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timawoku:
I think the 'hymen' ish is for ladies alone

I asked becos

Ever tried licking a sweet with its wrapper on?
Can it be compared to when it is fully unwrapped?

I just edited my previous comments. See below



Let's analyze this well. Your can still be called a virgin. i think it would depend on whether or not foreskin (male) / Hymen (female) is still intact.

i believe that an intact foreskin (male) / Hymen (female) is the true measure of a virgin, not whether or not there has been any sort of entry into the womanliness. while in 90% of cases those are mutually exclusive events, meaning that if a joystick enters a womanliness, chances are there is not an intact foreskin (male) / Hymen (female) .

so, if if one still have an intact foreskin (male) / Hymen (female) , he/she is still a virgin. if he does not have an intact foreskin (male) / Hymen (female) , he isn't.

timawoku:
A friend of mine is about getting married and so keen to (finally) have unprotected sex with his wife to be. He told me he had never had unprotected sex before, so I asked myself the question that 'are you still a virgin if you have not had unprotected sex? (Especially for guys).

Let's analyze this well. Your can still be called a virgin. i think it would depend on whether or not foreskin (male) / Hymen (female) is still intact.

i believe that an intact foreskin (male) / Hymen (female) is the true measure of a virgin, not whether or not there has been any sort of entry into the vagina. while in 90% of cases those are mutually exclusive events, meaning that if a penis enters a vagina, chances are there is not an intact foreskin (male) / Hymen (female) .

so, if if one still have an intact foreskin (male) / Hymen (female) , he/she is still a virgin. if he does not have an intact foreskin (male) / Hymen (female) , he isn't.

mcfarlin:
Describing heavenly things with earthly things now are we?

Your example is flawed in the sense that it doesn't go like this giving the person you created a glass of water to drink

GOD is the self existing one he knows all things and sees all things...in him we live and have our being!

are you serious??

Common explain how it relates. Cause except you don't understand what am saying above. My explanation ain't flawed

mcfarlin:
I understand the desire to live life without any hinderances whatsoever or the realization that a supreme being watches over your every activity!

Yet that doesn't change the fact that GOD exists and he's a rewarder of those who diligently seek him

From your writing its pretty obvious that you are agnostic...but am not against anybody's belief the best I can do is to appeal to the hearts of people with the gospel of christ which brings salvation.

Its all good bro CIAO!

You mentioned nothing in your post. I addressed you with questions of high degree logical priority, and all you can tell me is Am AGNOSTIC or god exists??.


Common I expected more. Let's get to business. Let's open the so called holy books, Quran, bible etc. Let's analyze and debate issues rather than avoiding them with a cheap "am agnostic statement"".



You insult me by terming me agnostic. I am. Atheist. And I believe there is no god. #fact


Signed.

Ymodulus

mcfarlin:
*Fairy tale u mean*
Freewill in the sense that you have an option to believe or to do the opposite!

Eternal life and the converse state eternal damnation are not forced upon us but we are allowed the liberty to choose either of the two by our actions or inactions here on earth!

God gives us free-will. But why does God punish us for exercising our free-will in certain ways (disobeying Him, sinning)? Why even both to give us free will, if we are to be punished for exercising our free will in a certain way.

I would say that is not really free will. If I give you a glass of water on the table, and say you are free to drink the glass of water, but if you drink it, I will kill you --- Why even bother to give that person the option of drinking the water, when you are essentially hindering his free-will and stopping him from drinking the glass of water?

If I want to carry out an action but in the back of my mind I know it is a sin, I might hesitate to carry out that action if I know God will punish me. Isn't that not obstructing my free-will? Why give me free will, if you punish me for making certain choices I want to make?






If God gave us freedom of choice why does he intervene in human affairs?
I've heard it a zillion times: "God gave us freedom of choice;" the standard answer given by Christians to explain all the evil in the world which God permits, yet, according to the bible, he's been intervening in the world and in human affairs with or without concent since Genesis. He's given credit for the good things, but humanity is blamed for the bad things. How do you explain this apparent contradiction?


Arant Nonsense!!!!!!

Mr man that is not free will. God does not give free will.

mcfarlin:
God didn't create us as zombies for a reason..

Why don't we debate on issue of that god free will?

Man you don't have to support that fiery tale person you call god. He his not a god of free will

#fact:GOD created man as a free moral agent,u can accept what u want on earth...

Stop this. Its blatant Lie in the highest order.

1. User Interface

Honestly I think Nairaland should look better than its present appearance. It doesn't look attractive enough for its status. This site is among the top popular sites in Nigeria and a medium to represent Nigerians to the rest of the world. A visitor maybe wondering if this is the best thing Nigerians can come up with in terms of design. A good user interface attracts more visitors and interest in the site because first impression matters.

Well I will be forced to ask you what the definition of a good User Interface is?
1. Do you term a User Interface full with all unnecessary Javascript / jquery effects and heavy background images as good ?

The visitor should not wonder if that's the beat thing Nigeria can come up in terms of design, The most popular forums are ugly. Just name it. From

- American biggest forum(. I.e American version of Nairaland. reddit.com )?
-Ghanian Version (I.e Ghana bas(z)e. Com )?
- Most popular Mobile Forum (I.e Xda-developers.com) ?
- Middle east/ Arab (Araimehqu )? Can't recall actually spelling.

A Visitor that thinks that this is the best Nigeria can come up with is short sighted. Even in China, Japan most forums are ugly go check Baidu Forum ( Chinese version of Google. Most popular site in China is called Baidu, Her forum is called Baidu Forum. )

2. Display Photo Thumbnail

The top left corner of every comment box should include a tiny display photo thumbnail of the poster. I think its uncomfortable that I have to click a poster's user name before I can figure out if he/she has a profile photo or not. In numerous cases posters don't upload their Atmotosphere and clicking on their user id just to check their photos and finding none results in a little feeling of disappointment and anger for wasting precious time and data. In addition to comfort, a crucial benefit of having a display photo thumbnail is the fact that more posters will be encouraged to put up their photos to get noticed easily, and when posters put up their photos they would be compelled to make better comments compared to the trash most posters post when they are hidden. It would definitely boost the quality of contributions made by posters.

I still don't see how your point makes a difference. No offence. Also the idea of thumbnail in my opinion will make the site unnecessarily Bogus and too flashy. Also it will make the site slow.

Every thumbnail be it loaded on Nairaland's CDN (content delivery network) or on a Dropbox server or Windows Azure or Amazon Drive or Google Drive will still have an impact on the speed of accessing / viewing each thread on Nairaland.
Every thumbnail you see will be more than 5kb. Programmatically, every picture with a white background have a content of 1024bytes [ 1kg ] * 5 = 5kg. Then how much colorful background. This in one way or the other will impact on The cost of me viewing Nairaland. Call me a MISER or a Stingy Fellow but I must tell you I don't want to spend 1MB viewing to page of a thread on Nairaland. I can barely afford a N100 day meal not to talk of MB, so also the Majority on NL.

3. Moderating Voting Powers

I think the current system of selecting few moderators to oversee the activities on this site needs to be discarded. A lot of moderators have abused their powers issuing unnecessary bans and also responsible for putting some silly topics on the front page. I think it should be better if every poster on Nairaland is given a mod voting power to vote who gets banned and which topic makes it to the front page. Just like we have a like button where posters click to like posts, we should also have a button for members to vote and collectively have a stake in moderating this site . For instance if a number of votes is accumulated to move a topic to frontpage within a short timeframe, the topic will automatically be moved to the frontage or else if it falls short of the expected number of votes when the time is up the voting will be reset to 0 and starts afresh so that every topic wouldn't keep accumulating front page votes and sending them all to frontpage. I don't know if I am understood here cos I am only trying to show the feasibility of this model.

I understand your point here perfectly. But I have to say, an Utilitarian System of Justice (a system of Justice where the idea of something been good or bad is determined by the vote of the majority.). This is not justice, we no longer live in Rome and nairaland is not a gladiator arena. We are in the 21st century, where rules, laws and regulations are been made and people are expected to Break, twist or bend but not break them.

What am saying sir, is voting system is not the best as it can also be abused. Introduce such and we will see some FACTIONS arising, we will see THE PRO- PDP's on Nairaland going against the PROGRESSIVES like I, we will see a situation of blinded system of justice.

Let me not go further its bad. To introduce such type of Justice. I agree with you that some moderators have abused their powers.

Nairaland Rules and regulations are enough and OK. Its like a constitution.

4. Comment Ranking

Most times when a thread has accumulated about 10 pages of comments we find it hard finding that particular intelligent comment hidden somewhere among the tons of dumb and derailed comments. I think it would be great to sort every comment according to the number of likes they have. The comment with the highest number of likes appears first after the body of the thread and then the comments with the lowest number of likes appears last. The number of likes a comment has most times reflects its quality and vice-versa. The benefit of this is that whenever we open a thread to read, instead of seeing the dumb comments appearing first we instead read the best comments first. In addition, it would make posters eager to post great comments in a bid to make that top spot. I think a dislike button should be added so when posters modify a good post to a bad one the dislike button will be used to withdraw the likes. The dislike button will also serve to enable posters vote to hide offensive comments instantly without waiting for any moderator.

Nooooooooooooo !!!! Don't do this its not right. Sir please you destroying beauty and chronological flow. Ooooooooooo you abuse Simplicity and its unending Joy.

Now bro, I understand what you mean but I havto say the Voting system is mostly used on Questions and Answers site like Qoura.com (biggest question and answer site ), or StackOverflow.com (one of the largest website in the world also questions and answer), Yahoo answers, Google groups.

This ranking system is based on Answers or Opinion that are nice and meaningfull appearing first before others.

Sir, Nairaland is no Question and answer site or does not share same idea as those sites. Also this ranking of comments and changing their position will disrupt coherence of several post. Imagine a User B replying to another User A and User B comment is liked 500times and so becomes first on page. If a visitor should visit that thread and sees user B comment as first he will be confused cause he never understands how the discussion started.

Its like jumping into a talk and you have no idea of what the talk is about. So for me this is a no. If Nairaland had been an Opinion / Question answer site I would have supported this.

5. Reputation Badge

I think every poster here should be able to earn a reputation badge or medal indicating how responsible and a good poster he or she is. This is just to inspire everyone to make quality posts cos no one would like to have a badge beside his name indicating he or she is an irresponsible poster.

These features l listed above I believe can improve the quality and content of Nairaland to a great extent. Seun, I hope you implement the above features and suggestions to upgrade this forum.

Well this is great, As I see it been useful in the business sections, technology market, phone market , web market, programming market, fashion market and all kind of market place on Nairaland. It will help people identify fake buyers or sellers or dubious nairalanders.


But, you should know even at this there will still be Nairalanders who in need of bad reputation. Also sir I will like to know what logic, you will want seun to use in creating this Reputation Badge system idea.

Reason I ask is that all logic I think off have short comings

1. In Some websites, the older the User have registered the more his reputation. (Hmmm this means people like Marieolae who just registered September and have become famous on romance will be considered not famous)

2. Voting system, hmmm this can be abused but it's the most logical way.

3. I can't recall the Name but its the biggest forum for the Middle East. In that forum the more the number of Mentions the more popularity you get. (I think this is good. As I can't find a logical flaw with this yet).


Let me stop here, I will please like you to reply me on Point No 5.

Wow I love this thread.


I also choose to go to Hell Fire than Heaven. There is no Hell Fire

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@ Ahmed

Walahi u no try y u no invite me?? Kai I dey vess.
Yaya? kwana biu

shinaf:


You don agree say I pass u ? Lol!

Yes I agree before na. That guy is one smart chines seller I go always respect. But him dei do like dummy, so you will underestimate him.

I like him though.

shinaf:
The jerseys Are original.

Small tip.

When discussing with the seller please prove to him say u sabi wella. The guy can outsmart you ooooo. Lol!!


The seller is so very smart so please talk with caution.

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cyif2003:
"Psycho verification. Cloth seller"

I have decided to change the way it will go. I will paste it here. For everyone to contact them.

I will also paste the flash drive seller here. Everyone can make money.

In some few minutes shinaf will post them.

BAWSElady:
Are you for real?

No I was trying to evade her question

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cyif2003:
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Contact me I will get you shinaf seller. He does all sport jersey.

Am proud of you Hadizy.

Nice innovaton.

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dunkem21:
^Ymodulus. If you have N50m, how much will you spend on your wedding?

Ok. Very good question. Like 150,000 naira should be enough. Thats if i spend ooooooo.


Lol!!!

If i spend 5 million on wedding alone, the day her mum comes to my house and she ask for transport fare. Na her leg she go use waka go house

5 million on a wedding is too much. Thats money will buy me 3 new Cars.


Emba nu

@YoungZedd

For a lot of people, I think it’s a matter of priorities: they’ve thought things through and the idea of a big wedding and all that goes with it (fun times with family, a great party and so on) is worth it. The experience of the perfect wedding is worth more than the alternatives of where they can spend that money.

At the end of the day, its a matter of personal choices, as it should be. If your financial priority is your wedding, that’s fine. You should be able to throw the rockingest party you can. The problems creep in when we think about the fact that not everyone manages their finances perfectly. Not everyone saves up money to pay for their wedding ahead of time or budget for what they can afford to spend. Some people choose to go pretty deep into debt in order to have the wedding of their dreams and wind up paying even more in interest, not to mention causing damage to their credit.

The idea of massive debt for one day of fun — charging an amount equivalent to at least a down payment on a house, if not most of the total cost — is what bothers me.




Divorce and Refunds.
I dont know but i believe that no of years together does not guaranty long term marriage.

However if you do need a refund or want to abscond fron responsibilities or settling the lady or sharing properties after payment, A PRENUP is always the way to go.


Me

I wont spend more than a 100k on a wedding party. In my wedding i will just go to the court sign documents. Invite 10- 15 friends and get. Food from an eatery. Thats all.

micynute94:
The story is complex and has a lot of different meaning depending on the angle u view it from..

The story i narrated has to do with people doing things other does or said should b done in a particular way without questioning it with regards to d situation that prompted the action or the "said word" by the leaders they follow blindly and how it relates to d present situation they are in

P.S: I am using a religious angle

P.P.S S: Hope u grab that..??

Correct

micynute94:
One day, a little girl out of curiosity of always watching her mother cut the head of a fish away before frying it asked for d reason.
Her mother told her that's how it has always been prepared and her mother and grandmother do it like that.
So the girl not satisfied with the answer went to her mother's grandmother and repeated d question she asked her mother.
She was told that the reason for cutting the head of d fish before frying was simply because her frying pan couldn't couldnt contain all d fish so she has to have the heads cut off.
The little girl now armed with this answer realised that the cutting of d fish heads before frying has to do with necessity rather than it being the proper way of frying a fish.

So nothing stops u from frying the fish with the head intact if u have a larger frying pan or pot.

Hope u guys understand d meaning of wat i wrote?


Happy Sunday 2 u all

Wow i was lost seriously.

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