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 Politics › Re: Buhari Is Running Away From Debates And Must Be Rejected Come Feb. 14 - PDP by yuzjet(m): 11:16am On Feb 03, 2015 |
Student and exam, Buhari and Debate!  11 Likes |
| Crime › Re: Hoodlums Strangle, Cut Off Woman’s Private Parts In Ketu (photo) by yuzjet(m): 8:32am On Feb 03, 2015 |
This cutting off of PP of a thing is now a trend! |
| Career › Re: Kaigama Says Federal Government Of Nigeria Must Revisit Minimum Wage. by yuzjet(m): 8:28am On Feb 03, 2015 |
Sunymoore:U don't know what u're saying! |
| Career › Re: Kaigama Says Federal Government Of Nigeria Must Revisit Minimum Wage. by yuzjet(m): 8:12am On Feb 03, 2015 |
Sunymoore:And u think quoting me is good for ur health?  |
| Career › Re: Kaigama Says Federal Government Of Nigeria Must Revisit Minimum Wage. by yuzjet(m): 8:03am On Feb 03, 2015 |
Hmmm! |
| Family › Re: Woman Dumps Day-Old Baby By Roadside In Lagos (Pictured) by yuzjet(m): 8:02am On Feb 03, 2015 |
Wonders shall never seize! |
| Phones › Re: Top 5 Cheap Smart Phones In Nigeria Priced Under N40,000 (february 2015) by yuzjet(m): 1:12pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Nice tips! |
| Phones › Re: Difference Between PNG, JPEG, GIF Image Format by yuzjet(m): 1:09pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Kul tips! |
| Family › Re: 10 Fears You’ll Inevitably Have To Face (and Some You Likely Already Have) by yuzjet(op): 7:44am On Feb 02, 2015 |
amokeme:I be one ask too! |
| Family › Re: 10 Fears You’ll Inevitably Have To Face (and Some You Likely Already Have) by yuzjet(op): 7:43am On Feb 02, 2015 |
alexx187: |
| Family › Re: 10 Fears You’ll Inevitably Have To Face (and Some You Likely Already Have) by yuzjet(op): 7:42am On Feb 02, 2015 |
iyke926:Just like Karma! |
| Family › Re: 10 Fears You’ll Inevitably Have To Face (and Some You Likely Already Have) by yuzjet(op): 1:17am On Feb 02, 2015 |
Ezibless:It suits u better. I hope u'll believe me? 1 Like |
| Family › Re: 10 Fears You’ll Inevitably Have To Face (and Some You Likely Already Have) by yuzjet(op): 1:12am On Feb 02, 2015 |
Ezibless:U're always welcome. But kindly please, stop sighing! |
| Family › Re: 10 Fears You’ll Inevitably Have To Face (and Some You Likely Already Have) by yuzjet(op): 1:11am On Feb 02, 2015 |
Mubbyleey:Not sometimes, but everytime! 1 Like |
| Family › Re: 10 Fears You’ll Inevitably Have To Face (and Some You Likely Already Have) by yuzjet(op): 1:10am On Feb 02, 2015 |
Iolite:Fearless mind and soul. One will have the ability to face anything in life and in the process, one becone fearless. |
| Family › Re: 10 Fears You’ll Inevitably Have To Face (and Some You Likely Already Have) by yuzjet(op): 1:08am On Feb 02, 2015 |
Mubbyleey:That's what is called CONTENTMENT. 1 Like |
| Family › Re: 10 Fears You’ll Inevitably Have To Face (and Some You Likely Already Have) by yuzjet(op): 12:59am On Feb 02, 2015 |
Ezibless:U can try and get over it. Sometimes, that's all one can do. |
| Family › Re: 10 Fears You’ll Inevitably Have To Face (and Some You Likely Already Have) by yuzjet(op): 12:57am On Feb 02, 2015 |
blackjack21:Na only u know that one ooo! |
| Family › Re: 10 Fears You’ll Inevitably Have To Face (and Some You Likely Already Have) by yuzjet(op): 12:53am On Feb 02, 2015 |
blackjack21:Since u now know what u fear. U need not let it lords on u. Just face them and remain fearless. |
| Family › Re: 10 Fears You’ll Inevitably Have To Face (and Some You Likely Already Have) by yuzjet(op): 12:52am On Feb 02, 2015 |
Ezibless:Ur comment is a lil touching.  |
| Family › Re: 10 Fears You’ll Inevitably Have To Face (and Some You Likely Already Have) by yuzjet(op): 12:48am On Feb 02, 2015 |
blackjack21:Keep screwing. Just don't complain if u got screwed! |
| Family › Re: 10 Fears You’ll Inevitably Have To Face (and Some You Likely Already Have) by yuzjet(op): 12:39am On Feb 02, 2015 |
Babe2sure:How inevitably some fears can be in life! **sighs** |
| Family › Re: 10 Fears You’ll Inevitably Have To Face (and Some You Likely Already Have) by yuzjet(op): 12:36am On Feb 02, 2015 |
blackjack21:What happened to them? |
| Family › Re: 10 Fears You’ll Inevitably Have To Face (and Some You Likely Already Have) by yuzjet(op): 12:35am On Feb 02, 2015 |
Iolite:What's smelling? |
| Family › Re: 10 Fears You’ll Inevitably Have To Face (and Some You Likely Already Have) by yuzjet(op): 12:33am On Feb 02, 2015*. Modified: 1:01am On Feb 02, 2015 |
Cutehector4u:U must be the greatest liar in history if non of the point discussed above has happened to u! But all in all, am not afraid. Cos am ready to face Dem all, conquer all and be fearless!  1 Like |
| Family › 10 Fears You’ll Inevitably Have To Face (and Some You Likely Already Have) by yuzjet(op): 12:24am On Feb 02, 2015*. Modified: 12:46am On Feb 02, 2015 |
“Life will break you. Nobody can protect you from that…And when it happens that you are broken, or betrayed, or left, or hurt, or death brushes near, let yourself sit by an apple tree and listen to the apples falling all around you in heaps, wasting their sweetness. Tell yourself you tasted as many as you could.” – Louise Erdrich To experience the full spectrum of life, to taste all of the apples, we have to face our fears. Fear is an emotion that we’re all familiar with. For some of us, it’s a constant companion, creeping around every corner we turn. While it can save us from entering a dangerous situation on the one hand, it can prevent us from pursuing a life changing opportunity on the other. Fear can keep us from applying for our dream job, boarding an airplane, falling in love, and worst of all, from fulfilling our true and highest purpose. One thing is for certain, the more power we give fear, the more it lords over us, calling all the shots and robbing us of peace. But facing our fears is the quickest way to squelch them. And sometimes in life, that which we fear most happens. Regardless of whether we want to face these fears, we have to. Here, I list 10 fears that you’ll inevitably have to face (some you likely already have) and explain to you why you are better equipped and more fearless than you may now believe. 1. You will lose someone you can’t live without: It will feel as though your world is crashing down on top of you. You will wonder how you can possibly go on. And the bad news is, you won’t really. Not that version of you anyhow. When you lose someone who means the world to you, you never really get over that loss. But this is also the good news. They live forever in your shattered heart. And one day, you realize that it is the very holes and cracks they’ve left you with, that allow your light to shine through. 2. You will be utterly and completely alone: For the first part of our lives, most of us are seduced by the idea that we are not alone, because there are people all around us. But some time in your late twenties or early thirties the reality hits you: you’re completely and utterly alone. Unlike childhood, when everyone appears to be revolving their lives around you, adulthood proves that everyone is looking out for their own best interest. And you have to do the same. At once, you feel the sting of loneliness and the freedom of solitude. In general, aloneness seems to be feared and avoided; yet every great spiritual teacher has attested to its importance. And the true beauty is that "We’re all alone in our aloneness". Once we can grasp this concept, we may just find that life’s not so lonely after all. 3. Be betrayed by someone close to you: People will disappoint you. Everyone suffers at least one bad betrayal in their lifetime. It’s part of what unites us. But the trick is to not let that experience destroy our trust in people. We can’t let them take that from us, too. People will always be our greatest assets and our greatest liabilities. The great challenge is to keep caring for them no matter what. 4. Give up a dream: When we’re young, the world is our playground and the sky is the limit. We come out of college wanting to change the world, to get married, and have kids. But we get into the middle and discover it’s harder than we thought. People move away, addictions are formed, and opportunities are lost. And amidst it all, we change. For most of us, that means our dreams change too. It can be one of the hardest and scariest things in the world to give up on a dream. Though perhaps we should reframe this notion as not one of giving up, but of letting go. Letting go of an idea that you’ve held of how your life would be by this point in time, and embracing with gratitude all that your life is. 5. Lose total control: The truth is, most of our lives are out of our control. Yet somehow, the majority of us live with this sort of mirage that we are behind the steering wheel. We make plans, and then feel disappointed when they don’t happen. We expect things from people that they don’t do or can’t give. No matter how hard we try, we simply can’t control everything. At some point, it hits us all. A period of complete and total loss of control. Like a fast, downward spiral-shaped roller coaster that you can’t remember ever boarding. It’s scary, but it happens to all of us. And it’s our choice whether we scream with terror or simply let go to appreciate the ride, or both. 6. You’ll screw up: You’ll hurt someone you never meant to. You’ll fail a test you thought you’d pass. You’ll forget to send that all-important email that you promised to your boss. Stuff happens. And you’re not perfect. None of us are. We have to accept the fact that we’re going to make mistakes. And we have to forgive ourselves when we do. It is only when we stop expecting ourselves and others to be perfect, that we can love everyone for who they are. 7. You’ll fail: If screwing up is scary, than failing is terrifying. But perhaps a more accurate depiction of this fear is that we lose. On top of our own internal and deeply rooted competitive drive, our culture is so win win win, that when we do lose, we feel like we’ve failed. But how terribly wrong we are! A loss is not a failure. A loss means you’ve tried for something! Sadly, some people are so scared of failing, that they instead choose to not try at all. But if we don’t take risks, then we can’t succeed. And the only true failure is not trying. Besides, when you lose, scary as it might seem, you find another part of yourself. 8. Suffer a crushing heartbreak: This fear encompasses, and yet at the same time is distinct from, all the others on this list. For example, if you’re going through a heart-wrenching breakup, in many ways, you’re facing a death and failure- the death and failure of that relationship. Yet again, this is something we all must go through. In order to find ourselves, we must first lose ourselves. It takes a heart that’s been broken, to experience real compassion. And although in the wake of heart break, it may feel like we’re standing deep in a forest with no way out, we can find hope in the knowledge that someone else has stood in our exact spot, and has since moved on. 9. You’ll disappoint people and likely face a lot of criticism on the way: I think it’s our nature to want to please. As children, we learn our worth by seeing how often (or not) we can please those around us. But as the years pass and we begin to pursue our own goals and plans, we learn that we can’t please everybody. We disappoint people on a regular basis and if we’re truly doing something extraordinary, than we face a lot of criticism along the way. But take it from Donald Rumsfeld who said it best, “If you are not criticized, you may not be doing much. 10. Life will throw a wrench in your plans: They say if you want to hear God laugh, tell him your plans. And it’s true. No matter how immaculate your organization or detailed your schemes, things usually won’t go as you expect. There is only so much for which we can plan. So we take life as it comes, one day at a time, with hope. We remain as prepared and proactive as we can, then relinquish our control. In this life, the only thing we should ever be expecting is the unexpected. Congratulations. If you’ve already faced a number of the fears on this list, than you are ahead of the game. You’ve experienced the lows of life and you’ve come out on top. You’re living life to the fullest, though it may not always feel that way. You’re skating across the peaks, and trudging on through the valleys. It’s what life is all about! And for this, you’re braver than you believe and stronger than you think. Your character runs deep and you are better equipped than most to handle life’s continued challenges. Be grateful for your hardships that have made you who you are today. In the words of Marianne Williamson, “Love is what we were born with. Fear is what we learned here.” Fears cease to be fears once we face them. Even if we don’t want to face them, often we have no choice. But the key, I’ve learned, to facing trials and tribulations, yet still managing to come out on top, is acceptance and faith. Accepting our reality at any given moment, no matter how scary it may seem. Let's have faith in ourselves and others. The reality is that difficulties seldom defeat people, but lack of faith in themselves usually does. Ultimately, faith is what gives us the courage to face our fears, knowing in the end, and no matter what, we will be okay. I hope u enjoy it? [url=themindunleashed.org/2014/12/10-fears-youll-inevitably-face-likely-already.html] CREDIT TO[/url] 3 Likes
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| Family › Re: 12 Rules For Being A Human Being by yuzjet(op): 11:33pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
Mubbyleey:U're welcome. 1 Like |
| Family › Re: 12 Rules For Being A Human Being by yuzjet(op): 10:24pm On Feb 01, 2015*. Modified: 10:43pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
Craigston:And, who's throwing Love and emotion on u? |
| Family › 12 Rules For Being A Human Being by yuzjet(op): 9:59pm On Feb 01, 2015*. Modified: 10:50pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
"Don’t try to be perfect. Just be an excellent example of being human". Last year, I brought u an article titled "The 10 Painfully Obvious Truth Everyone forget too soon". if u missed it, click HERE Now to the main topic, "12 Rules for Being a Human Being". It's somehow similar to the one above. Kindly take your time to read. Here are few things to keep in mind: 1. Growth requires pain: Be patient and tough, someday this pain will be useful to you. Those with the strength to succeed in the long run are the ones who lay a firm foundation of growth with the bricks that life has thrown at them. So don’t be afraid to fall apart for a little while. Because when it happens, the situation will open an opportunity for you to grow and rebuild yourself into the brilliant person you are capable of being. 2. You will learn as long as you live: There is no stage of life that does not contain new lessons. As long as you live there will be something more to learn. And as long as you follow your heart and never stop learning, you’ll turn not older, but newer every day. 3. There is a positive lesson in every life experience: Don’t forget to acknowledge the lesson, especially when things don’t go your way. If youmake a mistake that sets you back a little, or a business deal or a relationship doesn’t work, it only means a new opportunity is out there waiting. And the lesson you just learned is the first step towards it. 4. True beauty lives under the skin: When you start to really know someone, most of their physical characteristics vanish in your mind. You begin to dwell in their energy, recognize their scent, and appreciate their wit. You see only the essence of the person, not the shell. That’s why you can’t fall in love with physical beauty. You can lust after it, be infatuated by it, or want to own it. You can love it with your eyes and your body for a little while, but not your heart in the long-term. And that’s why, when you really connect with a person’s inner self, most physical imperfections become irrelevant. 5. Only you know what you’re capable of: Unless someone can look into the core of your heart, and see the degree of your passion, or look into the depths of your soul and see the extent of your will, then they have no business telling you what you can or cannot achieve. Because while they may know the odds, they do not know YOU, and what you’re capable of. That’s something only you know. 6. Your love creates your happiness: The happiness you feel is in direct proportion to the love you give. When you love, you subconsciously strive to become better than you are. When you strive to become better than you are, everything around you becomes better too. During your youth, love will be your teacher; in your middle age, love will be your foundation; and in your old age, love will be your fondest memories and your greatest delight. 7. You earn respect by being respectful: Respect isn’t something you can demand or manipulate by saying what you think people want to hear. You earn respect by listening, acknowledging feelings and treating others with the same respect you hope to get in return. Treat everyone with kindness and respect, even those who are rude to you – not because they are nice, but because you are. 8. Negativity poisons the soul: Don’t let needless drama and negativity stop you from being the best you can be. Avoid the drama, and focus on what truly matters. Life is insanely short and your time is precious, so don’t waste your time on trivial matters. Let go of the things that are weighing you down. As you unclutter your life, you will slowly free yourself to answer the callings of your inner spirit. 9. Your health is your life: Regardless of the size and shape of your body, it is the greatest tool you will ever own. Without it, you wouldn’t be alive. How you take care of it or fail to take care of it can make an enormous difference in the quality of your life. Exercise to be fit, not skinny. Eat to nourish your body. To truly be your best, you must give your body the fuel it needs. Toss the junk and fill your kitchen with fresh, whole foods. Run, swim, bike, walk – sweat! Good health is essential for having the energy, stamina and outlook to. tackle your goals and dreams. 10. Letting go is part of moving on to something better: You will not get what you truly deserve if you’re too attached to the things you’re supposed to let go of. Sometimes you love, and you struggle, and you learn, and you move on. And that’s okay. You must be willing to let go of the life you planned for so you can enjoy the life that is waiting for you. 11. This moment is a gift: The truth is, your whole life has been leading up to this moment. Think about that for a second. Every single thing you’ve gone through in life, every high, every low, and everything in between, has led you to this moment right now. This moment is priceless, and it’s the only moment guaranteed to you. This moment is your ‘life.’ Don’t miss it. 12. Your choices design your life: You have a choice each and every single day. Choose to appreciate what you have. Choose to make time for yourself. Choose to do something that makes you smile. Choose to be excited. Choose to laugh at your own silliness. Choose to spend time with positive people. Choose to be persistent with your goals. Choose to try again and again. Within your choices lie all the tools and resources you need to design the life of your dreams, it’s just a matter of choosing wisely. Now your turn, what can you add that u think a natural human being must possessed? Drop it below and share your thoughts! [url=themindunleashed.org/2015/01/12-rules-human.html] SOURCE[/url] 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Politics › Re: Soludo Replies Okonjo-Iweala, Accuses Her Of Forging National Economics Stats by yuzjet(m): 8:32pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
Thief accusing thief.... Poo! 1 Like |
| Politics › Re: Explosion Rocks PDP Meeting In Yobe by yuzjet(m): 4:12pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
This Yobe and its environment! 1 Like |
| Politics › Re: Chimamanda Adichie's NYTimes Article On Nigeria's Epileptic Power Supply by yuzjet(m): 4:10pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
This woman sha! |
Just trying to forget, because i've forgiven. But it's kinda hard to forget.
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