₦airaland Forum

candylips:
yjay no need to be angry ok

Rakhadani:
Maybe i've nothing to say about this question since it focuses on Nigerian gals.
But girls in general offer almost everything a guy might require. They contribute to the relationship with everything that they have - money included.
In case they don't have money, a pure and loving heart, accompanied by romance, comfort, trust and love itself are sufficient. And I think that's what girls offer. Didnt mean to take sides

tubabie:
Nah, not too much, the smallest quantity brings an instant reaction

folly69:
Well different strokes for different folks, I have grown up to a stage in my life to be wise and know that noting but death is guaranteed for every living soul bt the question is where do u go after death?So @all and especially uplawal,does it really matter how u die?
Yeah everyone wants to grow old, have a fat account several houses here and there be comfortable generally bt if cus of some infection which treatment is improving daily u deny your fellow human being love and affection then u need to retrace your steps and really look inward and put your self in the position of that person to know if u will want thesame to b done to u.
As per intimacy b4 marriage well am not saying its right and am saying its definately not the cause of infection because even people that have been fateful and got married still get infected somehow if not for the Grace of God.
I witness a accident scene last year, it was horrible,a fully loaded luxiriuos bus travelling from sokoto to lagos slammed into a tanker of petrol parked along the road,every one was burnt to ashes including women and children,definately this people must have prayed b4 living there place of depature now tell me those of us alive today are we better than them? Hiv or no Hiv it all takes the Grace of God.[/b]

@anonxxxx am sorry if i have derailed from your topic bt my point is people should stop stigmatizing and love one another as they love themselves cus they aint any saint anywhere.

georgeiyke009:
No sensible will allow a woman 2 spend unecessarily on him, if he truly loves her.its not bad spending on a guy but I rili question d intergrity of d guy in question when he allows u 2 buy him inconsequential stuffs like u mentioned above.A real man's got  2 hv a healthy amount of ego which will not allow him 2 ask/take tns from people when not necessary.He mks effort 2 reciprocate in his own way n within his means,

Miss Viola:
Hi.
This reply may be coming too late but , anyway
You can use Eden soap.It contains apricot that is good for exfoilation.It won't bleach you.Don't worry at all.And its not expensive, but very good.In Cameroon,its 700frs or so.
Then for body lotion,you can use L'oreal-Nutrilift.It is so good.

Emperoh:

He said he won't mind. . . . .i hope same applies to you!!
I can rebrand that good feeling u know

mitchyy:
Hi babes,am dark skinned with normal skin.just got a moisturizer "Olay complete all day moisture lotion with spf 15".
Just wanna give it a trial.but i need your honest opinions on how effective it is or if i should get something else.please babes.
Thanks.

spikedcylinder:
[color=#550000]I've never had problems with any product I get from Kudis and I'm sure she gets her stuff from the US. I know because her daughter is a friend of mine.


well i strongly stand by wat i ve said, theres a huge difference with products from her shop & from the states, i hope u are also aware that all the boys that used to sell at tejuosho before it got burnt buy from her at aspanda

Ayemokhia:
Every woman is a Gold digger. We just use different tools, some use cranes, some tractors, others straws and the rest, spoons. The above statement was once my facebook status message and I sincerely doubt that my profile page has been any busier after that day.

When I was younger I believed in unconditional love. I dated guys with empty pockets, stingy a$$ dudes who would rather pretend to be broke than loan their mother 10 bucks. But it didn’t matter to me. Everything I have ever wanted, I have bought with my own money. So whether a guy spent money on me or not, had a good car or not, or lived with his parents at the age of 30, I wasn’t bothered. Instead I believed in ‘building with my man’. The naïve little girl in me actually believed that ‘if you are with a man when he has nothing, he will always remember you when he has something’.

Fast forward a couple of years and throw in the speed bumps and punches of life, and I am a completely different person. Well maybe not totally different, just wiser and smarter. Wise enough to know that a stingy man in his 30’s will be an even stinger man in his 40’s and that the only loyal mammals on earth are dogs not humans. Smart enough to realise that it is important for a man to have his own things and be financially capable of taking care of me and our future children and not be ashamed to let him know that his ability to fulfil those roles impact greatly on our relationship. Let’s be honest girls, men waste no time in letting us know what they want in the kitchen or in the sack. They don’t bat an eyelid when they say ‘oh this girl is not my type’, ‘she is too fat’, ‘she is too thin’, ‘she isn’t yellow enough’, ‘she can’t cook’, ‘I don’t like her mother’, ‘she is an aje butter’. So why is it that when we are seeking to legitimately secure our future and those of our children we are automatically labelled derogatory terms such as ‘gold digger’.

However with every good bunch of grapes there is always the sour one which makes you think the rest maybe just as bad! Take for instance a guy I went on a date with some time last year (lets call him Uche). We met up at a swanky bar in London and he was absolutely stunned when after scanning through the drinks menu filled with expensive drinks that I opted for lemonade (£5.60) instead of something pricier. He told me of a girl who he had met for the first time at a similar priced bar who had ordered a bottle of Louis Roederer Crystal Rose Champagne on his tab—a £500 bottle of champagne. Although he claimed he could easily afford it, he made it clear to her that he thought it was outrageous for her to order such an expensive drink. The poor girl was so embarrassed she changed her order to a bottle of mineral water!

Another friend of mine recently broke up with his girlfriend because, as he put it, ‘he was tired of being her daddy’. According to him she asked him for everything under the sun. Money for hair extensions, cloths, bags, shoes, petrol, make up and would get very upset or even withhold ‘extracurricular affairs’ if he delayed payment. The final straw came when she bought a set of matching gold earrings, necklace and bracelet worth N450, 000 and sent the trader to his office to harass him for the money!

So yeah, I agree. There are ‘some’ girls who put the ‘gold’ in gold digger but these are extreme cases. Most regular women folk aren’t walking around like the devil, seeking a man’s money to devour! They just want to be sure their man can afford to take care of them and will happily supplement his income to ensure the smooth running of the home. However, in today’s relationships where the woman is already playing wife while she is girlfriend (cooking, cleaning and bedroom duties), I think it’s only fair for the man to start playing husband too.

Every man should take pride in being able to afford to take care of his woman. Personally I cannot be with a man who does not see me eye to eye on this issue and I am not ashamed to say so. Nowadays before I date a guy he must pass the financial acid test. Good job, good car, nice flat, generous with dollops of ambition and drive! Gone are the days were I was fasting and praying for a man to buy his first car only for him to put another woman in the front seat. Anh anh, my mother didn’t raise no fool! I will fast and pray with you for that promotion, while the AC of your current car is blowing me in the face. I will get up and seek the Lord early in the morning for his salary increase when I have recovered from our romantic getaway in Dubai. I will cook the best tasting Egusi soup known to man while I am in his fully fitted kitchen and furnished home. I will hold his hand through all of life’s ups and downs while he treats me like the princess I deserve to be. And if all this makes me a gold digger, then I’ll say it loud and hard, I am digging for gold and I’m proud!

nanidee:
aww, and i thought she brings in her stuff directly from the source  . Thanks dear.   

Emperoh:

really. . . . . hey i pity your backside. . . . its gonna be whuuped badly. . . .cos when his other dalliances show up,
u do be in SOUP!!!

gee, thanks but im the best hes ever had

[color=#550000]
i swear if the owner of me catch u, AC Milan go dey u like Real Madrid!! [/color

Ebonyeyes:
Too much exercising and undereating. Wowsers

tkb417:
na wetin happen na?

shuoo, see me see wahala. Yjay is ma wifey abi wetin?
u go die of HBP o

Emperoh:
Oloshi. . . . woman wrapper
Na u she call? Shuo werrin?



of course i was refering to him, stop harassing my boo o




. . . . , ehen? Is this the Romance section?

switch360:
Arsenal beat porto 5-0 this so called super mod called Debosky did not put it on the front page now he is screaming ' Man u destroy ac milan ' na seun i blame. very baised set of people. the man who invented grammer Bias