₦airaland Forum

Monaboo:
This is Funny but it happens.

But it depends on how she says it.

If I marry and I decide to do such, I would say it this way.

"Please honey, can u kindly help me check if the provision woman is at the shop. I would have gone but I'm so tired".

I will also say it calmly as if I want to faint

Believe me, no husband will refuse going and even if his family members are there, they won't feel bad.

The family members may even decide to go sef

P.S
It's Vice Versa. Same way the husband can use same strategy and send the wife message in the presence of her people and won't look controlling.

Nairanation2:
Kwanu! This is why i find it difficult bringing personal issues here. U'll see ppl rationalizing pure senselessness.
Ppl with irrational thoughts & awful character hide behind keyboard to dish out rabid nonsense.
It's very improper & lack of proper upbringing for any wife to send her husband an errand in such a manner, more so, in d presence of her brother-in-law. Nothing can justify this.

Middleborn:
I'm not in support of men who are clueless and weak...they allow the woman be the man of the house, but i want to point out that there could be more to the story.

I say this because i have seen different families and how they could differ due to the personalities of the couples involved.

On this note, imagine if in this story, both husband (his elder brother) and wife are career people and they have 1 or 2 small kids and they don't have a house help. Maybe wife just got pregnant. Wife comes back from work, does her house-keeping and kitchen stuff...many wives in her circumstance need assistance. Maybe she cooking and wants to buy stuff from the provision shop, which is just a few steps from their house and the husband isnt doing anything at the time...she might have also asked politely...why can't he help out? i'm just telling you how it may have happened and how the OP may not have gotten all the details.

I do also think that African civilized society has gotten past that point where the men heaps all the house work on the woman. Some assistance is needed.

seanwilliam:
shut up your dirty mouth. That you’re married to my brother doesn’t give you the temerity to treat him anyhow and throw caution out of window. we’re related by blood and I’m closer to him than you are. ‘no matter the bonds you share with him, you’re still an outsider. If something bad happens to him you can deny him and go your way but someone like me won’t do that !. If that’s how you treat your own husband all in the name of love , fine! But it won’t work with me.
This is Africa. No come Dey form americana for someone like me, I go over embarrass u.

I will put mouth instantly and if my brother is not ok with that then I will shut up by mouth and will never visit them again!.

Mind you, I don’t visit anyone except I’m invited and I rarely honor invitation self. Not all in laws are jobless like yours!


As regards to widow, I have no business poke-nosing in that regards. She’ll be the one to handle her husband’s stuff in order to take care of their children and I will do what I’m supposed to do to support them. Also par-adventure they never had kids together until his demise, then we will have to follow his wills and order.


He’s your husband but he’s my brother first .

Lama70:
Your Brother he haff chop vegitable or EFO RIRO.

On a serious note it is purely abnormal. Why I am contributing to this topic is that an elderly woman living in my compound upstairs warned me to stop my wife from relating with a certain neighbor. Her reason was for a similar thing like this. Mama is nearly 90yrs.

This woman does nothing at home. The man takes the children to school and goes to pick them. This madam is friends to all the shop owners in the vicinity. I have seen her taking their gas cooker to assist other women to cook meals.

Just when I came back to pick an item at home about 40 mins ago her husband arrived with the children from school. Pepper, ewedu, tomatoes and fufu were some of the thing I saw in his hands. He drives for a pure water company.

Guess what? Madam was in somebody's shop gossiping again. It was when she saw the truck she came to say a very weak welcome to him. And she was questioning the man over certain things I didn't even bother to listen to.

I believe what mama upstairs told me. Obviously, your brother is acting under some influence.

Whoever likes can insult me among the ladies here. But I believe the menfolks will understand and watch.

latolz:
Is she pregnant? If yes, understand he's trying to be helpful..

mariahAngel:
It is also love to treat with respect the one who loves you.

blowjohn:
They no dey ever score more than 3 goals against Sheriff Tiraspol.

Today was no different

Kyase:
swears

LilTroy:
Jos matter no b small o.. Jos Plateau state capital is d worst...

Beverlyjean:
We can now see that whenever maguire starts...they loose ...Ronaldo was never the problem..he was the solution

Kyase:
I’m proud of our defense
No single shots on goal for sheriff

Angelfrost:
Small wetin?!! No be dis Team wey wound Real Madrid for UCL?!!

Baloranking:
Which confidence?? Una get game this weekend let’s see if he’ll be on form

cjudy:
E pain you? Even your Chelshit can’t win a match

Kyase:
Yeah read the news an hour ago
End of an era indeed

Kyase:
Seriously
In a bad way

princeemmma:
I think he needed the goals seriously, he is facing a lot, especially this season

Kyase:
Ronaldo na minus for this game sha

princeemmma:
Why is man united always relying on 1goals, they should learn to score more goals and do well with the attack

Johnson225:
A walkover for united. GGMU

fergie001:
Another dropped point for Potty

Jokerman:
Chelshit

Kyase:
All
Me i Dey provoke rn like this

Kyase:
Hmm
Now I am beginning to hate the Queen
But why dem go play London games but games far away from London dem cancel am

Dear auntie lesbian UJU release another singles abeg
Fergie001,
Dfrost
Yemi1504

No enough banter this week again

lukasa:
I told you about this people...we know most of them.

RachLaw:
starting from next game, it will be posted in the group.

RachLaw:
Let's move to Finland D2
Jaro vs KPV
Tip: x2 @ 1.95
Posted @ 20mins of play