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Enoch07:
thank u ma, this is the kind of write ups we should be seeing in times like this.

“Can thou make him afraid as a grasshopper? The glory of his nostrils is terrible.
He rejoices in his strength. He mocks fear and swallows the ground with fierceness”.

This is how the Bible describes the horse. Magnificent creature indeed!.

Do you know why you are so afraid? Because of that problem. Isn’t it?...WRONG!
Problems are not the cause of fear but the absence of a solution thereof. For instance, a poor man today, that is given a grant worth millions that he will only have access to, in two years time, will happily live in poverty for the two years as he looks forward to that Day of redemption. He will wake up every day with that assurance that on so so day, ‘I will be rich’. And that will keep him going.
The only reason why you are afraid is because you think there is no “grant” in your life. No hope for you in sight. Then your mind accepts defeat and sends signal to your brain, which in turn, shuts down. No more creativity. No more thinking out a solution. Fear has taken charge!

..A courageous man sets a time frame to that problem even with no guaranteed solution in sight.
..A courageous man is never idle even in the face of joblessness.
..A courageous man looks at mockers in the face and smiles.
..A courageous man, gets afraid but subdues it with positive thinking.
..A courageous man never gives up!.

Dear one! It is not easy. It is not meant to be easy. You are meant to be strong. Start by changing your mindset. Get up! Get or make a calendar for that problem. Face it like the horse faces a battleground. Maximize your ability in finding a solution.
Each morning as you wake, strike out a day and acknowledge you are a day nearer to your redemption. If that date expires? Do it all over again and again. This will help you to keep going. The racing heartbeat caused by fear will gradually go away. And you will make it, only if you are strong-willed.

see my dawn. Awwwwwnnnnn!

ah! bros please rest. Look at what they are telling you. calm down and LOOK at the analyses abeg.

when u divide #200 by 2=100. Then 1gb by 2=500 mb.. #100 will give u 500 mb ba? okay now multiply either by 3, what do you get? IT IS THE SAME!

Stylish186:
I said 200# For 1gb is more valuable than 1.5gb for 300# read it again

This lady i am seeing here is very beautiful sef!

RoyalBlu:
Las las, it's good character over beauty and orishirishi...


Happy birthday Iyawo Gentry. Keep making your hubby happy.

lockdown made me to start watching NTA. The other day, they wrote "the deseased" instead of "the deceased". I and my family laughed our heads off.

Happy Birthdate Nna! Thank God for a successful surgery.

OP don't give someone high bp o. At a quick glance, i thought i saw 14000 plus. Abeg o.

I do not know him but Rest sir!

Done. I might not be online on sunday because of data. 3042987689 firstbank.

how would you know who and who actually registered? cos i have.

sarmuel97:
Just wait and see
And pls,ensure you monitor this thread
And see the proofs of those i sent money.

Don't behave like a fool.

I will mention you when i do dear. I just need God to come through for me first.

ThatKING:
I hope you keep to the promise

maybe e don green na. You never know.

Victornezzar:
Is this you??

.done 3042987689 firstbank.

For even harbouring the thought alone, you are evil! Ehn i will judge you. Kill yourself and leave the baby alone. Oshi!

So the one in the middle is a man?

I am teresa's daughter.

I believe her. If you watched her in the house, you will know of a truth, she has a rare kind of purity in behavioural patterns.

Not very principled in sexual relations though.

Being financially handicap is a terrible experience. And as God lives, when i am able, i will help as much people as i can, around me.

Now that roller coaster, is all i am trying to avoid. It always starts from someone and that person is who i am talking to.

Dew04:
Actually, people respond more to other's body language than their words. Feeling threatened doesn't narrow down to being vebally abused.
i agree. Some people hurt others for no reason other than make them feel bad about themselves.
I was once bullied for my petite size by a girl who is over_weight. What she did was mean, but i guess her insecurities pushed her to it. It doesn't justify her actions though. Weirdly, she percieved me as a threat. Someone else must have bullied her and she in turn, has done the same to others. It's pathetic though..

And when do you percieve you are being threatened? You can not feel threatened when someone does not throw hurtful words at you.

In other words, it still boils down to what i am saying.

Funny enough, my write up was a pure reference to people who have bullied you and many others with words! We would both agree that you will have no reason to be DEFENSIVE without an OFFENCE.

Dew04:
Because we're humans. We are complicated creatures that are difficult to understand (our persoonalities differ from one person to another) and yet, we're basic animals that thrive on the principle of "survival of the fittest".
Emotions are biological signals meant to push us in the direction of positive change. Humans are very much psychological. Whenever we sense that we are being threatened, be it perceived or not, we impulsively react to solve the problem, to ensure our survival. It's a primal instinct that's extremely hard to control.
I'm very emotional. I get hurt easily and one word can leave me depressed for weeks. And that's the exact reason i end up being agressive most of the time esp. if i feel threatened. I've used foul words on people i adore and i've acted in ways that were simply fvcked up.
I agree that anger, hurt and fear need to be controlled but that's like teaching a tiger not to bite. It's wrong, but we do it to feel safe.

Why not?

Enoch07:
"PLEASE, be nice or be quiet. See? Pretty easy isn’t it?."

absolutely NOT.

Hello everybody. How are things with you all? I have a proposition. It’s a pretty tough catch but doable and refreshing. Don’t bother about how intense it is going to be. I am sure it will pan out just fine.
You know, whenever somebody tells me to back off, I don’t listen because I believe I deserve a chance and I should very well be heard in all situations. So, my little sister told me when I feel hurt by certain words, I should just make sure I write them all down and read them out loud. She says it helps to feel better indeed. I have never tried it out and I look forward to doing that. Although, more importantly, I really do not wish to be hurt any further by any kind of words from anyone at all. I have had more than my fair share of curses, hate words and filthy stuffs thrown at me even by loved ones. People barely understand that we are all made the same actually. We are all fashioned the same way. You know very well that this thing you are saying to a person will hurt you greatly if said to you. Why then will you want to do that to any person at all? It’s pure wickedness and evil if I may add. Worst(Best) part of it all is that we do not control life. It just chooses who it wills sometimes and throws those things that I think are called problems, at the person. Now, you don’t know if it would be you in a worse situation tomorrow. I mean for a split second, stop and consider the fact that this person, whom you are mocking and throwing terrible words at, probably cause of what they are presently facing, was fine just the other day and you do not know what awaits you tomorrow. How more cruel can a person get? Or should I even say how more stupid? Lets even assume, you’ve got it all figured out. Heck you’re living the dream and at the point you are, it is totally impossible for you to go down under ever again. Let me ask a question. Do you have control over your health? Or life as it is. Do you know the day you die? So why not just be nice. Why not just look at the next person going through stuff and say it could just be anyone or me even and just dish out a smile or a hug. Even just looking away and ignoring that person will well enough do.
I think I will be right to say, 98% of suicide cases have roots of hurtful words. Not necessarily heartbreak or whatever. It’s just when that person has a constant and haunting reminder of what a certain someone said about his/her present case that really gets overwhelming and makes that person just feel like disappearing. Not because they are depressed due to their present situation but because they want to run away from giving someone else a chance or the luxury of inflicting them with such an unpleasant pain that comes from hurtful words. Yes, it’s more grievous than we know. And it is never okay to hurt a person in such a way and come back and say sorry. Jesus Christ is not human. He is a supreme spiritual being and has absolute power to wipe out His memory if He so desires. But we are humans. Those words never really go away. Even when the strong ones hold on and get through it all, it might not hurt anymore but the dislike towards the offender will be there for eternity. I mean you do not really gain anything from it, do you? We must discipline ourselves. It’s very possible to hold your tongue, even in the face of deep provocation. People please, life is beautiful indeed when we spread love and happiness around. In fact, it helps us feel better, knowing we just did a good thing by making someone happy.
So, the proposition I have is;

PLEASE, be nice or be quiet. See? Pretty easy isn’t it?.

Hello everybody. How are things with you all? I have a proposition. It’s a pretty tough catch but doable and refreshing. Don’t bother about how intense it is going to be. I am sure it will pan out just fine.
You know, whenever somebody tells me to back off, I don’t listen because I believe I deserve a chance and I should very well be heard in all situations. So, my little sister told me when I feel hurt by certain words, I should just make sure I write them all down and read them out loud. She says it helps to feel better indeed. I have never tried it out and I look forward to doing that. Although, more importantly, I really do not wish to be hurt any further by any kind of words from anyone at all. I have had more than my fair share of curses, hate words and filthy stuffs thrown at me even by loved ones. People barely understand that we are all made the same actually. We are all fashioned the same way. You know very well that this thing you are saying to a person will hurt you greatly if said to you. Why then will you want to do that to any person at all? It’s pure wickedness and evil if I may add. Worst(Best) part of it all is that we do not control life. It just chooses who it wills sometimes and throws those things that I think are called problems, at the person. Now, you don’t know if it would be you in a worse situation tomorrow. I mean for a split second, stop and consider the fact that this person, whom you are mocking and throwing terrible words at, probably cause of what they are presently facing, was fine just the other day and you do not know what awaits you tomorrow. How more cruel can a person get? Or should I even say how more stupid? Lets even assume, you’ve got it all figured out. Heck you’re living the dream and at the point you are, it is totally impossible for you to go down under ever again. Let me ask a question. Do you have control over your health? Or life as it is. Do you know the day you die? So why not just be nice. Why not just look at the next person going through stuff and say it could just be anyone or me even and just dish out a smile or a hug. Even just looking away and ignoring that person will well enough do.
I think I will be right to say, 98% of suicide cases have roots of hurtful words. Not necessarily heartbreak or whatever. It’s just when that person has a constant and haunting reminder of what a certain someone said about his/her present case that really gets overwhelming and makes that person just feel like disappearing. Not because they are depressed due to their present situation but because they want to run away from giving someone else a chance or the luxury of inflicting them with such an unpleasant pain that comes from hurtful words. Yes, it’s more grievous than we know. And it is never okay to hurt a person in such a way and come back and say sorry. Jesus Christ is not human. He is a supreme spiritual being and has absolute power to wipe out His memory if He so desires. But we are humans. Those words never really go away. Even when the strong ones hold on and get through it all, it might not hurt anymore but the dislike towards the offender will be there for eternity. I mean you do not really gain anything from it, do you? We must discipline ourselves. It’s very possible to hold your tongue, even in the face of deep provocation. People please, life is beautiful indeed when we spread love and happiness around. In fact, it helps us feel better, knowing we just did a good thing by making someone happy.
So, the proposition I have is;

PLEASE, be nice or be quiet. See? Pretty easy isn’t it?.

set yourself free nna!

HermesParis:
Funny enough, I expected her too. But, I'm very careful not to mix up discussion. Like sharing sum info she told me on d fake acct wit d oda one.. Its tiring tbh

If she is a smart one, she will put two nd two together.

HermesParis:
One of my fear while writing this. I just hope she is not here. I took out some details though.

Family any day and time.

Hian! lol. Bros be realistic na.

Authoreety:
If you really like her, just continue with the fake account, upload ur real pix with time and normalise things...

Lol You do not want to loose from both ends. What both ends. Are u the guy in the fake acount? Assuming you keep flowing with here with the fake account, how long do you think you will keep it up?

How do you even know she has not read this here now sef?