₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
Nobody is the reading type! Also, I asked that you ask her to come here (a faceless forum) to share her thoughts on what happened that night, meaning you should tell her about Nairaland and perhaps suggest it as a free counseling resource, just as you are using it here. Please do invite her to maybe read this here post of yours as well.

2. About the two of you, I think your situationship should quickly end. I mean, if you are already plotting revenge, that clearly shows you don't care at all about her. 🥱🥱

P.S. Action speaks louder than words... even in today's world. 🥱🥱🥱

You again with bullets on a simple gold digging matter 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Usmanovic95:
Its obviously a tough one for them at this moment but I hope they draw inspiration from whatever source and keep their home record intact.Its hard but it is not impossible.

You said it👌🏻👍

Usmanovic95:
My skippo granit xhaka, the man made of granite and steel please I need a new year gift from you. Please maintain your unbeaten home form.

It’s quite unfortunate, those guys that rattled Arsenal are going to miss this game.
I was hoping Congo Dr would be knocked out before today, and their players return in time to face City. First time I feel badly about this AFCON🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

saphiere:
Awards doesn't show that one is the best. Corruption started from OBJ fully. By selling Bakasi to Cameron.
Give power to women and watch if things would not change for the better.

Women are not exempted from acquiring power.

SAMBARRY:
I like how your ego is still letting you live in self denial

Shebi he dey deny before, why e come dey beg

He see say him Buisness wan scatter because everyday dorris dey bring out one video to the other no He for no beg na he still suppose dey deny make he chop stony watery beans for where them dey pack him type

He for take vdm play first make we see those dey scorned

She’s still scorned. He got married to another and she was used and dumped as a trash that she is.
PS: I streamed his service live today and everything was seamless as always.

SAMBARRY:
Use this one drink water make e clear your blurry eyes abi self deception

Apologizing to her proves that he’s a child of God. He jilted her! That’s the right thing to do, but it doesn’t save her from being scorned.

SAMBARRY:
who is publicly kneeling and begging dorris

He jilted her for God’s sake. Apologizing to her only proves more that he’s a child of God. And that doesn’t save her from being scorned.

TheFreshVanilla:
I have said it that you people are generally rogues. Potential liars, thieves, unrepentant criminals who hide under holy than thou attitude to get away with evil atrocities. Imagine a pastor using church's account for aza man work. Your lives generally lack accountability. Na from church judgement go start.

Go and arrest him na!
Even in developed countries, every immorality isn’t considered as criminal offense.
You can’t fool everyone by typing accountability from your room. If we look inwards now, you aren’t as holy as you’re spewing here.

TheFreshVanilla:
You Nigerians are generally rogues. And see the ones who call themselves Christians. Neither cold nor warm. Someone known for repeated misconduct was caught and there were no consequences. While a simple kneeling apology was enough to erase the wrongdoing. This reflects a culture where accountability is optional and evil is quietly accommodated. Caught again. Apologized again. Forgiven again. The circle continues. No wonder a criminal from abroad can become a governor in Nigeria.

What he did is not a criminal offense. Go away with your holy than thou attitude. Na una devilish pass anything in real life.

Afriifa:
Omo. This man should be dealt with. He is only sorry because he's caught right inside a net he cannot escape. The man is not respectful but a psychologist and serial manipulator.
A fornicator with a congregation. This is spiteful. He should isolate himself from the church and take years to restitute, until GOD is at peace with him.
Which kind anointing is this? a fornicator on the alter? Can the Word of God be blasphemed? Hell No.

You don’t know the first thing about being a Christian. You absolutely don’t!

SAMBARRY:
yinmu.

Dorris has collected her reward for being foolish and trusting a man blindly and Chris is collecting his reward for turning his preek to community preek

You can't sow promiscuity, lies,manipulation,gaslighting and expect to move on to enjoy a peaceful marriage. I like as 2 of them collect the rewards for their actions

Who do you think is losing?🤔🤔
The first time I heard of Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo was through a blackmail in 2018. Now I’m a staunch follower.
Chris is married and getting popular, while Doris is scorned and destroying the small dignity she has left. This was a married woman that left her husband for a rich pastor.

bigiyaro:
she must be dreaming if she thinks she can bring down a Nigerian pastor, rather, she's only making him more popular. I've never heard of this pastor before this whole thing.

The first time I heard of Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo was through a blackmail in 2018. Now, I’m a staunch follower.

georgeakins:
Na lie. The man is fast losing popularity. Though, I have known long ago that Okafor is a fake pastor.

Y’all said this about Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo.
Today he has one of the fastest growing churches in Nigeria.
Blackmail cannot work for impacting Men of God.

SAMBARRY:
I like how you dey take style make the man look innocent and dorris the bad person

Even if them pay yo money for damage control at least remember you have family too

That Doris woman is scorned. She’s desperately destroying the small dignity she has left. Pastor Chris cannot be this foolish to bribe her with $10k to retract anything.
A man leaves you, and you want to blackmail him with everything possible.

Zico5:
What of the pastor that's committing these atrocities. Is it a good thing for the so called pastor to be engaging in sexual acts without being married. What kind of messages is such pastor dishing out to his members. This is where we supposed to see CAN coming out because this very act is destroying the image of Christians. I pray the woman continue to drag him just to serve as lesson for other randy pastors.

The woman is just fooling herself. She’s just simply scorned. Her actions isn’t causing any impact. She has been used and dumped. Mr Chris’s church is still matching on. Even VDM cannot save her let alone CAN President.

obonujoker:
These same hungry people will still come out to support failure because of tribe

Please show some sympathy.
You think it’s a joke when they say ‘poverty is a weapon’? This same hunger is the main reason why we have failures as leaders. A hungry man doesn’t have time to think. That’s why the most important thing for Tinubu and his goons is to sustain the continue existence of poverty.

Kobojunkie:
There is nothing foolish about what she did. The same way a woman can nurture a child, a man can, and this man happens to be the child's father. 🥱🥱🥱

The same people assaulting her for leaving her child with the father— now a single father— won't raise an eyebrow against all of the men who abandon their children with women —single mothers. 🥱🥱

Regardless of the gender, irresponsibility is foolishness.

RollinTNDA:
She is dealing with Post Partum Depression

Do you think it's easy for the body to recover after 9 months of hormonal rush that her body goes through. .

Local Nigerian men are too dull to know what post Partum Depression is. They rather hurl insults at the poor woman. Instead of being their to support her during that phase after childbirth

Ask your father, he will tell you how your mother behave aggressive after you were birth.
It's called PPD google it and learn one thing today

Giving names to foolishness doesn’t stop it from being what it is.

PureSperm:
Good morning Nairalanders. Merry Christmas and a prosperous happy new year in advance to each and every one of us here

My girlfriend called me last night to request for money for Christmas hair. She knows I'm presently broke and doesn't have the amount of money she's demandingly for. So I told her to go and cut her hair . She took that as an offense and been angry with me since the conversation started. She has been demanding for 30knfor hair and 80k for clothes for the Christmas. To make the whole matter Worst,she told me the relationship may end along with 2025 if I fail to provide the money for her. Those words have been ringing in my head since she dropped them ,but I'm confused and I don't know if that's enough reason to end a relationship of over 3 years+ which we've suffered to build together,all because of ordinary Christmas hair and clothes . Is she normal at all?

Please my fellow Nairalanders, should I consider this as a red flag and dump her cos I don't think I've done anything wrong to her by asking her to cut her hair . She even looks more prettier on low hair cut ,from her look during the last time she cut her hair

Your relationship was able to last for 3years because you have been a giver from day one.
I’d suggest you continue in that path because a SIMP will always be a SIMP.

This is the only thing we can actually applaud Tinubu for. Wow! He unintentionally did something good.

Chiemeriee:
https://www.anambradaily.com/2025/12/20/why-i-visited-anambra-correctional-centre-obi/?amp=1

I don like Igbos much, but I voted for Peter Obi. He’s just the best candidate by far.

Kobojunkie:
Almost 50% of the married women out there are the breadwinners in their abusive marriages.

😂😂😂

TemporaryHansel:
Most stay in it because they can't survive without the men. No need for any long epistles about what is obvious.

All those long epistle is summarized by this comment.
When we tell women to learn a skill and have a sustainable job, they think it’s for men.

Kobojunkie:
@Brain54, I hope you read this part well, for next time you think that there are women who love being abused.

I just know you’d be somewhere around this tread. Your food don done 😩

datola:
Wow. Great mom. Great son

Where is the father?

Unfortunately, fathers are mostly not in the pictures of the success stories.
Karma is a bitch. Men will also be fathers someday.

press9jatv:
your ignorance stinks here. APC will defeat Adeleke in the poll

I’ll save this post to honor your stupidity. Thank you 🙏

press9jatv:
BREAKING: After meeting with President Tinubu, seven APC governorship aspirants have decided to step down to back Bola Oyebamiji as the consensus governorship candidate for Osun State APC in the forthcoming primary.

The meeting, called by President Tinubu at the presidential villa, was boycotted by one of the aspirants, Iyiola Omisore, who had earlier described his disqualification from the primary as a joke.

The aspirants who stepped down include former Deputy Governor Benedict Olugboyega Alabi, Dotun Babayemi, Akin Ogunbiyi, Senator Babajide Omoworare, Kunle Adegoke (SAN), Babatunde Haketer Oralusi, and Mulikat Abiola Jimoh.

- Journalist KC

Ambo is a goal 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️🎉🎉🎉

This is all you losers know how to do.🤷🏻‍♀️

Jennyclay:
The bride should be more worried about the groom

I mean, the groom didn’t even move an inch when she came dancing, he felt so comfortable dancing with her

The groom must be a shameless randy man

You go cry tire. You haven’t even seen anything yet. Man hater!

Nazgul:
We have scored.

I predicted 4-0. Let's keep watching.

It’s 1 - 1 sir.

brain54:
So if you were there during...


What would have happened? Were you the target?


How does your being there affect or not affect their aim. They most likely don't even know you and won't care to.


Cho Cho Cho!

I wish it was possible to like a comment multiple times.

Thundafireseun:
Wike is the most loyal PDP member….

But those with born to rule mentality are destroying the party with selfishness….

And I love how WIKE is giving them a run for their money

A loyal person that is working with their strongest opposition. May God bless you with people that will show you this kind of loyalty in life. Amen!