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RUBRICS:
Wishin u all

31,536,000 Seconds of Happiness,

525,600 Minutes of Joy,

8,760 Hours of Breakthrough,

365 days un-interrupted Peace,

52 weeks of Divine Favour,

12 Months of Sufficient Grace.

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2010!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

and to you too. maybe we worship in the same church

HAPPY 2010 EVERYONE - MY YEAR OF ABUNDANT GARCE

Pak, many thanks for your commendations. Women, just pray for God's wisdom and guidance and try 2 be realistic as we guys will also do by God's grace.

If your priorities are set right and your purpose discovered, you will always win.

Excuses can only yield failure and regret.

God help us

In the presence of My maker _{not trying out stuff}

@ Odunnu, nne be carefull the stuff you try out in d house of the lord o. hmmm

pretence - can't stand it. Other than, lack of back garden

O di ka n ne ku, unu ada anu. If you like marry at 100, because u r waiting 4 God himself 4 a husband. Gud Luck. And those comparing urselves to ur mates and all wot not. No two people's destiny is d same, no said, get married cos ur mates r. _{at least not me},

One big problem that no1 has noticed is that women as much as they claim to be "led by d heart" are actually led by the eyes.

My broda if i tell u d criterias wey i don hear, no be small thing o.

nonsense things like, the guy must be driving a an expensive car or even more stupid things as, he must be "cute, with braids and earings or all d other nonsense most women look for" up2 d shape of his nose.

No wonder SOME of them end up in abusive relationships and so forth.

Rule of the thumb. A woman never finds, seek nor choose a man. Because, true to God, I am yet to see the woman that chose right "BY THE HEART"

God help us.

cecegirl:
yme, please lets forget this bad blow talk. most ladies still single at 30 are single not because life dealt them a 'bad blow' but because they got caught in the greener grass syndrome. if you did deep into their history, you'll find most have been rejecting earlier suitors serious in marriage with hope that a better offer will turn up. unfortunately when they least expect, the steady stream of suitors begin to fade and they're caught in the lurch.


If you notice George, I made mention of self reason which your point would come under; and not bad blow. My reference to bad blow is something catastrophic, something they couldn't control that befell them, so to speak, Life happens.

Childish day-dreaming and chasing birds, hoping for Danzel is of their making.

God help us
@George you cant just accept any suitor that comes your way. If the guy is not a christian or doesnt put God first. Forget him. I dont see that are being picky.
@ YME no i havent reached 30 yet. i am still in my mid to late twenties. my own situation is something i cant control. Just havent been lucky to find the right guy and i refused to be treated like crap. I refused to be in an abusive relationship just for the sake of being married.

Good woman. I hope you learnt some lessons from the last one. Now adjust your list, apply those lessons wisely and move on.

Good luck with your next endeavour.

haaaa, c me c wahala. Body Odour is a universal thing. wetin come concern only nigerian men with body odour.

Mama gee take time o

hmmm, i have said my own o

George_D:
yme, please lets forget this bad blow talk. most ladies still single at 30 are single not because life dealt them a 'bad blow' but because they got caught in the greener grass syndrome. if you did deep into their history, you'll find most have been rejecting earlier suitors serious in marriage with hope that a better offer will turn up. unfortunately when they least expect, the steady stream of suitors begin to fade and they're caught in the lurch.

If you notice George, I made mention of self reason which your point would come under; and not bad blow. My reference to bad blow is something catastrophic, something they couldn't control that befell them, so to speak, Life happens.

Childish day-dreaming and chasing birds, hoping for Danzel is of their making.

God help us

@ poster, it's never too late. But make I ask. If you don reach 30, wetin you come dey do since now? Abi life deal u bad blow? Anyway, better late than never.

My earlier comments were for the younger generation.

God help us.

The problem with Most African women now is too much Western Copy Copy. These people don't have culture and most of their authorities don't believe in God. So they come up with all this brainwash for the fools who are willing to follow. God forbid that I am devalueing women or whatever you modern people call what I am about to say nowadays. A WOMAN IS NEVER FULFILLED WITHOUT A HOME AND A FAMILY OF HER OWN. A woman's first ministry is to a man and for that purpose, according to the bible, a woman was made. For company to the man, as a helping hand, to be as a Clutch to the man as though he were missing a leg. Any woman that is offended by what I am saying now, has no sense of identity or purpose and I am not apologising for that statement. I couldn't live without a woman - MY WOMAN. If I could, God would not have made her; for two are better than one and if two shall agree as touching one thing. That, shall be established.

In my opinion, as soon as a woman turns 18, pray and TRY to keep yourself for your man. Of course, you can't just sit and do nothing. So you equip yourself, go to school and so on whilst being mindful of your purpose. Getting sidetracked and seeking Guccis, Bentleys and all what not are idiocracy because those will always come later. The one the modern woman dreads to hear, Women were not made to be kings. So all this position seeking WITHOUT A HUSBAND will only give you a life of anguish and sadness. It's like a butterfly trying to rule the jungle, with Lions in it. And I do not mean any disrespect with that statement because what most people fail to understand is that a lion cannot survive the jungle on its own. Take for instance, the fingers. Not all are eqaul, yet none is greater, but each unequivocally and unsubstitutably useful _{so to speak} according to its capacity and purpose.

Tell me in all sincerity that Oprah is happy and I will jump out of the window but that is another day's topic.
Don't get me wrong, The proverbs 31 woman was all that most women want to be nowadays. But most importantly and first of all, she was married.

A woman's worth, , I could fill every inch  of the surface of the earth writing about that. But in one sentence, , GOD'S GIFT TO MAN; HER PRICE IS FAR BEYOND RUBBIES.

Any woman giving excuses for not being able to settle down much after 25 or pushing it for self reasons can easily take solace in the doctrines of the OPRAHs and forget marriage altogether which would be as like a curse.

Bottomline, get married as early after 21 as you can. Unless as I always say, life has dealt you a bad blow. But please don't fool yourself by counting your aristo days as a bad blow.

God help us.

slimes:
Population control is out of the issue here. Have you heard of AIDS, Accident, Natural disasters, conflict, e.t.c.? All these can reduce a country's population by more than half. Marriage is good but common sense must be applied into it. More like being friends before lovers.

Friends, then lovers, always works. But be careful not to feel obliged.

Anyway, to the topic of the day. All this maturity nonsense _sorry. You guys are giving the idonkia folks here d go ahead to be un-accountable. If you grow up in a well respected home and train yourself plus the one your parents gave you. I don't see why anybody should not be "matured" enough to get married at say 25 for women. It all boils down to how responsible you have been and how you have set your priorities. You can only get off my hook of irresponsible folks; if you had a natural disaster or was a victim of something that disorientated or had a bad impact on your life. Other than that, Not matured at 25, COW DUNG!!

Oyinbo too dey fear. Dem say na banger. But which kind mugu go light banger for inside plane, na wa oo

Calabar is not a state, but in anycase, we get the idea. Cally all the way!!

If you want to drive these kind of cars, you've got to take charge of your own future together with God's grace.

Business (CLEAN BUSINESS) is the way forward, 9 to 5 might pay half the bills, but total financial freedom is in your own creations and efforts.

People need income, not wages. Profit is better than salary.

God Speed

oh boi, this topic don go far o, neway, in one sentence - if you like a skinny b, u aint got ish

that, can, where, omg, i can't think

emans:
@ Y.M.E
she has even plan to move in with me

Game over, seems like you were unfortunate, Like I said before, just find a way forward. Best of luck

chocomillo:
Stop living in the past, you are missing out some men like them big

simples

Oparigenshamugenwa, this 1 pass me, I dey fear b4 ppl stone me if i say make i talk. But one word they say is enuff 4 d wise. It's not so good and it's not so bad. I don't know the complete story nor the circumstances. But, as I read d topic, i no know wen i shout for office, come be like i say i don kolo.

My guy, only u can decide 4 urself.  God help us.

one of the reasons a man wants a woman is to feel something different from his form everytime they touch - preferably adequately voluptuous. If you prefer wood, abeg try Madona (no offence to her). Alternatively, find another man, perhaps your dream could come true on that team (pukes). NONESENSE!!!

on a second thot, how ur condition be? if u sit well well, that means d babe know wetin she do, but i'll take that back 2 some xtent if not completely because it takes two to tango. unfortunately, advice elude me 4 this matter. once again gud luck. Me no dey 4 blaming game. wot's done is done. Find a way 4ward.

Gold help us all

Hmmm, me no come knw wetin 2 talk o, good luck sha

9ice, 2baba, eldee, i could go on. Matter of fact, I can't choose. Many things has made me a proud son of the soil in the last decade and music is definitely up there.

Nigeria, We are coming

I was wishing Nigeria would win something in 2010. If the nation's cup is in doubt, then,

lol, i couldn't stop laughing

Not So much into information sale (I deem it to be scam) - no offence, but you have a point. The modern day job is SLAVERY. The only way forward, or at least to any sort of financial freedom, having a lifestyle and most importantly "living", is by working for yourself. Of course, as in every genuine venture, it doesn't blossom overnight, that's why the odd 9 -5 can take care of the bills while you map your future running a little GENUINE business part time until you can completely stand on your own two feet. The only problem - people are too scared or narrow minded to take charge.

YOU CAN'T CHANGE YOUR LIFE, IF YOU DON'T CHANGE YOUR THINKING.

all lagos roads

4 dream or 4 next life,