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Squad4:
Okay so i should book a flight and head to owerri to go and look for cheap girls that am not interested in? I need real advice not looking fo a good time pls!

Hahahahhahaha
Oya start going to church esp thursday and saturday (choir practice)

Pentecostal church isn't bad
You can also try orthodox churches
Better still all those jehoval witness


She will come to ur house every saturday as a witness bt when she becomes pregnant I don't think jehoval will be her witness o

adewaletb3:
You self don turn marriage counsellor?? Smh

Counsellor ko
Counsellor ni

MrsChima:
The correct term would be Human Sexuality and it is important for people to know the correct facts.

I believe Nigerian men would be better lovers and women can own their sexuality.

It has covered array of topics from reproduction to body systems. It was unfortunate that the average person couldn't locate the clit.....gspot....and cervix.

I would love to teach that course.

I would love to be your student

I so much love practical

Have more money, lot of money, enough cash, fat money
In fact bigger money
Nd watch dem d ladies tell you "hi dear seems I knw u frm somewia"

Here are 10 reasons why he hasn’t asked you to marry him yet:

1) Career comes first

He loves you but he is at a point in his career where he needs to put all his energy and dedication towards his work. He does not think it to be a wise decision to get married at a time when his work needs all his attention. If he gets married to you now, he would not b able to give you enough time as he would be completely immersed in his work.

2) He does not want to commit

He has never given a reason to complain about him and has treated you with a lot of love and respect. But, he is scared to commit. He loves you but he does not know where is this relationship headed towards or will it last for long. Getting married means being committed to your partner for life and he is not ready to do that now.



3) Skeptical about marriage

A couple of bad experiences in life can make us cynical about certain things. If you have seen marriages ending up in divorce from your close quarter or have known someone who has had a bad marriage, you could get a little skeptical about getting married. If this is the reason he is shying away from marriage, then you should try to convince him and make him realize that marriage does not always end up badly and there are so many people who are happily married too.

4) Does not want to lose his freedom

When you are in a relationship with someone, you have certain responsibilities towards your partner but you are not bound to answerable to them for everything. However, marriage is serious business and you have to do everything keeping in mind the interest of your spouse. You have to give up on a few things and make sacrifices. Maybe, he is not ready to lose his freedom as yet.

5)He is in love with someone else

Sometimes, it gets difficult for one to control one’s emotions. Even as he in a relationship with you, his heart may have gone astray and found somebody else. The feelings that he had for you feel short of the intense love he has for another person. He could find it difficult to confess this to you. If you sense him doing this, you should ask him directly. You should not let him keep you in the dark.

6) Financial woes

He might be going through a rough patch in his career and his bank balance is on an all time low. In this situation, it would be difficult to get married to you and look after you. It is important to think practically in such times. No matter how much you love each other, you need to be financially sound to assume all the responsibilities’ that come with marriage. You should try to help him and get him out of this difficult time.

7) He is busy

Work is not the only thing that keeps one occupied. There are several other things that one’s attention. There might be some family obligations that he must fulfill or some other personal issue that he needs to resolve. It would not be right for him to put these things on hold just to get married.

He is apprehensive

Though you are getting anxious about marriage, he does not know about it,. He is not sure whether you would accept his proposal or not. He fears that you might get startled by his proposal. Does he show signs of nervousness or starts talking about something and then, suddenly stops. If yes, then he might be scared of proposing marriage to you.

9) You have not shown interest

Even though you do want to get married, you have not expressed it in any way. Even if you have been suggesting this to him indirectly, you must work harder at making him realize that you are interested and he should propose to you right away.

10) He does not love you

Now, this is something would be difficult for you to handle. You will be heartbroken if he tells you that he does not have any feelings for you. But, you must look at it in a positive way. You must be glad that you got to know about this before you got married to him. Had you stumbled upon this truth after marriage, it would have hurt you even more.

There could be several reasons behind him not asking you to get married to him as yet. It is important to know the exact reason and act accordingly. If you are pretty sure that he is not going to say it, why do not you do the needful? Yes, girls do expect guys to propose marriage to them but if your guy, for some reason, does not take a step ahead in this direction, you should go and talk about this to him

ImFortress:
Like say you wan buy!!

Chai! Dia is God o


I swear u go harsh for real life ni

If she wants a brk, GIVE HER A VACATION

manchibabe:
been goin out with this dude but he is kinda drifting away slowly, i need tips on how to win his love back becos it seems there are many pple who wants to take him away from me,

pls useful advise pls,

Once a man stop 2 care about you,if u like use HB pencil or 2B pencil u can't draw his attention bck

Even if u succeed to get em bck;my sister he will turn u 2 sex slave....

Never beg for a relationship
If not you will 4eva beg to maintain

ImFortress:
The female is above @ Younghartz

Nice cutie

You took away her virginity bt you didn't mention it.
You have bn d only guy she knew. Now she's now a stalker...you re even lucky she isn't A grade stalker(she'll love seeing you in pain always)

You took away her joy from other guys(cus of you she didn't date boys)she wakes up every morning just cus of you,everything about her focused on you.....

I swear she'll bring hell into your life.....

Op Always remember you're responsible for your happiness
So if you allow anyone to frustrate you it all boils down 2 "you allowed him/her to frustrate you"

Meta (3)

ImFortress:
Its hard to get a good breed in Nigeria, so very few people owns it compared to other known breeds

You can kind post d dam pix here so we could see
And try to watermark the picture
Cus of........scammers

onstelly:
Have you ever been cheated on by your partner you so much trusted, if yes how did you handle it. Were you able to forgive him/her and start all over again or was that just the end of the whole thing. A for me I have been cheated on before, though I have forgiven him but I just can't seem to forget the whole things even when I tried so hard to. Let's share your veiw on this

I forgave her doesn't mean I still trust her...
A cheat remains a cheat

I friend zone her and she's now paying for her sins

Nigga made her a toy machine

tinziemaine:
What should I do now please when we took an oath we were blinded by love I wanted to restrict but if I don't take the oath with her she won't believe every word I said before now I found out she is possessed by an evil spirit how can I take it back?

OYO LO WA ?

Alertism Chai

brendawine:
Lolz
I Neva reach to go match tortoise bro

Lol
You re not ready den
Just joking

brendawine:
Nop
Like wen he takes me out am kinda boring not consuming more drinks with him or eating a lot he calls those his male friends to join him there and spend the cash

Mostly wenevr he makes much money for contract or agency
He spends like mad moving to high profile hangouts for just belly

Have u heard abt juju b4?

Try to explain things to ur girlfrnd b4 she finds out

Y'all knw how girl behave
Her respond will be like "WHY DIDN'T YOU TELL ME"

As 4 d other girl introduce her to ur cool pal
Dats why I love my niggass' they love 2 share
Dey always knw hw to get a brother out of dis situation

arcbay:
Did he just say "pitbull"? Or is my phone playing tricks on me?

I guess ur network is bad

Mrdrix:
Ok, Thanks.

You're always welcome sire.

Mrdrix:
How old was simon when you got it, and how long has it been with you? How were you able to domesticate it? The one I have is just too wild, and not friendly at all, although he is dead now, but I never held it or even touched it once.

Ha! Bros enh dis ur question na die bt I'll ansa dem all

I never knew d age of simon cus d abokii sef no knw.

Simon was with me for 3yrs.

He didn't grow at all bt d feather became brighter and d tail became longer.

When I bought simon I placed him in my veranda I was using rod to carry it after den I started using hand glove...then d bond stated...katherine is d opposite of simon(so aggressive)

No 3 na pure lie

#teamHausa women rocks

Note: me na igbo boy bt I can't marry igbo girl

Most married women face a lot of pains in their marriage
Yet,they'll come out nd say good thing dat doesn't happen. Esp igbo ladies
They'll 4eva bear d pain inside rather filing 4 a divorce

You can deceive d public but not ur self.
In marriage most women get found of their husband and they turn around to call it love...something about sex is "when having sex with someone too much it becomes like a bond"
Even when having sex with a particular prostitute you will start developing feelings 4 her. While having sex with ur wife you'll be thinking about ur prostitute

Tapout:
53-23=30 smh.

#childAbuse

What abt those abokii in nigeria

46yrs marrying 12yrs enh

72marrying 18yrs nko

Have u ever bleep her?

Broda ignore her jawe

As ya crushing on her another girl is crushing on you
Find someone else
And make this one you sex-mate

Marketing HIV

God has a special cane 4 we sinners.

I'm ready 4 church....

Im ready to go 2 church nepa just restored power i just pulled off my shirt to play game :| devil u just won d fight not d war / till next sunday 8-|

I thought a gsd husky mix should be something like this not what am seeing up there

Jesu lo ba

Travellers: every weekend
Either burial party,
Uncle dy sick,
Food stuff ish
Frnds' party

Bt it all boils down to [b]"d girl na coded olosho"[\B]

rothea:
THIS SHOULD HELP:
Engagement ring
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia


A white gold wedding ring and a single-diamond, gold-banded engagement ring.


Engagement process in Azerbaijan
"Engagement Ring" redirects here. For the Roy Lichtenstein painting, see Engagement Ring (Roy Lichtenstein).
An engagement ring is a ring indicating that the person wearing it is engaged to be married, especially in Western cultures. In Western countries, engagement rings are worn only by women, and rings can feature diamonds or other gemstones. In other cultures men and women wear matching rings. In some cultures, engagement rings are also used as wedding rings.

The woman's ring is presented as a betrothal gift by a man to his prospective spouse while he proposes marriage or directly after she accepts his marriage proposal. It represents a formal agreement to future marriage.

In Western countries, it is customarily worn on the left hand ring finger, though customs vary across the world.

Before agreeing to marry, a couple may choose to buy and wear pre-engagement rings, also called promise rings. After marrying, the couple may wear both engagement rings and wedding rings, or if they prefer, only the wedding rings. Some brides have their engagement and wedding rings permanently soldered together after marriage.

Contents [hide]
1 History
1.1 Ancient times
1.2 Middle ages
1.3 Renaissance
1.4 Reformation
1.5 Enlightenment
1.6 Victorian era
1.7 20th century
1.8 21st century
2 Purchase
3 Legal ownership
4 Styles
5 For men
6 See also
7 References
8 External links
History[edit]
Ancient times[edit]
Although the ancient Egyptians are sometimes credited with having invented the engagement ring,[1] and the ancient Greeks with having adopted the tradition,[2] the history of the engagement ring can only be reliably traced as far back as ancient Rome.[3][4][5]

In many countries, engagement rings are placed on the finger nearest the little finger on the left hand. At one time it was believed that this finger contained a vein (the vena amoris) that led to the heart. This idea was popularized by Henry Swinburne in A treatise of Spousals, or Matrimonial Contracts (1686).[6] The story seems to have its origin in the ancient Roman book Attic Nights by Aulus Gellius quoting Apion's Aegyptiacorum, where the alleged vein was originally a nervus (a word that can be translated either as "nerve" or "sinew".[7]

The popular belief that an engagement ring was originally part of the bride price which represented purchase and ownership of the bride,[8] has been called into question by contemporary scholarship.[4]:42 note 105

In the second century BC, the Roman bride-to-be was given two rings, a gold one which she wore in public, and one made of iron which she wore at home while attending to household duties. At one time Roman citizens wore rings made of iron. In later years senators who served as ambassadors were given gold seal rings for official use when abroad. Later the privilege of wearing gold rings was extended to other public officials, then to the knights, later to all freeborn, and finally under Justinian, to freedmen. For several centuries it was the custom for Romans to wear iron rings at home, gold rings in public. During this period a girl or woman might receive two engagement rings, one of iron and one of gold.[9][10]

Middle ages[edit]
The mid-7th century Visigothic Code required "that when the ceremony of betrothal has been performed, ..., and the ring shall have been given or accepted as a pledge, although nothing may have been committed to writing, the promise shall, under no circumstances, be broken."[11][12]

In 860 AD, Pope Nicholas I wrote a letter to Boris I of Bulgaria in reply to questions regarding differences between Roman Catholic and Eastern Orthodox practices. Pope Nicholas describes how in the Western church the man gives his betrothed an engagement ring[13][14][15] At the Fourth Council of the Lateran in 1215, convoked by Pope Innocent III, the Banns of marriage was instituted, prohibiting clandestine marriages and requiring that marriages be made public in advance.[16] Some legal scholars have seen in this a parallel with the engagement-ring tradition described by Pope Nicholas I.

Renaissance[edit]
The first well-documented use of a diamond ring to signify engagement was by the Archduke Maximilian of Austria in imperial court of Vienna in 1477, upon his betrothal to Mary of Burgundy.[17] This then influenced those of higher social class and of significant wealth to give diamond rings to their loved ones.

Reformation[edit]
During the Protestant Reformation the wedding ring replaced the betrothal ring as the primary ring associated with marriage.[18] In Catholic countries the transition took place somewhat later.[19]

In early colonial New England, where Puritans shunned ornaments and jewels, a thimble substituted for both engagement ring and wedding ring. Some women would remove the tops of the thimble in order to create a ring.[20] In some religious communities (plain people) this practice persisted until very late.[5]

Enlightenment[edit]
During the Age of Enlightenment both the Gimmal ring and Posie ring were popular, although the latter was more often used as an expression of sentiment than to indicate a formal engagement.[21]

Victorian era[edit]
Diamonds were first found in South Africa in 1866,[22] although they were not identified as such until 1867.[23] By 1872, the output of the diamond mines exceeded one million carats per year. [24] As production increased, those of lesser means were able to join in on this movement. However, diamond engagement rings were for a long time seen as the domain of the nobility and aristocracy, and tradition often favoured simpler engagement bands.

20th century[edit]
In the United States, the popularity of diamond engagement rings declined after World War I, even more so after the onset of the Great Depression.[25]

In 1938, the diamond cartel De Beers began a marketing campaign that would have a major impact on engagement rings. During the Great Depression of the 1930s, the price of diamonds collapsed. At the same time, market research indicated that engagement rings were going out of style with the younger generation. While the first phase of the marketing campaign consisted of market research, the advertising phase began in 1939. One of the first elements of this campaign was to educate the public about the 4 Cs (cut, carats, color, and clarity). In 1947 the slogan, "A Diamond is Forever," was introduced. Ultimately, the De Beers campaign sought to persuade the consumer that an engagement ring is indispensable, and that a diamond is the only acceptable stone for an engagement ring. The campaign was very successful. In 1939 only 10% of engagement rings had diamonds. By 1990, 80% did.[26][27][28]

21st century[edit]
In the 21st century, especially within Western civilization, it has become a common expectation for the bride-to-be to permanently wear her ring as a means of showing her commitment.[29]

Purchase[edit]
In the 20th century, if he could afford it, the typical Western groom privately selected and purchased an engagement ring, which he then presented to his desired bride when he proposed marriage. More recently, couples frequently select an engagement ring together[citation needed]. In countries where both partners wear engagement rings, matching rings may be selected and purchased together.[30] In the United States and Canada, where only women commonly wear engagement rings, women occasionally present their partners with an engagement ring.[31]

Like all jewelry, the price for an engagement ring varies considerably depending on the materials used: the design of the ring, whether it includes a gemstone, the value of any gemstone, and the seller. The price of the gemstones, if any, in the ring depends on the type and quality of the gem. Diamonds have a standardized description that values them according to their carat weight, color, clarity and cut. Other gemstones, such as sapphires, rubies, emeralds, have different systems. These may be chosen to honor a family tradition, to use family heirlooms, to be unique, to be socially responsible (they are not associated with blood diamonds or the pollution caused by gold mining and cyanide process), to fit the individual's stylistic preferences, or to manage cost. Synthetic stones and diamond substitutes such as cubic zirconias and moissanites are also popular choices that are socially responsible and reduce cost while maintaining the desired appearance.

The idea that a man should spend a significant fraction of his annual income for an engagement ring originated de novo from De Beers marketing materials in the mid-20th century, in an effort to increase the sale of diamonds. In the 1930s, they suggested that a man should spend the equivalent of one month's income in the engagement ring; later they suggested that he should spend two months' income on it.[32] In 2012, the average cost of an engagement ring in USA as reported by the industry was US$4,000.[33]

One reason for the increased popularity of expensive engagement rings is its relationship to human sexuality and the woman's marriage prospects.[34] Until the Great Depression, a man who broke off a marriage engagement could be sued for breach of promise. Monetary damages included actual expenses incurred in preparing for the wedding, plus damages for emotional distress and loss of other marriage prospects. Damages were greatly increased if the woman had engaged in sexual intercourse with her fiancé.[34] Beginning in 1935, these laws were repealed or limited. However, the social and financial cost of a broken engagement was no less: marriage was the only financially sound option for most women, and if she was no longer a virgin, her prospects for a suitable future marriage were greatly decreased. The diamond engagement ring thus became a source of financial security for the woman.[34]

Legal ownership[edit]
Tradition generally holds that if the betrothal fails because the man himself breaks off the engagement, the
woman is not obliged to return the ring. This reflects the ring's role as a form of compensation for the woman's damaged reputation.[34] Legally, this condition can be subject to either a modified or a strict fault rule. Under the former, the fiancé can demand the return of the ring unless he breaks the engagement. Under the latter, the fiancé is entitled to the return unless his actions caused the breakup of the relationship, the same as the traditional approach. However, a no-fault rule is being advanced in some jurisdictions, under which the fiancé is always entitled to the return of the ring. The ring only becomes the property of the woman when marriage occurs. An unconditional gift approach is another possibility, wherein the ring is always treated as a gift, to be kept by the fiancée whether or not the relationship progresses to marriage. Recent court rulings have determined that the date in which the ring was offered can determine the condition of the gift. E.g. Valentine's Day and Christmas are nationallyTemplate:Which nation? recognized as gift giving holidays. A ring offered in the form of a Christmas present is likely to remain the personal property of the recipient in the event of a breakup.[35]

In most states of the United States, engagement rings are considered "conditional gifts" under the legal rules of property. This is an exception to the general rule that gifts cannot be revoked once properly given. See, for example, the case of Meyer v. Mitnick, 625 N.W.2d 136 (Michigan, 2001), whose ruling found the following reasoning persuasive: "the so-called 'modern trend' holds that because an engagement ring is an inherently conditional gift, once the engagement has been broken, the ring should be returned to the donor. Thus, the question of who broke the engagement and why, or who was 'at fault,' is irrelevant. This is the no-fault line of cases."

One case in New South Wales, Australia ended in the man suing his former fiancée because she threw the ring away, after he told her she could keep it even though the marriage plans had fallen through. The Supreme Court of New South Wales held that, despite what the man said, the ring remained a conditional gift (partly because his saying that she could keep it reflected his desire to salvage the relationship) and she was ordered to pay him its A$15,250 cost.[36]

In England and Wales, the gift of an engagement ring is presumed to be an absolute gift to the fiancée. This presumption may be rebutted however by proving that the ring was given on condition (express or implied) that it must be returned if the marriage did not take place, for whatever reason. This was decided in the case Jacobs v Davis [1917] 2 KB 532.

Styles[edit]
BridalSet.jpg Diamond, 14kG, wed eng anv RING.JPG
This wedding set contains two separate rings, either of which could be worn separately.
This wedding set contains two separate rings that look incomplete separately.
Engagement rings, like any other kind of jewelry, come in many different styles.

Gold and platinum are preferred for engagement rings,[37] but common metal types such as titanium, silver, and stainless steel are also used for engagement rings. This allows for the bride-to-be to exert her own individual style into the ring in a simple manner.

In the United States, where engagement rings are worn by women, diamonds have been widely featured in engagement rings since the middle of the 20th century.[38] Solitaire rings have one single diamond. Archetype of this modern form is the solitaire Tiffany Setting which was introduced by Tiffany & Co. in 1886 and featured the first mount which holds the gemstone with six claws (so called Tiffany mount).[citation needed] The modern favorite cut for an engagement ring is the brilliant cut, which provides the maximum amount of sparkle to the gemstone.[39] The traditional engagement rings may have different prong settings and bands. Another major category is engagement rings with side stones. Rings with a larger diamond set in the middle and smaller diamonds on the side fit under this category. Three-stone diamond engagement rings, sometimes called trinity rings or trilogy rings, are rings with three matching diamonds set horizontally in a row with the bigger stone placed in the center. The three diamonds on the ring are typically said to represent the couple's past, present, and future, but other people give religious significance to the arrangement.

A wedding set, or bridal set, includes an engagement ring and a wedding band that matches and can be bought as a set. In some cases, the wedding ring looks "incomplete"; it is only when the two halves, engagement and wedding, are assembled that the ring looks whole. In other cases, a wedding set consists of two rings that match stylistically and are worn stacked, although either piece would look appropriate as a separate ring. Although the wedding band is not to be worn until the wedding day, the two rings are usually sold together as a wedding set. After the wedding, the bride may choose to have the two pieces welded together, to increase convenience and reduce the likelihood of losing one of the rings. A trio ring set includes a ladies engagement ring, ladies wedding band and a men's wedding band. These sets often have matching rings and are lower in price.

In Nordic countries, engagement rings are worn by both men and women. Traditionally they are plain gold bands, although more ornate designs and other materials are gaining popularity. The engagement rings resemble the wedding bands sold in the United States, whereas women's wedding rings may resemble US engagement rings.

In North America and the United Kingdom, it is customarily worn on the left hand ring finger. Similar traditions purportedly date to classical times, dating back from an early usage reportedly referring to the fourth finger of the left hand as containing the vena amoris or "vein of love". This custom may have its origins in an ancient Egyptian myth that the finger contained a vein leading directly to the heart, or it may simply be because the heart lies slightly to the left side of the body. In Germany the ring is worn on the left hand while engaged, but moved to the right hand when married. In Poland, the engagement ring and wedding band are traditionally worn on the right hand but modern practice varies considerably.

For men[edit]
In some countries it is common for both men and women to wear engagement rings. In many Lutheran sects often the man wears an engagement ring. The rings are often in the form of a plain band of a precious metal. Sometimes, the engagement ring eventually serves as the wedding ring for the man. In Brazil, for example, the groom and bride-to-be usually wear a plain wedding band on the right hand during the course of their engagement.[40] After the wedding, the band is moved to the left hand. In Argentina, it is also known for the groom and bride-to-be to wear a plain silver band on the left hand while engaged. Then, after the wedding a silver band is either replaced with the wedding ring or moved to the right hand.[citation needed]

Traditionally, women in the British Isles may propose marriage to men during a leap year.[41] Women proposing has become more common in recent years,[when?][citation needed] to the point that some jewelry companies have started manufacturing men's engagement rings. They resemble typical men's rings, often with a diamond centrepiece. In the countries where both sexes have traditionally worn engagement rings, the rings tend to be plainer bands, and there is no real difference between "men's" and "women's" engagement ring designs.

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