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The Economic and Financial Crimes Commission, Ibadan Office has arrested thirty-six suspected internet fraudsters at 21, Sawmill Road Awa-Ijebu, Ogun State. The suspected cyber criminals who are between 19 and 37 years of age include: twenty-three students of Olabisi Onabanjo University, out of which nine were ladies who allegedly claimed to be girlfriends and or neighbours of some of the suspects; one from the National Open University of Nigeria and twelve others are non-students. The Commission got wind of their activities through series of intelligence alleging that the suspected fraudsters engaged in fraudulent activities of obtaining money by false pretences through sending emails to unsuspecting victims mostly in the United States of America while others were engaged in romance scam on several dating sites. At the point of arrest, EFCC operatives recovered over three hundred SIM cards from them. Other items recovered from the suspects include: different models and brands of exotic cars, 18 laptops (nine being of Apple brand), 50 telephones (21 iphones) and two bags of fetish objects (juju) from them. Several documents containing false pretences were also recovered from the suspects. Suspects would be charged to court accordingly as soon as investigation is concluded. Source:https://elegenceng.com/2018/11/busted-efcc-arrests-24-undergraduates-12-others-for-cyber-crime/
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y by the National Toxicology Program (NTP) reported an increased incidence of tumors of the pancreas, mammary glands, and forestomach in animals. EPA has classified dichlorvos as a Group B2, probable human carcinogen. Take a second look at this EFFECT OF SNIPER ON HUMAN According to CDC, effects of exposure may include irritation of eyes, skin; miosis, ache eyes; rhinorrhea (discharge of thin nasal mucus); headache; chest tightness, wheezing, laryngeal spasm, salivation; cyanosis; anorexia, nausea, vomiting, diarrhea; sweating; muscle fasciculation, paralysis, dizziness, ataxia HOW TO IDENTITY GRAINS PRESERVED WITH AGROCHEMICALS 1. Pour the beans in a bowl or bucket of water. 2. Stir for about 20 seconds. 3. If there is an oily film on the water, then note that the beans has chemicals sprayed on it. Then, I think we should watch out for the weevils now! Yes!!! You need one or two weevils in your beans to show you that the beans is not preserved with chemicals What to do when you notice your grains/beans have traces of chemicals Please do not eat it. Let the seller know about it. As I wrap up, Kindly take note of this Ensure you wash your vegetables, fruits, grains etc before cooking. Some studies have shown that thorough washing of fruits ,vegetables ,grains etc in several rinses of water before cooking is a lot better than just cooking without washing of these food items. PROTECT YOUR FAMILY FROM CONSUMING BEANS WITH SNIPPER AND OTHER CHEMICALS Source :https://elegenceng.com/2018/11/a-must-read-how-to-identify-grains-preserved-with-sniper/ |
Cristiano Ronaldo and Lionel Messi are the benchmark and players to learn from, according to Brazil and Paris Saint-Germain superstar Neymar. The 26-year-old played alongside Messi at Barcelona, and regularly squared off with Juventus and Portugal sensation Cristiano Ronaldo during his spell in La Liga with Real Madrid. Neymar has carved out a career of his own as one of the elite players in world football, and has netted 39 goals in just 43 games with PSG, as well as scoring 105 times in 186 games for Barca. Nevertheless, he remains in awe of the talents of the duo, who have established a stranglehold on the Ballon d’Or over the last decade. “Facing Messi and Cristiano Ronaldo – and I played with Messi, who is, for me, one of the greatest footballers of all time, and he is my idol in football,” he told the Players’ Tribune . “With Messi, I learned every day, whether during our practice, or playing with him, or just watching him play. And that made me stronger and it increased my capacity on the field because I kept learning a lot from him. “As for Cristiano Ronaldo, he is a monster. Facing him is a pleasure and an honor, but we have to be more prepared. He is one of the greatest in football so you get smarter, you get alert, but at the same time you learn a lot, too. “So, they are two of the big guys that I can relate to, because I want to learn, I want more, I want to win, I want more trophies, score more goals … so I keep learning from them every day.” Ronaldo has enjoyed a superb start to life in Serie A, scoring seven goals and providing five assists in 10 appearances for the Bianconeri thus far this term. Messi, meanwhile, is currently injured, and missed the recent 5-1 Clasico thumping of Real Madrid. Amazingly, he has exactly the same numbers as Ronaldo, netting seven goals and laying on five assists. PSG, Barcelona and Juventus all currently lead their respective leagues.Cristiano Ronaldo and Lionel Messi are the benchmark and players to learn from, according to Brazil and Paris Saint-Germain superstar Neymar. The 26-year-old played alongside Messi at Barcelona, and regularly squared off with Juventus and Portugal sensation Cristiano Ronaldo during his spell in La Liga with Real Madrid. Neymar has carved out a career of his own as one of the elite players in world football, and has netted 39 goals in just 43 games with PSG, as well as scoring 105 times in 186 games for Barca. Nevertheless, he remains in awe of the talents of the duo, who have established a stranglehold on the Ballon d’Or over the last decade. “Facing Messi and Cristiano Ronaldo – and I played with Messi, who is, for me, one of the greatest footballers of all time, and he is my idol in football,” he told the Players’ Tribune . “With Messi, I learned every day, whether during our practice, or playing with him, or just watching him play. And that made me stronger and it increased my capacity on the field because I kept learning a lot from him. “As for Cristiano Ronaldo, he is a monster. Facing him is a pleasure and an honor, but we have to be more prepared. He is one of the greatest in football so you get smarter, you get alert, but at the same time you learn a lot, too. “So, they are two of the big guys that I can relate to, because I want to learn, I want more, I want to win, I want more trophies, score more goals … so I keep learning from them every day.” Ronaldo has enjoyed a superb start to life in Serie A, scoring seven goals and providing five assists in 10 appearances for the Bianconeri thus far this term. Messi, meanwhile, is currently injured, and missed the recent 5-1 Clasico thumping of Real Madrid. Amazingly, he has exactly the same numbers as Ronaldo, netting seven goals and laying on five assists. PSG, Barcelona and Juventus all currently lead their respective leagues. Source:https://elegenceng.com/2018/11/i-learn-from-messi-ronaldo-everyday-neymar/ |
The residence of Ijapo Estate, Akure of the Oluwaseyi bubbled penultimate Thursday, 18th of October, as the royal Entourage of his Imperial Majesty, Oba Adeyeye Enitan Ogunwusi stormed the residence of Evangelist, Prophetess Shilekunola Morenike Naomi, to seek her hand in marriage. The royal wedding, which was kept away from the public and media glare paraded those who matter to Kabiyesi and his new found love, Naomi. Let us gist you about Prophetess Naomi. She is the 25 years old founder of a popular Akure church, En-Heralds, at Sunview Hotel Alagbaka, Akure. It is a big church that boasts of more than 1,000-strong congregation. She started the church 7 years ago, while she started her public Evegelism 8 years ago. She is a very popular Evangelist in Akure and her church is known as the prayer warriors’ church. Very gentle and highly reserved Prophetess Naomi runs the church with her 50 years old mother, Prophetess Oluyemi, who is an Indigene of Ikenne-Remo. Her father is from Akure, while her father’s marriage to his wife has lasted over 30 years. Their marriage is also blessed with 6 children, 3 boys and 3 girls, while Oloori Naomi is the 3rd child. Prophetess Naomi is known for a very famous crusade and praise programme entitled: Hosanna Night every December to mark the anniversary of the church. Many Akure Christians look forward to the programmes not just because of how she ministers, but because it is always star-studded with A-list Nigerian Gospel artistes performing. Last October, Prophetess Naomi brought Tungba Gospel Musician, Yinka Aiyefele, Yetunde Are, Kenny Kore, and Biyi Samuel to perform at the crusade tag: “Hark the Herald Angels” at The Dome, Akure, Ondo State. She is a graduate of Akungba Akoko University. The very eloquent and highly respectful Young Oloori doesn’t keep friends. Her crowd is small and her mum is her best friend. She is always in the company of her Mother, whom she addresses as “Wooli Agba” or Wura Mi”. They are always sighted at Malls together in Akure. Our source said the Prophetess hardly went out alone and she loves wearing flowing gown too. Do you know how kabiyesi met his Oloori? City People’s investigation reveals that Kabiyesi met his beautiful Oloori through her mother many years ago. It was further revealed that it was an extended relationship with all siblings of Oloori Naomi Ogunwusi. Even the Prophetess was at the palace in Ile-Ife 3 months ago to pray for Kabiyesi and that was when Kabiyesi fell in love with her calmness and cool disposition. It was further explained that Kabiyesi didn’t only fall in love at first sight; he was impressed and induced when he knew that Prophetess Naomi was a virgin at the time. This was why kabiyesi asked her out and promised her marriage without further ado. City People’s investigation reveals that it took Oloori and Kabiyesi 3-and-half month to pick a date for the marriage and preparations kicked off immediately. The first thing Oonirisa did was to keep the date away from many as preparations went on among top family members. All the engagement stuffs were also sourced by Kabiyesi’s siblings who were also warned not to discuss it with outsiders. As early as noon on that Thursday all was set for the royal journey to the residence of the Oluyemi in Akure. Of course, Kabiyesi didn’t go with them as tradition doesn’t permit him. He has to be at home awaiting his bride. He can also not prostrate for anyone and tradition demands he prostrates for his in-laws. Who were those on the Royal Journey to Akure you may ask? They include Kabiyesi’s father, Prince Aderopo Ogunwusi and his wife, Mrs Margret Ogunwusi, Sooko Ekun, Prince Bimbo, who is Kabiyesi’s elder brother. His elder brother, Prince Tunji Ogunwusi, and his wife Ibilola Ogunwusi, who flew in from London. Also on the entourage were: Prince Jide Fadairo and his wife, Princess Folasade Ogunwusi, Princess Adesola, Princess Folusho and her husband Kolawole, and Princess Adebimpe and her husband, Prince Mobolaji Jimoh. The Princesses were all clad in luxury white lace matched with Royal blue headgear. Their traditional Iyun beads were from Tjcollections, while the Ogunwusi Princes and their brothers-in-law spotted white flowing Agbada. Also in attendance was Obalufe, the Emeses, Osoro, and Ooni of Ife inner caucus Chiefs who all together were 40 in number. All drove to Akure in style in 15 vehicles, which were mainly Benz series. They were led by escort as their hosts welcomed them at 5.31pm. The Oluwaseyis, who were fully set awaiting their new in-laws quickly commenced the event at a few minutes to 6pm with opening prayer by the bride’s family. Princess Adebimpe Ogunwusi Jimoh, who is the immediate younger sister of Oonirisa, introduced the Ogunwusi’s family to the Oluwaseyis, while the bride’s family also introduced their family members. The angelic bride walking tall like a Queen that she is came in looking regal in an embellished fully-stoned aso-oke with a light make-up from Akure make-up Pro. Oluyemi Oluposi of dashingbride makeover while her royal Iyun hung beautifully on her neck as she welcomed her new family. The Ogunwusis couldn’t take their eyes off their beautiful bride as the bride’s family admired the Luxury Lois-Volton set of luggage which was filled with luxury attired for the new Queen. Because the new Queen doesn’t wear earrings, Kabiyesi also sourced for best collection of wristwatches for her. The big yam tubers were 89 pieces, Palm oil, rice, atare, honey, and others items were also put on display as Yoruba culture and tradition dictates The Oluwaseyis didn’t keep them waiting for long as Prophetess Naomi was handed over to Oonirisa’s elder brother, the Sooko Ekun of Ile-Ife, Prince Bimbo Ogunwusi, who then handed her over to the Ogunwusi sisters. Few minutes past 10pm, the Ooni entourage drove into Ile-Ife, where Oloori Ogunwusi was received at the entrance by Oonirisa’s Chiefs. Prayers were led by one of the Oonirisa’s Chiefs called ‘Loowa’ (Next to kabiyesi among Chiefs) while Obalufe also prayed for the new bride before she was presented to Ekerin Iyalode, who is a top member of Oonirisa Ruling house “Geesi ruling house. That was after a white Ram was killed, while the Oloori did the needful according to tradition of Ife. The Ekerin Iyalode poured water on her legss as the calabash was broken. Then the breaking of kolanut followed. She was later ushered into the palace where Oonirisa had already “Gunwa” on his throne. Kabiyesi, Oba Adeyeye Ogunwusi received her with open arms and prayed for her. He exchanged wedding bands with her and told her to sit at the right side. The emeses who are the closest chiefs to Kabiyesi then welcomed her officially with all the Oloori of the source praises, while she was then told to move to the left side of Kabiyesi, which makes her the new Oonirisa Oloori. Source https://elegenceng.com/2018/11/royal-romance-how-ooni-of-ife-fell-in-love-with-his-wife-prophetess-naomi/ |
A concerned Nigerian and aide to the immediate past Governor of Ekiti state, Lere Olayinka, has written to the Nigerian army, requesting a speedy release of the academic credentials of President Muhammadu Buhari. Mr. Olayinka, in the letter addressed to the Chief of Defence Staff, said President Buhari risks his re-election bid if his academic credentials remains not found. Recall that President Buhari has, in an affidavit sworn to the Independent National Electoral Commission, INEC, explained why he failed to submit his academic credentials as a precondition to being eligible to contest the 2019 election. According to Buhari, “I am the above named person and the deponent of this affidavit herein. All my academic qualification documents as filled in my Presidential form, APC/001/2015 are currently with the Secretary of the Military Board as of the time of this affidavit.” President Buhari had, during the 2015 election which he eventually won, presented INEC with the same excuse, saying the military is in possession of his academic credentials. But, the army, through the then director of army public relations, Olajide Laleye, had denied that the military was in possession of Buhari’s academic credentials. In a release then, the army had said, “Records available indicate that Major General M Buhari applied to join the military as a Form Six student of the Provincial Secondary School, Katsina on 18 Oct 61. “His application was duly endorsed by the Principal of the school, who also wrote a report on him and recommended him to be suitable for military commission. “It is a practice in the NA that before candidates are shortlisted for commissioning into the officers’ cadre of the Service, the Selection Board verifies the original copies of credentials that are presented. However, there is no available record to show that this process was followed in the 1960s.” Meanwhile, in the letter to the CDS, Mr. Olayinka asked the military not to take the stress of providing all the credentials but to, at least, provide President Buhari’s Primary Six and Secondary School Certificates as the two will suffice. The letter reads thus: “Dear Chief of Defence Staff, RE: Major General Muhammadu Buhari’s Credentials I write as a concerned citizen of Nigeria to request that you use your good offices to effect the immediate release of academic credentials of Major General Muhammadu Buhari (rtd) to INEC. Major General Muhammadu Buhari (rtd) is the presidential candidate of the APC in the 2019 general election and he is in urgent need of the credentials to support his nomination as provided by the 1999 Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria (as amended). I wish to remind you that in 2015, the said Major General Muhammadu Buhari (rtd) could not present his credentials because the then PDP government of Dr. Goodluck Jonathan allegedly prevented the Military from releasing the credentials. The CDS sir, you should be reminded that the said Major General Muhammadu Buhari (rtd) is the President and Commander-In-Chief of the Armed Forces, and he could have just used his powers to compel the military authority to use a Fighter Jet to fly the credentials to INEC. Kindly treat this request as urgent because the said Major General Muhammadu Buhari (rtd) on whose behalf I make this request risks disqualification by INEC if he fails to submit the credentials as demanded by the law. You may not need to provide all the credentials however, just release the Primary Six and Secondary School Certificates. Thank you in anticipation of your prompt and favourable consideration of this request. Yours truly, Lere Olayinka 1, Irunmale Avenue, Agbonna Hilltop, Okemesi Ekiti Ekiti State.” Source:https://elegenceng.com/2018/10/read-a-concerned-nigerian-writes-army-requests-speedy-release-of-buharis-certificates/
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Be Inspired! Read below : I stopped comedy after I️ failed the first class, worked harder, focused more and still failed the second class, I had my graduation date pushed back by almost a year. I️ CRIED every night, went through period of depression and hopelessness. Living in USA with just my YOUNGER siblings with no financial support from Parents or relatives, life was difficult for us, we could barely eat 3 times a day, had a lot of past due bills, spent paychecks before they arrived and some days studied in a empty stomach. Seeing my Younger siblings 16yrs and 18yrs suffer, worked multiple jobs as a high schooler and college student to pay my school fees, rent and other bills was so DEPRESSING. I️ kept telling myself that the Lord that gave me ADMISSION will give me GRADUATION.. It seemed Sooo IMPOSSIBLE, I️ never believed this day would come. This degree wasn’t easy for me to acquire. God knows I️ will cherish my career and be the very BEST NURSE Ever, serve, Care, show love, so much compassion and inspire people. That Stethoscope on my neck and Smiles means the world to me right now. Please DONT stop working for what you want, even when things are not making sense, God is still working. Source :https://elegenceng.com/2018/10/yes-i-failed-two-classes-but-i-never-gave-up-inspiring-story-from-a-fresh-graduate-nurse/
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A baffling report has left many wondering after a Ugandan woman who has given birth to 38 children revealed how she achieved the feat. In what could easily pass off as another work of fiction, a Ugandan woman who is just 37-years has placed herself in the record books after giving birth to 38 children. She is said to have started giving birth at the age of 13. Here is the full report according to Ugandian media site, Daily Monitor: Lost along the way, a boda boda rider offers to lead me to her home since they know her by her unique name. Nalongo Muzaala Bana (the twin mother that produces quadruples) is what Mariam Nabatanzi Babirye goes by where she resides in Kabimbiri village, Mukono District An overcrowded neighborhood with children running all over welcomes me to Nabatanzi’s home. At 37, Nabatanzi has 38 children whom she has delivered from home except the last born who is four months old. She was delivered by caesarean section. Among her children are six sets of twins, four sets of triplets, three sets of quadruples and single births. Ten of these are girls and the rest are boys. The oldest is 23 years old while the youngest four months. Eager to tell her story, she takes a minute before getting into it, tilting her head lost in thoughts. She was married off at 12 years of age after surviving death; allegedly at her stepmother’s hands who apparently pounded glass and mixed it in the food she gave Nabatanzi and her four siblings. Fortunately, she was away unlike her siblings who ate the food and died on the spot. Married off Nabatanzi breaks down when she recalls what she went through upon getting married. In 1993, she was married off to a 40-year-old man. “I did not know I was being married off. People came home and brought things for my father. When time came for them to leave, I thought I was escorting my aunt but when I got there, she gave me away to the man.” Being only a young girl, she found marriage a difficult task in the new family. “My husband was polygamous with many children from his past relationships who I had to take care of because their mothers were scattered all over. He was also violent and would beat me at any opportunity he got even when I suggested an idea that he didn’t like,” she recounts. Starting a family Her father-in-law gave them a piece of land to start their family, a family for which she planned to have six children. In 1994, when she was 13, Nabatanzi gave birth to twins. Two years later, she gave birth to triplets and a year and seven months after that added a set of quadruplets. This, she says was nothing strange to her because she had seen it before in her lineage. “My father gave birth to 45 children with different women and these all came in quintuplets, quadruples, twins and triplets,” she says. Indeed, Dr Charles Kiggundu, a gynecologist at Mulago Hospital and President of gynaecologists and obstetricians, says it is very possible for Nabatanzi to have taken after her father. “Her case is genetic predisposition to hyper-ovulate (releasing multiple eggs in one cycle), which significantly increases the chance of having multiples; it is always genetic,” he explains. By her sixth delivery, Nabatanzi had had 18 children and wanted to stop, so, she went to see a doctor at Namaliili Hospital. The problem The doctor told Nabatanzi that she could not be stopped then because she had a high ovary count which would eventually kill her if she stopped. “Having these unfertilised eggs accumulate poses not only a threat to destroy the reproductive system but can also make the woman lose their lives,” Dr Ahmed Kikomeko from Kawempe General Hospital explains. “I was advised to keep producing since putting this on hold would mean death. I tried using the Inter Uterine Device (IUD) but I got sick and vomited a lot, to the point of near death. I went into a coma for a month,” she explains. At the age of 23 with now 25 children, she went back to hospital to try and stop. “I was checked in at Mulago Hospital and advised to continue producing since the ovary count was still high.” No way to stop? Kiggundu explains that women’s ovaries are at times suppressed and stopped from ovulating. “The suppressed eggs later pile up and are released at once and here, the higher the chances of fertilizing many eggs, the higher the chances of all of them dying, Nabatanzi was lucky,” he says. “She must have been super ovulating, releasing many eggs in a cycle.” He adds that Nabatanzi could have been helped if she had really wanted to stop producing, but some people are not well informed. At the birth of her four-month-old child who was delivered by C-section in December last year, she says; “I asked the doctor to stop me from more births and he said he had ‘cut my uterus from inside’. This was my only Cesarean delivery because I was still weak from the sickness I suffered when I tried to use an IUD.” Kiggundu says this was most likely tubal ligation. “With tubal ligation, the tubes are blocked, a permanent method of contraception in women, but they would continue having their menses,”explains the gynecologist. Hurdles in marriage Nabatanzi’s 25 years in marriage have been characterised by humiliation and torture. “I have been tortured countless times by my husband; he beats to the pulp when I try to reason with him over any issue, especially when he gets home drank. He does not provide for basic needs and welfare of the family; the children hardly know who he is since he is an absent father who gives his children names over the phone and not physically,” she says. Charles Musisi, 23, her eldest son says their father disappeared and they have grown up only with their mother’s love. “I can comfortably tell you that our siblings do not know what father looks like. I last saw him when I was 13 years old and only briefly in the night because he rushed off again,” he says, adding that they do not know the happiness of living with a father and they only rely on their mother as their both mother and father. Nabatanzi says her husband spends close to a year without coming home and when he does, he just sneaks into the house late in the night and leaves very early in the morning. “I carry these humiliations because my aunt advised me to always endure in marriage and have my children as the center of focus. She advised me not to produce children from different men.” The education challenge Nabatanzi is optimistic about seeing her children through school, something her father could not do for her. Despite being a Primary Two dropout, she has managed to educate her children. One of her first born twins has a certificate in nursing and the other in building although they have not found jobs yet. Two of her other children are in Senior Six, three in Senior Five, Four in Primary Seven, and four in Senior One. The rest are between baby class and Primary Six. “I am hopeful that my children will go to school because they all have big ambitions of being doctors, teachers and lawyers; I want them to realise these dreams, something I was not able to do.” Nabatanzi does not have a garden or land to farm, so she has to buy food to feed her children and this is her biggest expense. “Everything is solely from my pocket; I buy 10kg of maize flour a day, four kilogrammes of sugar a day and three bars of soap. I need to have Shs100, 000 at the least on a daily basis to have the family catered for. God has been good to me for they have never gone a day without a meal,” she says. Nabatanzi is in the process of gathering money to connect piped water she can sell since water is a big problem in the area, with a jerry can costing Shs800. David Kazimba, who fetches her water, says he gets her 15 jerry cans of water a day. “She is a social person I have known for the last eight years. She is a hardworking and caring woman. At times, people mock her because of her many children but she just ignores them,” he says. To meet her expenses, Nabatanzi administers local herbs for various illnesses – which she says she has done since she was a young girl- and doing casual work such as plaiting hair, decorating at events, and styling brides. “I do not despise any job as long as it brings in some money. Feeling sorry for myself is something I dropped because I know these children are a gift from God that I have to treasure, so I try my level best to fend for them.” The main worry Nabatanzi’s five-year-old son who was diagnosed with a heart problem early this year worries her as she has to spend Shs120, 000 a week to buy him medicine. “In January, the doctors at Mulago Hospital advised me to raise Shs35m in nine months to have him taken to India for an operation. Since I do not have this money yet, I buy him medicine to help him cope in the meantime,” she says. Nabatanzi finds solace in her children as the family she never had while growing up. “I wish I could get a helping hand to help me with my children’s schooling, which is my major concern. I stopped looking to my husband for anything. I’m only focusing on raising my children and I am determined to do,” she explains. Home care The older children help with their siblings and the general home administration. “I enjoy taking care of my children myself though. My children are my joy and I pride caring for them. I cook, wash and bathe them with ease. Children grow better under a mother’s love and care,” she says. Health. Nabatanzi says she delivers her children naturally and she has always felt fine after each delivery until her recent C-section birth after which she started to develop backache after doing some home chores. “My daughter who studied nursing used to take care of me during pregnancy. Eventually, I learnt how to do this, so I have not had any difficulties or complications with my pregnancies,” she explains. Expert view Gynaecologist Dr Charles Kiggundu, refers to Nabantanzi’s ability to conceive so many multiples as “genetic predisposition to hyper ovulate”. He explains;“It is an increased likelihood of having children in multiples (twins, triplets, quadruplets…) based on a person’s genetic makeup. It results from specific genetic variations that are often inherited from a parent. In some cases, women ovulate more than one time consecutively, but in other cases they release more than one egg at the same time, leaving room for the fertilisation of released eggs. When that happens, each one develops within its own sac in the womb; hyper-ovulation naturally is hereditary.” How common it is I have not seen many of such cases in Uganda; the highest I have seen are twins and one case of triplets, but scientifically this condition is real. Risks and solutions The higher the number of eggs fertilised, the higher the risk of losing all children (miscarrying). Going for anti-natal care during pregnancy helps to have the situation monitored closely, doctors can help. Although a person’s genetic makeup cannot be changed, some lifestyle and environmental alterations (such as having more frequent disease screenings and maintaining a healthy weight) may help ward off opportunistic health problems Advice to women Nabatanzi says a woman is respected by the way she handles her family and having to settle in her marriage containing all that is there since this is her pride. “There are no easy marriages; women should be patient because even our great grandmothers did not have a smooth one. They should be patient as there is always a lot to deal with in marriage and it is the patience that heals time, mine is to take care of my children which I am doing happily,” she says. Advice to men “Do not forget your responsibility because marriage is a joint responsibility to raise these children. “I cry deeply in my heart wondering whether I produced these children on my own.” She further urges men to stop marrying off their children for quick money and gains as this not only affects them but also their children. Source :https://elegenceng.com/2018/10/meet-the-37-year-old-woman-who-has-given-birth-to-38-children-after-starting-at-age-13-photos/
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The Economic and Financial Crimes Commission, EFCC Kaduna Zonal office has investigated a case of conspiracy and theft reported to the Commission by an exceptional father. The father (name witheld) in April 2017 became a whistle blower after his son (then a secondary school student) intimated him that he had bought a house and a shop valued over N2 Million (Two Million Naira) only. The information of the purchase shocked the father beyond his imagination as such he decided to make a formal complain to the Commission having perceived signs of fraud from his son’s explanantion of how he got the money. His son, Adamu, said he got the money through his phone line which after purchase he began receiving alerts running into millions of Naira. Investigations into the matter began immediately and all parties involved were invited accordingly and their statements were taken as the principal accused person mentioned two other accomplicies in the crime. In the course of investigations, it was discovered that Adamu withdrew monies in bits from a First Bank account number 3033389599 owned by one Porong Daniel Nash (a farmer in plateau state); and credited same to different accounts. Consequently, all accused persons where arrested and recoveries were made to the tune of N939,000 (Nine Hundred and Thirty Nine Thousand Naira) only of which same was returned to the rightful owner by the Zonal Office. Source:https://elegenceng.com/2018/10/father-reports-yahoo-yahoo-son-to-efcc-after-he-bought-house-over-2-million-naira/ |
First Bank of Nigeria Limited (FirstBank) is Nigeria’s largest financial services institution by total assets and gross earnings. With more than 10 million customer accounts, FirstBank has over 750 branches providing a comprehensive range of retail and corporate financial services. The Bank has international presence through its subsidiaries, FBN Bank (UK) Limited in London and Paris, FBNBank DRC, FBNBank Ghana, FBNBank Gambia, FBNBank Guinea, FBNBank Sierra-Leone and FBNBank Senegal, as well as its Representative Offices in Johannesburg, Beijing and Abu Dhabi. We are recruiting to fill the following vacant positions below: Click on the link to see vacant positions https://elegenceng.com/2018/10/job-vacancy-first-bank-of-nigeria-limited-latest-graduate-exp-job-recruitment-7-positions/ |
The Nigerian Navy has put out an advert for their 2018/2019 Direct Short Service Course Commission 26. It was released by the Navy Secretary on behalf of the Chief of Naval Staff, Nigerian Navy. The portal opened on October 3 and Closes on November 14th 2018 Interested applicants for Nigerian Navy recruitment are to meet the following requirements, in other to be successfully shortlisted: • Applicants must be Nigerians by birth. • Applicants must be between ages of 18 and 30 years. • Applicants must be medically fit and present certificates of medical fitness from Government recognized Hospitals. • Applicants must be of good characters, and must not have been convicted of any criminal offenses. • Applicants must possess the requisite qualification and certificates. • Applicants must not be members of any Secret Society, Cults or Drug Addicts etc. • Applicants must not be financially embarrassed. Applicants chest measurement must not be less than 0.87 for men. Applicants heights must not be less than 1.65m for males and 1.60 for females. Computer Skill is an added advantage. All recruitments in Nigerian Navy is conducted via the Nigerian Navy recruitment portal on Joinnigeriannavy All vacant positions are listed on this portal whenever there are vacancies to be filled. Source:https://elegenceng.com/2018/10/nigerian-navy-recruitment-2018-2019-all-you-need-to-know/ |
INEC RECRUITMENT FORM FOR 2019 GENERAL ELECTION IS OUT. 2019 General Election Recruitments for Independent And National Electoral Commission (INEC) is widely on air free of charge to all Nigeria citizens who are interested in an INEC ad-hoc staff 2019. GUIDELINES: * You must be a Nigerian citizen * Have at least a minimum of Secondary School Certificate, which includes any of these, WAEC, NECO or NABTEB. * You must have a valid means of identification * Visit us on Www.Inec.gov.ng to fill your recruitment form now. WARNING: Do not make any payment to anyone! INEC recruitment form is totally free of charge online. Source :https://elegenceng.com/2018/10/apply-for-independent-electoral-commision-inec-recruitment-2018/ |
Three months later. We have been married for over two months now and — I just found out I’m pregnant, the obvious result of the incident. God, I feel so ashamed. My voyage as a wife has been bumpy and humiliating. He repulses me now, every time he tries to touch me I feel like throwing up — the baby could be the reason behind it though. I dread telling him about my pregnancy because I don’t know how he would react. He usually has this spell of black moods, it is ill-advised to go close to him when he is in that mood. He has been possessive ever since we got married, sometimes, he is charming and attentive. He thinks I would go file a complaint at the police station or human right activist. I chortled at that thought; who would believe a husband raped his wife? You are shocked too, right? I burst out in laughter before realizing I was in the conference room with some potential clients, I blinked rapidly and the laughter died down suddenly as I felt curious eyes on me. This was not the time to unleash my domestic problem, I realized. I cleared my throat and gathered my thoughts into the domestic folder in my head. I smiled at my clients to ease the tension and curiosity buzzing within the conference room. I know as you read this, you are wondering who I am. My name is Adeola Janet Adeola, now Mrs. Adeola Janet Coker. I am married to one of the youngest CEO in the country. Olanrewaju Coker is his name. Lanre, as he is popularly called, is the only son and child of Senator Coker and Mrs. Coker. I smile wistfully as I reminisce a little about the man I fell in love with. Lanre is over 6 ft. tall, with alert light brown eyes. He has a pointed nose which suits his long face and naturally red colored bow lips which compliments his fair skin. His black curly hair gave away his Caucasian descendant. I can’t decide if it was love at first sight, especially with the circumstance. Most ladies wish to be in my position, I would gladly trade my position as his wife with any lady. I never wish to relive the incident. The incident which has led to a pregnancy — wanted or unwanted? I sigh mournfully, the darkness of the incident threatens to swallow me. How do I broach the subject with him? Would I find him in a cheerful mood tonight? Does he have to know? Or should I keep the secret to myself, but for how long? I resolve within myself to tell him…he has to know. Tonight. WATCH OUT FOR EPISODE 3 Source:https://elegenceng.com/2018/09/episode-2-shattered-hope-diary-an-abused-wife-written-by-mercy-okusun/ |
The Ibadan zonal office of EFCC has arrested one Oke Omoniyi Benjamin (33) from Efon-Alaaye, Ekiti State, for internet fraud. The suspect, Oke Omoniyi Benjamin was arrested sequel to an Intelligent Report received on 27th August, 2018, alleging that he is into internet fraud and has also defrauded a number of foreigners of their money through fraudulent schemes. The report however stated that Benjamin used the proceeds of his fraud to buy two cars, and also own a unisex salon known as Signatures Unisex Salon located at No. 238, Ilawe Road, opposite Baptist School, Ado-Ekiti, Ekiti State. At the point of arrest, Operatives of the Commission recovered an Acura TL, 2010 with Registration Number BDG 969FH and a Lexus ES 300, 2002 with Registration Number EPE 829FJ, two Laptops, two Phones, forged documents and several counterfeit cheques of various foreign Banks. Benjamin however, admitted to the allegations against him and will be charged to court as soon as investigations are concluded. Source: https://elegenceng.com/2018/10/efcc-nabs-popular-internet-fraudster-in-ekiti-seize-fake-us-cheques-cars/ |
Episode 1 The proposal came unexpectedly, I am still reeling from the proposal shock. I can’t believe it…I choose not to believe it. The white gold engagement ring, which felt heavy on my finger, is the stark proof that he did propose to me. My younger sisters have been “ooh-ing” and “aah-ing” over the engagement ring. If only they knew! It has indeed been a night of utter surprise, who knew a date night would turn into a proposal night. My mother can’t stop beaming, as her first child and daughter, she is excited to know that I am getting married. As I stare at her smiling face, it dawned on me that I haven’t seen my mother smile in a while, since she lost her husband, my father. Her infectious laughter threatens to contaminate me, but I refuse to celebrate in this sham engagement. My mother noticed I wasn’t smiling, she raises her eyebrow in question at me, and I shrugged in reply. I gave her a little smile and looked down at my finger where the ostentatious ring rested. The ring seems to be mocking me, it seems to say: this is the price for your silence. The humiliation burns as the images threatens to erupt, I close my eyes to prevent it. I am not strong enough, the images spills from my memory and flashes across as tears rolled down my face. “Deola” I heard my mother’s soft worried voice call out to me. “Are you alright?” she asked in concern, I opened my eyes and our gazes locked. I saw concern in her brown eyes, she looked worried and scared. I parted my lips to speak, but no sound came forth. How do I explain? How do I tell her? I asked myself these questions as her worried eyes roved over my face. My younger sisters had been alerted to my present state and I watched their happiness dim slowly. “Sister Deola, are you alright?” Bisola, the youngest, asked. I sighed and closed my eyes in shame. How do I tell them? How do I tell my mother that her future son-in-law… Raped me. Watch out for episode 2... Source :https://elegenceng.com/2018/09/story-shattered-hope-dairy-of-an-abused-wife-written-by-mercy-okusun/ |
A 26-year-old Nigerian, credited for building the world’s first gaming robot, Silas Adekunle, has become the highest paid in the field of robotic engineering. Adekunle achieved the feat after signing a new deal with the world’s reputable software manufacturers, Apple Inc. The robotics engineer was also named as “Someone to Watch in 2018” by the Black Hedge Fund Group. Adekunle is currently the founder and CEO of Reach Robotics, a company developing the world’s first gaming robots. He also recently graduated with a first class degree and has four years’ background in robotics. Born in Lagos, Adekunle studied in Nigeria before relocating to the United Kingdom as a teenager. After completing his secondary school education, he proceeded to the University of the West of England where he graduated with a first class degree in Robotics. In 2013, he founded Reach Robotics and developed a lot of experience on robotics within a space of four years. Adekunle was also a team leader of Robotics In Schools programme, a programme which encourages and pays attention to students in Science, Technology, Engineering and Mathematics (STEM). The programme encouraged him to develop robotics to make education more entertaining for STEM students. In 2017 MekaMon, he released the world’s first gaming robot, with the special ability to customise the gaming bot to perform personalised functions. The initial launch of Mekamon sold 500 bots, generating $7.5 million. Following this feat, he received support from various organisations including London Venture Partners ($10 million) and Reach Robotics signed a deal with Apple securing exclusive sales in Apple stores. “Impressed by the quality of his robots and their ability to show emotion with subtly-calibrated movements, Apple priced his four-legged “battle-bots” at $300 and has put them in nearly all of its stores in the United States and Britain. Early customers skew towards male techies but a growing number of parents are buying the robots for their children to get them interested in STEM, Adekunle told Forbes in an interview this year. Source :https://elegenceng.com/2018/09/meet-26-year-old-nigerian-highest-paid-robotics-engineer-in-the-world/ |
David Adeleke popularly known as Davido took to his Instagram not quite long about an attack. In his post, he stated that “When u shoot at us next time, make sure u get aim! smh!”, this statement by Davido shows he was attacked at the rally and campaign he did today at Osun for his Uncle, Ademola Adeleke who is presently Contesting & Campaigning for the post of the next Governor of Osun State because after the above statement he concluded it with Osun Will Be Great!, Osun We Are Here!!. Source:https://elegenceng.com/2018/09/davido-narrowly-escapes-gun-attack-in-hometown-ede-pdp-rally/# |
Indecent dressing has become a habitual act among Nigeria youths in fact the educated ones are not excluded, visit any institution in Nigeria you will be wondering if there is difference between literate and semi literate with their mode of dressing. This does not exclude the congregation of worshipers also with their aggressive mode of dressings. You want to be a leader isn’t it? You are even among those shouting not to young to rule, but with these your indecent dressing manner do you posses what it takes to be a leader? Hell no, Stop saying “nobody is looking at me” many people are looking at you, since the way you dress is the way people will address you. Learn how to dress decently no one will ever elect a taunt as a leader. If we agree that those who dress shabbily are semi literate what about you that you are educated, you have gotten award in NCE, OND, HND, BSc infact you are now a serving Corper yet you still dress indecently you put on rag that you call crazy jeans after you have served your father land for one year and you still jobless you need to check yourself it may be because of your indecent dressing because the way you dress is how people will address you and no one will ever want to employ a menace to work. Hello beautiful lady, because every guy now calls you different sweet names is that why you dress half naked, your parents have corrected you several times but it yielded nothing, you said the world is now civilized, what does civilization has to do with indecent dressing just know that nothing last forever because the old women that you see today were once a young lady like you. So are you laying a a good or bad foundation for your own generation is now left for you to decide. Rape has been one of the challenges Nigeria is facing presently and this can be culled from indecent dressing, men are easily aroused with what they see and when they can no longer control their emotions they commit rape in which has landed many in prisons and has made a lot of young ladies barren as a result of contraceptives to avoid the shameful pregnancy act of the rape, therefore its very important for parents to check their wards before they leave home because “charity begins at home. Dressing shabbily does not makes you a man, zagging your trouser and exposing your dirty boxers doesn’t makes you a man what makes you a man is RESPONSIBILITY, don’t be surprised If you are harassed by DSS, SARS or the Nigeria police force they are not blind your mode of dressing is a point of attraction to them, so what do you expect when you dress like a cultist they will refer to you as “SUSPECT” even when you are innocent. If you’re a man and still wear earrings, what is the function of the earrings is it for fashion ? no it’s not that’s abnormal fashion. Nigeria youths be wise. You call yourself student/graduate isn’t it ? but can we refer to you you as a student or a graduate with the way you dress?? You even dress to class to impress your course mates with an empty skull along the line you will say “one lecturer is molesting me , a lecturer is sexually harassing me” why won’t they harass you when you don’t know how to compose yourself In a decent manner. If you dress exposing your body no responsible man or woman will be impressed by such behavior. Married men and women are also not excluded, In the name of fashion you see them dressing half naked and this has contribute to the increase rate of fornication and adultery in the country, if you are in this category it’s better you change before its too late because there is always reward for everything. Try to lay a good landscape for others that are following your footsteps. In most congregation of worshippers nowadays you see men and women dressings you will be surprised if truly they are in the congregation to worship, in this category many men of God has fallen to this trap as a result of the indecent dressings from their Shepard’s. Your service is incomplete if you dress indecently to worship God, stop saying God only looks at the heart and not the body, because God looks inward doesn’t mean you should dress like a harlot to worship him. When you see a doctor, lawyer, engineer you can easily identify them with their mode of dressing. So ask yourself “how will people identify me as with these my dressings” because the way you dress is how people will address you. There is nothing wrong with taking pictures, but why would you concentrate the camera on your chest and buttocks, is it because you want people to know how big or small you breast weigh. Nowadays ladies will go swimming putting on pant and bra! fine but the problem is they still post all these nudity on social medias, when will Nigeria youths rise from all these menace in the name of civilization. It’s high time Nigeria youths shun the habit of indecent dressing because it’s a disease and once it grows it is very difficult to control because it will have become an habitual act. Don’t be intimidated with civilization or Nigeria economy rather be a good example for others. May God help everyone of us Source:https://elegenceng.com/2018/09/articleindesent-dressing-a-menace-among-nigeria-youths-and-the-way-out-by-adetunji-ololade/ |
How to know if the wítches in your village are following you : 0. When you have jamb exam on Thursday and u forgot and went on Friday. 1. When you wrote jamb and scored 350 for medicine and you were given admsn to read insurance. 2. When u wrote 10 papers and when result was posted, you saw 5 CO’s and 5 absent. My guy, beware 3. When you finally rectify ur papers and passed ur CO’s and in your final year, your name was posted for service. You went to complain and was told that your file doesn’t exist. Guy u need fasting 4. When you read for 3 months, scored 35 in ur continuous assessment and you get to exam hall and forgot all that have read. 5. When you have paper by 2pm and it has been shifted to 10 am, you get to Hall by 2:30pm and realise them don close gate. 6. When you dey download movie of 1.5gb and at 1.49gb, ur phone restart. 7. When you are writing and online test and you wanted to click on submit bcox you have 30 seconds left then your laptop battery just shake. Add yours. What happened to you before that made you think say na the witch 4 ur village do u. Source: https://elegenceng.com/2018/09/if-any-of-these-happens-to-you-then-the-witches-of-your-village-are-after-you/ |
A mother of three, Ronke Olanrewaju, has threatened to poison her husband if a customary court fails to grant her request for divorce. The aggrieved wife had approached the Oja-Oba Customary Court, Mapo, Ibadan, Oyo State, seeking divorce from her husband, who she described as abusive and violent. Ronke told the court that her husband, Sunday Olanrewaju, beat her up anytime he saw her with male customers, adding that each time the police were brought in, he would boast that he was a prominent politician. She said, “My lord, he also beat up my mother like a baby. Separate us now, or else, I will poison him. Each time I discuss business with male customers, he would beat me and say they were my lovers.” However, the husband, Sunday, begged the court to sustain the marriage, saying his wife was like a mother to him. The President of the court, Chief Henry Agbaje, fixed September 18, 2018, for ruling. He said although the case required urgency because of the woman’s threat, it was also important to give room for reconciliation. Source: https://elegenceng.com/2018/09/ill-poison-my-husband-if-court-not-ready-to-separate-us-wife/ |
The prostate is a golf-ball-sized gland that sits between the bladder and the penis. It secretes fluid that nourishes and protects sperm. Most older men have some cancer cells in their prostate glands. But because these cells usually grow slowly, they don’t cause symptoms or affect health in most men. That said, about 230,000 American men are diagnosed with prostate cancer each year, and nearly 30,000 die of it. Exactly why some men develop full-blown prostate cancer and others don’t is a mystery. But researchers have identified several factors that raise a man’s risk of the disease. These include: Age. Older men are far more likely to develop prostate cancer than younger men. Race. African-American men are more likely to get prostate cancer than other men, and to be diagnosed with more advanced-stage cancer. Family history. A man whose father or brother has been diagnosed with prostate cancer is two to three times more likely to develop prostate cancer than a man who doesn’t have family members with the disease. Lifestyle. Men who eat a lot of red meat or high-fat dairy products seem to have a higher risk of prostate cancer. Treatments for prostate cancer include an operation to remove the prostate (prostatectomy) and radiation therapy. Both often cause side effects such as incontinence and erectile dysfunction. Since early treatment with surgery or radiation doesn’t necessarily “cure” the disease, and prevents relatively few men from dying from prostate cancer, more and more men are opting for a strategy known as watchful waiting or active surveillance. They and their doctors monitor the low-risk cancer closely and choose treatment only when the disease appears to make threatening moves toward growing and spreading. Take adequate action to care for you prostate today. Shrink Enlarged Prostate & Urinary Issues.. Order your pack. 2 month Therapy. Text, Chat: 0706-781-4650 Source :http://www.eleganceng.com/2018/03/sponsored-prostrate-cancer-precautions-and-cure/
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Africa’s Richest woman, Folorunsho Alakija has shared details about her life, not so many people know of.. and according to her, she was able to achieve greatness in life without a University degree. Folorunso Alakija took to Instagram to share this piece and she also opened up that she is the 8th child in her family of about 52 children. She wrote: “I would like to encourage you on my encounter with the Glory of God. It happened almost 27 years ago when I gave my life to Christ at the age of 40 and my life has not been the same ever since, I pray your life too, will experience a total turn around. I was born almost 67 years ago, into a large and illustrious polygamous Muslim family as number 8 out of 52 children through a father who had 8 wives. Back then large families were common, but what was unusual was that I was one of the very first few Nigerian children who left it’s shores to go and study abroad at such a tender age of 7. Even at that age, I knew I could not afford to let my family down cause I was seen as an ambassador. My desire was to study law but my Daddy did not believe in investing in girls at that time. Today, I have no university degree, but God’s glory lifted me up and I have received numerous Honorary Doctorate Degrees at home and abroad. All of what you now see today has taken almost two and a half decades, so I am not an overnight success. On the contrary. Through God’s grace, I am a blood bought totally forgiven, absolutely redeemed, heaven bound child of God. I have had to make sacrifices like everyone else, faced challenges but never given up. I have not compromised myself, my values or my faith. GLORY BE TO GOD.” Source : http://www.eleganceng.com/2018/02/i-became-a-billionaire-even-without-a-university-degree-folorunsho-alakija/ |
Notice!! Important Information To All Vehicle Users, From CNN. Many people have been wondering what could be the cause of the incessant tyre burst accidents on Nigerian roads everyday. The major cause is that we inflate too much pressure on our tyres. How did I know? I was preparing for a long journey, and decided to changed some of my tyres. When I asked the vulcanizer the recommended Air pressure for the tyres, He said 50. I said alright, he should inflate it to 50 all round.When I got to where I was going, I was discussing with some people on the issue of the minister that died on the road due to a burst tyre and wonder what could have happened, because nobody could imagine a minister would be travelling with expired tyres as many would think is the major cause of tyre bursts. A man (lived in US for many years) said that the major cause of tyre burst in Nigeria is that we inflate too much pressure in our tyres, he reminded us that each car has a specific recommended tyre size and pressure clearly written on it by the manufacturers. *I was surprised and begged him to come and show me where it’s written on my car. To my greatest surprise, it’s by the drivers door which I enter everyday without noticing it.* By the time we checked, the recommended pressure for my tyres is 32 and I just traveled with tyres on a pressure of 50 . He took me round his compound and showed me that of the cars (which includes a jeep and a sienna), and the highest was 32. Some were even 29. He further explained that tyres are made of rubber and expand at a high temperature. So, when you are travelling in the afternoon when the asphalt on the road is hot, the tyres tend to expand. If the pressure on the tyre is too much and wouldn’t accommodate the expansion, a burst is likely to happen at that time. Pls check the recommended tyre pressure for your vehicle and others you know. As many as possible Nigerians need to read this. Keep Sharing till everyone is aware – Who knows? You might be saving a Soul. Source : http://www.eleganceng.com/2018/02/a-must-read-how-vulcanizers-in-nigeria-are-killing-people-everyday-you-need-to-see-this-today/ |
The Ekiti State governor, Mr Ayodele Fayose, has given the only reason he will resign as the governor of the state and according to him, he will step down if anyone can present evidence that he loaned N56bn as many claim. This statement was made following claims that the State has borrowed a total of N56 billion since he resumed as governor of the state with a fresh N25 billion loan pending; Fayose via his twitter handle wrote; If they can present evidence that I borrowed N56bn, I will resign.’ “the only fresh loan taken by the government of Fayose was the N10 billion grant from the Excess Crude Account, which was released to all States for capital projects, N2.8 billion requested from Wema Bank to pay State Universal Basic Education Board (SUBEB) counterpart fund out of which N1 billion has been accessed and N600 million for MDGs counterpart fund, which has been repaid. Source :http://www.eleganceng.com/2017/12/if-you-can-prove-this-then-i-will-resign-fayose/ |
We all know the value of having plenty of money, especially as entrepreneurs. But we also know there are people who started enterprises with no money, who went on to make fortunes. So how did they do it? Elegance Nigeria brings to you guys the nine things that are more valuable than capital, things that can lead straight to your success. I will be using a lady whose name is Toke as the subject of this article. Check them out below:- 1. Time Time is a treasure, the time you set aside not to be wasted, not to be given away. The time you set aside to be invested in something that brings value to the marketplace with the hope of making a profit, that’s capital time. How valuable is time? Time properly invested is worth a fortune; time wasted can be devastation. Time invested can perform miracles, so invest yours. 2. Desperation My friend and mentor Bill Bailey went to Chicago as a teenager after he got out of high school. And the first job he got was as a night janitor. Someone said, “Bill, why would you settle for night janitor?” He said, “Malnutrition.” His first job might have been night janitor, but he went on to receive the Horatio Alger award and become rich and powerful, one of the great examples of lifestyle that I know. Desperation can be a powerful incentive when you say I must. You work at whatever you can possibly get when you get hungry. You go to work somewhere, it doesn’t matter where. 3. Determination I have another friend, Toke, whose first major investment in her new enterprise was also desperation. She needed to feed her kids, so she invested $1 in something she believed in. That $1 was used to buy a few flyers so she could make a sale at retail, collect the money and then buy the product wholesale to deliver back to the customer. First Toke said, “I must find a customer”, desperation. Second she said, “I will find someone before this first day is over”, determination. And sure enough, she found someone. Determination says I will. 4. Courage If you’ve only got $1 and a lot of courage, you’ve got a good future ahead of you. Because humans can do the most incredible things no matter what happens, courage in spite of, not because of, circumstances. 5. Ambition With courage, Toke made three or four more sales. And once she got going, ambition took over. She thought, If I can sell three, I can sell 33. If I can sell 33, I can sell 103. Toke was dazzled by her own dreams of the future. 6. Faith At this point, Toke began to believe she had a good product, a good company. And then she started to believe in herself, Toke, a single mother, two kids, no job. My gosh, I’m going to pull it off! Her self-esteem started to soar. Faith is an investment that cannot be matched. Money can’t touch it. What if you had a million dollars and no faith? You’d be poor. You wouldn’t be rich. 7. Ingenuity The reason Toke is a millionaire today is because of her ingenuity, she put her brains to work. Probably up until now, you’ve put about 1/10 of your brainpower to work. What if you employed the other 9/10? You can’t believe what can happen. Humans can come up with the most intriguing things to do. What’s ingenuity worth? A fortune. All you need is a $1 and plenty of ingenuity. Figuring out a way to make it work, make it work, make it work. 8. Heart And Soul Heart and soul is like the unseen magic that moves people, moves people to make decisions, moves people to act, moves people to respond. What is a substitute for heart and soul? It’s not money, because heart and soul is more valuable than a million dollars. A million dollars without heart and soul? You have no life. You are ineffective. 9. Personality My mentor Bill Bailey taught me, “You’ve got to learn to be just as comfortable, Mr. Rohn, whether it is in a little shack in Kentucky having a beer and watching the fights with my friend Winfred, or in a Georgian mansion in Washington, D.C., as the senator’s guest.” You’ve got plenty of personality. You’ve just got to spruce up and sharpen up it, develop it to where it is effective every day, at home anywhere, no matter who you talk to, whether it is a child or a businessperson, a rich person or a poor person. It makes no difference to you who is rich or who is poor. It’s about the chance to have a unique relationship with whomever. Have the kind of personality that’s comfortable, the kind of personality that’s never bent out of shape. Move with ease, with charisma and sophistication and humility. With $1 and this list, the world is yours. It belongs to you, whatever piece of it you desire, whatever development you wish for your life. It’s the kind of capital that is more valuable than money and that can secure your future and fortune. Remember that you lack not the resources. Do you now agree there are things that are important than money? Drop your opinion Source :http://www.eleganceng.com/2017/12/a-must-see-the-9-things-that-are-more-important-than-money-no-8-is-the-most-important/ |
The outgoing Rector of the Federal Polytechnic, Ado Ekiti, Dr. Theresa Akande, has said that the only way polytechnics can be at par with the universities is by allowing them to award higher degrees. Akande said polytechnics in some Francophone African countries are allowed to award masters and doctoral degrees, adding that this accounted for why technology education is better in those countries than in Nigeria. Akande spoke at a press conference held at the polytechnic on Monday marking the end of her tenure as the institution’s chief executive officer. The former rector called on the federal government to rejig polytechnic education in Nigeria, so that the country could operate at the same level with other advanced countries that are making waves in the world of Information and Communication Technology (ICT). “Francophone countries like Cote D’Ivoire, Guinea Bissau and Guinea were allowed to award masters and doctoral degrees. I have been there and saw it work, so Nigeria must adopt this because no country can grow in this modern days without better technological innovation,” she said. Source :http://www.eleganceng.com/2017/12/allow-polytechnics-to-award-higher-degrees-federal-polytechnic-ado-ekiti-outgoing-rector-advises-fg/ |
We all want to look beautiful, but not all of us are prepared to put in the effort. So rather than waking up looking like a super model as we’d prefer, we wake up looking tired, distressed, and OMG WHAT ARE THOSE DARK CIRCLES DOING THERE! When it’s time to hit the sack after another long day at work, the last thing we feel like doing is making the effort to look good the next day. “I’ll fix my face in the morning,” we groan before flopping face down on the pillow, smearing our make-up. Beautiful girls don’t do this. They don’t put off until tomorrow what can be done today. They put the effort in each night to make sure they take care of their health, their youth and their looks. If you’re ready to look after your beauty by putting the effort in, here are 10 things beautiful girls do each evening. They Take Off Their Make-Up Ladies, we’ve all gone to bed wearing out make-up at least once in our lives. Especially after a night on the town, getting under the duvet with our masks on is just too tempting. But it’s actually a really bad thing to do. You might not think it’s much of a big issue – but it is. If you sleep in your make-up, you’re increasing the chances that your face is going to breakout in spots. Why? Because beauty products, when left on too long, will clog your pores. There is another good reason to remove your make-up: If you leave it on, you’re basically going to bed with a face full of bacteria. Not nice. They Sleep On Two Pillows If you’ve been sleeping on just one pillow all this time, it’s time to prop your head up with a second pillow. Why? Because this will help to prevent puffiness. When you’re lying in bed, gravity can help with blood and lymph floor – but only if you let it. If you sleep with just one pillow, your eyes and face might develop fluids that leave you looking puffy for tomorrow’s date. They Brush Their Teeth We know, we know. You brush your teeth in the morning, once in the early evening and sometimes you brush them before bed. But sometimes you skip a bedtime brush because your teeth actually feel alright. And anyway, you’ll brush them as soon as you wake up. So where’s the harm? Not brushing your teeth at night means you’re going to bed with a mouth full of bacteria that clings to your teeth – and sticks there. Plaque forms, and eventually so does tartar. This can lead to gum disease, halitosis – and even heart disease. Beautiful girls brush every single night, and they floss too. They Do A Spot Treatment Beautiful girls use a purifying mask to do a spot treatment in the evenings. In this way, they are targeting acne and preventing nasty breakouts. They Moisturise Beautiful girls don’t just moisturise here and there. Instead, they moisturise their whole body. I do this myself. I put lotion all over my body each evening, and when I sleep the products soaks into my skin and does its thing, giving me a gloss, a shine and keeping my looking youthful and healthy. If you don’t moisturise, you could end up with dry skin that turns hard and itches. This can stop you from having a sound night’s sleep, and it can also damage your self confidence. They Sleep With A Humidifier An air humidifier is well worth investing in if you want to stay looking young, beautiful and healthy. Beautiful ladies combine them with a barrier repair moisturiser, with the humidifier making your skin resistant to allergens and irritants. Air humidifier’s also hydrate your skin overnight, preventing it from dying out and meaning tha you don’t have to moisturise the next day. Humidifier’s can be noisy, so if you’re sharing a room it’s polite to ask for permission first. They Wear Their Hair Down Do you think it’s better to wear your hair down or hold it back when you sleep? If you answered the latter, we need to talk. Holding your hair back is not a clever idea because the elastics will tear as you move around in bed, and this can harm your lovely but fragile tresses. Worse still, you could easily wake up with tangles which are not cool at all (which you already know). They Use Toners Each night, beautiful girls use a toner to tone up their face. A toner makes your skin more resistant to micro-organisms and bacteria, and it resorts your face’s natural pH levels. It also rides your face of pollution, dust and any other type of impurity. They Don’t Wear Socks Okay, sometimes your feet might get cold as you slip into bed at night. This is normal. But girls who want to hold onto their beauty know that some sacrifices have to be made. And going to bed without socks is one of them. Socks in bed is cozy and they can help you to get settled. But they can also cause your feet to sweat, and sweaty feet is a breeding ground for bacteria and fungal growth. Sometimes, it does get really cold at night but it’s important that you stay strong on this one. They Get Lots Of Sleep! “I’ll sleep when I’m dead!” If you’ve overworked, you’ve probably used the above phrase. Maybe you’re the first one in the office and the last to leave. And before heading home, you hit the gym first. By the time you finally do crawl into bed it’s almost 1am and your alarm goes off at 6am. Although living a fast-paced life can be exciting, it shouldn’t be a part of any girls beauty regime. Beautiful girls put their beauty first, and as such they make sure to get at least eight hours of sleep each night. Lack of sleep can be the reason we develop dark circles around our eyes, and it can even leave us looking pale and weary. Stay beautiful! Source :http://www.eleganceng.com/2017/11/for-ladies-10-things-beautiful-girls-do-in-the-evenings/ |
Federal Government youth empowerment scheme, N-Power on Monday revealed what pre-selected candidates on awaiting list must do. The scheme said pre-selected candidates on awaiting list should visit their local government of residence between Tuesday and Thursday. In a tweet via it’s official Twitter handle, the scheme disclosed that the physical verification exercise continued this week. The tweet reads, “Good morning. Physical Verification will continue this week. 2016 applicants who are on the waiting list should please visit their LGA of residence between Tuesday and Thursday.” Source :http://www.eleganceng.com/2017/12/npower-reveals-what-preselected-candidates-on-awaiting-list-most-do/ |
Banking job in Nigeria is a job for those who aspire to be the best in all they do, the environment in this industry is highly competitive. A moment of weakness on your part could place you on the sidelines. Being good on the job is not rocket science, it is something that happens with your commitment, passion and loyalty to the system. But to be in contention for beating the competition, you have to get the job first; and that is the purpose of this article. From my personal experience, it cannot be said that getting employed by a bank is difficult or easy. The reason is because there are a lot of variables which compels banks to recruit. Depending on the variable, which is never constant from year to year, it directly determines the processes involved and the duration of the selection exercise. There are two major forms of recruitment obtainable in the industry, they are: Executive Trainee Experienced hire Executive trainees are the sets of candidates comprising of fresh graduates not more than 26 years of age. A banking career in Nigeria usually starts from this level. QUALIFICATIONS FOR EXECUTIVE TRAINEE HIRE To be in position to apply for a bank job as an ET, you will have to possess the following requirements: Should not be above 26years of age Should possess a degree (BSc or HND) not less than second class upper Gone through NYSC Possess good communication skills Smart and young Now these are the basic qualifications for ET, if you possess the above requirements congratulations you have passed the first step. The second step is the unwritten requirements and this is where you have to do your homework. You have to prepare a great CV and a cover letter that will sell you better. Consider yourself as someone convincing and telling the bank what you are and what you can offer, the interview time does not last more than 10mins, but your resume and credentials stays in their possession after you are long gone, so how you arrange your CV and credentials represents you. Remember to use professional email address for your CV, what I mean is using your full name in your email, not some odd and informal expressions like sweetchick@yahoo.com or john1986@gmail.com. Ensure that your date of birth dose not conflict, cross check what you have on your WAEC certificate with your birth certificate. HOW TO SUBMIT YOUR APPLICATION There are different avenues one can submit applications, in this digital era all banks have a human resources page on their websites that accepts job applications. There are times were it has to be hard copy in designated branches. Again it depends on the need and the sense of urgency. The key here is to get the right information at the appropriate time. THE BANK WILL CONTACT YOU After submitting your application, it may take some time to be contacted by the bank for either aptitude test or interview. Either step that comes first depends on the urgency of the process. There are situations where aptitude test will be bypassed and it may just be series of interviews. Make sure your phones and emails are reachable at this stage. THE TRAINING SCHOOL After going through aptitude test and interviews, successful candidates are enlisted for the banks’ training school, every bank has a name for their training school, and it usually takes between 3 to 6 months depending on the bank. During this period, the bank will train you on all their processes and duly equip you with requisite knowledge on how to beat the competition in the industry. There are also series of examinations and written test in the school, failing any test or exam at any stage of the training may mark your exit from the process, which is why you have to be at your very best. Successful completion of the program translates into a brand new career for you, that makes you an executive trainee (ET) of the bank and this is the starting level. EXPERIENCED HIRE The experienced hire in the banking industry is when a banker is switching to another bank. The process is not the same with the executive trainee, this is because they are already in the system with some years of experience. The qualifications are: Bachelors degree or HND (second class upper) Additional qualification is an added advantage Must have some years of banking experience Must be cleared from the previous bank (integrity wise) There may be other requirements depending on the bank, but these are the basic requirements for experienced hire. Successful candidates are usually placed one step above their current level but never below. These are just my personal experience in the industry, and I hope it helps one step further in actualizing your dreams of becoming a banker. Congratulations in advance. Source :http://www.eleganceng.com/2017/12/how-to-get-a-banking-job-in-nigeria/ |
As written by someone who got hitched in both decades Every time I see a young woman flashing her engagement ring, I want to grab her by the hand, sit her down, and counsel her. It’s not that I’m against women getting married while in their 20s; I just know that marriage is so much better when you wait until your 30s. I’ve been there, done that, and conquered adversity. I’m 34 years old and on my second marriage. My divorcee demographics: Met my future ex-husband: Age 25 Bling, bling, got the ring: Age 26 Got hitched: Age 27 Got ditched: Age 28 I’m proud of the fact that I got divorced in my 20s. It means I had the courage to leave my home, pick up the pieces, and start my life over when all my friends were getting married and having babies. I could’ve stayed in an unhappy situation — spending every night sleeping next to someone who no longer wanted to be married to me — knowing I would never have the future of my dreams. Instead, I chose to chase those dreams. And now, I’m living them. I’m grateful for my “failed” marriage. I prefer to refer to it as a learning experience because it led me to where I’m supposed to be: happily remarried, and mommy to a beautiful daughter and two fur-children. I made my divorce a positive experience by uniting with other twenty-something divorcées to show them that they’re not lone wolves — we have a pack. I formed a private online support group, hosted local meet-ups, conducted interviews, and published a book: Trash the Dress: Stories of Celebrating Divorce in your 20s. When my marriage ended, I made a list of qualities I wanted in a new mate, and luckily enough I found someone who meets all the requirements on my checklist. We got married when I was 32 years old, and I can say with confidence that this wedding dress will be preserved. Marriage in your 30s is way better than in your 20s. Now that I have my happily ever after, I can’t imagine going through life with my ex-husband. Marriage works when you’ve found the right person. But there are also advantages to waiting until you’re a little older to tie the knot: 1. By your 30s, you most likely have sowed your oats. You’ve dated around, know what’s out there, and got all the bad boy lovin’ out of your system. 2. You’ve had enough time to recover from your first major heartbreak. During my research, I found that many women got married because they thought they’d never find anyone else to compare to their first love, so they settled. 3. Your 20s are about self-indulgence. You’re creating yourself. By your 30s, you know who you are and what you can offer a partner. You’re not going to outgrow each other. 4. With age comes maturity and better communication skills. Instead of fighting over little things or pushing issues under the rug, you know how to address them. 5. You know what you want. You’re not going to waste time dating someone in your 30s when you know it’s not going anywhere, so the partner you marry will be someone with whom you can have a successful future. 6. You’ve established self-confidence. By bringing out the best in yourself, you’re enhancing your marriage. 7. By your 30s, you’ve hopefully learned how to manage money.Finances are a huge source of conflict for couples and a reason many young couples divorce. Who wants to spend all their nights fighting about cash flow? 8. You’re more secure in your career in your 30s. This provides you the time and energy to focus on a marriage. 9. You’ve had time to live alone. Either with a roommate or love interest, and you’ve become a responsible adult. You’re not learning this while adjusting to marriage. 10. You’ve found your voice. In your 20s, you’re facing pressure from friends, family, and society to follow the norm. In your 30s, you have the courage to stand up for yourself. And that will lead you to where you should be and who’s supposed to accompany you on this life adventure. Source: http://www.eleganceng.com/2017/12/10-strong-reasons-you-should-get-married-in-your-30s-not-your-20s/ |
A US-based Nigerian businessman was dazed in Lagos, when land agents led him to the lagoon after the part-payment for 150 plots offered for N787.5 million. Kennedy Chukwuemeka Nwabuoku told detectives led by DCP Abutu Yaro, at the Force Criminal Investigations and Intelligence Department (FCIID), Alagbon, how he had paid N577, 590, 792 in installments among other charges, plus another N18million for bush clearing in February, and how the agents were sending him pictures and videos of caterpillars in action at the purported site at Ifedele Agunbiade Village, Sangotedo, in Eti-Osa area of Lagos. Nwabuoku told the police that he bought the unseen land with a foreign partner and had paid in fiduciary trust, sending monies on different occasions through his company, KenBouk Global Investment Ltd. Identified as Emeka Okoronkwo and Michael Owolabi Alonge, the agents, according to Nwabuoku, had offered the land for sale at N5, 250, 000 per plot with Certificate of Occupancy (C of O). NewsmakersNG learnt that members of Nwabuoku’s family in Nigeria who wanted to see the site were told that the land was in an area bought by prominent Nigerians like former President Olusegun Obasanjo and Oba Riliwanu Akiolu, and it was cordoned off so that ordinary citizens could not gain access. When he became suspicious, Nwabuoku sent the C of O to a friend to verify, and the friend found that no such land or location described in the document existed. He decided to visit Nigeria and inspect the land for which he had paid the property agent, Okoronkwo, who was identified as owner of Kings Court Realtors at Plot 321A, Akin Ogunlewe Street, Victoria Island. When he was quizzed by the police on November 8, 2017, Okoronkwo allegedly admitted that he collected N603, 000, 000 for 100 plots, agency fees and legal fees through transfers to Kings Court Realtors’ accounts in two banks. Detectives found that Nwabuoku transferred the monies in the following order over a period: N229, 000, 000, N86, 000, 000, N120, 000, 000, N41, 300, 000, N11, 291, 000, and N90, 000, 000. They also found that the C of O given to Nwabuoku is a fake one, and that Alonge who introduced him to Okoronkwo “masterminded the fraud”. According to the detectives, fictitious persons were listed in the Deed of Assignment that the suspected fraudsters also gave to Nwabuoku. When Nwabuoku arrived and insisted he must see the site before further payments, Alonge allegedly took him to a location far inside a wooded area that led to the lagoon with canoes going back and forth. “Mr Michael Owolabi Alonge started pointing around and towards the lagoon, as if he was not sure where the land is anymore,” Nwabuoku stated in his petition to the police. When Nwabuoku, who had been given no receipt, asked for a refund, he said that the suspects had threatened to kill him if he fails to keep quiet on the transaction. Detectives have completed their investigation and the matter has been charged to court with Sgt Morufu Animashaun as police lawyer. NewsmakersNG learnt that Alonge is on the run. There was an arrest warrant for Okoronkwo who allegedly received the payments, and he will appear in court on December 5. The case is pending before Chief Magistrate (Mrs) Abimbola Komolafe of Magistrate Court 3, Igbosere, in Lagos. Source :http://www.eleganceng.com/2017/11/fraudsters-reportedly-sell-lagos-lagoon-for-n787million/ |
You are one of those people who think that marriage is a useless step in life.You think that life can be good minus marriage too.Then maybe you need to be aware of some good reasons as to why people get married. You are looking at substantial arguments to tell you that marriage is not that bad, after all. Here are some reasons that you should get married. Reasons that why you should get married are: 1.You have a stable sex life: When you get married, you get the license to have sex with your husband whenever you want. You don’t have to feel guilty or ashamed about it, because both of you are in a happy, healthy relationship together, and having sex regularly is a part of it. Plus, with one loyal partner, there is no risk of STDs, as would be the case if you were single and having sexual encounters with various people. 2.You face low mortality risk: It has been proven by scientific research that married people are likely to have a longer life, as compared to single people. So if you love your life and want to lead a longer one, then marriage will affect your longevity directly. When you try and study this logic properly, you realize that marriage is the focal point to better health and wellness; as a result of which, people end up living longer. 3.You get lifelong companionship: Everyone likes to have that one stable friend to depend on for everything. With marriage, your husband becomes that stable friend for you. Irrespective of whatever good or bad happens in your life, he will be just a call away for you. And he too will never be able to move away from this position, because the bond of marriage will make him liable to be there for you, even if it means rescuing you from a road accident urgently, or leaving work to come wipe your tears when you’re in some problem. 4.Your standard of life improves: With marriage, your chances of moving out of a poor neighborhood to a better one increase. Moreover, since there are incomes of two people (you and your husband’s), focusing on one household, obviously your spending power and quality of life become better. Your husband too will take extra steps to get you good things because he will consider it to be his moral duty and responsibility. .You get a new family: Marriage will make your husband’s family, your family. This means that you get a lot of new relationships to look at and enjoy. You enjoy the bliss of a bigger family, with more people to share your joys with. Festivals and occasions become more enjoyable, and there are more people who are concerned about your well being on a whole. 6.Your friend circle expands: When you are single, you can only do a limited amount of activities with your single friends. Your married friends would be interested in some other activities. However, when you get married, you can do the same activities as your other married friends. You can go on couple gatherings and trips. Plus, your husband’s friends will also become your friends, and so will their spouses, thereby expanding your friend circle. You get a more active social life, with great friends to look forward to. 7.You’re safe and secure for life: Marriage also makes you pretty safe and secure for your life. Your husband will make sure that there are some savings for you, even if he passes away. Moreover, you have him around in the same house, and so you don’t need to be scared about living alone. Plus, your parents are happy that you have a secure future, with a stable partner to take care of you. 8.It enriches you as a person: Marriage has the ability to make a person mature, smart and responsible. You also become more sensitive, understanding and supportive. In other words, you start to become a better person, who handles problems in a responsible way, and not immaturely. This is great for one’s overall personal growth. 9.Your chances of being successful in life are higher: With so many good things that marriage does to you, there is great mental peace and satisfaction that you attain. It’s because of this mental wellness, that you’re able to focus better on your work. Your concentration and efficiency increases, thereby helping you to get promotions at work. This way, your chances of being successful in life are pretty high. In fact, there have been several studies, which have proven that married professionals are more likely to perform better than single ones. 10.It gives a meaning to your life: Traditionally, marriage is a bond of commitment, and once you step into this phase of life, this relationship will add a new meaning to your life altogether. You know you are committed to someone, and that brings about a lot of changes in the way you deal with your partner, as well as your life. The tag of marriage brings about some discipline in your head, with some boundaries, and a list of dos and don’ts, which you are not likely to respect when you are not married to your partner. These are the reasons why you should get married. Source :http://www.eleganceng.com/2017/11/a-must-see-10-good-reasons-why-you-should-get-married/ |
Most guys are scared of approaching a girl to wooing her thinking that before going into a relationship you must have lots and lots of money and this is where most guys miss it. These steps works best on girls who are single or want a new relationship, of course I wouldn’t go with these on a slay queen. They have no brains so lol. Don’t get me wrong. I said without money. This is not in anyway encouraging broke guys o cause money is still needed in the relationship. You guys must go out. You must transport if you have a car you must buy fuel etc. Money needed for all those things. So here are some ways, If you are cute. This will make you outstanding. 1. Be funny and romantic. If you want to woo a girl and you are a funny guy, you have an advantage, you can mix this wittiness of yours with romance, be romantic and at the same time be funny, don’t just be funny. Be funny and slowly keep a great conversation with her while making your intentions know to her slowly, slowly do this, it will be preferable to do this via chat or in person anyone you feel comfortable with. Like for example of me being funny. Girl :she uploaded a very cute dp and I was like Me: babe, this your dp is too cute o, you want to give them boys sleepless night ba, you just they hit anyhow o, even fire self they quench, your own na endless hotness” She found it funny and she laughed and then I added the romantic funny line “our babies are going to be very cute, I mean look at how cute their mother is, and of course the daddy which is me is also cute so our combination will be beautiful” and she was like Girl: oh dear you are very funny. So you see. It has even gotten to the point that she enjoys me so much that even if we are suppose to take a bus home she will be like “baby no need lets stroll so we can see things to laugh and gist about and hold hands, it’s romantic” I give her a great conversation that I leave her yearning for more. I am more than best friend and parents combined because I have given her the kind of excitement. Listening ears that she hasn’t experienced before. NOTE : This might not work on some girls but you just have to look for something that will work on her. 2. If you have a great voice, sing to her. Girls love guys who have great voice and can sing, so if you can sing her a romantic short song most of the time. She will definitely fall in love with you. While slowly making your intentions known to her. 3. Be neat and keep a great fashion sense. Dress responsibly with some mature swag. Not some childish bull poo, if you wanna sag. Sag moderately. It’s still cute. Just be yourself. Dress cool. If you keep your hair. Make sure it’s well shaved. Wear good Cologne with beautiful smell. Brush your teeths. Just smell good whenever you are around here. Don’t go around smelling like candle or mosquito coil. 4. Look fit and be cute I do 30 press up every morning and 30 frog jumps so my up and down body looks fit and it’s attractive, drink water and eat moderately so you don’t become fat and look unkempt. Take care of your skin, look fresh and kept. Very important. 5. Take her out to nice places. Take to cool restaurants, shouldn’t be too cheap. Tell her you took her here not because you have the money for it but because you just wanted to make her feel special and that you both are not complete without each other. She will appreciate it. You don’t have to take her to expensive places all the time. You could take her to the cinemas to watch a cool movie. But pop corn. Play with her gently while watching the movie. Kiss her. Hold her hand and enjoy yourselves together. In summary. Have a great personality, Don’t be too nice but be nice. If she asks you for something and you have do for her. If you don’t have tell her straight. If you need help. Ask her too. Know your worth and let your actions tell her that and you also value yourself. Let your word be your word. Don’t act weak. Don’t boss her around. Respect her decisions. Be yourself. Don’t act like dangote pikin, humble yourself. She will fall in love with you. Don’t be an asshole and start playing around. Keep the excitement in your relationship. Hope this helps ? Source :http://www.eleganceng.com/2017/11/guys-only-these-are-the-easy-ways-to-woo-a-girl-without-using-money/ |