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Annie939:
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tannystacey:
I have been dating my bf for about 2 yrs now. Initially we were communicating on phone as he was outside nigeria. Earlier this year, I got admission in the same country where he was for my post graduate, and though we were in different cities, we could see, schedule visits and all. We have had our issues, but he is an amazing person. I have met his parents in Nigeria, and though he has not met mine, they communicate on phone regularly .

The issue now is, he wants us to get married. He has wanted it from day 1. I deeply care about him, and I love him, but I really dont know if its the right thing to do. We had plans to come home this month so that he could meet my parents, but he recently told me he has issues with his stay here, So Somehow he cant travel out of here, because of permit issues. I got to know that when I got here. All through the year, he's tried to sort it out but to no avail. I cannot do wedding in absential. My parents have even said they have to see him and meet him in person before they can approve of the marriage.

He is a great guy, and he has a good life and a very good job here, despite the issues. I cant talk to anyone about this, not even my friends. But I need objective responses from neutral minds.

Do I give up everything because of this? He keeps saying i should not let this issue affect us, and i should fight for us. Really I dont know how i can even negotiate with my family. Please what do I do?

P.s. I opened a new account for this post for privacy issues.

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Hunnn thanks so much for that wonderful piece but will i av to gake every shit thrown at me all in d name of love, tolerance and for peace sake

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ZeeAfrica:
Gosh m so frustrated dis morning.my mom is a divorcee and i had to drop out of varsity coz we did not have cash and i also had to help out,coz i m de oldest of 2 kids. My mom has always lived a very comfortable life as a house wife of my late dad and of my ex step father,now i am de one who is expected to cary on providing dat life n i dnt mind. But recently she is getting to me and blocking my future. I spend 82000 naira on her monthly n my sister who just started working spends 23000 naira.al dis money we give it to her cash n yet she is never ever satisfied. On her own, my mom runs a small loan shacking business of which she makes a minimum of 46000 naira. Bt dis woman is never ever satisfied. She always sees how my aunts r making their childrens life hard,by expecting dem to provide for them de way i provide for her, but she never sees how she is making my own life difficult. She always wants, wants n wants, takes, takes, takes n now i am sorry to say, but she is starting to annoy me. She now irritates me ohh Gosh. She is such a liability n she thinks she is entittled to all dat she is getting, n even thinks dat it is not enough. If i cud, i wud have divorced her a long time ago, but unfortunatly blood is thicker dan water. De main reason my step dad even left her was bcoz of money.its like she thinks dat her own problems r better dan others. Ohh my word dis woman is such a life sucker. She just sucks life out of me. Wen she sees me spending my cash on things i shud be spending on,coz i work damn hard for my money,she complains n says m wasting money. Ohh my God, its is mine after all is it not. She is de main reason i hate asking men for cash, coz i turn to think dat dey will hate me de way i sometimes hate her. She takes advantage of my love for her. At times i even try to go for a day without calling her on de fone,but i cant. My heart wil be feeling so empty if i do dat. Now she is even angry coz i dnt go home as often as i used to. I used to go monthly but now i take my own time, coz i also have my own life to live. Just now,i just shouted at her n i feel so bad.she wanted me to increase her salary coz she needs to take care of my sisters daughter, who she got out of wedlock, n i ended up shouting n saying i never gabe birth to anyone,so y must i always sacrifies. I knw my sister is giving her best,coz she doesnt earn much, bt for pete's sake, i shud b saving for my own future kids. Damn dis woman.she makes me say things i dnt wana say,coz i always regret being rude to anyone in my life, especialy her.if i was a terrorist,i wud kidnap her n making sure dat she never eats for a month. Gosh m i de only one facing dis? How do u guys handle such? How can i handle such, ohh my God.dis woman is a real liability and a frustration.she even always likes to emotionaly blackmail me and says i promised to help wit my sisters university but i never did. She says she did it al by herself,but she seems to forget dat dat damn salary which allowed her to do all dat was from me. I hate dis woman sometimes. She is sooo selfish.m done crying becoz of her

Waladade4luv:
Pls i want matured minds in the house and experienced peeps to answer aw a man can cope or treat his short tempered wife.
This is a woman who picks offence in virtually everything that happens in d house even among her co workers at work, the taxi driver that carried her, even d passangers she sit win in a bus to the bike man that carried her, pple she buys things from, infact the list is endless everybody is always offending her.
In the house she always see somthing to complain about, to d extent that one will be beging her not to vex even when she is at fault, infact so many other thinz like that that one cannot finish saying.
To guys in d house av u been in a situation like this bfor and can someone treat such a wife since its not easy to change her at dis stage.

AustaCee:
Hello Nairaland family,

This has been a major source of worry to me. Like, I've been so so confused. I'm a young woman of twenty two. Have this guy I've been dating for close to three years now. I really do love him, but things haven't been so good recently. My mum said she would never watch me marry him. Her reasons being that his hometown has many traditions that doesn't favour wives. Also, that they individually don't treat their wives well. My mum's rejection got me really depressed cos I've always seen him in my future.
Two of my friends that I confided in said I should accept it as fate,that I wouldn't know what tomorrow will bring and I will be doomed if anything should happen to the marriage that my parents will say they told me so. I've been kind of making a mental picture of how it's gonna be, dating another guy.It just doesn't work out in my mind. Naturally I'm introverted, and he has been the best partner cos he is okay with staying indoors.
Recently, I've had cause to start having doubts about the relationship. Things I used to put up with,these days they really get to me. When we started dating, he didn't have much, but I believed in him. He has a job but to help out is always a problem. And asking for money is one thing that is very difficult for me. Even when I'm in dire need and muster enough courage to ask him, he will come up with excuses. Most times its really embarrassing when I try borrowing money from people they will be like, 'I thought you have a boyfriend'. It really hurts me cos when things weren't cool for him, I used to share my pocket money with him.
Whenever we have an argument he would upload another girl's picture as his dp . Or sometimes when making up, he will be like, he sees other pretty girls just like I see other handsome dudes but he wants just me. I so hate that.
Right now there is another guy. We've been friends, though he accepted friendship cos I told him I have a boyfriend and can't double date. He brought it up again last three months. And has been persistent. Right now I'm confused. This minute, I will feel like following my friend's advice to cut off from my bf since we can't marry, the other I feel I should stay and hope my mum changes her mind. Breaking up sef is gonna be difficult.
So, I've come to you experienced Familylanders, to help slap me back to reality, if I'm losing touch with reality. Please help steer me in the right direction...I'm really in a big dilemma I can't seem to reach a decision.




Please forgive the lengthy post and any typographical error




Opened another account to protect my identity

Leader01:
Before a woman's name is mentioned, her title(Mrs/Miss) has inform you of her marital status, whether she is single or married. This is not applicable to men as men's title has no indication of their marital status.


What do you think are the reasons why women/ladies' title indicate/advertises their marital status?

Enahi:
I think I like someone on Nairaland but I don't think I can have him, he is someone most ladies would want to have and be with so my liking him is totally out of it. I don't like men that all ladies want to have, it' destroys the uniqueness of the man.

Do you have someone you like or have a crush on here, mind revealing the person's moniker? Do you take your likeness for someone here serious or do you suppress the feeling and likeness?