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bestdudes:
I tried to work something out with 3 ladies... I am a guy that loves giving and showing through actions that I am serious...

do you know what my action earned me? "desperate", "mugu that can be taken advantage of"... I laughed, learned from it, and stopped doing that to ladies.

I don't believe what that OP said it totally true, especially for average pretty ladies... they have had good men come their way. But how did they treat him? read my experience with girls like this and tell me whether any man will keep trying or move on.

One during COVID 19, despite the lockdown, I managed to do the best I could as i had just done some supplies and was left with nothing but 50k after I sent her some money for her mum's medical needs. In the same year she requested I help her with money to buy oven for baking and I did... do u know what this girl did? do you know the insult she meted at me after all these?

Well after all done to save the relationship, I left. It has been 2 years since then and now she is feigning remorse that it was because of the situation she was undergoing at that time... tomorrow, someone like her will come and write this nonsense like the OP did, pretending like NO GOOD man has ever crossed their path. Bloody rubbish!

I simply told her a few things that she didn't know, how i was left with 50k and how i have managed to bounce back from just that 50k, and recoup whatever I gave her.

Don't mind this write-up written by the OP. it is all lies. women don't appreciate good things.

WowSweetGuy:
If Dem no wan get sense na their 40s dey load

Marry that poor guy that love u and grow with him

casualobserver:
The PRIMARY job of a woman is to raise and nurture the next generation that is your PRIMARY purpose, God did not create women for career. The primary purpose of a man is to provide for and protect his family....dont get it twisted!!!! How do you see a man who cannot provide for his family? Exactly!!! It’s the same way a man sees a woman we are all programmed by God that way don’t be fooled by western propaganda!!! Many African women have found themselves in a mess because they’ve bought into western ideology and forgotten their roles in society. So the older a woman gets, no matter how fine the or successful you are in your career, the less you are able to fulfill your fundamental purpose on earth and the less value you have in the eyes of a man!!! There is nothing wrong with a career in fact I encourage it but if you prioritize career over family and fail to find a husband. Then that is a result of your choices!!

On the issue of men running away, no man runs away from a good woman…..trust me, we are not fools. More likely to happen is that a good woman may leave a man but a man NEVER leaves a good woman. So if a man left you, it means he didn’t see you as the type of wife or mother he wants. Women need a paradigm shift that a man left you because he was a bad man. If you are truly a good woman a man will always hold on to you even if he has other women. A man only lets go of a woman that is dispensable….I.e she is not a keeper!!!!

A man holds on to a woman for 2 main reasons 1)you are a potential life partner 2) good sex. It is for a woman to determine which of the reasons you fall into and exit if you are not aligned. A man let’s go of a woman for 1 main reason…….your value to stress ratio is too low. Ie you represent more stress than benefit…..Men are very simple creatures!!!

Finally your post makes it seem as if all responsibility in a relationship falls on the man. It is also the responsibility of a woman not to enter into relationships with the wrong men and take responsibility for your mistakes when you do and more importantly to learn and not repeat your mistakes. Remmember the choice to date a man was YOUR choice in the 1st place.

toujurs:
Ahh No o! Walaihi. The girl was properly trained. She has a good home training, very respectful, decent. And earn enough to take good care of her self.

She isn't the type of these hungry girls, that have the mentality of expecting the man to always pay for everything, after all i give him sex.

She was just unlucky, to have fallen inlove with a lazy guy, who is looking of the shortest mago mago way to make money, they have both broken up sha.

Savedday:
Bros don't be deceived, is all of them except some ugly ones.

9ja girls don't love and dey will never love u.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

toujurs:
Yes, you are right on the bolded, i know a very decent lady, that dated a very stupid man.

toujurs:
Biggest lie. Greed and selfishness is what rendered a lot of ladies still single at early 30's. I am telling you, leave this thing you are saying. Most Nigerian women are easily decieved by what they see, very easy to decieve them, if you have a good ride and a good apartment, where they can come over for the weekend, irrespective of if you truely love them or not, it's when you eat her coochie, that is when she will begin to ask you, if you truely love her, and plan on marrying her. Yea there are decent and matured ladies who understands whats involved getting into a relationship with a decent man, who has a respectful life. But they are very few, very very few, that is why, most guys, just eat these girls to stupor, and dump afterwards, for the next babe.

Kyase:
It’s not actually Potter but the players
They’re good together, they are a team

fergie001:
Wotoporiously speaking;



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Kyase:
Fergie001
Dfrost
Yemi1504
Angelfrost

Abeg make una remind am of wetin those idiots do us for our own house

Though our own no worse like this

Kyase:
We need more

fergie001:
Here we go!



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Antimarraige:
Just another one of the reasons i can't live with a woman

Fred166:
Good evening everyone.

Most nigerian movies can be so meaningless. You can even fathom the message they are trying to pass. Always acting meaningless scripts with funny titles.

We also have a TV in our bedroom, so my wife was watching a Nigerian movie while I was working on my office files.

I can't even puzzle out the excitement in that movie. All I was hearing is some lousy actors making noise and the poor suspense sound track. You need to see my wife looking so tensed & serious, flapping her both hands like a bird that is about to fly while screaming “enter the car drive! drive! drive!

I said Aunty easy o, Then I asked her the title of the movie, she said "The pregnant ghost". I said pls came again, you say? She didn't answer then I picked up the remote to check the title then booom!! The pregnant ghost

I was just laughing seriously, I've to capture it. then I asked her whether she have seen a ghost before not to talk of a pregnant one? And she said what! If I want to know if ghost dey carry belle that I should join her and watch the movie too.

I jejely carried my office files and my laptop, walk straight to the sitting and continue my job. Because if I talk otherwise about that movie na problem for me and I don't want her wahala this night.

Then she asked where am I going? I said this movie is so interesting and it's making me loose focus on the work I'm doing, so I'm going to the sitting room were I can concentrate.

Abeg, those of you that watch this kind of movie, please what are the moral lessons?

Intellectuall01:
Now you will be seeing a lot of them in their late 20s and early 30s say 'marriage is not for everyone'

If you do a proper observation, you will realize that all the women that are saying 'marriage is not for everyone' are women with high body counts of 30 bodies and above. Their lives done get comma.

Only damage women say that. Those are the types you see on social media.

Intellectuall01:
Our Naija ladies that are following this steps are already feeling the brunt of it.

Afrobasic:
You people should stop repeating this bs lie.

She was not! She played a very little role in the beginning and that's it.

zed7:
If your partner doesn't have genuine love for you, please don't relocate with her abroad. That society ruins men. I've seen it happen over and over again.

Vulcanheph:
Na wah oh.... This is what modern day feminism has caused.

The American government is the cause of their high divorce rates .
The day the government stops making men settle women in divorce courts, divorces will reduce.

Look at how low divorce cases are in Nigeria... Because every woman knows that the day you leave the marriage, you're going the way you came.

I know this might sound misogynistic but it's the gospel truth.

Kobicove:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.cnn.com/cnn/2022/09/28/business/mackenzie-scott-dan-jewett-divorce/index.html

Kyase:

Fergie001
Dfrost
Yemi1504
Make una come carry una captain abeg

dfrost:
No be Maguire, the Irish potatoes farmer? I give up

aralgreen:
Moral of the story. Don't compare yourself to any big man living in mansion and riding big cars not all have clean �

patoski39:
I saw one of his video whr he was motivating mocking young men to double their hustle o.
God dn catch am

jaxxy:
Hahaha bt u have to be smart about it tho.

HRHQueenPhil:
U did nothing wrong, someone needs to tell her the truth...I use to smell like a rotten fish too till d day I was insulted inside bus.. pls if u are still using Eva soap, stop it immediately..buy her gifts of good soap, perfume and anti persperant

OvertheTop:
Sending your Husband Message....Even in the Front of Visitors is MAXIMUM Disrespect!

jaxxy:
People are different and we can't all be thesame. Ur brother might be a gentleman I have no problems with that bt I hope he's not a fool?

Im trying to to sound misogynist bt I think it depends on how she said it rather that what she said..

abroad wives asks their husband to do things in a respectful and free manner and nigerian men abroad are well aware and cool with this style so it's no a biggie.

However If she orders him around then I will be the 1st to call to order her nuisance infront of my brother or who the fvck ever.

Offcourse there will be drama which I would be well prepared for and after that if my brother doesn't see sense in my actions or have a good reason for taking marching orders from his wife I will disassociate myself from that shit and keep my distance. I won't tolerate trash infront of me. Hell nahh