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Jobs/Vacancies / N-power Reveals Additional Processes After Application by youngdav(m): 1:31pm On Jun 30, 2017
The N-Power portal reopened for registration on Tuesday​ June 13, 2017​.​

​​The ​application, which has steps to be followed, ends on July 13th 2017.

In a tweet Friday morning on N-Power‏ twitter handle, @npower_ng, the programme explained that submission of application does not conclude the process.

The clarification might be in response to the perception of those who believe their entry for the programme guarantees a placement.

N-Power tweeted “To avoid some of the issues of the 2016 applications, 2017 applicants will have to go through the process listed below. (i.e aside application and BVN validation, applicants will go through Test, Pre-Selection, Physical Verification, Selection, Deployment)

Only applicants whose BVN records match their applications will move to the assessment stage.

“It is very important that 2017 applicants stay tuned to our social media channels for updates.”

The N-Power Volunteer Corps is part of the Federal government’s Social Investment Programmes, under which it plans to hire 350,000 unemployed graduates.

Source :http://www.eleganceng.com/n-power-reveals-additional-processes-after-application/
Health / Must Read! Sugar Addicts… Here’s How To Cut Down by youngdav(m): 2:30pm On Jun 29, 2017
A lot of people have a serious sugar addiction and anyone who’s ever tried to cut sugar from their diet will tell you how difficult it is. I’m here to reassure you that it’s a lot harder than it sounds. Ok maybe I’m just speaking for myself; I definitely find it a struggle. However there are ways to gradually reduce your intake and ultimately phase it out completely.

On average we can consume up to 23 teaspoons of sugar per day, some consume more. Make no mistake; cutting down is a necessity, not a punishment. Most people know the dangers of sugar consumption and these same people (myself included) don’t apply it to their lives.


Eating too much sugar is bad for your health. You’ve heard it many times before. Excessive consumption can increase your risk for obesity, heart disease and a host of other health complications. The World Health Organisation recommends the average adult consume no more than 25 grams of sugar a day, but exceeding this is all too easy.
A single can of Coca-Cola, for instance, packs 39 grams of the stuff. And added sugar sneaks into unsuspecting edibles, like hamburgers and “healthy” Greek yogurts. Cutting back on your sugar intake is a smart choice, but it’s tough to know where to start. If you’re looking to slow down, start with a few of the tweaks below. Introduce them to your everyday routine, and eventually they’ll turn into a habit.

Make over your morning coffee
The two sugars you routinely put into your cup of joe can add up. Try reducing the amount of sugar you use little by little, and rely on full-fat dairy to provide satisfaction. See if your taste buds respond well to cinnamon; the spice pairs perfectly with coffee’s nutty hints, and is, above all, sugar free.

Quit your soft drink habit
Diet or regular, drinking any kind of soft drink promotes weight gain and amplifies sugar cravings. We’ve mentioned that a standard can of Coke contains 39 grams of sugar, enough to fill a person’s daily-recommended intake and then some. And even though the diet kind has no sugar marked on its label, it won’t do any good in the war against sugar. The artificial sweeteners in these drinks lead people to overeat, or overcompensate, for the lack of calories contained in the beverages.
Artificial sweeteners don’t offer the same hunger-dampening biological rewards that natural sweeteners do, causing the drinker to seek out something caloric. The sweetness in both diet and non-diet soda prompts side effects similar to addiction, making drinkers crave more sugar.
Snack on something healthy before food shopping

Researchers have found that snacking on something nutritious before supermarket shopping, like an apple, can actually encourage shoppers to purchase 25 percent more fruits and vegetables than they normally would. Fewer sugary items in your cart means there will be fewer sugary items at home, and fewer sugary items in your belly.
Avoid the sugary aisles
Now that you’ve had your apple, stick to the outer aisles of the supermarket, where conventional stores place the produce, meat and seafood departments, the foods you should focus on. If you avoid the aisles that contain shelves of near-irresistible sugary sweets, you’ll be less likely to buy them.
Find a new favorite condiment
Ketchup is a miracle flavor, but one of the reasons we all love it so much could be because it contains a whole lot of sugar. The sad reality is that dousing your fries in the red stuff is comparable to pouring a couple sugar packets on top. If you’re already eating fries, consider switching to a condiment with less sugar, like mustard or vinegar, instead.
Drink more water
Are you sure you’re hungry? Thirst and dehydration can often disguise themselves as hunger. To determine whether you’re actually hungry or simply thirsty, drink a cup of water and wait a moment. If you’re feeling good, your body was probably trying to tell you it was parched.
Avoid dried fruit
When given the choice, choose fresh over dried fruit. Dried fruit boasts many of the same benefits of its plumper counterparts, but removing a food’s water content concentrates the amount of sugar and calories per serving. A cup of grapes, for instance, contains 15 grams of sugar and around 60 calories. A cup of raisins contains 98 grams of sugar and nearly 500 calories.

Make your own salad dressing
Even if they taste savory, bottled salad dressings typically contain lots of sugar. Two tablespoons of Kraft’s Tuscan House Italian dressing, for example, contains two grams. This seems pretty minuscule, but chances are you’ll be dousing your greens in a serving way over two measly tablespoons. Making your own dressing at home is incredibly easy, and cheap! It will help you control how much sugar you’re ingesting when you’re eating something as healthy-seeming as a salad.

Here are some quick-fire sugar reduction tips:
Sweeten Yogurt Naturally
Fruit-on-the-bottom yogurts can contain almost 30 grams of sugar, much of it added. Try to opt for plain and mix in blueberries or sprinkle on cinnamon. That’s 2-4 teaspoons of sugar reduced per day.

Snack On Whole Foods And Grains
Instead of energy bars, candy, and cookies, eat nuts, vegetables, and fiber-rich fruits (like apples, pears, and berries) or whole grains, like popcorn. You would be reducing your sugar intake by 5-10 teaspoons full.

Dilute Your Fruit Juice
Fruit drinks account for about 10 percent of the added sugar in our diets. Mix your juice with an equal amount of water and you’ll halve the calories.

Change Your Cereal
Shelve the Frosties for steel-cut oats. Stir in a half scoop of vanilla protein powder for a sweetness kick. You’ll add about 10 grams of protein and save 2-4 teaspoons of sugar.
To quote a movie series that I tried to get into, may the odds be forever in your favour! I will also be trying to create habits from some of these, so good luck to us all

Source : http://www.eleganceng.com/must-read-sugar-addicts-heres-how-to-cut-down/
Romance / Best Way Ever!! 9 Ways To Break Up With Your Girlfriend Nicely by youngdav(m): 12:14am On Jun 29, 2017
Breaking up is hard when you don’t know what to tell her or how to end it. Find out how to break up with your girlfriend without hurting her.

There are many ways to break up with a girlfriend.

And none of them are easy, well, except for the coward’s way.

But rather than put up with a relationship that only causes you pain, sometimes it’s better to end it and move on.

If you’re indeed convinced that you can’t ever be happy in the relationship, or if you find yourself fantasizing about ways to end it, this may be for you.

Break ups are never easy to handle, be it a man or a woman.

It’s painful, heart breaking and worst of all, anyone who’s dumped by their partner is consumed by shame and depression.

If you still care about your girlfriend, look for ways to bring the love back into your lives.

But if everything you try fails, or if you only end up feeling more frustrated each time you try to hold the relationship together, brace yourself and end it.

– Ways To Break Up With Your Girlfriend Nicely –

There are different ways to break up with a girlfriend, some are easy and some ways are difficult.

But if you do want to know how to break up with your girlfriend gracefully without hurting her a lot, here’s the man way’s to end a relationship.

To break up with her like a man, you need to keep her feelings in mind and try to end the relationship in the nicest way possible. After all, chivalry does exist even in the middle of a break up.

1. Talk to her about the relationship

If you find that both of you are constantly arguing with each other over the smallest of things, there’s obviously something unresolved in the air.

If either of you can’t wait to pick a fight for no reason at all, or find yourselves getting annoyed with each other every now and then, perhaps, it’s time to have a frank conversation and understand the real reason behind all the animosity.

2. Don’t throw in an unexpected break up

If breakups are bad, unexpected breakups can just be horrible to bear. Never surprise your girlfriend with an unexpected break up, it can hurt a lot especially if she’s completely in the dark about the news and never expected it in the first place.

3. Ask for her opinion

If you’re trying to break up with your girlfriend, talk about it with her. When you’re having a conversation about your relationship after one of those big fights, ask for her opinion on the relationship.

Stay calm and ask her if she thinks it would be better if both of you were friends instead of lovers.

“I’ve been thinking about this… do you think we’re better off being friends? We’re working so hard on holding this relationship together, and still find ourselves in arguments all the time. Staying in love really shouldn’t be so difficult. I wonder where we’re going wrong…”

Throwing in an open ended question in a subtle manner can actually help your girlfriend understand where you’re going with the conversation. By talking about it with her instead of making a statement, you’re making her feel involved in the decision. It’ll be easier to handle. Mutual decisions are always easier to handle.

4. Is she ready to break up?

If she thinks the relationship is going nowhere too, then it’s all smooth and easy. And the best part, you’re not breaking her heart in one blow because it’s a mutual decision.

But if she isn’t ready to end the relationship and tells you that she wants to work on it, what do you intend to do? If you do care about your girlfriend, give the relationship a few weeks to see if things get better. Relationships always have a great way of healing themselves just when there’s no hope for love.

But if you want to break up with your girlfriend because you like someone else or just don’t see any reason in holding on, tell her the truth that you don’t see it working out.

Never lose your cool, and always speak in a calm and composed manner, even if your girlfriend gets angry with your decision.

5. Let her know of your special place

If even a few weeks of prolonging hasn’t helped your relationship, then speak about it again and ask your girlfriend what she thinks about the relationship. Tell her that you’re not very happy and think that perhaps, being friends is still the best way forward. Love is almost effortless, and never a chore. If you have to work a lot on trying to find happiness together, perhaps both of you are just incompatible.

Tell your girlfriend that you think being happy friends with each other would be a better alternative than lovers who end up hating each other. Let her know that you’ll cherish all the memories both of you have shared, and there will always be a special place for her in your heart. By letting her know that she’ll always be remembered fondly, she’ll find it easier to handle it, and it’s a lot better than a painful breakup with harsh words.

6. End it with finality

If you’re certain that you don’t intend to get back together, make it clear without being too harsh.

“I really do think we’ll find it a lot easier to be friends. We’ve been through this before. We break up and end up falling back in love all the time. But we’ve never been happy… and I don’t see how things can change anymore… I wish it could be different, but I don’t see that happening anymore.”

By ending it with an explanation, you’re letting her know clearly that you don’t want to continue the relationship anymore. Don’t ever give her hope. It’ll only create a complicated relationship which will only cause both of you more pain.

7. Be willing to be friends

Exes never make good friends. So once you do break up, it’s probably the end of the relationship. But leave the option to her. Let her know that you’ll always be there for her as a friend. Tell her that she could call you if she wants, but it would be better to avoid each other for a while until the wounds heal. Remind her that you love her too, but seeing that there’s no happy ending in sight, you see no option but to end the relationship before it becomes too painful to handle for either of you.

8. Tell her what’s on your mind

Be frank, but don’t be hurtful. Tell her you’ll always be there for her as a friend, as long she needs you. Don’t walk away on her after telling her how you feel about the relationship.

Walking away from a bitter or hurt new ex-girlfriend may seem like the right thing to do. But you have to remember that she may not be ready for the news. The thought of the sudden loneliness and the pain of having to hear about the break up may hurt her a lot. Stay with her until she feels better. If she accepts, be willing to even drive her back to her place. It’ll help her deal with the pain just knowing that you’re still willing to be there by her side, as a friend.

But if she walks away from you after the break up, let her go. Call her best friend if you must and tell her about it. Ask her friend to speak with your girlfriend and help her feel better.

9. Breaking up with your girlfriend like a man

You may ask yourself if it’s really necessary to follow all these steps. You could skip them if you want to. But as a real man who cares about a girl he once loved, it’s still his responsibility to help her get back on her feet, however much it may hurt him in the process.

Source : http://www.eleganceng.com/best-way-ever-9-ways-to-break-up-with-your-girlfriend-nicely/
Health / 6 Provoking Ways You Are Endangering Your Health, No 5 Will Amaze You . by youngdav(m): 12:07am On Jun 29, 2017
Health they say is wealth. Unfortunately, so many people treat their health status as unimportant. There are some day-day mistakes/acts you engage in that could actually be detrimental to your health.

Treating your health as a basic necessity makes you totally fit.

Below are some provoking ways you could endanger your health.

1.Poor Eating Habit

This is one aspect people tend to ignore. When you eat right, your health feels right. Fruits, vegetables are important part of healthy living. You don’t necessarily have to eat heavy meals or even complete the three square meal, but it is necessary to have a complete balanced diet.

When poor eating habit lingers on for long, it affects your mental and physical being. Excess fat is not right for the body. Try to eat less, avoid oversize portions, and replace sugary drinks with water. So many people are unnecessarily overweight.

2. Little or no exercise

The importance of exercise can never be overlooked. so many people are guilty of it, especially those in office environments. It does not take much of your time when you stretch your hands and legs. Sitting on the same spot for long hours could later lead to stroke, fat accumulation and so on.

Even if you don’t have an office job, take out time to walk round the house, register at a gym center just to keep fit.

3. Excessive thinking

It is not a big deal when you think and have time alone,it becomes an issue when you do it often. Excessive thinking could lead to depression if not checked. “Those likely to internalize stress are in greater danger; research has shown a benefit to laughter and social support,” Dr. Reynolds says. It is good to be in control of your thoughts, before they have a troll on you.

4. Reckless Lifestyle

This is also way people, especially youths endanger themselves. Excess alcohol is linked to a greater risk of high blood pressure, high levels of blood fats, and heart failure.

In addition, the extra calories can lead to weight gain, a threat to heart health. Smoking, extra loud music, keeping a sad face constantly is unhealthy and also a way of endangering your health.

5. Isolation from the world

So many people like to act like sadist. They shut down the world an create like a barrier between themselves and those around them. The importance of always having someone to talk to is deep.

People with stronger connections to family, friends, and society in general tend to live longer, healthier lives. They hardly have many things to worry about, everything just feels perfect. Everyone needs alone time, but you should still reach out to others and keep in touch whenever you can.

6. Stiffness

Truth is, we have our days when everything feels not so right, when worries takes a great part of our lives, but we shouldn’t let this completely affect us. Some people take life so seriously and hardly find time to relax and chill. It doesn’t hurt to go see movies, visit friends or amusement parks. Enjoy life and take it one step at a time.

Source :http://www.eleganceng.com/6-provoking-ways-you-are-endangering-your-health-no-5-will-amaze-you/

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Health / Must See! The 9 Dangerous Brain-damaging Habits You Need To Stop Immediately by youngdav(m): 9:52pm On Jun 26, 2017
It is so funny that “the one organ in our body that thinks is often the one we think less about.

The brain is an incredibly important body part, as it is one of the biggest one in the body and represents the main control center. It has multiple functions, responsibilities, and tasks, as well as lots of information stored”.

The brain is the most important organ in the body and it is high time we all start pay more attention to its health and welfare.

Below are some habits that harm the brain you might not be aware of:

Not sleeping well, lack of sleep is an habit that significantly hurt your brain. “It affects the hippo-campus which causes a deficit that automatically leads to forgetfulness”.

“Alone time can be great for thinking, reflection and mapping out your dreams and goals but when the solitude is too much it can damage the mind and body, it can typically cause brain decline, affect the quality and efficiency of sleep making it less restorative, erode arteries, create high blood pressure, undermine learning and memory and generally take a toll on health; although, most of these effects are gradual and experienced over the course of time”.

Eating too much junk food affects the part of brain that is linked to learning, memory and mental health.

“Playing loud music with earphones or headphones, placing the volume of your earphone or headphone at full volume can permanently damage your hearing, it can also cause brain problems involving loss of memory or inability to remember things easily, and loss of brain tissue in your later years, this is most likely because the brain has to work so hard to understand what’s being said around you that it can hardly store what you’ve heard into your memory”.

Because the body was made to move and the longer you remain unmoving and inactive it becomes more likely you are going to suffer from diseases like diabetes, heart diseases, stroke, dementia and high blood pressure which can all negatively affect the brain in the long run. “You don’t have to start high intensity workouts or start running marathons, just take a walk around your house more often or engage in an activity that gets you moving”.

Apart causing lung problems, smoking can also shrinks the brain, it makes the memory worse, makes one more forgetful and leads to problems like heart disease, dementia, diabetes, stroke, high blood pressure, lung cancer etc.

Overeating can lead to obesity which has been linked to different brain problems.

Staying indoor or in the dark for a long period, for better brain health it is important to expose yourself to natural light as often as you can as this will help prevent depression and keep your brain working well. “Staying in the dark or without natural light for prolonged periods, can slow your brain and cause a decline in the brain”.

Covered your head while sleeping will reduce your intake of oxygen during the night and while sleeping, one cannot feel the light-headedness or air deprivation, it also increase your risk of inhaling excess carbon dioxide.

Source: http://www.eleganceng.com/must-see-the-9-dangerous-brain-damaging-habits-you-need-to-stop-immediately/

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Phones / What To Do If Your Smartphone Is Not Detecting Your SD Card (memory Card) by youngdav(m): 9:45pm On Jun 26, 2017
Solution 1 – gently rub the SD card

Maybe the reason why your SD card isn’t being detected is because
it’s covered with dirt. Follow the steps below to clean it up.
Take your external memory card off your Android smartphone or
tablet. Make sure that your device is turned off as you do this.

Use a white colored rubber eraser to rub the copper piece ( gold
yellow color ) on your MicroSD card.
Once you’re quite sure it’s clean, plug it back into the memory
slot and then turn your android smartphone or tablet on.

With any luck, it should work now and you shouldn’t have any more
problems with your MicroSD card not being detected on your handset.
But if the problem persists, move on to the second solution below

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Solution 2 – erase SD card
This is the part where you delete everything on your external storage.
Follow the steps below.
Open the ‘ Settings ’ app on your device and then go to Storage .
Find the ‘ Erase SD card ’ option and tap on it. This deletes all data
and makes it look like a new memory.
In many cases, completely erasing the SD card has solved the
problem. But if it doesn’t work for you, move on to the third possible
solution below.

Solution 3 – use your PC to diagnose
At this stage, you need to do something more technical than just
wiping your MicroSD card or erasing its data.

Connect your Android device to a PC or laptop via the USB cable.
Ensure that the device is connected as MSC (Mass storage
mode) , not MTP (Media transfer mode) .
Launch windows explore on your PC and right click on the
MicroSD card driver. In the options that appear, choose
Properties>Tools>Error Checking . Wait for the process to
complete.
After completion, eject your SD card and put it back into the
memory slot on your phone or tablet. Check whether it works.

Solution 4 – format your SD card
In the case that your MicroSD card is being detected on the PC, but
not showing on your smartphone, go ahead and try this fix.
Create a folder on your PC’s hard disk storage, and name it as
you like. This folder will be used as a temporary storage to
backup files on your damaged card.
Paste the entire content of your microSD card into this folder.

Format your microSD card.
Once the format process is complete, copy back your data from
the folder into the microSD card.
Put it into your phone and check whether it’s showing.

If it doesn’t work, try repeating the steps again.
For most Android devices, any of these fixes should clear the SD card
not detected issue. For some devices, though, the problem could be
much more complicated, and you need to explore solutions that are
specific to that device to get help.

Source: http://www.eleganceng.com/what-to-do-if-your-smartphone-is-not-detecting-your-sd-card-memory-card/

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Romance / MUST SEE: Things You Shouldn’t Mention On The First Date by youngdav(m): 8:47pm On Jun 26, 2017
In most cases, men just don’t watch what they say on a date. Of course, you can talk about anything with your friends, but when chatting with a girl, you need to be careful.

It should be remembered that the purpose of the date is to awaken the companion’s interest in the conversation and, ultimately, to you. Here is a list of topics you should avoid on the first date.

10) Health problems
Your health problems won’t interest a woman. Don’t think that you’ll win her heart by saying that you, for example, have chronic heartburn. This can only work with innocuous, problems, like an arm or leg fracture.

9) Technical terminology
Women can’t stand incomprehensible words. If you use a lot of abstruse terms, she’ll think that you’re too busy with your work; otherwise, you’re trying to make a fool of her.

cool Ex-girlfriends: Never mention your ex-girlfriends in conversation on the first date. It’s important for many reasons, for instance, because you can accidentally reveal your disadvantages. Don’t even start telling how you cheated on your ex or how annoying she was because she called you several times a day. On the first date, it’s necessary to build a basis for further relationships. A woman should think that you have cut all emotional ties with the past and move forward.

7) Sports
Here is the axiom of the modern world: most women hate sports as much as men love it. Although it’s pretty understandable that you want to share your passion for football or hockey with her, perhaps she won’t show as much enthusiasm. And your knowledge of the results of all recent games will not make her think you smart.

6) Bad stories about traveling
It should be a really exciting story; otherwise, it will be boring. The stories about how you missed the bus or how you got into the turbulence during the flight are not considered exciting. There is a high probability that after your story, she’ll start telling hers, and the evening will be spoiled. Thus, you’ll lose time and the opportunity to start a new relationship.

5) Everyday life
There’s nothing interesting in most of what you did today, at least for a woman you are not familiar with yet. To make fun of everyday things, you need to know each other well. Also, too much discussion of TV programs, movies, etc., should also be avoided.

4) People she does not know
You can ruin a date if you start talking about people your new companion doesn’t know. If it’s someone you like, a friend or someone closer, she’ll either start judging you according to her opinion of the person you are telling her about, or she’ll start comparing herself to that person. If it’s someone you don’t like, there’s a chance that you’ll come across as a fierce and nervous person. In other words, your bad side will become visible.

3) Cars Any five-year-old child will tell you: boys play with cars, girls play with dolls. Stories about the engines and the original designs of cars, which men find exciting, are annoying for women.

2) Too much love for pets: Sure, puppies are a good topic for conversation, but only for neighbors walking their dogs. A woman doesn’t need to know what a lovely puppy your dog was. Owning a cute pet will not make you attractive. People who love their pets may just hide the fact that communicating with people is difficult to them. And you don’t want the girl to suspect anything like that, right?

1) Sex
Talking about the best positions in sex on the first date is like talking about your favorite cocktail at a job interview. Don’t rush things, or a girl may think that you are not serious, unsure of yourself, or even that you are a pervert. Don’t try to take the initiative and start a “mature” talk about sex, because she is unlikely to take it seriously.

Source:http://www.eleganceng.com/must-see-things-you-shouldnt-mention-on-the-first-date/
Romance / Things To Expect When You Date A Broke Guy ( A Must Read) by youngdav(m): 8:37pm On Jun 26, 2017
While ladies would always say they can’t date broke guys, there are those that don’t mind doing so.

That he does not have a job at the moment or that he’s down on his luck does not disqualify him from finding love; and if you find yourself falling for a guy like this, here are 5 things you need to know

1. Be certain

You cannot go into this kind of relationship based on half-baked convictions. Hell no.

You need to be pretty sure that this is what you want, and that you are prepared for whatever comes out of it.

People – friends and family – will question your decision to do this and if your stand isn’t solid enough, you might waver.

You also need to be reasonably sure of the kind of guy you’re about to date.

Frankly, while it is admirable that your doesn’t care about his financial status at the moment, you still need to be sure of his drive and desire to not be broke for too long.

What’s his attitude towards getting his finances right?

It’d be catastrophic to say you love someone who is broke now and sits on his behind without plan and effort to break free from his present situation.

2. There’ll be inconveniences

There’ll be that, and there’ll also be sacrifices.

You know those things that your former boyfriend used to do because he could afford it? Sorry, this new guy won’t be able to.

You know those great, cute gifts your friends get from their boyfriends and post on Instagram? Sorry ma’am, you might not be able to post them for a while.

And hey, you might also have to share some of your salary with him while he’s still waiting to find his feet. It comes with the territory.

3. The sex is [always] on point

Ok. It’s not like there is empirical evidence or some stat to back up this assertion, but word on the streets support it.

It is believed that broke guys somehow have mad sex skills and often try to make up for their financial weakness with sexual prowess.

4. It could end in disaster

I’m sorry to be the bearer of bad news but the fact that you stood by a guy when he has nothing is not assurance that your love will be forever.

It’s cruel and sad, but that’s how it is.

You could run all the supportive girlfriend scheme, you could be loyal and faithful and prayerful and you could even hand him your ATM card and he’ll still do you dirty when he hits it big.

See, some guys don’t even wait to hammer before they start to misbehave. You’ll be funding him, and he’ll be using your own money to cheat on you.

This is the kind of stuff that happens, guys.

Let’s just hope it doesn’t happen to you.

Source:http://www.eleganceng.com/things-to-expect-when-you-date-a-broke-guy-a-must-read/
Romance / Here Are The 5 Ways To Make Your Partner Strongly Addicted To You by youngdav(m): 8:24pm On Jun 26, 2017
People change, feelings change and life itself changes. The only thing that remains constant is change.

It is possible for you to be in a relationship where you or your partner feel unbothered about the other person’s absent. This comes with worries and insecurity, when your partner does not feel scared of losing you or there is no sense of connection.

People change, feelings change and life itself changes. The only thing that remains constant is change. It is possible for you to be in a relationship where you or your partner feel unbothered about the other person’s absent.

This comes with worries and insecurity, when your partner does not feel scared of losing you or there is no sense of connection. There are things you could do to make your partner strongly addicted to you.

1. Great sense of humour : People with a great sense of humour mostly have luck with relationships. When your partner finds you amusing enough, it becomes difficult searching for fun elsewhere. Your sense of humour keeps them around you always. It is important that you or your partner find comfort and ease in each other. It is easier to give more time to someone that catches your interest than someone you struggle with.

2. Be a Great Listener ; So many people miss it here; They talk more than they listen. A relationship is about two people that are ready to make it work. You must be ready to pay attention to your partner.

When you become a great listener, your partner sees the need to always talk to you, they find it relaxing talking to you. Effective listening ears makes it all worth it. You automatically become a shoulder to lean on. Communicate effectively with your partner, it strengthens the bond in the relationship.

3. Be Spontaneous : Nobody likes someone that is not ready or wiling to learn new stuffs. Be a flexible partner that is ready to take up new ideas. It becomes boring when you do same thing over and over again.

Your partner wants you to be able to come home early, make nice delicacies, pay bills, think of trips, date out and many more. When you take out the fun in a relationship, it becomes a burden. Do some unpredictable things together, it makes your relationship a place of warmth.

4. Develop Connection : One sure way to get your partner strongly connected is to develop a strong connection. This could be physical, emotional or mental. The physical connection is what you feel when you are around your partner, the way you express yourself physically through words, cuddling, body contacts and admiration.

Emotional connection is that which runs through your mind when you think of your partner. This is what you feel for your partner, it must be developed. Mental connection is ability to share ideas together, be available to solve issues and so on.

5. Be Involved : Nothing makes a person more addicted than having a partner that is involved. Make sure you are strongly involved in their future plans and goals. Work towards helping your partner achieve their set goals.

Help your partner feel better, assure them that you have their back always. When you get involved in your partner’s life, it becomes easier to relate and think of way forward. Get familiar with friends and family members of your partner, it shows level of your commitment to a certain level.

These are some of the ways to get your partner strongly addicted to you. It is not so easy settling with just one person for a very long time, it becomes boring at a point. But there are certain things to be done to ensure the connection is still intact.

Read through the points listed above and you realize you don’t only have a relationship, but you have a partner that is strongly addicted

Comments are welcomed!!.

Source:http://www.eleganceng.com/here-are-the-5-ways-to-make-your-partner-strongly-addicted-to-you/

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