I am currently dating a gorgeous 27 year old banker and things have been going great for about two months now until I started noticing some things that are getting me worried. It started about a week ago when she stopped taking my calls at the first ring, I would call for three or four times before she takes it and even then she wouldn't apologise. If I asked her why she didn't pick she would say she did it on purpose so that I would get angry that since we started dating that she has not seen me angry. I asked her why she would want to see me angry and she said that if I don't get angry or shout at her it means that I don't love her. I was like whaaaat.??
One day she didn't take my call all day and she didn't call back. I was distressed, I thought maybe something had happened to her and even called her colleague to know if she was Okay the colleague said she was fine but when I asked her to give her the phone she told me she said she didn't want to talk to me. I kept calling and later at Night she took my call and out of anger I shouted on her and asked her why she did that (I was really angry and even wanted to end the relationship instantly) she laughed hard and said YES that it is now that she knows that I am serious and started apologising still laughing under her breath. I cut the call out of anger and instantly she called back and we talked for 11mins all the while she was apologising. Later that night she sent me a goodnight text something she had not done in ages and even sent me a Whatsapp text around 1am that she couldn't sleep because she was thinking about me, I was sleepy so I replied “go to bed it's 1am, log off immediately” she replied “yes sir” and asked if I would seize her phone if she refused to go off and I wrote yes. Instantly she begged me not to seize her phone, first thing in the morning she called me and still apologised for waking me up.
Now fast forward to last tuesday she said she will come over for the weekend and told me that she wants me to beat her very well when she comes so that she will know that I am a real man and I really love her. I told her that I have no reason to beat her and she said she will give me a reason and she hasn't taken my call since then and has even sent me one nonsense text just to spite me and make me beat her when she comes. Anytime I shout on her or threaten to slap her she will laugh silently, the other day in the car she tried to mock-slap me so that I would get angry and slap her back. I am a Beta male (as against the Alpha male) and I know better than to hit a woman. she just enjoys it when I rough handle her which I don't enjoy since its painful.
What do I do people, I am soo confused.

caesaraba:


Haba! Be putting the 's' na! Eh! That thing dy pain eye abeg. Haba!!!!!!!

Hahahahahah, bros no vex abeg na typo.

Slimzjoe:
Why the Hate Talk?? Linda Did nothing wrong except Informing us.

Make She Pack abeg...Getting married to a Portrait is Absurd.

You just said my mind, Getting married to an enlarged picture and thinking it Love. mtcheew.

TUBLEZ:
dey their dey hate u think everyone is a scammer like u..instead of u to do research on d genuity

Hahahahahhahahaha,
Genuity ko, generation ni.

lyntiffany:
you've just said it all but will blame the guys also cos they tend to lick the àss of girls that are flashy but numbskull upstairs leaving the smart, humble and the intelligent ones that comes their way. Sometimes I wonder what could be the reason ?

I just gave the key to the world, anybody that still goes for the beautiful dumbass does that at his own detriment.

Hahahhahahaha,
No go find work, dey there dey find who you go scam.

And what do I get in return

In as much as I am human with emotions, I feel pity for Majek but with the economic situation in Nigeria and wonderful level of unemployment in the public sector, I do not subscribe to the idea of running a charity on a man that practically shot his riches up his arms. He was huge, he was rich but he wasted it living the COOL life. I think he should be left to wallow and serve as a direction to the new breed of celebrities.

Besides there are lots of people out there that need that money, people with life threatening conditions and not a man in perfect health that practically threw himself from grace into the painful claws of grass.

Evathyst:
Dude! Don't waste your time the answers are right in front of you.


Just pray to be rich, or at least be comfortable and there wouldn't be any problem btw u two. But that illusion u'r having of meeting a perfect lady na film-trick o.

Noo, I disagree with you right there. The worst kind of dark side like you rightly called it is materialism. You know why.?? because it grows. it's insatiable.
Lemme paint you a picture. You earn a million she makes her hair in the hundreds of thousands, you earn a billion, she graduates to making her hair in the millions. Now she wants a pent-house apartment. Now she wants a Veyron. It just keeps growing.
And ooo yes, there are nice girls out there. Very very nice girls. Near flawless. We just have to open our eyes and see past the face and booty and look for real substance.

benjaminiyke:
Very nice Observations...I love my girlfriend so much but she's too materialistic;I send her 10k to 5k every month for reasons I can't fathom,am unemployed and the only thing I have now are my savings but she won't understand,she wants to wear nice clothes,shoes and expensive hairs. As long as I meet her demands she's happy but as soon as I tell her I don't have money to send,she begins to feel I don't love her. Recently I told her about my plan to travel abroad for my PHD program and she was very excited, she even promised to marry me immediately i come back to Nigeria,but unfortunately things didn't go according to plan and I had to delay my plans for the foreseeable future,when I told her about my decision She felt bad and told me she doesn't know if we will still marry based on my decision not to travel abroad because i promise her an Iphone 6 as soon as I get there. She treats me well and respects me but how can I deal with these are materialistic attitude? Your advice is most appreciated. Thanks

Dude, throw her farther than the seven seas (metaphorically). She isn't right for you. just dump her materialistic ass. O God this is the worst of it.

Denmark vs Serbia. Half time X.

Hahahahahahhahahahahaha, Oga Dokubo how market.
Na beg you dey beg.?? thought you used to threaten fire and brimstone. Now na Rule of Law you dey seek.?? Heiyaaaaaa. Sorry oooo

Hahahahahahhahahahahaha, Oga Dokubo how market.
Na beg you dey beg.?? thought you used to threaten fire and brimstone. Now na Rule of Law you dey seek.?? Heiyaaaaaa. Sorry oooo

chosen04:
....Enugu and Calabar does not have refinery so STOP fooling yourself

If you do have a brain to comprehend written English, You would see where I wrote the words “am not sure about Calabar and Enugu”.

Fix your defunct life. We are not intellectual equals.

Bifwoli:
A refinery is a COMPLEX with pipes,chemical reactions ,separators , cooling chambers plus environmental regulations to meet ..and they cost billions.Even the USA hasn't built a new refinery in the last 30yrs due complex issues.

Now this ignorant Buhari dullard and his simplistic semi literate followers wanna make us believe they can bring refineries online on short notice?

Hahahaha,even the illiterate Brazilian forest tribes are laughing at y'all.

Cow relax, we already have these refineries in place. I am sure of one in Kaduna, One in Port Harcourt, I am not too sure of Calabar but then one in Enugu. Fixing it or making it operational has been the problem. NOW CHANGE HAS COME.

Atikubi:
R.I.P. But Ibu doesn't seem to be in mourning mood

The woman lived up to 90 years. Why on earth would you expect him to mourn.??

COYG

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