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Christianity EtcRe: The Madness Of 72 Virgins Can Cause by xpac01(m): 11:07pm On Sep 23, 2015
sprinter101:
Fool in the making.
The fool is already made.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 10 Important Rules Of Success You Must Not Miss by xpac01(m): 11:02pm On Sep 23, 2015
Op your Moniker jeopardized your post. Better change it to Successellency...
PoliticsRe: Captured Boko Haram (ISIS) Leader Can't Pray Or Read Quran (Video) by xpac01(m):
Sometimes I wonder How these guys could get so brain washed.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Sallah Ram With Swagg by xpac01(m): 10:56pm On Sep 23, 2015
Na Saraki's ram
CelebritiesRe: Shocking!!! See The Big Snake Killed In A Female Worker’s Office Toilet (photos) by xpac01(m): 10:55pm On Sep 23, 2015
If it's in Lagos, it shouldn't be shocking... Every winch wimch politicians in Lagos has been turning to snake to escape Buhari's change...
Jokes EtcRe: (pic) When You Order Ram From OLX by xpac01(m): 10:51pm On Sep 23, 2015
Lol!! OLX, dragged to mud by scammers...
CelebritiesRe: Toyin Lawani's Man And Son Rock Matching Outfits by xpac01(m): 10:49pm On Sep 23, 2015
Mtscheeeeww!!!
RomanceRe: Good Guys Are Boring. Do You Agree? by xpac01(m):
Bros, ladies who act that way, are either having low self esteem or the guy has money or in someways so good on bed that's why she refused leaving.
Dogs never bark for nothing.
In other news, check out: there's difference between being nice and being good. Verify that bro.
Jokes EtcRe: "Caption" This Funny Picture !! by xpac01(m): 6:57am On Sep 22, 2015
Not me this December, I must stay alive and enjoy Buhari's government!!!cheesy
RomanceRe: Why I Never Ask Ladies Out by xpac01(m): 6:51am On Sep 22, 2015
usermane:
Before cutting right to the chase, i need the reader to go through the following questions. Generally;



You will agree that for 99% of relationships, the answer to the above questions is 'male'. It seem that all women do in relationship is merely sit and enjoy while all the work have to be dealt with by men.

But how many among these ladies deserve you walking up to them in the street, market, school or beach to pick a friendly conversation, exchange contact and eventually asking them out? Barely 10%, if you ask me. From my experience the rest 90% are mean, aloof and awful. I am no way talking about rejection here. Who is concerned of rejection nowadays with the rise of online dating and match making? Am speaking about the attitude of these ladies towards men that express interest in them either via requesting for contact, asking out or striking a warm casual conversation with these ladies. For instance, i have got responses like "what is it?" from a woman i merely said 'Hi' to. This is rude and arrogant, and unwarranted even if she was trying to dissuade me from her. And this basically sum up why i don't ask out ladies.


Why do most ladies sound impolite and unfriendly when men seek their attention?

One reason is that they do not appreciate your time and attention, most ladies get approached so often by men that they have become full of themselves. They see themselves as a precious gift, holy grail for men who will will undoubtedly overlook all all their misbehavior to gain their attention. And this partly explains why most ladies do not ask men out or seldom make the first move. They feel that their attention is just too precious to give away easily and seek the game of "hard to get" instead.


Without asking out ladies, how do i meet ladies i might be interested in?

Do not be fooled by my title of this write up. I do ask out ladies but in a different sense from most fellas. For most men it is normal to fall for a lady on first meeting, exchange contacts and already be on date expressing their feelings to her in 3 to 4 weeks or even earlier. This attitude of men partly account for the egoistic behavior of ladies towards men seeking their attention, particularly those men they are disinterested in. Asking out a lady on a date shortly after meeting her, when you barely know much about her is putting her on a pedestal unduly.

I have met several pretty ladies whom many men in my shoes would have fallen for and pursued on first sight, i do not regret missing these women today. To ask out a lady, i need time. I want to determine her degree of humility, respect, generosity, altruism, transparency and sincerity. Is she considerate or opportunistic, is she forgiving or vengeful? Trust me, most ladies lack these qualities. They will go length to improve their superficial beauty but won't move a finger to improve their character or inner beauty. I am not as superficial as most dudes who spoil these women.
@ bolded, you forgot intelligence .
Generally bro, you're very wise but Konji still remains a bastard!!!
EducationRe: FG To Harmonise University Grading System by xpac01(m): 6:40am On Sep 22, 2015
That will be great...
Jokes EtcRe: If This Man Slapped Any Of Your Family Members Spouse What Will You Do? by xpac01(m): 10:18pm On Sep 21, 2015
modelee:
If this man slapped any of your family members/your spouse for no reason,what will you do?
Which manhuh
PoliticsRe: You Are A Noise Maker, Army Chief Tells B’haram Leader by xpac01(m): 10:13pm On Sep 21, 2015
Of course, we understand Sir.
A dying Viper makes the highest waggling...
We got your backs...
CelebritiesRe: OMG!!! Don Jazzy Secret Exposed! See What He Does To Produce Hit Songs by xpac01(m): 10:11pm On Sep 21, 2015
Inspiring.. Please who "NOSE" when Don Jazzy's next singles will be outhuh
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Moment Okorocha Get Green Light From FG To Borrow #20bn by xpac01(m): 10:06pm On Sep 21, 2015
Please any idea on how to create a "Dislike" buttonhuh
RomanceRe: Guys..is Lipstick A Turn On Or A Turnoff? What Is Your Opinion? by xpac01(m): 6:24am On Sep 21, 2015
Uniquexty:
All this replies.. then you begin to wonder if guys actually knows what they like. They like natural girls, yet fall into a ditch for a girl wearing cute make up.
If I only I understand what you mean by CUTE.
Guys know exactly what they want. We want natural girls entirely, but we only want the honey pot of excessively cute make-up girls. That's why sometimes we fall into ditches.cheesy
RomanceRe: Guys..is Lipstick A Turn On Or A Turnoff? What Is Your Opinion? by xpac01(m): 6:17am On Sep 21, 2015
nikkypearl:
But the fact still remain dat,we look better witou' d lipstick saga wink
Now this is my reply.

I so love, cherish and respect girls who look natural. I see them as confident and good for a long relationship. But I only lust after girls with lipstick, especially when its excess, I just feel like getting into them immediately and zoom off. cheesy
YOLO
PoliticsRe: Saraki's Travails, APC's Loss And PDP's Gain by xpac01(m): 6:47am On Sep 20, 2015
Pavarottii:
U av not finished cleaning up the mess in ur house, u want to go and clean another house. " A divided house can never stand"
You're still saying same thing... We are busy with in-house cleaning we coming for you Wailers soon...
RomanceRe: Is It True Dat Men Wth Flat Ass Hav A Big Di*ck by xpac01(m): 6:44am On Sep 20, 2015
iLovePusssy:
oh... now i get it. yhu guyz hide nofin from eachoda. i bet yhu gays show off ur dicks to eachoda as well. yhu juz proved ur homosexuality. now get lost. ODE.
I don't Wish to start this bro, buh believe me am much ready... Just sheath those insults and let's have fun ok...
PoliticsRe: Saraki's Travails, APC's Loss And PDP's Gain by xpac01(m): 10:18pm On Sep 19, 2015
Pavarottii:
Want to ask a question. Please which people do u refer as "WE" in ur post?
APC bro.
CrimeRe: Photos: Thief Caught Broad Daylight Trying To Rob A Shop Owner In Lagos Just Now by xpac01(m): 6:12pm On Sep 19, 2015
Oya, uncaught thieves, come show yourselves as saints.!
RomanceRe: It Is About Time Men Should Be REQUIRED To Chop Chop Toto! by xpac01(m): 5:54pm On Sep 19, 2015
Yess!! Especially after receiving a chew. cheesy I believe in reciprocration.
PoliticsRe: Breaking: Mrs. HID Awolowo Is Dead!-TVC News by xpac01(m): 5:49pm On Sep 19, 2015
Wow! Thats celebration of life. RIP mama.
RomanceRe: Is It True Dat Men Wth Flat Ass Hav A Big Di*ck by xpac01(m): 11:27am On Sep 19, 2015
iLovePusssy:
nd how did yhu get to kno eddy has a big ddick... has he ever fvcked yhuhuh yhu sound gay.
I pity your life!!! I told you he is my friend, and also my roomate. We hide nothing from each other.
Hope your pu**y infected brain will comprehend it nowhuh
RomanceRe: One "Word" For This Lady by xpac01(m): 9:39pm On Sep 18, 2015
Finisher
RomanceRe: Is It True Dat Men Wth Flat Ass Hav A Big Di*ck by xpac01(m): 9:36pm On Sep 18, 2015
Na lie... My friend Eddy has big a## but check his d##k na confirm big thang his gf even find it hard adapt....
PoliticsRe: Saraki's Travails, APC's Loss And PDP's Gain by xpac01(m): 9:12pm On Sep 18, 2015
We want to start the corruption war from in-house. We are getting to PDP soon. Hope you'll be uphere to post the PDP heavy loss that is very imminenthuh
PoliticsRe: Saraki Is Innocent by xpac01(m): 9:05pm On Sep 18, 2015
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Lemme borrow this, thanks bro.
@ Op do I look like the judgehuh
RomanceRe: 5 Reasons Men Date But Never Marry Beautiful Women by xpac01(m): 9:03pm On Sep 18, 2015
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Lemme borrow this. Thanks bro.:-/
PoliticsRe: Caption This Photo, World Now Listen When Nigeria Speaks (CHANGE) ??? by xpac01(m): 8:52pm On Sep 18, 2015
Lol. My president my hero!! But why that second man dey cover him nose nahuhcheesy
Jokes EtcRe: Tallest Man In Pilgrimage by xpac01(m): 8:49pm On Sep 18, 2015
Photoshopping things.cheesy
PoliticsRe: The Story Of The Most Incorruptible Man In Nigeria by xpac01(m): 6:40pm On Sep 18, 2015
Yess bro. From much I have said about PMB I believe he can and I know I can.

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