value so much.

I love this babe with all my heart, now the things I do around her, like forced chats, unreplied messages gets to me, create a pinch on my ego and in a way emasculates me. It feels like she has moved on but I can't.

Now my question, how do people get over people so easily?

Have you ever met someone and felt like she was the one and it ended?

Has anyone been in my shoes and how did you move on?

The happily ever after I dreamt of has become a night mare.

Time

greencard:
you sound too desperate,
oga calm down..there are worse things than poverty

Ehhh,have u tasted poverty before? If you haven't pls don't equate it with anything else

Newoldme:
I love the flashy cars part of men.i dont do small boys

no go marry

meobizy:
I enjoyed it. I won't follow a man who was born exactly in the year of the war. I will follow a person who experienced the atrocities of the war first hand. If Ojukwu abandoned the fight then I don't see the point of anyone bringing it up again.

It's because of this your comments that federal government removed history from the curriculum,so that ppl won't know what happened. How can you utter such?

They will never want to leave power. Nigeria problem

Girl9999:
I created this account to hide my identity. I'm in a very emotional condition at the moment. I've been crying since morning. I've not left my house, not even for church. I've lost the will to live, all because of what happened yesterday evening.

I've been dating this guy for two months. I thought he was a great guy. He was always nice to me, smart and hard-working. I lost my virginity at the age of 18 in University and it was to someone that just wanted to have sex with me. He lied about loving me. All he wanted was sex and when he had his way he abandoned me and dated another girl in my department. Since then I've had a fear of relationships, most importantly of sex. I vowed to only have sex with someone I was going to marry; someone I was certain loved me.

When I met my boyfriend, I thought he was the one. We vibed well and we were both in the same field of work. Everything seemed to click. I opened up to him about my experience and my decision to have sex only when I was ready. He agreed and said he was going to respect my wishes.

Yesterday he visited me at my apartment. This wasn't the first time he was visiting me. We paid each other visits all the time. This time he brought a bottle of wine with him. I prepared food, we both eat and he served us some wine. The last thing I remember is taking few sips and then everything else is blurry.

Next thing I am waking up by 8am this morning with a severe headache, cramped legs and a sore feeling around my vagina. There was something that looked like dried semen on my left thigh and some around my breast. I could also perceive the scent of his perfume on my body. He raped me. The man that claimed to love me raped me. I haven't spoken to anyone since morning, all I've been doing is crying. My phone has been on silent all day.

I want to report him to the police but first I want to look at his face and ask why he would do this to me. I already planned on having sex with him soon. Why couldn't he wait? I want to involve my parents and his parents as well but I don't want this news to spread and take a hit on my reputation. I'm confused about what to do.

Why are men like this? I feel defiled and violated. My mind has been constantly flooded with suicidal thoughts all day. If I make it through this, I'm done with relationships forever.

Looking at your last paragraph,it makes me distaste your personality. Just remove the thought of getting married since "Men are like this" Rubbish

Very good statement by ganduje. They should ban them from coming down south period.

TANID:
HER MAN STILL SUPPOSE TO KEEP PROVIDE FOR HER NEEDS EVEN IF IT'S A LITTLE BIT, WOMAN REALLY DO APPRECIATE THAT SO MUCH NO MATTER HOW RICH THEY ARE.

YOU GET 100K AND YOU WOMAN GET 10m SHE WILL STILL KEEP WAITING TO SPEND FROM THAT YOUR ONE HUNDRED THOUSAND, THAT'S HOW GOD CREAT THEM WE JUST NEED TO KEEP LEARN HOW TO LIVE WITH THEM.

stop saying that My friend, who told you that is how God created them? Don't give room to mediocrity please.. That's pure greed and selfishness. In Western world does a woman wait for a Man to foot her bills? No, they do it themselves. So stop saying such

La click la bend

This ur beautiful Post,u don come use Link spoil am. All this bloggers see. Well i stop at number 6, anyone wey open the link should tell me the others

LoveTalk:
Why nah?

I will not accept her back. But I may forgive her n never forget. It's a mind thing my sister,for me my heart will not be pleased with her anymore.

Culwizthedeltan:
From now till 10 am. I need more reactions.. e go shock uu

u go wait for reaction taya amebo blogger

La click la bend

La click la bend

southniyikaye:
make una dey try reply or comment without insult biko, edakun

I wonder o. As if na them get CNN

Preciousgirl:
Will u marry a woman-pastor?
Zealous for the things of the church, extremely prayerful and devoted to fasting? Very mindful of what she wears and drags you into worship every now and then. Sees dreams and visions consistently and speaks Bible verses . Can you marry such? Drop your reasons

No. Because I don't believe in such

La click la regret

Bennysam:
I’m not surprised he is a Yoruba man , criminal minded people

if na some ppl from one part of the country now,Dem go do name check. Now na dem dey lead for stealing

Princessjoke:
I cheated on my boyfriend and he found out...he saw all the chats. Now I'm loosing a relationship of 3yrs plus..,coz of a fling that's not even up to 2 month... I'm done for...I'm finished where will I start from. He's heartbroken, he couldn't believe I could do such...it's just one time...he should be able to forgive and forget...

go and continue with the one you had fling on.

Omezif:
Reinstating him shows he's innocent man who does nothing wrong but wrongly accused good luck to him and God bless our judges.

na ur type go make Nigeria remain and die in corruption